benjo83 Archive

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1	Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilities I think the premise is true, but I think it has more to do with attachment styles. I had poor attachment when I was young and I can give up friends (and sexual partners) with ease. It takes me a long time to develop feelings for a woman and in that time there is a very strong pull that makes me feel I should walk away and go about my life by myself again. I don’t think this is because I have been damaged by all the poon… I think all the sexual partners are a result of not being someone who becom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 07:19 AM
3	Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientists That is not what scientists do… that is the opposite of scientist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/24 07:26 AM
1	Why haven’t more men quit the market? You are assuming that the whole black pill thing is the reality, and if that is the only content you consume it might very well feel that way… To an extent I do get it, I do think more women are attracted to fewer guys these days for all the reasons that we have heard about over and over. But I think it’s hugely overblown and an even bigger contributor to this is that people like yourself just don’t value who you are anymore. Being “6ft, chiseled jaw blah blah blah”. Go outside and look around, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 09:43 PM
1	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them I don’t think I have ever heard a woman say “try asking out women in friend circle… most couples started out friends you know” or anything remotely like that… If by friends they mean “I have met the person before once or twice” then yeh, maybe. But no, if you are friends it’s because they like you that way. Using a friend group to find romantic interests is about wider networking. Friends of friends friends… people you meet at a gathering, hobby or event in like two years time. Don’t come on to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 11:07 AM
1	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? Number 4 is wrong. While yeh, you don’t go to a gym, workplace or business specifically to “pick up” women, it is perfectly acceptable to meet and get to know people just about anywhere. If I go to a funeral reception/wake (to use an extreme example) with the main or secondary intention of chatting up any attractive women I see there, then I am going to be seen as a total creep and people are probably going to say something about it. But if I go to a wake as a respectful guest and I meet another…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 10:20 PM
0	Why are people so reluctant to accept serial monogamy? Well said!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/24 07:24 PM
0	Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women? I had a lot of success in my teens and early 20s, then shit fell off hard (chronic injury and all the trimmings including loss of income for many years). Things picked up for me again in my 30s and I can say it’s MUCH better dating in your 30s. In your 30s things are far less complicated, women have confidence and know what they want. You are both better communicators and there is less bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 11:56 PM
2	What can autistic guys do to not make women feel like predators? I don’t think it’s a case of “feeling like a predator”, it’s more about not wanting to “look like a predator” in the eyes of others. Autistic women are much better at masking (something in the way they are socialised I guess) and men are generally less concerned about they are going to be perceived by others. I’m sure your brother has many interests and hobbies, I would try to use these as an angle to socialise and meet and engage with women. The worst thing for an ND looking for a GF to do is t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 08:01 PM
2	Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well? I think the difference is in the attitude. I don’t agree with these narratives, but think this is what some in the community believe: The male narrative around settling down comes as a “realisation that he wanted a companion all along”. The girls of his past are now seen as neurotic, high maintenance and shallow. In comparison the girl he settles down with is kind and gives him purpose. He sees her in a positive light, he values her and by extension himself. On the other hand the female perspect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/23 09:44 PM
1	Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man? Lack of confidence. No woman wants to be with a guy who does not believe that he is worthy of her. She wants to believe that she has done well in scoring you, that other women would be lucky to have you, that you are valuable. Her worth is reflected in you… if you are valuable, then she is valuable. Don’t show her a pathetic little simp who bows and scrapes and kisses her boots (kink excepted) don’t be a poor excuse for a man who can’t hold his head up high and worst of all DONT give up the game…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 01:05 AM
1	There is no place for men to meet women ANYWHERE is a good place to meet a potential partner… it’s just not acceptable to be a creep anywhere these days. When you meet a girl you shouldn’t immediately start playing her like a potential date/hookup/partner. You should accept that they are just engaging in whatever activity the circumstance calls for (school=study, gym=workout, work=working, funeral=mourning) and treat them as such. If there is any chemistry between you it will become apparent soon enough. Attempting to pick up women at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 08:46 PM
1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? I dated a single mother and she was one of the most amazing humans I have ever met. Hard working, always showing love, care and affection. She was always very responsible, even in the face of some very challenging situations… We knock single mothers who don’t do their job perfectly, but we never give props to the vast majority who do an amazing job. I have never seen single parents are “red flags”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 09:32 PM
2	What's wrong with average men? I’m a guy, but I had an interesting experience. When young I was very fortunate to have a lot of prospects. I am tall, I would say I was good looking. I had money and a career etc… and I was very happy with my dating life. Then I got sick and my life fell to pieces… It took me 7 years to pick it all up again. I lost my fitness and strength, I had to rehab an injury (on top of the illness) I could no longer do my previous work (so I was broke) and for someone in their late 20s/early 30s I had ver…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 02:57 AM
22	Have you ever seen a handsome and successful man struggling with his romantic/sexual relationships? And why? I have known good looking and successful guys who had the confidence slapped out of them by the school system, early experiences with women, obtuse parents, learning disorders like dyslexia etc… men who dealt with one or more of these things sometimes find a rhythm in their career, but never really gain the skills to communicate with women or still suffer from residual confidence issues. They end up getting pushed around by horrible women or they just stay in their shell. I see it a fair bit rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 10:59 PM
21	Somehow doubt many women lost fingers in factories to make a living During the industrial revolution women were treated horrendously in the factories. When you look at the minimum amount of calories needed sustain life, it costs less to feed a man than it does to feed a horse and it costs less to feed a women than it does a man... for this reason women were used to pull barges down the canals. Women and children also played large roles in the mines and ducking in and around factory equipment in the textile industry. Life was very hard on women until the labour l…	/r/MensRights	31/05/22 02:36 AM
2	Girl tries to intimidate guy in front of the entire class but unfortunately backfires. Gotta give her some credit, she can take a punch.	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/01/20 11:21 AM
1	Wife caught cheating on husband in a grocery store parking lot...... Ya tits ar ang‘n oot! Yar send’n em ta people!	/r/PussyPassDenied	09/11/19 11:18 PM