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bentleymazerati/r/seduction05/03/13 07:38 PM
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hahahaha good read
/r/seduction13/09/13 07:57 PM
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I don't understand why this is anything to get mad about ? If your outcome dependent it could be, but if you just went there to have a good time and learn I'm sure you could have/have done that.
/r/seduction13/09/13 03:20 PM
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seconded i just picked this up and its a very good read, covers everything you're talking about
/r/seduction13/09/13 03:18 PM
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This was a big issue for me it may be for others, overcome your insecurities ! I was insecure about my dick that changed in 10 seconds flat when a girl ripped my pants off and put it into her mouth. Whatever it is that makes you uncomfortable you must make yourself vulnerable, show the true you. This develops true attraction and then getting laid will just come on along.
/r/seduction13/09/13 03:15 PM
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It's literally painful to read what you're writing, go get some fucking friends. People are friendly. People want friendship. Do you want friendship ? Or do you prefer being alone ? If you want it then go and get it you don't need a fucking roadmap.
/r/seduction13/09/13 03:12 PM
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Man shut the fuck up and go live your life ! Get off the computer NOW and go for a walk in your neighbourhood, make eye contact with a girl, then smile, then say hello. Then walk your ass down to a restaurant/bar/social gathering and repeat. Go get uncomfortable. The only reason you fail is because you set limitations on yourself before you go out and try. Drop all inhibitions and performance expectations, go into the world just trying to experience something new.
/r/seduction13/09/13 03:10 PM
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Stay after class for some reason.
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:12 AM
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Montreal
/r/seduction26/03/13 03:34 AM
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Second hand smoke line was the best thing I took from this.
/r/seduction22/03/13 06:14 PM
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pics or gtfo
/r/seduction22/03/13 06:09 PM
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These two posts are a one-two punch, do this.
/r/seduction22/03/13 03:42 PM
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Talk to her about how she's feeling about the relationship.
/r/seduction22/03/13 02:37 AM
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Pay attention
/r/seduction21/03/13 11:54 PM
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You need to find a girl to just bang a whole bunch so you can figure it out
/r/seduction21/03/13 11:15 PM
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Playing or elusive or 'hard to get' works best when it is your honest feeling. Ya dig ?
/r/seduction20/03/13 11:47 PM
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Male does not equal to female
/r/seduction18/03/13 11:05 PM
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Edit: Sticking point for me lately has been... Everytime you get the anxious feeling during an interaction, don't second guess your actions. Push through. Notice the feeling, ask yourself why you feel that way, then push through and do whatever it is that is making you feel that way. Man just go hit the bar with some friends, drink a little bit, talk to some girls. Strong, comfortable eye contact Kino (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI&list=PLJj4SNbAduPh1rR_yzliSFig2ojH0QDcU) Confidence…
/r/seduction18/03/13 07:06 PM
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Perhaps dance closer and sort of bump into her a bit and if she bumps you back I'd go for the waist all sly like
/r/seduction15/03/13 06:52 AM
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Good FR, what I took from it is you should have changed up the location to something else public or tried to take it back to your/her place.
/r/seduction15/03/13 06:51 AM
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Find an excuse to get out and do something, RIGHT NOW.
/r/seduction10/03/13 08:31 PM
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I dunno man...
/r/seduction10/03/13 08:28 PM
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It doesn't matter if you don't care. But if you want to generate a better response and attract more women then it matters.
/r/seduction07/03/13 09:22 AM
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Scroll down the right sidebar to guides. Read approach anxiety.
/r/seduction07/03/13 01:10 AM
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Don't eat her face and you're in the clear.
/r/seduction06/03/13 06:05 AM
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I think this is what I took most from this post and I am trying to apply it right now with a girl. Seems to be working I guess we will see where it takes me.
/r/seduction05/03/13 07:59 PM
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Sour freak :) trust me plenty of Canadian girls are little bitches
/r/seduction05/03/13 03:28 PM
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i think texting can be a useful tool but it must be used sparingly. make her long for the next text from you, and make her wait a good amount of time for it.
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:52 PM
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but what if you did that then just started laughing and smiling, and you shoot a wink at the hottest girl in the room and put your hands up like "woops"
/r/seduction04/03/13 05:12 AM
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I'm the same height as you and don't even consider a girls height when I approach... You're disqualifying yourself before you even make an attempt, thereby limiting your potential to live and learn. Why do that ?
/r/seduction04/03/13 04:30 AM
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Her text asking if you were mad is because she didn't let you kiss her.
/r/seduction03/03/13 04:19 PM
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"Yes, are you looking to change that ?"
/r/seduction03/03/13 03:58 PM
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Interestttting
/r/seduction03/03/13 01:13 AM
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Confidence > Opening Line
/r/seduction01/03/13 11:31 PM
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I feel like I don't wink enough and am interested in leveling up this ability. Does anyone have some winking resources ?
/r/seduction01/03/13 11:16 PM
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WING MAN WING MAN WING MAN FIND A GOOD WING MAN A friend that understands your situation, someone you trust and enjoy spending time with. This will make everything immensely easier and more enjoyable. Plus after spending some time with your wing man and approach sets you will start to gain more confidence (not to put you down, I can't imagine how I would feel if I was blind. I have AA as is.)
/r/seduction01/03/13 11:04 PM
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I find it fucked how the generation of people brought up on IM and texting doesn't like calling (this includes me). I have been thinking about this for the past week and I feel like I want to call every number I get. Sets you apart from the pack, displays confidence and is memorable. If the girl doesn't pick up the call and I follow up with a text that get's ignored then it is clear that I have not done a good enough job.
/r/seduction01/03/13 10:55 PM
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Yes she is losing interest in you and yes she has plenty of reason to. Go out and get some new girls, keep her on the back burner and don't re-approach until you have something good to bring to the table. (A new attitude, a hard dick in her vagina, an entertaining night out)
/r/seduction28/02/13 11:01 PM
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Maybe youre right..but say he does it all day and gets twenty numbers and texts all of them, maybe 25% reply enthusiastically, and he sets up 5 dates. 50% reply because they feel obligated, maybe he games half of them for another 5 dates and then 25% just dont even reply. Listen I dont even have the balls to go out and do this currently but I think its an admirable effort and I look forward to the day that I have the confidence to this all over my hometowns campus. :)
/r/seduction27/02/13 08:20 PM
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This, good god THIS.
/r/seduction27/02/13 06:29 PM
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Its a display of confidence that probably trumps every other guy that girl has interacted with in the past few days. I understand if you dont think it would work for you or even if you think its silly but its not stupid.
/r/seduction27/02/13 06:22 PM
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I get your view on this but as the comment on the top says the trick only works by not getting to know her first.
/r/seduction27/02/13 06:20 PM
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If you are going to try and get her to Motown do it in a very relaxed manner, don't push it.
/r/seduction27/02/13 04:14 PM
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It may have not worked for a variety of reasons.... Why are you coming on here telling people not to do it ?
/r/seduction27/02/13 04:08 PM
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Take the party back to her place.
/r/seduction27/02/13 04:06 PM
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Then you just need to adjust your game to embrace your living situation. It sounds smart, not something to be embarrassed about. That being said people are ignorant and telling your girl of interest about your situation is not desirable. So I think it takes confidence and a good game plan. If you don't think there is anything wrong with it then you could project that onto the girl. Just some thoughts. TL/DR: You need to be happy with your situation on your own terms before you can confidently br…
/r/seduction27/02/13 05:00 AM
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It's anxiety man just get over your shit. Nothing to be embarrassed about just get out there and do your thing, maybe if you shake your nerves off and actually enjoy yourself you'll last longer or something.
/r/seduction27/02/13 04:57 AM
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Was the make out heated ? Do you think she wanted you to take things to the next level ? Maybe you blew it in that regard ? If that is a trend then I think that's your problem. But if not then again I'm at a loss, maybe you're just on a bad streak. Someone with more experience needs to chime in on this.
/r/seduction27/02/13 04:55 AM
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you can apply the same tactics with girls you know you just need to make little adjustments based on your relationship with the girl.
/r/seduction27/02/13 03:40 AM
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Take this realization and use it to grow your confidence. Best way to improve it is through experience. Next cute girl you see just look her in the eyes, smile and say hello.
/r/seduction27/02/13 03:35 AM
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Something seems out of wack man I just don't know.
/r/seduction27/02/13 03:33 AM
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Why are you anxious ? Are you worried that they will think you are too good for them ? Or is that you will crash and burn in front of them ? If it is the first option then you need to say fuck them and do it anyways. Your friends should follow in your lead not pull you down. If they pull you down get better friends or talk some fucking sense into them. If it is the second option then you just need more confidence my friend ! And beyond that just don't give a fuck. If they chirp you for blowing i…
/r/seduction27/02/13 03:28 AM
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Do you think you could be coming off as needy when you begin to show interest beyond sex ?
/r/seduction27/02/13 03:25 AM
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What drumnets said. When two buddies set out to do the same thing you can feed off eachother's energy and push your limits. You see him approach a HB7 ? Go for the HB8. You see him get a number ? Go get a kiss. Ect ect. Plus if you ask me it's easier to approach 2 girls with you and your buddy then it is to approach one girl solo. Or if you're feeling very anxious you could even both approach the same girl at the same time if you play it right. That's the easiest shit in the world.
/r/seduction27/02/13 03:21 AM
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Are you worried about what the girl thinks ? Or your family ?
/r/seduction27/02/13 03:18 AM
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Does salsa dancing apply with house music / eastern european dance music / top40 dance music ?
/r/seduction26/02/13 07:07 PM
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And if you get laid just have fun and try to ensure she has fun ! Sex isn't serious unless you make it serious. P.S. You could bust in 30 seconds, make a joke about it, throw on another dome and go for way longer if you can manage to get it up.
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:56 PM
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Lower your standards and gain more experience in the field ! Be outcome independent and focus on having fun and LEARNING above all else. You could go out tonight, approach 8 girls, fail miserably with every single one and learn a SHIT TON. That would be a success and a great one at that.
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:54 PM
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Meditate your dick off.
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:49 PM
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Becoming the best person I can possibly be or something close to that.
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:37 PM
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Shake a bit of the nice guy off and be a winner that takes what he wants. Doesn't mean you have to be rude or hated but it does mean don't get stepped on.
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:34 PM
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It's just a number ! Live your life and fuck the rest, if you are 19 and look 16 you are going to look great at 40 if you stay healthy and fit. Don't let your age define who you are or what you can do. In short, give no fucks do what (or who) you want.
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:32 PM
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You will hurt WAY more if you enter into a relationship for the wrong reasons. Be true to yourself and what you know is right for yourself, it's better to hurt her a little and move on then to waste time and decimate her. I learned this the hard way...
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:29 PM
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You're right, I'm young so any girls I have encountered that had their father pass are probably still dealing with it.
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:25 PM
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Daddy ran out on her, daddy died, doesn't know her daddy, daddy was a drunk or daddy just isn't there (travel, work)
/r/seduction25/02/13 05:58 PM
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budapest < non-informed response. I've heard the parties are great and the girls are to
/r/seduction24/02/13 06:27 PM
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Good read, this showed me I need to work on my positioning to capitalize on situations.
/r/seduction24/02/13 06:26 PM
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Think less about the sex ! You were thinking about whether or not she was down to bang before you so much as kissed her. When you take a few steps back and just ask yourself "was she interested/attracted" the answer is clear is it not ? So you had the green light to escalate things until she begins to lose interest.
/r/seduction23/02/13 11:36 PM
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Work on your confidence ! But congrats man, get off the computer and go do it again. Don't initiate kino immediately though! Not until you're a big baws.
/r/seduction22/02/13 08:49 PM
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Fucking beautiful.
/r/seduction22/02/13 04:00 AM
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Just to add on to this, try and be the center of attention when you feel comfortable and in a non-needy way. Bring the party. This will raise your value and have girls paying more attention to you.
/r/seduction22/02/13 03:57 AM
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I think the blunt manner in which he goes about it is what makes it work. Blunt confidence with a well kept look and maybe you could use it anywhere? But I definitely see the school campus as being the most suitable location.
/r/seduction22/02/13 02:49 AM
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Ya bro I think you just need to push your comfort zone ! It will be great, and even in the worst case scenario (what the fuck could that be) you will learn. Do you drink ?
/r/seduction21/02/13 11:01 PM
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Agree with this, don't text her making conversation, whether she wants it or not.
/r/seduction21/02/13 10:50 PM
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Lean in, say it, then pull away and look her in the eyes with a silly little grin.
/r/seduction21/02/13 10:47 PM
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This can work very well ! I have used it with mild success. Another spin on this is if she says no try your best to not react to her answer, be casual. Do not act hurt but express your lack of interest and leave the set. If she really wants you this may have her coming back for a second chance. Thoughts ?
/r/seduction21/02/13 10:47 PM
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What kind of setting do you have in mind ?
/r/seduction21/02/13 10:39 PM
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You're in Toronto... Ask yourself what you want to do, where you want to meet girls or what kind of food you want to eat and then go do it. Push your limits, explore. Are you just asking for a good bar with a bunch of hot babes ?
/r/seduction21/02/13 10:33 PM
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Did you want to f-close ?
/r/seduction21/02/13 09:35 AM
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How did you go from a running race to making out with her ? I understand you crowded her space but what else did you do to escalate further ?
/r/seduction21/02/13 08:39 AM
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Why feel shameful for desiring asian women ? Because of silly social bullshit surrounding the fact that you're a white man living in america ? You need to say fuck that and actually believe it.
/r/seduction21/02/13 07:31 AM
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Try to identify why she is shy and then eliminate that trigger. Does it seem like she suffers from some social anxiety ? Is she "shy" because she just doesn't like talking to people ? If she is the first then you must make her feel comfortable, then she will allow you to open her up. If she is the latter then maybe try to press her buttons and get a response out of her, negative or positive.
/r/seduction21/02/13 07:14 AM
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