benny1204 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Took my shot with a college mutual and got ignored One does not simply ask for a date out of the blue, people suck at this, you need to feel attracted to the person to want to go out with them… which in this case is a 0/10 attempt at making them interested	/r/seduction	17/10/25 07:47 AM
2	If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head… Basically, ALL the girls who you have not had a more intimate / sexual emotional connection with, isn’t ready for the kiss, they have to be comfy with touches first. You have to get them ready for it, at least once, you have to say things like “you look very cute today, I might have to kiss you later”…. And other multiple steps… one does not go from saying “I love this movie” to “let’s feel each other’s lips, one of the most sensitive part of human skin “ all the sudden.	/r/seduction	16/08/25 11:48 AM
2	Dating apps are such a mixed bag Based on friends telling me their experience with dating apps, tinder is just for “fun”, there are high quality girls on apps like coffee meet bagels, etc where the app itself wants higher quality girls not just h0es who want dinner dates.	/r/seduction	28/07/25 12:10 AM
1	What does it mean when a woman says 'I feel so many things for you and you don't appreciate them'? Wow that’s a huge context you just left out there, first off there are two red flags by the girl: 1) thing she said, yes, narcissistic behavior but to translate: “You make me crave you, I think you’re special” 2) so she’s thinking of cheating. Anyway if you’re here for play, seems like you’re doing a good job, but please be aware you’re potentially breaking a relationship and risking a stab. If you have rejected her kisses twice, you’re on a somewhat tight schedule before she loses attraction as…	/r/seduction	27/07/25 11:01 PM
1	Cute girl at burger place - asking for her # or giving her mine in a natural way? Starter 2: Didn’t expect the best part of this burger place to be behind the counter. I’m … what’s ur name Starter 3: you know.. My dog doesn’t usually vibe with people, but he liked you.I trust his judgment. I’m… what’s ur name Oh did I mention you have to slot something to say before the closer? Anyway, update me	/r/seduction	27/07/25 10:17 PM
1	Cute girl at burger place - asking for her # or giving her mine in a natural way? OP I’m invested, did you get enough courage to do it? It’s been a week, or do you need more peptalk Def agree with one of the comments saying that you should go during off-peak hours. And try to talk when her manager isn’t so close. “Hey, I didn’t know a burger place served something so gorgeous on the side, i am…, what’s urs?” . . . Keep your convos SHORT and Fun and playful and challenging “Look, I’d like to talk to you more, but my burger is getting jealous, here’s my number, let me grab your…	/r/seduction	27/07/25 10:08 PM
1	How to get liked by girls? Look up: How to be funny - comprehensive guide by actualized.org on YouTube it’s an hour long but well worth it (play at 1.5x speed if you’re impatient like me) Learn to be loosey goosey funny, no one likes a man too serious, destroy your language filter. Then you may proceed to apply the quote: if you can make them giggle, you can make that ass jiggle Improve your talking skills with women in general, learn how to talk non stop aka open ended statements that begs the girl to talk even more to y…	/r/seduction	27/07/25 09:21 PM
1	Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with Women OP do you want some real advice? Since you’re a self improvement junkie (as I was), might as well read up on seduction books, how to talk to women, how to attract women, I recommend : attract and keep her- Jim Wolfe (not ad- wholeheartedly recom) Main thing about it is how to be playfully challenging, have high self confidence, pre-selection, high internal value. I went from a 3/10 skill with women, to a 7.6/10 I’m very average looking and short by today’s standards :-)	/r/seduction	27/07/25 09:00 PM
1	I invited a woman back to my apartment but she passed out What the helly..? So I assume she pegged you	/r/seduction	23/07/25 12:08 AM
1	How to ask girls to dance? You can still be confident, as you already know, girls love confidence. Always approach from the front side so she sees you coming, don’t be a creep shocking her. If she’s dancing, match her vibe. If she isn’t dancing, call it out and have fun dancing with her	/r/seduction	21/07/25 08:11 AM
1	How to approach a group of girls Focus on the ones you have no interest in first, make the convo fun and make them laugh, I assume the one you’re attracted to will not be used to not getting attention, if you have a wingman, intro him to the group let them get distracted on him then swoop in for the no of hottie while they’re distracted	/r/seduction	21/07/25 08:05 AM
9	How do I have better/more sexual conversations with girls? Talk about their opinions on alcohol / smoking, usually leads to sexual convos	/r/seduction	21/07/25 07:59 AM