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I'm calling bullshit. This has to be a troll.
/r/MGTOW218/06/21 05:27 PM
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Yeah, I'm in no position to be making claims about what is happening in someone else's head. Regardless of what is causing this, he needs kindness, compassion, and the space to work through it on his own. He definitely comes before any ideology on my part. It's unfortunate the way many parents, or rather loved ones in general, respond to these things. I know a lot of people who have been in this position have been deeply hurt by those they loved. I mourn for them and will do what I can to try to…
/r/MensRights18/06/21 01:43 AM
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Yeah, that is a serious concern. It will be hard to select a trustworthy therapist who will take a neutral stance.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 03:00 PM
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Frankly, I've considered cutting off this dick several times just to get the preferential treatment of being a woman and avoid the hatred. Now my 14 year old step son wants to be a woman. I 1/3 believe he is genuine, 1/3 believe he has been shown how hated men are and wants to escape that, and 1/3 believe that he is feeling the social pressure of needing to be an oppressed class in order to have any power and is looking for a way to survive this shit show. Regardless, I'll love him and support h…
/r/MensRights16/06/21 04:56 AM
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There is such a thing as toxic masculinity, just as there is such a thing as toxic femininity. The problem is that this gets distorted to look like all masculinity is bad, and all femininity is good. Look, it is good to be empathetic, sensitive, creative and intuitive, and it is bad to be a rumor-mongering duplicitous bitch. It is good to be physical, competitive, powerful, decisive, and calm under pressure, it is bad to go around beating the shit out of anyone weaker than you. Most of these mes…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/20 08:24 PM
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Dude, that was beautiful.
/r/MensRights29/09/20 05:39 PM
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I think a more productive path would be to start teaching my children differently. I need to speak up more, not just reactively, but proactively educate my children.
/r/MensRights29/09/20 05:37 PM
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Every population is expected to have all sorts in it. The question is, what are the proportions. There's some constructive people and some hateful people in all groups, but some are more hateful than others. I'm just trying to take the temperature in that particular room.
/r/MensRights15/09/20 01:56 AM
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I have been considering reading bell hooks (doesn't she prefer her name lowercase?) as a start to diving deep into the source materials for postmodern feminism. I want to make sure that the Feminist position wasn't misrepresented in Cynical Theories. Do you have any opinion on where I should start reading?
/r/MensRights11/09/20 01:23 PM
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Would you please give me an example of how you would prefer to see it phrased? I'm not sure I entirely understand your statement.
/r/MensRights11/09/20 01:22 PM
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Well damn, well said. I can't argue with that, seems like I just need to get my attitude in check.
/r/seduction01/11/16 06:43 PM
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I'm just looking around and listening. Hearing woman complain about the creepy old men, and looking around at the couples I see. The only older men I see with younger women have money, and even then the forks are usually heavy or otherwise less desire able to men their age. I may be wrong, I'd love to be wrong, but that's not what I've seen around.
/r/seduction01/11/16 04:10 PM
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I'm here in Austin, and have at least seen some of the night life here. My schedule doesn't allow for making pickup a full time gig as many people (myself included) would advise, but I would love to get out on the occasional evening and roam about having a good time and talking to beautiful women. :) Give me a shout out and perhaps me and/or some of my friends can meet up someplace.
/r/seduction07/05/13 02:58 AM
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Sounding off!
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:07 PM
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Ah, ok. That clears things up. I assure you that was not my intent, but I will be aware of that potential implication in the future. I merely meant that, in addition to the harm to men, women too are harmed in this unhealthy process, and so even if a person cared only about the female half of the species they should still oppose the unfair demonization of men.
/r/MensRights09/08/12 04:04 PM
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I'm not sure I entirely understand what bothers you here. Are you saying that 'hurts everyone' detracts from the fact that it primarily hurts men?
/r/MensRights09/08/12 03:38 PM
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Interesting point. This goes quite well with many of the things I have read in Mystery Method (for what it's worth, I haven't actually tried it :-P) and in other places here and there. If you give the girl everything that she wants, you appear weak and whiny, but if she contributed to the relationship, and you responded in kind, you are in a mutual respect relationship. Thanks for the contribution!
/r/seduction28/02/12 09:58 PM
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As with all things in life, there is a balance. :-)
/r/seduction28/02/12 05:11 PM
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thanks!
/r/seduction28/02/12 05:10 PM
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I'll admit I have not been able to read through everything in the sidebar, so thanks for pointing that post out to me. It did a great job of explaining how a man can be intimate and vulnerable while still being desirable. Thanks!
/r/seduction28/02/12 01:20 AM
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You say that like experience with gang bangs is a bad thing! In my book, experience with gang bangs is a definite point in her favor!
/r/seduction22/02/12 05:53 PM
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Thanks, will do.
/r/seduction10/02/12 04:59 AM
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No, not at all. We are madly in love. We just think that it is rather the opposite of love to deny each other the opportunities for love, sex, and companionship that may come along in life. Check out the FAQ at /r/polyamory, or ask any other questions you like.
/r/seduction10/02/12 04:59 AM
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Sweet! You are my new friend. I had no idea that existed! I will be setting up a profile critique soon.
/r/seduction10/02/12 04:57 AM
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thanks, I guess I will shop around!
/r/seduction09/02/12 08:57 PM
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Care to share some URLs?
/r/seduction09/02/12 08:39 PM
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I am trying this now. It is great because I can browse OKC in the evening after the kids go to bed, and hopefully find someone to go out with on the weekend. I have sent about 20 girls messages so far, all of them saying that they are fine with dating married men/ being in an open relationship. No bites so far. Perhaps there are some tips on how to go about using OKC? I have read some of the studies that OKC has put out, and I will search this subreddit tonight, but anything else you guys can th…
/r/seduction09/02/12 08:39 PM
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I lurk here, and have read a couple of the more common books (the game, etc), but working full time, three kids, and a wife that goes to school at night mean I don't get out much. My wife and I are completely open and she wouldn't mind at all if I found a girlfriend, I just have not gone out and made it happen yet. When I have tried I have gotten a lot of shit for being married. Turns out most of the girls I go for are apprehensive about that. Mostly, lurking in the community at large has just m…
/r/seduction09/02/12 07:56 PM
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Suddenly: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k0xgjUhEG3U
/r/seduction30/01/12 06:39 PM
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I second this Awwwwwww.
/r/seduction20/01/12 04:50 AM
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Awesome link. Perhaps you should even create a separate post for it.
/r/seduction19/01/12 06:57 PM
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Seriously though, this is an important topic. What should a guy do when he walks up to a nice set and throws out an opener, and they just look at him like a leper?
/r/seduction26/12/11 02:46 AM
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