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Conversationbelow298/r/seduction10/08/22 09:56 PM
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.. I thought that is an obvious connection most people make? What part of love or romance is logical over primal?
/r/seduction16/03/24 01:15 AM
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Depends the situation. It's simple really. If she wants to get to know you, things can work from there. If not there's no point in trying to change that. Charm comes from the inside.
/r/seduction14/02/24 02:28 AM
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It means they have no clue what they want if their actions differ from their words
/r/seduction01/11/22 01:57 AM
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Exactly what my intentions are. Saves a lot of time and confusion
/r/seduction01/11/22 01:18 AM
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That’s because social status confidence is all in your mind and the mind of others. Internal confidence makes no difference in attracting women if you can show it outwardly. Hince why most guys who fake it are successful with women
/r/seduction29/10/22 03:18 AM
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It’s portraying masculinity. Extroverted, Confident, Smooth, Funny etc. It’s rare for men to naturally be that way unless they are putting on a show just for the woman / peacocking
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:05 PM
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Sounds very true, or other men will lie to have sex and the woman will fall for it. Happens everyday.
/r/seduction23/10/22 06:58 AM
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That is unpopular because.. It is correct. Thank you.
/r/seduction23/10/22 06:50 AM
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Very true. Sadly you have to project your masculinity as a man.. otherwise if you keep to yourself and are truly self confident, women won’t know you are alive unless you make the first move
/r/seduction17/10/22 10:00 PM
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Idk about other people, but as a 30yo single man I have no reason to approach a woman seductively. If it didn’t work for me the first 1000 times I don’t need to go for 1001.
/r/seduction17/10/22 09:48 PM
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I assume so or just a nice outing. I prefer it as well.
/r/seduction14/10/22 05:43 AM
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Eh yes and no. It's not as wild or crazy in most cases. Enjoy dating in your 20s cause people's schedules change after college life.
/r/seduction14/10/22 05:41 AM
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Idk. A woman says that to me I'm never making eye contact with her again. That hard to get stuff doesn't / shouldn't fly with most men.
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:38 PM
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I think effort and social standing is the biggest thing. Good traits don't really matter if you don't put yourself out there to begin with. You'll never be attracted to a woman by just being yourself.. that is a lie. You gotta be appealing or attractive to them (aka you gotta be social, no way around it)
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:24 PM
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Bad sign, too much thought. On to the next one.
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:08 AM
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I appreciate this brutal honesty. Reenforces my beliefs that it's pointless for me to keep looking for a relationship if I live in the USA. Too many addicted to social media sadly.
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:35 AM
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Women see me as just a hook up but I want relationship so I'm the opposite 🤣 the irony. Use dating apps for hook ups. Make your intentions known for hotel visits and prolly first or second date you should get to happy town.
/r/seduction24/09/22 02:14 AM
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The difference between guys who get girls if they don’t care who gets in the way of what they want. As long as you portray value, strength, wealth etc doesn’t matter if you actually do or not. Appearances are everything now a days for attracting ladies.
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:33 AM
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Probably unnatural for a long of men I’m sure. When I was younger my view on sex was much different but from lot of heartbreak for me I’ve realized sex is best when saved for those I really care about.
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:37 AM
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Wisest words ever uttered. Pretty sure Pluto wrote it down somewhere.
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:07 AM
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There is countless single men that are looking for relationships ones.. all the nerdy men, shorter guys, average looking, always working.. tons. It might be where you’re at or where you’re looking.. but there is not a shortage on single men looking for serious relationships, especially online lol.
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:39 PM
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Depends. Up to maybe a month after dating, but I don’t believe in waiting for sex while in a relationship unless there is a very good reason for it. Basically I only wanna have sex with people I’m in a relationship with. Kinda old fashioned but saves a lot of headache I think.
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:22 PM
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Absolutely waiting for sex is not only okay.. it’s my ideal. I don’t wanna have sex with a woman I’ll never see again or that I won’t get close to. Always has seemed like a crazy concept to me.
/r/seduction18/09/22 09:59 PM
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Doesn’t matter what your age getting sex for most men is not easy, and in my experience nearly impossible to find a girlfriend who wants an actual relationship and not just sex. Just focusing on me due to the reality of things. The majority of men who have great access to women are peacocks or are good at socializing. It works well for em.
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:41 PM
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Not really just a list of sex preferences overall. If I end up with one of the list I’m okay if I don’t get them all done lol.
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:26 AM
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Relationship. A close bond with someone I love that is there for me when I’m down and vice versa matters to me most.
/r/seduction05/09/22 12:43 AM
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The majority of the internet is that way sadly. Using social media as much as most people do isn’t healthy as well and that’s an issue, but only amplifies the affect on our culture and dating lives.
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:32 PM
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Bro I almost relate to this a lot. Women thing is extremely attractive until they get to know me and realize deep down I doubt myself lol. 6’3 bearded man but inside I feel like a teenager. Life can do a number on you if you let it. Good advice though man about about not overthinking social situations! Something I need to focus on. More fun and less stress.
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:24 PM
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Welcome to the Jungle of Dating in 2022.. Men no longer like days of old have need to fight and hunt all day in the wilderness to survive just until the next day.. Now we use dating apps, go to gyms and fake smile in the hopes that a woman / female looks our general direction and allows us to intimate the sacred mating ritual of our ancestors. 😄
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:41 PM
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Yeah definitely am attracted to most women no real type just preference to bigger women. Only thing that mainly kills sexual attraction for me is a flat butt or non feminine face.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:38 PM
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I agree with you. The trick is ‘pretending’ to look productive or doing masculine hobbies. That’s the truth. A rich nerd is still a nerd for example. I’m a nerd and regardless of my appearance no doubt that holds me back.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:30 PM
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Over all 7. Nice outfit. Never stand straight directly looking into a photo like that though. Side angle pose with head tilt, side smile, and maybe slightly different hair cut. Honestly not bad though. (Coming from 30yo straight white dude though so whatever it’s worth lol)
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:24 PM
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Regardless of what others may tell you (lol) Your mind is going in the right direction regardless of what happens. You either tell her you don’t approve or you don’t, and she listens or she doesn’t. Regardless if you always plan for the worst you’ll only be pleasantly surprised.
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:36 PM
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That makes a lot of sense. I’m not as fit as you describe but as a teen girls never looked at me. But as a extremely confident man with a good smile and thick facial hair I definitely have eyes look my way. I’ve always found it to be kinda shallow people are that way cause I much prefer someone have genuine interest into me as I do for them but that’s how it is.
/r/seduction31/08/22 11:54 PM
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That’s a weird question for women to ask a man in general None of their business It shouldn’t make a difference. Tell them If you’d like in exchange for asking them the same.
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:04 PM
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Eh in the real world of dating being nice doesn’t make a difference; you’re either attractive to a woman or you aren’t. Plenty of A-holes with wives or girlfriends and strong hard working compassionate men that women don’t give a second thought of.
/r/seduction27/08/22 11:21 PM
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I didn't have the energy to type this. I sometimes wonder if men in 50 years from now are truly just fucked
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:03 PM
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It definitely does. And it blows my mind women fall for it when most of the time the dudes are a-holes. (Vice versa I know dudes think wifh their pants but still)
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:32 PM
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That's because the majority of women dating in the USA have enflated egos and generally are selfish imo. A good traditional, hard working woman who wants a good loving man? You're not likely to find that in the US anymore lol.
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:12 PM
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Being a bigger guy even with facial hair, attractive eyes and somewhat muscular; skinny guys I think have an advantage with most women even if they aren't muscular. Being approachable / down to earth can be an advantage if you have confidence. Bigger / Overweight guys have it rough.. me being one of them 😂
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:09 PM
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You could be a young Brad Pit with your shirt off and women still will not make a move on you unless you approach them. If anything I take myself being an attractive male as a disadvantage, because it's truly hard to tell when someone is interested into 'you' or just your pretty looks and muscles.
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:30 PM
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I’ve always found it to be the opposite.. one night stands be very simple but relationships on the other hand.. I’d love a woman to care about getting to know me and want to date me and not just sex with no attachment and never hearing from them again. I think it’s silly to put up a macho front to attract women for sex, relationships or anything. Regardless I always stay genuine even if it scares em off.
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:53 AM
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I'm sorry to disagree but culture has everything to do with it.. The modern world can dictate how people act socially, but old cultures (part of Europe, Asia, South America and definitely Middle East) affect how men and women view the world and relationships as a whole. The average woman in depending on each country can most definitely be better or worse for long term relationships due to their cultures and ideals in relationships, marriage and sex.
/r/seduction16/08/22 12:32 AM
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It's your life, but as a 30 year old man not having luck with women, I don't. All I want is a wife one day, and I'm sure that's much more achievable with women outside the USA who are serious about settling down.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:04 PM
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Women supporting random men without cause? No humor intended but I don't think I've even seen this in ancient literature. Life just don't work that way lol
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:27 PM
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Bro.. you read my mind exactly. Been thinking of going a tropical place soon on vacation and see what kind of people I can meet. I would love me a chill island woman that is use to traditional living
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:04 PM
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That’s a good point. I referred mainly to just DM slides and connecting with women over the years on social media but I do think I need to give more effort into my dating app matches.
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:59 PM
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Geez.. you actually have a damn good point.. and I’ve never seen someone word advice about OLD that way. I’ve always thought lack of flirting from the start was from lack of interest but homie I think you right about that… Yo thank you man I’m gonna keep this in mind 🙏 I definitely don’t want an easy woman. Genuine love and care is at the top of my list
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:51 PM
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Dating apps? Maybe so. Prolly should make an effort to message my matches more
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:48 PM
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That’s just my experience. I’m a very outward, friendly and flirty guy and outside of horny girls i don’t get met with the same energy. Would love to meet some of these women that value deep connections beyond sex or just friendship but haven’t met them yet.
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:47 PM
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That’s something I don’t get. Getting dates is simple.. but I’m looking for genuine connections and not just to get dates or laid. It’s very simple to get that. I’d rather her affection.
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:45 PM
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I get plenty of matches and my flirting works, it just seems they aren’t interested. I’ve never been huge on heavy flirting. Always thought if they were very interested They would let me know
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:44 PM
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Tinder might be better overall, but Bundle might be the best option for a possible relationship due to the woman starting off contact.. be warned though there can be some crazy ones.. last 2 dates I had from bumble same girl I thought I found the one and she turned out to be psycho
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:42 PM
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I’ll have to start giving ppl chances even if I don’t find em attractive tbh. Honestly at this point in my life I’m not against flying to another country looking for a good wife 🤣
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:39 PM
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I agree homie. Need to start going to social places again. Social media only good for news and making money if you lucky lol
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:28 PM
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True. Seems to be mostly for hook ups. I cannot lie I use hinge.. and the majority of women I see are not attractive slightly so I always X. It’s rough out there lol
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:21 PM
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Ty not looking for hook ups though. Much rather have meaningful convos and hang out with women I like, just tough to make deep connections that’s also non platonic.
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:20 PM
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Appreciate it homie I think that’s my issue. Gonna try to be more consistent with my texting
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:18 PM
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But because you didn’t just keep it online correct? I was mainly referring to random online women in your same region / state on IG etc
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:12 PM
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Yeah prolly so. Don’t really see the point in seduction or flirting if they aren’t into it from the start so idk
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:10 PM
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You didn’t read my post. I get plenty of matches. The issue is the women don’t flirt back. I can make a woman cream in my hand with my voice but texting on apps it’s like talking to dead fish
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:09 PM
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I’ve never escalated things to be sexual. If I don’t feel sexual energy or intent from a woman, why would I be sexual or flirt towards her?
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:07 PM
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Gotcha.. but I was referring to meaningful connections / relationships. Any man can get hook ups. I was referring to people that actually care about you beyond just your body. Any lasting relationships or people you can text always?
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:05 PM
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It’s practice. If you want female friends make friends. If you wanna get laid, get into a male friend group that knows how to pull women.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:57 PM
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Call her cute and tell her you wanna hook up. That will be $5 please. 🤑
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:52 PM
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You go to a party and wait for the cheerleaders to walk you into the bedroom. (Joking but not joking) Literally it’s just hanging out with a group of guys.. eventually you’ll find a lady
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:49 PM
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Life will always stereotype you into someone you are not. Downs matter. What you do is you and that’s who you are.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:47 PM
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It’s not unhealthy Some / A lot of older women are into young guys If you want it go after it. You’re young and that’s your advantage.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:45 PM
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The only way to lead a relationship as a man, is to act masculine. Example: IF.. if a woman wants a masculine man.. you as a man to attract her, need to be masculine. Meaning only mindset to start. Love yourself in the sense that you are a man, and that a woman will love you for that beyond other things. Fear, doubt, sadness all those emotions are normal. But you are strong enough to overcome it. The Summary: Don’t worry about it and just date. Can’t care about what others think of you as long a…
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:42 PM
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If you are worried.. about touching the woman you love (that also loves you) too much.. you got much more important things to consider. That’s not even something that comes across the mind of the average man.. if she’s your girl show her you love her lol.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:35 PM
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Ask her on a date, if she says no look for another person to date. The logic is simple but emotions cloud our judgement.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:33 PM
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If you have asked her on a date and she’s not interested move on. Don’t waste energy on a woman that don’t want you. There’s plenty others out there
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:32 PM
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As an adult.. if I lose interest in talking I don’t force a dm or text. IDC if it’s Kim Kardashian if I’m not interested I don’t text. People gotta be interesting otherwise it’s a waste of both ppls time.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:31 PM
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I’m glad it works for someone. Years of online dating and social media results have shown, me personally, being honest up front make no damn difference with women especially if I want a connection deeper than just friendship or just sex.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:27 PM
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Mixed singles = keep on looking brotha
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:25 PM
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If no one would approach a topless woman.. that would be weird. If you wanna talk to somebody talk to em. Forget what others think.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:25 PM
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Confidence and humor. Only built with practice and time. Basically when you realize how powerful you can be mentally and energetically talking to girls will be very easy. The hard part is afterwards.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:23 PM
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Finding sex should not be difficult in modern day. Finding the ‘friend’ part or an real lasting relationship.. man it’s easier to become a millionaire. I realize women hit on my constantly, but the moment I talk about anything real and they realize I don’t want JUST sex or JUST friendship.. ghosted lol
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:21 PM
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