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I am sorry that I caused you to feel sad. Let me be real with you: Let’s just say that my marriage was not always so great. Let’s just say that I left him twice. I threw a cup of coffee at him once. Let’s just say that I was not always a patient wife and he was not always a supportive husband. We had to go through marriage counseling four years in. The first thing I’ll tell any woman is that marriage is the most difficult thing that I’ve ever experienced. There was a lot that I had to forgive (n…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 07:16 AM
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Now that actually does sound fun 🤗. Let’s just clear the air.... I get where you are coming from now, yet... you were a bit harsh and it didn’t exactly come off in a loving way.... even honesty requires tact and trust before it can be delivered... I am truly working on self-improvement and my husband is paying for me to take a course on international etiquette this year. Whom do you recommend? I am going for an online course from a Swedish lady but am willing to sign up for more.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 07:36 PM
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Thanks for providing the term 🤗
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 04:17 PM
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You seem like a very fun person to be around.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 04:14 PM
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Yes it does. Absolutely, yes. As the owner of a successful production company, none of them are perfect. The camera and then the editing make it so. From a 12 hour day of filming, only a small fraction of the video is usable because, well, bodies aren’t perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 04:02 PM
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Yes, sister!
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 11:49 AM
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OP, I’m 33 and a mom. I used to be thin and was hot to trot, turning every head in the room. Now, I’m flabby. I’m tired. I have just started working out again, and have lost 10 out of 25 lbs needed to get back into shape. I was 199 lbs at 16 years old. I was 125 when I married and will be there again soon. My husband has NEVER made me feel unsexy. He loves every inch of me. He has had daily sex with me for 12 years and I can make him excited with the flick of my finger. The daily sex is because …
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 11:44 AM
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I just want to say that I am personally so thankful for the answers most of you are giving OP. From the bottom of my heart.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 11:39 AM
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What do you want in a friend? How much time do you want to spend with them per month? Find someone with similar needs. 🤗. There are so many different kinds of friendships.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 11:24 AM
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Grooming is more essential than any makeup. Grooming means glowing hair, neat and shiny nails and toe nails, smooth skin, oral hygiene, and perhaps trimmed brows. For extra: Nail polish- super economical. Foundation: just under your eyes and the nostrils to cover up splotchy areas Lipstick or stain Filled in brows If you shave, keep it up on the daily.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 11:17 AM
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Matthew Hussey. I’m glad I am no longer “dating”. To be frank- I made it clear from the first meeting with any “date” that I wouldn’t be doing that until there was serious commitment. It worked well. I’ve had one partner in my whole life- my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/20 04:09 AM
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But I do take your point.... Different strokes for different folks
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/20 04:38 PM
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I guess it’s a good thing that I’m married, then. I don’t have to say jack. This line is not my own. It comes directly from the mouth of an expert male dating coach. Obviously the two of you do not agree.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/20 04:37 PM
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“As much as I would really love to, I am not used to moving this quickly in relationships. Let’s slow down a bit.”
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 03:44 PM
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“What he wants is confidence.” You nailed it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 04:00 PM
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Ladies, we are setting up a hotel :-)
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 12:50 AM
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Not your job, not at all. Maybe just in your best interest. The world generally condemns working women . Isn’t it time to take ownership of the conversation?
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 06:21 PM
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It’s a lovely question. I love pine-based cleaning products and the smell is lovely
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 05:50 PM
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I have a housekeeping book (binder) with a detailed monthly checklist that I use to train all new house staff. When I have no staff, it’s good for me to remember things to do. It includes very minor details to keep me busy when “I can’t think of anything”. Lists were my best friend, even back in the day when I kept house alone. I love housekeeping and miss the days when I did it alone. However, my husband is very quality-time oriented. He prefers my company and partnership in the family business…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 05:48 PM
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A bowl of chocolates in their bedroom burn a warm sugar cookie candle in their room an hour before they arrive Fresh cut flowers in their room lay out beautifully folded towels and facecloths on their bed hotel style so they don’t have to ask if possible have a mini fridge tucked away and stocked for them, or a basket of snacks and whole fresh fruit on the vanity or dresser (nothing worse than being a guest and being hungry after the host has gone to bed) extra toiletries laid out in the bathroo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 05:39 PM
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Coconut oil 😊
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 05:01 PM
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“We train the people in our lives how to treat us.” Yes- that goes for friendships too, I am now learning ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 08:56 AM
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Because he chose to give it to her... remember that he told her you are a five year old
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 05:42 PM
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Fair enough. She probably had a good thing going. He probably made her feel great about herself.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 05:16 PM
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He insulted you to another woman. That is how cheating begins. To clarify- when I was a younger woman, a cheater (near and dear to me, but a cheater nonetheless) gave me some advice: never talk badly about your spouse to someone of the opposite sex . That, they told me, was how all affairs begin.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 05:07 PM
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That is your cue to exit, dear. Let him be friends with her. That’s his right. It’s your right to bow out and find someone whose philosophy on love coincides with you own. This issue would never go away. He may be a great guy, and he’s definitely great for her, but he is not great for you right now.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 05:05 PM
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No need to call her a bitch, either. This is not her problem. She is not responsible to you. She probably comes from an entirely different philosophy- many young women think that friendships with men are totally platonic and innocent and will remain that way forever. Your boyfriend probably made her feel great about herself, and she’s definitely going to miss that. It sucks, but I am thinking she has a lot of maturing to do, too. Don’t go attacking other women because of him. This is squarely be…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 05:02 PM
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You deserve someone who will treasure you in their heart and care very much about your feelings and whether or not you are secure in the relationship. You deserve someone who would be terrified to do anything to jeopardize your relationship and risk losing you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 04:53 PM
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His behavior is extremely unfair and disrespectful. How long have you two been in a relationship? If you had known on day one that he would have done this, would you have continued on with a relationship with him? If the answer is “no,” then he is also fully aware that you would not have accepted that at the beginning. He is capitalizing on your “need” for him in your life and taking advantage of your love and the comfort zone you are in. That is not fair. That is not what love looks like. He is…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 04:49 PM
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Please- Do nothing for revenge. If it comes down to revenge, it’s better to keep your integrity and walk away. Do not demean yourself. I don’t mean to lecture you- I mean this from my heart. I am saying this as an extremely naturally spiteful person (as all the women on my maternal side) reflecting on the negative aspects revenge in a relationship has brought to my life. It took me a long time to learn that lesson. If you feel so upset with him, it’s because you should. His actions are not matur…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 04:36 PM
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How would he feel if you ran to a man as a “friend to play games with?” Just curious if he would be okay with it?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 04:18 PM
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I have never read the book nor heard of it. No one “deserves” anything that they have not earned, male or female. We should never live above our means as a general rule. I also no longer live in the USA. I currently live in one of the poorest countries in the world, and still think her request for a new table (or at least new to her) that her husband and his ex did not make memories with is not an unreasonable request. My spouse and I have many beautiful memories of eating together and whatnot w…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 04:09 PM
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She wasn’t asking our opinions on price or things that she wanted. Not sure where you come from, but a dining set is definitely in that range for just a standard set where I come from (USA)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 09:30 AM
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My “yep” was a lazy reply. The comment I posted was meant for OP. It was in regard to their defensiveness and inability to calmly state their position. I was rooting for them.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 12:23 PM
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Yep
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 02:15 PM
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Sure- not like you have skin in the game, right?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 01:17 PM
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That’s the majority of people. Learn to change their minds.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 11:43 AM
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That’s not how we win friends or influence people, is it? Ha! Change their minds with a cool discussion. Learn to do it now, so that when the time comes irl you can keep it cool and classy. I’m rooting for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 11:42 AM
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Extreme power, that’s what I’m trying to convince a friend who denies her rather successful husband very frequently. She doesn’t know how to wield her power. It’s a slippery slope.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 11:40 AM
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Because it’s a stereotype, that’s why they brought it up. The stereotype of a dancer is that they have no qualms about sharing their sexuality for money, including back room deals done under the table. It seems like this stereotype is a foreign idea to you. You did work in the industry, so enlighten them. Changing stereotypes begins with a level-headed discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 11:38 AM
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He taught my how to love others
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 02:44 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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