beneficialperson Archive

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2	Need a little help with texting / keeping convo fun and light before our first date? Well, it's awesome to hear you're going out after what was likely an emotional breakup! It sounds like you're focusing on yourself and texting at a good frequency. There's nothing wrong with some variation, like a quick response you mentioned. If the conversation's subject has gone a bit dry, you can always circle back to general questions about her. Like "so where are you from again?", or "what did you study in school?". You can then refer to her answers to these questions during the date for m…	/r/seduction	17/08/22 09:29 PM
2	Need a little help with texting / keeping convo fun and light before our first date? So you have a planned date going so that is good! I get the impression you're excited about this person but don't let that translate too much to her. So avoid asking if she wants to call or feeling the need to be flirtatious. This comes across as attention seeking; it's a turn-off when someone gets too attached to a relationship in its early stages. Keep the conversation over text, and match her in terms of responding frequency and enthusiasm. Focus the discourse on herself and ask general quest…	/r/seduction	17/08/22 07:06 PM
2	What's a no no during texting? Pretty much yes. Like I said if you're a ~girl~ you have more power in the relationship in that context so feel free to try to speed up the frequency. If his long responding times make you feel uncertain of his feelings toward you, then I'd still try to match them. Consistently texting quicker can come across as too dependent on his attention, which may 'turn him off'. But as I said, try to arrange a date through your conversations!	/r/seduction	17/08/22 06:52 PM
8	What's a no no during texting? Assuming you're a girl, there is little room for error. General attention to any guy is gonna keep the relationship moving on your end. Pick up on the social cues of his texting and match it in length, responding interval, and subject matter. However, the purpose of texting is to instigate in-person arrangements. Try to steer the conversation toward opportunities to link in person! Excessive texting with no real outcome will lead to a loss of interest.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 06:59 PM
1	Why do girls lose interest in me so quickly? Being 'mysterious' probably comes across as passive behavior, which leads to awkward early-stage chemistry. When someone shows interest, you need to own it.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 06:56 PM
1	Advice on approaching women I would approach her or her group with relevant conversational questions, like about the game or her relationship with the institution that hosted the game. This comes across as more extraverted and socially enthusiastic instead of amorous. Depending on how that interaction develops, you can find opportunities to direct it to formulate a social connection with her. As the setting doesn't necessarily warrant advances in the same vein as a bar or club like you mentioned, this should be under a fri…	/r/seduction	03/08/22 06:43 PM
2	Got left on opened pretty early Sliding into someone's dm's is only warranted if you know them in person or feel they're interested in you. If you don't know her she's not going to feel super inclined to engage with you electronically. She probably responded a bit to be polite.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 03:36 AM
7	Some observations Take number 2 with a grain of salt. There's an appropriate time and place to approach someone, whether it be in bars, clubs, or other sociable settings. Just because you're interested in them in any context doesn't make it okay to make advances. Most decent-looking women carry the burden of tolerating unwanted and inappropriate attention in public settings. They are people too, so it's likely they don't want to be hit on assuming they exhibit no signs of interest in your presence. If you must, b…	/r/seduction	08/06/22 03:30 AM