bencafferty Archive

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1	So someone told me to get good with everyone to get good with girls you're interested in. Now, I'm nervous around everyone. How do I fix this? Oh yeah I agree. I talk to everyone now and especially people in similar roles	/r/seduction	01/06/22 01:13 AM
1	So someone told me to get good with everyone to get good with girls you're interested in. Now, I'm nervous around everyone. How do I fix this? Hey dude good for you. I'm turning things around at 27 and I've made a lot of personal gains and now I'm turning my attention towards improving my social / relationship prospects so I appreciate your perspective. Enjoy!	/r/seduction	31/05/22 11:45 PM
1	What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls? Awesome.Thanks for elaborating. Do you have time to flesh this out further? I'm capable of saying that and being confident, but I have a tough time directing the conversation after I get past that hurdle. If she's not interested then it's easy to fuck off and it's easy to tell when she's bothered, annoyed, etc. I'm asking a lot, so don't feel obligated to respond but I'm very curious: Let's say she does show you a positive indication that she'll entertain a conversation -- what're the next words…	/r/seduction	31/05/22 11:43 PM
1	5 Exercises Which Boost Your Confidence With Girls Cool man, thanks a lot.	/r/seduction	31/05/22 11:38 PM
1	What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls? Yeah - if she said this, is there a way to save it or would you avoid this situation by not using this opener?	/r/seduction	31/05/22 06:41 PM
6	What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls? hey you're super cute blah blah If you'd like to elaborate, I'd love to hear what this sounds like.	/r/seduction	31/05/22 06:39 PM
1	So someone told me to get good with everyone to get good with girls you're interested in. Now, I'm nervous around everyone. How do I fix this? Totally. For me it just felt weird and like it didn't fit. Didn't dwell on it, talked about something else. Nobody cares.	/r/seduction	31/05/22 06:37 PM
2	Wtf am I missing? I think that if you're too focused on the outcome here. I wouldn't approach this girl during sets but if you happen to run into her after a workout or at a group class I'd say go for it. Thinking it will be awkward if it doesn't go your way is just a mindset. If it doesn't go your way, keep going to the gym, don't pay her any attention and move on. It's only going to be awkward if you focus on it or do awkward things like keep approaching her. If it does, great.	/r/seduction	31/05/22 06:35 PM
6	So someone told me to get good with everyone to get good with girls you're interested in. Now, I'm nervous around everyone. How do I fix this? Love success stories like this. Im 30, almost 31 and just started having a great life about a few months ago. What all went into you being able to transform your life like this?	/r/seduction	31/05/22 05:53 PM
1	So someone told me to get good with everyone to get good with girls you're interested in. Now, I'm nervous around everyone. How do I fix this? I think you need exposure. I'm following this advice as well and yesterday when I struck up a conversation with a cashier I accidentally rhymed my response to one of his questions and it came off weird. 6 months ago I would have been depressed about it, now I talk to people every day and this still happens but it's way less and I don't even think about it.	/r/seduction	31/05/22 05:52 PM
2	I got rejected today and I’m proud as f But if you did invite her, how do you specify that BF isn’t invited? Say it were to happen, how do you respond to “can I bring my boyfriend?”	/r/seduction	31/05/22 01:32 PM
1	5 Exercises Which Boost Your Confidence With Girls What resources / techniques did you use to sharpen your sense of humor?	/r/seduction	30/05/22 10:30 PM