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3

Not just girls, everyone. The bouncer at the bar, the old woman at the grocery store, the guy doing your oil change. Keep at it till you can converse with any stranger naturally, even hot girls.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:27 PM
1

If it says Trader Joe's on the package, then it's private label. Doesn't matter if 200 different products are made by 150 different companies.
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:12 PM
2

Talk to random strangers, not pretty women, first till it's almost natural to strike up a conversation with anyone.
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:28 PM
2

Hit the gym and install Grindr.
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:13 AM
17

Up your game, playa
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:50 AM
24

Ask the group what brand of air fryer is best
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:21 AM
5

First you need a feather boa and some eyeliner. Then you ask her friends if you can borrow their friend. Then you ask her for the time, cause you gotta go meet your friends. Then ask the group if they saw the fight outside. Then you touch her elbow and tell her a funny story about how you beat Mike Tyson at skiball in that bar down the street. Then she takes her panties off.
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:19 AM
10

Highly dependent on the date.
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:37 AM
305

What?
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:34 AM
4

People love to hate on working out because it's one of the only things in life there's no shortcut for.
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:28 PM
1

Usually at work
/r/seduction17/12/21 11:13 PM
5

Do your own thing. "Hey I'm going out to ABC Bar, you're welcome to join if you want". DGAF if she joins or not, you're out having fun either way, doesnt depend on a companion.
/r/seduction08/08/21 10:13 PM
24

I'd add No More Mr Nice Guy to the reading list.
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:50 PM
1

Beer goggles and whiskey dick
/r/seduction04/07/21 01:02 PM
7

So regular salt and some of the pink salt. Got it.
/r/seduction10/04/21 08:39 PM
1

Wine bars, dance classes, charity fundraisers, Whole Foods, early morning yoga, church.
/r/seduction13/11/20 06:30 PM
1

I just came across this video and reminded me of this post, just wanted to share https://youtu.be/vyis-EmiZXI
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/20 09:55 PM
24

Maybe if OP is lucky, she'll let him sit in the corner and watch
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:40 PM
1

I'm glad I don't have kids.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:16 PM
3

הַמָּקוֹם יְנַחֵם אֶתְכֶם בְּתוֹךְ אֲבֵלֵי צִיּוֹן וִירוּשָׁלַיִם I hope that comes out correctly, my Hebrew is lacking.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/20 10:09 PM
7

Do you have like a newsletter so I can stay up to date on all the latest basic bitch trends?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 12:43 PM
11

He's more MRP these days. But he still knows how things work.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 08:48 PM
18

SNAP, TGT, MTCH, LULU, AAPL
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:25 PM
1

And a home workout routine. Plenty of "jail workouts" you can do with little to no equipment. https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/the-prisoner-workout/
/r/seduction23/04/20 10:45 PM
6

A lot of people's pets that don't normal like strangers love me. And I'm a psychopath.
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:27 PM
3

Not just a shit, but a grunting, steamy, smelly shit
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:19 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:40 PM
11

Unless you do gay-for-pay work.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:24 PM
2

Is there a large population of guys that are ravers that she had to list that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/19 10:53 PM
2

Do you want me to tell you when to scratch your balls too?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:59 PM
25

Many boys around puberty age and slightly above can develop a fetish for older women. Sometimes because those are the only women they come into contact with. Teachers, babysitter, parents friends, neighbor, etc. Girls their age might still seem unattractive to them. This may or may not manifest itself later in life. But don't underestimate the amount of porn website traffic from young men with little sexual experience living out fantasies.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 08:56 PM
1

You underestimate the number of people that will pay money for shortcuts in life. Real shortcuts or pretend ones.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 11:36 AM
31

Most teachers don't make a lot of money. Even 25 years in the field.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 06:49 PM
1

Let the two of them go at it and video the encounter for your own amusement. Otherwise it's a trap and she's going to hold it over your head later and/or ask for MFM.
/r/askMRP13/09/19 09:20 PM
9

Um. Definitely talk to a lawyer before you do this. And consult with them if it's actually a good idea or not.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:57 PM
8

My mom passed away suddenly in my early 20s. Hit me kinda hard internally, but never let it be external. Went through the motions stonefaced, grieved in private. PM me if you need someone to talk to.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:30 PM
2

Maybe if you had her dad's first name it would have turned out more interesting
/r/askTRP23/08/19 09:28 PM
79

I like this guy. Your wife got a sister that isn't on parole?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 12:36 AM
8

I swear that sub is at least 50% dudes LARPing erotica stories that never happened. But then again, awalt.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:02 PM
143

Hard times create strong men, Strong men create good times, Good times create weak men, Weak men create hard times.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:10 PM
71

Normal "intelligence" doesn't make you better or worse in the trades. That's the beauty of it. I've met guys working in the trades that were dumb as rocks, but were damn good at their job. Same on the other side of the fence, super smart dudes that could be inventing quantum computing, but they'd rather just work with their hands. That said, there's a big shortage of skilled tradesmen, at least in the US. Learn one trade really well, and you'll have a skill you can take anywhere and make money.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 08:12 PM
1

There's also a big difference between going to bed at a decent hour to wake up at 5am fully refreshed and staying up till past midnight, getting the same number of hours but shittier sleep then getting up mid morning.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:43 PM
2

Who the fuck gets married and divorced to the same woman twice?
/r/askTRP06/07/19 09:57 PM
39

My shit don't stink
/r/askTRP28/06/19 12:50 AM
1

Not just smell. Let her suck and taste that puss. Reinsert and repeat. Get her juice all over her face.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:31 PM
20

This has to be a troll post. No one is this stupid.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 12:09 AM
41

Stop plating latinas
/r/askTRP27/05/19 11:33 PM
8

OP said he's in NY, good luck getting a carry permit within a year.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 11:32 PM
10

Look at it this way: She left him and had a fling with you. She got bored and went back to what she knew. Women change their mind based on their feels more than the wind changes direction. You had the frame to attract in the first place, at least you've identified the issue. Buckle up and get back to work.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 06:45 PM
2

Nearly every fragrance has a cheaper knock-off out there.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 04:09 PM
6

she’s 10
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:37 AM
14

Therefore tipping is racist and Bodybuilders Against Tipping was right all along.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/19 01:38 PM
5

Frankl was my first thought when I saw the post title. I was introduced to him by that video "meaning is a jumper that you have to knit yourself", gives a quick bite sized overview of finding your own meaning to life.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 10:30 PM
59

Don't compare the beginning of your story to the middle of someone else's story. That goes for any aspect of life, career, etc.
/r/seduction16/04/19 08:59 PM
7

Hit the gym
/r/askMRP24/03/19 02:54 PM
11

Most top investors can't beat the S&P500. It's a pretty safe investment over a long period of time.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:18 PM
1

At its core, love is just a collection of chemical reactions and electrical connections happening in your brain. Take that how you will.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 02:48 PM
6

Funny thing, the dislikes and negative comments count as "engagement" and only drives more traffic to the video through suggested videos. So more people end up seeing it.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 07:23 PM
2

Tell them you give them money if they fill out a W-9 form first so you can send them a 1099-MISC at the end of the year.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 02:43 PM
13

Probably not for everyone, but any of the blue collar trades subs rarely make me cringe. electricians carpentry locksmiths construction plumbing HVAC welding casework justrolledintotheshop Even if you don't work in the trades, those subs feel like just shooting the shit with your fellow man in the breakroom or on the job.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 12:07 AM
6

Don't forget tendies, zap carry and CZbois
/r/askTRP20/12/18 11:54 PM
1

Woodworker. Cabinets, trim, furniture. And thousands of miniature pallets.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:27 PM
1

If you're going into school for business, learning Mandarin may be a good addition to knowing English and Spanish. That would more than double the number of people you can communicate with from just under a billion to around 2 billion people. This puts you at a huge advantage in the global business market. As far as where to learn it, there's formal courses in college. Online courses will only get you so far, but can lay good groundwork. Ideally immersing in the language after learning the basic…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 11:09 PM
13

You have to eat the elephant one bite at a time.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:14 PM
1

I swear when you sign up for Tinder that come prefilled in the hip section. Also "loves music and dogs and food" and "must be over 6 feet to ride"
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:55 PM
2

Seriously, I was just minding my own business and then accidentally got married.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:28 PM
3

To actually get real money, a thot would have to tie the payment service to a bank account. Long shot, but the IRS could just do a mass audit of Paypal, Venmo, CashApp, etc records and connect some dots.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 08:01 PM
2

For the reward you have to give your personal info and SSN, because that reward is actually counted as taxable income. A non-resident can get a EIN and pay taxes to the US, just a couple extra hoops to jump through. I don't see anywhere specifically saying non-residents would be exempt from the reward.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 07:54 PM
2

For the reward you have to give your personal info and SSN, because that reward is actually counted as taxable income. A non-resident can get a EIN and pay taxes to the US, just a couple extra hoops to jump through. I don't see anywhere specifically saying non-residents would be exempt from the reward.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/18 07:51 PM
1

And not some shit tier Ikea Billy bookshelf that will fall apart next time you move. Get yourself a solid unit made with real wood, not particleboard.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:23 PM
2

If you're going to ask her out again, frame it differently. "Hey, I'm going hang out at X, if you wanna tag along, meet me there". You're going out and doing your own thing, if she wants to join, fine, if not you're still doing your own thing.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:20 PM
17

And his dad. Really gotta assert that dominance.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 09:28 PM
2

You're good bro. Bro hug
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:16 AM
8

It's a brand of bread crumbs made by Kraft since the 60s. As a catch phrase it was popularized by the move Talladega Nights.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:35 PM
2

Haha wtf
/r/askTRP12/08/18 09:07 PM
34

Failure is part of progress. In some cases, failure can be bad. But here, there's literally nothing to lose. Even the attempt puts you above a lot of other dudes. And the more times you try, each failure will matter to you less and less.
/r/seduction03/07/18 03:54 PM
2

Guy here, this is mostly accurate. I have to draw the line that I don't want to feel like the bedroom might be mistaken for a 15 year old girl with a princess obsession. But at the same time I don't care about the specific shade of pillow covers or what picture frame style you choose. Start with neutral colors and decor, then add personalized touches that reflect the woman doing the designing or the couple as a whole and it will feel like home.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 10:08 PM
1

I was with you till about halfway through.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 10:27 PM
1

Sign up for a free Audible trial and listen to it on your commute to work
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 05:40 PM
1

You look like you could be the grandson of Matthew Lesko
/r/seduction01/05/18 10:03 PM
3

In the US you can sue for any reason or no reason. Doesn't mean it will get anywhere.
/r/MGTOW26/04/18 09:26 PM
23

She looks like a bucket of red flags http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/11/03/11/45F94E6F00000578-5046123-image-m-9_1509707589236.jpg
/r/MGTOW28/02/18 07:39 PM
65

Old guy I used to work with, like past retirement age old, had been married a couple of times. Anyways he had a girlfriend, someone asked him if they were getting married. He said "no reason to get married, I just rent them now"
/r/MGTOW19/02/18 11:02 PM
8

I thought she was stuck in the contract and sued to try and get out so she wouldn't have to work with him anymore. And she couldn't go elsewhere till she finished out the contract. Last I heard she lost the suit but she's making new music again so I don't know what happened.
/r/MGTOW30/01/18 06:05 PM
10

They're also anti hoes
/r/MGTOW19/01/18 02:39 AM
21

I'm glad I don't go to that part of YouTube. I stay within the parts that contain my hobbies and interests.
/r/MGTOW19/01/18 12:19 AM
4

Shorthand for /r/blackpeopletwitter
/r/MGTOW18/01/18 11:56 PM
4

If you're gonna be mentally ill, may as well make some money doing it.
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 10:47 PM
41

What are you even putting in those pockets? You're not a carpenter. Jokes on them, I actually am a carpenter.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 07:09 PM
17

It's a vegan cafe, they probably don't have anything I would want to eat anyway.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 08:40 PM
26

Both divorced Not sure what more due diligence you can do
/r/seduction30/06/17 11:38 PM
1

Are you talking about cheating sluts that will continue the side action? Or just some girl that spreads on a first date and wants to continue the relationship in some form or another?
/r/seduction23/06/17 11:16 PM
3

It's always 4:20 somewhere -Jimmy Spliffit
/r/seduction15/04/17 11:50 PM
1

I feel like this could be a slogan for a gym or something. Then the internet would whine about it and they'd get tons of free advertising.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 01:07 AM
11

/r/titlegore
/r/PussyPass13/01/17 11:53 AM
2

A good percentage of my last few dozen notches were from Twitter and FB. Just gotta know how to play the game and not get burned.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 12:26 AM
9

She's ugly, that's her punishment
/r/PussyPass04/01/17 01:16 AM
2

At the risk of concern trolling, how you gonna feel if something happened and you were too tired to jog down the stairs? For fucks sake, make it about you. Add the extra stairs to your workout routine. Go run an errand down the street 30 min before she comes home. Ravage her in the stairwell halfway back up to the apartment. All win-win ideas.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 01:15 AM
8

Reminds me of that episode of Southpark about the trans bathrooms
/r/PussyPass14/12/16 12:04 AM
1

With any event or interaction, think to yourself "will this matter a year from now?"
/r/seduction05/11/16 01:00 AM
1

I'd love people to learn from others success stories.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 12:33 AM
8

Or its cousin "I may be wrong"
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/16 09:07 PM
1

It was happening to me, probably just my hip bones grinding.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/16 01:14 AM
1

WWII documentaries in the background
/r/seduction20/01/16 02:01 AM
-8

Then you're not an interesting person and you need to work on that.
/r/seduction17/01/16 04:50 AM
4

Short answer is your opener, or what you first say, doesn't matter. It's what comes after that you need to practice.
/r/seduction27/12/15 02:20 PM
1

Mom's getting hungry.
/r/seduction19/08/15 01:01 AM
1

My GF is a teacher and has worked with teachers that couldn't identify prime numbers. Seriously.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 03:50 PM
0

Is your font comic sans?
/r/seduction22/06/15 03:47 PM
3

Wouldn't the smart pharmaceutical companies sell both? Double the profits. It's not like all women are going to stop taking BC the moment it's available for men.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 12:25 PM
1

I think that one has been around since the 60s or 70s
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 02:45 PM
5

Pretty soon, the term woman will be offensive to them. If you call them anything, they will take offense.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 12:39 AM
3

"You seem like the kind of girl that could handle two boyfriends"
/r/seduction02/06/15 09:31 PM
5

Painful must be the keyword. As simple human beings we are conditioned and comfortable with the easy road.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:00 AM
1

Some other ways of looking at it that I've heard is that Money and Tuesday, you work for Uncle Sam, the rest of the week is yours. Also, your salary from Jan 1st till tax day is to pay taxes, the rest of the year is yours.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/15 02:45 AM
1

Aside from the other answers, in certain cases it might help with a warranty issue on a product (proof of purchase date 11 months down the line) or some people may need receipts for tax purposes.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/15 01:10 AM
1

I've generally come to accept what I make after taxes. Which comes out to about ten an hour so it's easier to calculate. I actually use this method when considering purchases and often talk myself out of things when I have to work a half day or more for it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/15 01:08 AM
2

I would say things like second guessing yourself, no knowing if you're comfortable or confident, pushing boundaries that shouldn't be pushed, and even general fear that you're pushing in the right direction. Basically comes down to knowing yourself or going on a path where you no longer recognize yourself.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 01:44 AM
1

Her place, a car, a park, a bathroom. Are you homeless that you don't have a place? If you have roommates or live with your parents that can be an advantage because you can go directly to the bedroom. But you have to have the attraction before you even get to that step.
/r/seduction29/03/15 03:49 AM
2

"Hang on, I have to take off my shoes and socks to count."
/r/seduction29/03/15 03:48 AM
2

But she got arrested...
/r/PussyPass14/03/15 10:17 PM
2

The sad part is lots already actually believe these words and will take the song as their manifesto. At least until the next hot thing comes along.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 03:39 AM
-3

Whatever kind they make chorizo from
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/15 01:26 AM
2

When pigs fly out if my ass.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/15 01:21 AM
8

Only if she's ugly
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/15 01:19 AM
25

Would a chorizo enema count?
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/15 09:12 PM
40

When pigs fly outta my butt.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/15 07:54 PM
1

I guess that detail got dropped as the story passed around between new sites. The article I read a few days ago mentioned the guys warrant.
/r/PussyPass20/02/15 07:48 PM
6

He had a warrant. They both got the same ticket for the sex. He was arrested for unrelated probation/parole violation.
/r/PussyPass20/02/15 06:06 PM
9

What was your grandfather like?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:26 AM
1

I love building shit. I'm lucky to have a job where I get to build shit all day. The only downside is that all too often I'm too worn out to build shit at home.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 11:55 PM
4

Running a church can be a good business plan.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 01:33 AM
2

Think of the biggest nastiest shit you've taken. They've done worse.
/r/askTRP27/11/14 05:46 AM
2

Put on a good suit and make up something different every time someone asks what you're dressed as.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 06:50 PM
5

Brown, lay down. Black, fight back. As in play dead for the brown bear and yell and raise your arms to scare the black bear.
/r/seduction24/09/14 10:39 PM
0

Congrats, only the first step of many.
/r/seduction14/09/14 04:20 AM
2

Reddit formatting. The paragraph breaks make it think it's a new list.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 12:07 AM
12

Well, you gotta cut it first to fit it into your sub compact car cause that's all you can afford since that bitch of a mother took your Ford F-250 in the divorce... Now, where were we? Oh yes, building a dog house.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:43 AM
2

I kinda wish that article was longer. It hit on some really good points, but left me wanting more.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/14 02:10 AM
1

Is there some sort of study on these things? I can see the reasoning, but I can't accept it as a hard fact.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:29 PM
8

The manosphere seems hellbent that things like tattoos or short hair are huge non-negotiable deal-breakers. Personally, I don't think either are dealbreakers, take all things in context. It comes down to personal preference, not what other guys have to say about the matter. If you're banging her doggystyle and lose your boner staring at a pair of fairy wings, then maybe reconsider.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 12:20 AM
9

Don't tell people they're wrong, just lead by example.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 11:25 PM
1

Usually in contracts for things like employment, lease agreements and such, there's usually a clause for military service. Not sure of any such deal for legal proceedings. Interested to see history of any cases with military deployment of either party.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 01:11 AM
-1

Have friends present. Take off the clothes you're currently wearing. Put on different clothes.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 07:03 PM
1

Best to lead by example.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 01:49 AM
4

Someone needs to call Morgan Freeman about this.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:05 PM
5

You might find what you're looking for in here http://www.openbible.info/topics/self_improvement There's a lot in the Bible about improving one's self. Some stuff about how you're supposed to take care of what God gave you, body is a temple and all that. And it's easy to explain how you want to improve yourself as a person and you're not doing these things for your own personal vanity.
/r/askTRP20/04/14 04:54 PM
2

They exist. Go find one at church or maybe an elementary school teacher.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:03 PM
1

On your tax documents? My Ukrainian grandma would be proud.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 03:37 AM
0

My girlfriend is a fan and pointed out the lyrics to her song G.U.Y. that describe her becoming submissive to her man. Take away all the bullshit pop appeal and she actually has a decent message. Not always, but in this case. http://www.metrolyrics.com/guy-girl-under-you-lyrics-lady-gaga.html
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:28 AM
1

I'll have to use that line with my GF. I usually refer to us as teammates anyway. May as well put it in more context.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 11:10 PM
3

When they say "I have a boyfriend" that doesn't necessarily mean they actually have a boyfriend. Not to mention a surprising number of women say they met their current boyfriend/husband when they were still in a previous relationship.
/r/seduction17/08/13 04:58 PM
1

"Ooh, can he beat me up?"
/r/seduction17/08/13 04:54 PM
1

Depends on how she acts toward men. There's plenty of women that can be a leader amongst their women friends, yet be feminine around men. It's probably much more complex than that though.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 03:38 AM
1

For everyone that doesn't like to date a particular race or hell, turned off by any other aspect you can't control (height, hair color, whatever), there's always the girls that may be into that. It's not really racist for someone to be into a particular type of person. There's girls that only date black dudes and no one is calling them racist. But really if that's the worst of what you have to deal with, then fuck it. Those kinda girls probably aren't much fun for the guys they do date anyway.
/r/seduction16/08/13 03:35 AM
1

I do agree with that. I've have (male) friends that had unplanned children and the relationships went sour. But ask any one of them and they wouldn't change the fact they had the child. So many women believe that having a child together is a good way to "lock down" a guy, but in reality it almost never works that way unless he is super beta.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 10:06 PM
13

With a mother like that, the kid is probably fucked either way.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 01:11 PM
6

In the exact same process with a similar situation. If it works, it works well. If not, it wouldn't have ever worked. Fuck it and move on.
/r/seduction27/04/13 05:07 AM
2

Worth a try. Underneath culture, all women are essentially built the same. If she first showed interested, then encourage that.
/r/seduction27/04/13 03:09 AM
6

I can offer some insight to your second question. Listen to pro professional or natural speakers. I like TED talks. Don't try to study techniques or consciously try stuff, just listen to them and it will seep into your mind and you will slowly start emulating the speakers' tone, projection, inflection, etc.
/r/seduction27/04/13 02:16 AM
36

Just let things play out and don't try and force anything. If she digs you, a relationship will happen eventually, chicks just work that way. It's like a fart, if you try to force it, it's likely to come out shitty.
/r/seduction27/04/13 02:13 AM
12

Try to get her to chase you. If she's the busy one, then you should be too. Casually drop you plans for the evening (party, club whatever) and tease her that she can't go have fun with you cause she's busy. Turn the tables and see if she asks you out.
/r/seduction27/04/13 02:11 AM
1

Practice makes perfect, but if you want to be a little more proactive, learn from the master http://bitsandpieces1.blogspot.com/2006/09/guinness-world-bra-record-busted-in.html?m=1 Of course, speed isn't the only necessary thing, as long as you know what you're doing, you'll be fine.
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:48 AM
1

Very good insight. One of those things seems obvious once you hear it, but most people with that problem have no clue. I know I'm guilty of it on more than a few occasions.
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:48 PM
1

Mine is several years old, sold stainless steel built. But I have had to replace the inner module twice, not even sure if you can do that on the newer ones. Thankfully they have great customer service, especially for a company on the other side of the world from me.
/r/seduction16/04/13 10:29 PM
11

I make them look at my watch. Its a TokyoFlash
/r/seduction15/04/13 03:27 AM
5

Bookstores are better than libraries. Lots of women, usually alone, and less formal environment than a library.
/r/seduction11/04/13 08:29 PM
1

Add an x in front of her name in your phonebook, so if she happens to text back you'll know who it is. But no reason for any more effort on your part.
/r/seduction08/04/13 10:30 PM
4

...cause your muffin top is outta this world. Badum chhhh!
/r/seduction31/03/13 05:10 PM
1

Was your father an astronaut and your mother a baker?
/r/seduction31/03/13 04:39 AM
0

30
/r/seduction31/03/13 04:38 AM
2

Yeah yeah. Wait till at least Friday after she gets back. If she does happen to text you while she's gone, wait at least 4-6 hours before responding.
/r/seduction26/03/13 01:01 AM
1

This is an excellent technique. Although personally I'd leave off the last line. Send it and forget it. And if she responds, then great.
/r/seduction25/03/13 10:51 PM
15

If she said she would text when she got back, then wait. Texting her when she's out of town may appear needy or clingy. Even if you aren't, you should appear that you're a busy man and have better things to do than text her. If she doesn't text right away whenever she's due back, then it would probably be fine to text something.
/r/seduction25/03/13 08:40 PM
31

Stay fresh to death so the girls are down to fuck so you can always be closing.
/r/seduction08/03/13 09:49 PM
1

Just taking a guess at the deleted comment. But if it hits voicemail it could capture a number. However that method is clearly creepy.
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:00 AM
4

We could all learn a lot from Don Draper. The marketer and the ladies man.
/r/seduction28/01/13 01:37 AM
89

F-close means Facebook close, right?
/r/seduction24/01/13 07:30 PM
2

This is probably the most important part of the article. At least for the purpose of this post.
/r/seduction08/01/13 04:25 AM
24

Some pro PUAs recommend not drinking when they're "on the job". I came across a post once of things to say if you get asked why you're not drinking, but can't seem to remember any of the clever bits. Still nothing stopping you from hanging out in a bar, ordering juice or soda and owning it like you're the man.
/r/seduction29/12/12 12:49 AM
16

Game is still an important part of a relationship. Almost everything you learn hitting on strangers can be applied to having a girlfriend and keeping her attracted to you.
/r/seduction29/12/12 12:47 AM
3

Sometimes she has a boyfriend. Sometimes it's just a shit test to get the average male to back down, but if you plow ahead, you get bonus points. This is all just in her subconscious though. My favorite response the the "I have a boyfriend" is "Can he beat me up?" with a big grin.
/r/seduction23/12/12 03:05 PM
11

Tell that to my Rabbi
/r/MensRights20/12/12 10:08 PM
10

This is the correct answer
/r/MensRights16/11/12 07:28 PM
2

Yep
/r/seduction08/11/12 03:31 AM
3

If there's no wildcards in the URL block, even http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/new/ might work.
/r/MensRights01/11/12 07:47 PM
1

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/07/30/non-sequitur-game/
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:27 PM
0

Typical politics. I won't be voting for either.
/r/MensRights23/10/12 01:30 AM
8

To add to this. Just start out with the mindset that every girl wants you. That way when one actively shows interest, you won't be caught off guard.
/r/seduction20/10/12 09:47 PM
1

Unless you're Matthew McConaughey, shave off the porno 'stache.
/r/seduction17/10/12 08:27 PM
2

A three year old could doxx me. Just google me bitches.
/r/MensRights11/10/12 02:57 AM
2

Don't forget the credit union and to lawyer up. Also something about 2am chili soap I think.
/r/seduction07/10/12 02:34 AM
1

I'd like to append to step one. If it was a long term relationship, likely you have pictures, gifts, letters, emails, etc that you need to purge as well. This is as important as the other points. They say it takes as long as the relationship lasted to get over it, but purging everything speeds that up a little bit.
/r/seduction07/10/12 02:32 AM
2

Excellent move, good sir. You have inspired me to fix the stereo in my car as well as find random girls to sit in my passenger seat occasionally.
/r/seduction03/10/12 02:45 AM
3

Couple of standard options. Compare and contrast "Yeah, that guy might have had awesome pecs, but I can drink a beer in under 4 seconds" Ignore and reframe "That's cool. I once saw a giraffe eat an entire penguin without stopping to chew" Acknowledge and escalate "Your ex-boyfriend was all-pro disc-golf in college? I love disc-golf! You should give me his number so we can hang out sometime without women around" Hopefully this paints a good picture of each type of response. Choose which works bes…
/r/seduction03/10/12 02:42 AM
4

Anything metal. Hell, I lost my v-card listening to Pantera.
/r/seduction20/09/12 09:24 PM
2

*from the floor
/r/seduction19/09/12 11:31 PM
2

"Do not have sex with me" Just for the lulz, I once wore a sign that said that at a party. Almost every single girl there came and talked to me. You just need to have the conversation skills to make it past their initial comments. Oh and steer clear of any STD jokes, they never work.
/r/seduction19/09/12 11:28 PM
1

With a name like TrixieDawn, you've probably spent more on hair products than I've spent on oil changes.
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:55 AM
13

The best part of this post is that if you reverse them all, they're female shit tests. Take note.
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:54 AM
2

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/category/relationships/ Many will boo-hoo this as over the line, but read all of those posts. Specifically, go back to page 7 and read Dread. It's a classic posts, and it may scare you, but it works.
/r/seduction14/09/12 01:25 AM
0

Probably depends on the relationship with the mutual friend, and how well your friend knows them. It might just be an old high school acquaintance and you look like some kinda FB stalking creep. But my all means plow ahead if you think you have a chance. If she accepts your friend request, here's a fun thing to do. Most of the time when girls post a pic on FB, everyone fawns over it telling her how cute she looks. Do the opposite. Not like say she's ugly, but comment on the background of the pic…
/r/seduction12/09/12 07:05 PM
1

Make it a point to read a new book and watch at least 1 new movie each week. Get a hobby or two. Reddit doesn't count. Get some joke books. Try to tell one each day, even if it's to the cashier at McDonalds.
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:11 PM
1

The expectation of privacy, legally speaking, only applies to certain areas such as bathrooms, your house, hotel rooms anywhere one would have a "reasonable expectation of privacy". If you're sunbathing nude on your front lawn, you can't have a reasonable expectation of privacy, which is why cameras on public street corners are perfectly fine in the letter of the law. Same for surveillance cameras in stores, but they can't put one in the bathroom. Although prisoners do give up a lot of their rig…
/r/MensRights01/09/12 08:27 PM
1

It really depends on how far you've made it in the conversation. But really there is no good generic go-to topic. It depends on too many things.
/r/seduction30/08/12 01:53 AM
1

True, it does count as a "personal question". And it really does depend on the context. But it can be very revealing and informative. Not my line, I saw it here first, have yet to try it out.
/r/seduction30/08/12 01:51 AM
2

Sorta like option 1. But I wouldn't phrase it in the form of a question. And if you have a chance, feel her out first. If she's a student or works at a bank, a weekend might be a better option. If she's a waitress or a stripper, maybe a Tuesday night is a better bet. Something else I might suggest, is invite her to a live music event, that way the date is set and she will have to work around it if she actually wants to join you.
/r/seduction29/08/12 04:38 PM
8

Nope. I would have stopped after Friday. Guy: Oh you're busy Friday? That's too bad, I'm still gonna go out and have a good time without you. You'd be surprised the number of times a woman will attempt to rearrange her schedule unless she literally is not able to. If she truly was not available on Friday, talk to her the next day, tell her what a fun time you had without her, then watch her suggest a time. That is, if you did everything correctly leading up to this and she's actually attracted.
/r/seduction29/08/12 04:23 PM
1

"What's something you're better at than anyone else in the room?"
/r/seduction29/08/12 04:15 PM
13

You tell her a time when is good for you. Whether it's true or not, the image is that your time is more valuable than hers. If she's actually not available, then try for another time/day. But you never want to appear that you're bend over to accommodate her schedule. Further on down the line, past 10+ dates and beginning an actual relationship, it's more acceptable to actually work out times that work for both of you.
/r/seduction29/08/12 04:11 PM
2

My default response to that is usually "Can he kick my ass?" Or "is he bigger than me?" It's funny and playful.
/r/seduction17/08/12 05:36 PM
16

Go to her place, back of a car, in a bathroom somewhere, a park, get creative. If she wants the sex bad enough, it will happen. And if the issue is that you live at home with your parents, sometimes that can work to your advantage if you play it right. Play it up like a sense of danger and sneaking around like back in high school. Unless you're still in high school, then I'm sorry.
/r/seduction11/08/12 07:00 PM
-3

Yeah, that whole article was just chock full of BS
/r/MensRights08/08/12 07:08 PM
23

Don't worry, you're logged into your CP account, it will seem normal.
/r/seduction07/08/12 02:14 AM
19

I learned that if you stand about 15-20 feet away from the dressing rooms, you can see the reflection of people changing of their shiny floor.
/r/seduction07/08/12 12:41 AM
1

The second text was were you went wrong. Should have just left it at the first. Ignore her for a week or so and let her contact you. Say you were too busy to text her.
/r/seduction05/08/12 06:07 PM
5

Hit the nail on the head with the legal system. The main point of the whole feminism movement back in the day was about equal rights in the eyes of the law, and I'm all for that. There should not exist laws that specifically mention a person's gender. Of course mostly referring to domestic violence, marriage laws, child custody, rape, etc, the usual topics here. It shouldn't matter what relationship/family roles the man or woman takes, but in the eyes of the law, each should be an equal human an…
/r/MensRights05/08/12 05:42 AM
2

I have had women tell me I was funny. Then again most just tell me I'm sick in the head and undateable. I haven't actually tried OKC myself, but I can tell you from experience that POF should rename themselves PlentyOfWhales and I haven't even had success on there, so maybe I'm just talking out of my ass.
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:12 AM
2

Still waiting for an affiliate link to pop up!
/r/seduction05/08/12 03:52 AM
1

Guys that are photogenic and good looking may get more messages from women in the online dating scene, but a well spoken man can have much better success when he makes the first move.
/r/seduction05/08/12 03:51 AM
1

Yes. The problem with the shotgun approach is that for any given woman on a dating site, there's 50 other dudes messaging her and you become just a single pellet of the shotgun blast, not gonna do anything. Much better to have a laser sighted precision shot.
/r/seduction05/08/12 03:50 AM
3

If they're hellbent on getting married, they're crazy. The sooner they want to get married, the crazier they usually are because they know they can't hide it for long.
/r/seduction05/08/12 03:46 AM
1

Woodworking. Bitches love furniture.
/r/seduction29/07/12 07:59 PM
6

Sure, ban all men from driving. But once all the tampon shipments stop, you'll change your mind read quick.
/r/MensRights12/06/12 06:20 PM
2

Yes, I know a couple of women like that.
/r/MensRights10/06/12 08:59 PM
2

Gain some basic knowledge of wines. Then start hanging out in wine bars. Heck, even talk to women in the wine aisle of the grocery/liquor store. For some reason that is crack for the older women and oozes of maturity. Also, avoid stating your real age. If they ask "I'm old enough" or "How old do you think I am?". Or just straight up lie about it if you wanna take that route.
/r/seduction09/06/12 01:48 AM
1

Mix in a little bit of "vulnerability game" into your routines. Also, don't forget the Roissy motto of "contrast is king" which can keep you grounded and also make you more attractive.
/r/seduction09/06/12 01:43 AM
1

And if someone dare joke about a female getting raped on Twitter, they suffer massive amounts of wrath, instead of the favorites/retweets that this dude received.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 10:59 PM
1

Actually if you change the middle couple to both dumb, I would find that mostly accurate. Is there any further context to go along with the picture?
/r/MensRights29/05/12 09:46 PM
2

Haven't you heard? Exploiting boobs is ok as long it's for making money or earning Reddit Karma.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 02:09 AM
1

And I'm guessing the other shirt is about Anderson Silva > Chael Sonnen Which is even more confusing to someone that doesn't follow MMA.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 01:47 AM
6

Source for those interested. Apparently it is some sort of MMA related women-power type thing. The rest of their shirts are also adorned with the same sort of feel-good riot girrrl type slogans. Out of the only two men's shirts they sell, I don't really understand what they're about. Edit: Wow. Their about page indeed does reveal a whole lot if you read between the lines.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 12:50 AM
1

I would wear that exact same shirt (same colors and all) if the text said "I choke women".
/r/MensRights26/05/12 12:46 AM
9

Maybe he actually just wants to be friends. By all means feel free to tell him you're straight. Then invite him to hang out with you anyways, tell him you need a wingman for picking up women.
/r/seduction14/05/12 07:05 PM
5

To add to the second point, sometimes walking away from a woman that doesn't seem interested in you can be a good thing. Stop answering her calls/texts, tell her you're busy doing other stuff, etc. This can do amazing things for attraction. But also, if someone just isn't interested, they're not interested.
/r/seduction30/04/12 09:36 PM
3

Even better would be to order shots of water in shot glasses. Works best if you know the bartender. And order a vodka for yourself. The look on their faces would be priceless as you drink your vodka and they shoot the water.
/r/seduction18/04/12 11:13 PM
6

A girl I was sorta seeing a while back would do that. I actually encouraged her to go scam drinks out of dumb guys that she had no interest in. Just meant that she wouldn't be hitting me up for drinks. As sad as it sounds, guys that don't know any better are more than happy to buy a drink for 30 secs of talking to a girl, even if they subconsciously know they don't have a chance.
/r/seduction18/04/12 11:11 PM
2

Additionally, in some states (in the US), cohabitation can qualify as "common law marriage".
/r/MensRights17/04/12 03:36 AM
1

Personally I'm a user of the 0-10 scale. The number indicating the amount of drinks it would take. Anything beyond a 10 probably means your dick won't work due to the amount of alcohol ingested. A built in safeguard.
/r/seduction16/04/12 11:27 PM
3

I don't read many "PUA" blogs, but I do enjoy Chateau Heartiste, which dives more into the science and psychology of women and social impacts, rather than just pickup lines and techniques. Much better writing too. Really surprised Roosh got targeted instead of that blog.
/r/MensRights13/03/12 06:08 AM
8

Unless it's a throwaway account on Reddit.
/r/seduction09/03/12 05:00 AM
4

This is genius!
/r/seduction09/03/12 04:58 AM
24

THE GROUND IS MADE OF LASERS! DO NOT LOOK AT THE LASERS!
/r/seduction09/03/12 04:56 AM
26

This is strangely good advice. Duke Nukem is a man's man. He's confident, edgy, unapologetically sexual. Chicks dig that sort of thing. Although you kind of have to have a certain type of personality to pull of this sort of game. If you're normally the exact opposite, you will just come off as awkward and fake.
/r/seduction09/03/12 04:54 AM
11

He blocked her on Facebook, yet she still read the post somehow. This is the equivalent of him writing down his thoughts in a journal, then she broke into his house to read it.
/r/MensRights24/02/12 05:04 AM
2

Texting with "I totally just saw your doppelganger" is one I use fairly often. Non sequitur texting is awesome. Just send something totally random and see how she responds. Tell her you made an ice sculpture, send her a picture of Ronald Reagan, or do the cat facts thing.
/r/seduction20/02/12 08:05 PM
2

What the actual fuck. I've seen a lot of shit on the internet, but damn. I guess I shouldn't be surprised there are women out there that actively think about this kinda thing and even want to share their methods with the world. I'll be over here shaking my head in disgust for the next few minutes.
/r/MensRights18/02/12 10:24 PM
1

"Could you tell me how I could illegally buy drugs around here" in a sarcastic tone is way better. Chicks dig humor.
/r/seduction17/02/12 06:11 AM
1

AKA 104 good openers if you can follow through.
/r/seduction17/02/12 06:09 AM
6

Even if the concept is not exactly true, it makes a whole lot of sense for "nice" guys that just don't get why "being nice" and "sweet" isn't working out for them.
/r/seduction12/02/12 01:01 AM
5

free leather case Genius.
/r/MensRights11/02/12 03:59 AM
3

Meaty faces?
/r/MensRights10/02/12 05:16 PM
1

"Yeah, so I'm kind of a big deal on this site called MySpace, you've probably never heard of it" Seriously though, it might not make for the most interesting video, but I bet a lot of the guys here on Reddit would love some online pickup tips. I thought about writing a book about it myself, but I'm just too lazy.
/r/seduction02/02/12 05:51 AM
2

I know you can't talk about specifics, but are you making that "YouTube money" as Epic Meal Time would say? Do you ever try to play your C-list internet celeb status as a pickup method? BTW, love your work. Troll pickup is still by far my favorite of all the videos.
/r/seduction02/02/12 04:32 AM
10

Thankfully I don't have to go to those dating sites. Can I catch herpes just by visiting one? I use Linux so I should be safe, right?
/r/seduction08/01/12 06:57 AM
4

If it does turn out to be herpes, hopefully not, there are dating sites for that. You could have a chance to score with a lot of turbosluts that you normally wouldn't touch with a ten foot dick. On the other hand, normal game, dating, meeting girls gets a whole lot more complicated.
/r/seduction08/01/12 06:47 AM
-14

I've used that line on girls at parties that I've met before and would like to get to know better. It actually works quite well for opening them and letting their guard down. That is if they actually get the joke and aren't an uptight bitch. So I guess it still works.
/r/seduction24/12/11 06:48 AM
0

Also using a mobile app.
/r/MensRights22/12/11 07:57 AM
6

At first glance I thought it was like /r/circlejerk making fun of typical Reddit stuff. But yeah it's chock full of feminazis and high holy political correctness. Makes me sick. Although apparently they don't condone down voting, but naturally it happens anyway. I hope to someday have one of my comments make it onto their front page.
/r/MensRights22/12/11 07:53 AM
2

Listen to rap music. Not to the point where I think I'm some white boy with swagga and acting all hood. But rap music tends to ooze of confidence.
/r/seduction17/12/11 12:01 AM
3

That guy could probably make a fair amount of money in fetish porn.
/r/MensRights20/11/11 06:55 AM
1

Actually the agitated state might actually help your game.
/r/seduction16/11/11 07:48 AM
3

One of the best things thinga that ever happened to me was being in a similar situation as you. Losing hope, being depressed, etc. Then it happened, I just stopped giving a fuck. Its amazing how that can transform a person. Just do what you want, take what you can't get, and fuck what anyone thinks of you. The women will come. Like someone else said, concentrate on yourself and doing what you want and making yourself a better man. Meanwhile don't worry about trying to find a woman. You've probab…
/r/seduction16/11/11 07:10 AM
1

Simple shit tests. Depending on what it is, and the dynamic between you, you can ignore, change the subject or agree and amplify. It really depends on the situation. If she's sending texts like that before you fucked her, she's trying to get a rise out of you by teasing. I would choose the third option and respond with "Nah, I'm all tired out from banging 3 other girls today". But then again, depending on the girl, that could be the wrong response.
/r/seduction15/11/11 05:41 AM
6

AoM is kind of antiquated in their articles about women. Their posts about guns, tools and shaving are spot on. But I think sometimes they forget we're not dealing with women from the 1950s anymore.
/r/seduction06/11/11 06:37 AM
1

This post reminds me of the Roissy posts about breakups. Fuck her good one more time then break up with her. "This was a bad idea". Devastate her. Then go fuck ten other women.
/r/seduction22/10/11 08:36 AM
1

Are these stats just pure Canada?
/r/MensRights06/10/11 08:28 AM
2

Tell her you're going to start dating all her friends.
/r/seduction07/09/11 12:43 AM
4

AND DEAD BABIES
/r/seduction27/08/11 07:24 PM
4

Yoga is definitely a good one. Great place to meet women too with almost zero competition. Gotta move quick though before you get friend-zoned or they assume you're gay.
/r/seduction14/08/11 09:49 PM
9

I would say one of the best things you can do is avoid the stereotypes, which is really true for any guy trying to attract ladies. Women love it when they're pleasantly surprised. In general "black guy game" just seems to be the ability to walk up to almost anyone and start a conversation, which is a good start. Imagine her surprise if you drop some bombs like you like country music or grow your own vegetables. Not to say you should do those things, just an example. Still be yourself, but don't …
/r/seduction14/08/11 08:10 PM
4

The right amount of comedy can be very effective for a pickup. Women like humor. The character Barney can also be very serious.
/r/seduction10/08/11 03:43 AM
1

You probably waited too long. But then again you could always try to go to the place you met her before and see if you run into her. Or try calling her and so a routine along the lines of "Oh, I'm just cleaning out my contact list and was wondering if I should hang onto your number just in case". Worst case she's not interested and you're no worse off than before. But maybe gained a little experience. Strike while the iron is hot.
/r/seduction08/08/11 10:40 PM
2

Fuck everything you read about not texting and Facebook or whatever. Most of the people writing material for pickup/game whatever are stuck in the mentality of picking up women in clubs, on the street, etc. Truth be told my last 10-15 lays came from Twitter/Facebook/etc. You can apply many of the same concepts to online/phone game. Just find what methods work for you. One of my favorite simple tactics is find a recent picture a girl posted on Facebook. Normally like 20 other dudes will be commen…
/r/seduction02/08/11 03:26 AM
2

Metal. No seriously.
/r/seduction31/07/11 01:50 AM
1

This one? http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/iq6nx/common_shit_tests_and_how_to_defuse_them/ It was only on the second page.
/r/seduction18/07/11 05:02 AM
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