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I think that people are upset that the science teacher reacted so strongly instead of just clarifying that they cant and wont be talking about the subject
/r/seduction29/08/20 04:07 AM
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Just jokingly introduce yourself. Walk up, say "hi I'm ______ nice to meet you" smirk and chuckle. She'll laugh introduce herself and you'll tell her she has a beautiful name. Than you'll laugh ask her how shes doing and tell her you're excited to see her. Just dont drag the joke on too long and itll have been a nice ice breaker too.
/r/seduction06/11/18 09:24 PM
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he didnt personally attack him, he likey was just trying to get with the same girl. It's a shitty way to do it but he was just after the same thing as op and likely didn't know its his birthday. I was also frustrateed for op reading it but the guy was not on a vendetta against him and changing focus against him instead of still focusing on getting the girl likely lost him the girl. Op learned this and you should consider it more.
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:28 AM
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Say you mentioned it to a friend who recognized her and helped you find it, then send the message and dont hit on her on facebook. if you only apologize and respond you might be able to se eher in the future and have a better chance of escalating there. (if you end up meeting up from facebook chat is fine also just dont ask in a way that suggests a date etc or ask early in the conversation)
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:25 AM
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I would like to offer a better way to handle the situation. Start a conversation with the guy. As soon as you realize whats happening introduce yourself as his name ask how they know each other talk only o to him for a bit not the girl, then engage the girl in the conversation. Keep this up for about 5 minutes and then say hey im going upstairs wanna come with me? to the girl. It will be MUCH more difficult for him to cockblock you and if he tries he will have to put himself out there be openly …
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:23 AM
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Error: limiting belief with no basis in fact detected. Says the internet stranger judging someone's personal experience.
/r/seduction31/10/13 06:12 PM
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You don't have to. You never need it. But friendship and romantic relationships are about people accepting each other for who they are and enjoying what that is. Im only referring to girls you want to accept you because you accept them as quality person and girls you think have potential to.be that kind of person. This doesn't apply to all girls and for.some, maybe yourself maybe not, it doesn't apply to any. But seduction is about someone you enjoy as a person and trying to include them in your…
/r/seduction24/07/13 10:56 PM
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Its not about avoiding rejection its about gaining acceptance. This might seem pedantic but its not. Doing one does not achieve the other.
/r/seduction24/07/13 10:12 PM
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Beer. Invite them to beer.
/r/seduction24/01/13 10:37 PM
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head on shoulder is a definite indicator of interest for most situations. If you can think of any other reason she would do something assume its safe to move forward.
/r/seduction13/01/13 01:37 PM
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Thread sexual imagery -Yes, but Never use the word moist.
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:44 AM
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A lot of people only bring it up as a crutch or they're obviously dwelling on it. Good looks help but a lot of people don't actually know where they sit in the opposite sexes eye (from a purely physical standpoint). So it's worth knowing but thinking about it never helps.
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:42 AM
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There's almost a half and half of people looking to be more confident and improve themselves and fighters at my mma gym. It's all bout finding the right gym with the right environment for you but it's a lot friendlier then you think. MMA especially has a very open atmosphere, boxing gyms definitely range from pissing contests to tight-knit communities though so its not too unlikely you just have a pretty rough boxing gym nearby. That being said, even if they're genuinely assholes they probably c…
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:39 AM
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People don't talk about it enough but confidence and game are different. You can't have game without confidence but you can have confidence and have no game. If your confident when hitting on girls but saying the wrong things, it doesn't matter. From this whole comment chain it seems like you have a lot going for you but your game just isn't all there yet. Keep taking care of yourself and focus specifically on your interaction with girls for awhile. Once you get it you'll already have all the to…
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:32 AM
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I've been in shape for a while but have had average luck with females until recently. Once my personality started attracting girls they all commented on how much they love my body. Once a girls attracted to you all your positives are highlighted. They are still seen before a connection is made but they aren't a big deal. If you were out of shape to you would be worse off; even if you don't see the benefits of it right now.
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:30 AM
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not knockin' this guy at all was unnecessary. This led to the confusion because it gave a negative connotation to a positive comment. Miscommunications a bitch.
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:27 AM
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today I fucked up Enjoy your karma.
/r/seduction27/11/12 04:55 AM
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Drinking less should at least be attempted. It will at least be less funny.
/r/seduction27/11/12 04:53 AM
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I'm not subtle, but I am polite. If a negative implication is made I look at them smile and say something a long the lines of "hey man, you seem nice but don't say shit like that. Not a big deal or anything but don't." Then I change the subject to something casual and ambiguous and immediately involve the person in the conversation in a small way. This works because very few people like to be confronted and people that like confronting rarely make subtle slights. No ones offended because you sai…
/r/seduction24/11/12 08:06 AM
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Fair enough, Prospective sex and upvotes all around.
/r/seduction17/11/12 11:19 PM
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I believe you're misinterpreting and/or ignoring the definition of the word 'prospective' good sir.
/r/seduction17/11/12 08:08 PM
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I agree with you're general idea OP but I feel like you're getting a bit too defensive among like minded people trying to answer your question.
/r/seduction17/11/12 12:30 AM
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It's not required and shouldn't be used but it definitely exists within every pua community.
/r/seduction17/11/12 12:28 AM
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The way he kept grabbing her hand as she was pulling it away was creepy. Sometimes it'll work sometimes it won't but there are better ways to escalate kino than grabbing a young girl you don't know. no subtlety.
/r/seduction17/11/12 12:27 AM
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You can say this to a woman that doesn't have enough confidence. But she might cry. I hate seeing women cry...
/r/seduction13/11/12 09:36 PM
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Be only the chikinpickle.
/r/seduction13/11/12 09:35 PM
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I think the main thing is just having a good haircut that fits you. My Mohawk helps me but it genuinely looks more normal on me then a buzzcut for some reason
/r/seduction25/10/12 06:35 AM
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It's not completely passive since he's taking the initiative of texting her and showing intent to meetup. A lot of successful people use this level of passive because you need to make the girl want you a little bit for a chance at success, I think the hardest parts of texting or calling after getting a girls number is 1.not coming across as too needy and 2.making sure you end up seeing the person again. OP showed a solid way of trying to do those things while you wrote a short douchey phrase tha…
/r/seduction21/09/12 02:28 AM
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Lack of a better word? Neckbeards the perfect word.
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:55 PM
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