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My HVM partner was initially a bit mildly shocked that I’m part of the FDS community (obviously because of the wider culturally misogynistic rep elsewhere on Reddit). I explained to him what HVM behaviour entails and he blanked and then asked what’s the big deal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:48 PM
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Make that two. I’ve moved in with my partner last year (currently together 3 years ring on the way (if I want it!) and great F-MIL) and I’m happy. I moved in pre FDS days but I’ve never had to nag. We spilt things proportionally (NOT 50/50) and he proactively cleans and pays most of the bills. I know I am the exception and my previous relationships were actually very traumatising and abusive but I just wanted to comment and say that it’s not impossible and there ARE HVM out there - and no woman …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:07 AM
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Hmmm good question re attachment. I wasn’t following FDS then but I think the situationship was healthy, he never activated any of my abandonment schemas, I spent a lot of time with friends etc still, and most of it was on my terms (without me knowing it)... all relationships have a sense of “attachment” naturally but if two independent respectful people come together then that attachment can remain healthy (instead of verging on codependency)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:40 AM
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The only word that made me happy was “shortly” Sorry you had to go through tolerating this NVMX
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:19 PM
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A key factor of HVM is the longevity and consistency of this great behaviour. Hold out and continue vetting (actually never stop vetting!) The only way to tell if it’s genuine HVM-ness and love bombing is time and vetting Edit: also just wanted to say I think you should trust you gut.... Also when I was “seeing” my current partner I made him wait 4 months and he asked me 3 times. The first two times I told him I just wasn’t ready but enjoyed spending time with him. And he was patient and underst…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:42 PM
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Is this an episode from handmaids tale prequel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:13 PM
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Always remember ladies - you’re marrying the family too 🍎 🌲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:13 PM
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This is so true and thanks for calling it out. I find racists use a similar tactic too - but really they’re just micro aggressions at best and blatant racism at worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:41 AM
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This is so disgusting. I was curious about the video source so I watched the music video on YouTube. Interesting concept and animation. But... all the comments? “I’d tap that” “here for the goth girl” “she’s thicc” WTF! She’s meant to be a personification of the grim reaper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:16 AM
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Not just letting them in but also taking selfies with them!!! Fucking ridiculous - more like NVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:30 AM
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This 100% The issue in a lot of common law countries is “oh but de facto marriage is basically the same” It’s not. Say he files for divorce, then it’s on you to prove that it was de facto. That introduces subjectivity into the court process and further legal fees + uphill battle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:51 PM
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Wtf at the second reply “I disagree WOMAN”, scrotes will be scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:46 PM
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