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| 44 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractive | CMV | benzbugatti | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:47 PM |
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| 1 | Is it just me, or are RP men becoming indistinguishable from American conservatives?But that's the thing tho I don't think Trump voters want to win. They don't want someone competent. In the primaries, they vote for the most extreme candidates that get wiped out in purple districts and states. The voters are the problem even if someone wants to create Gilead. I'm not even sure if Trump voters outside of the evangelicals are pro-life or anti-hookup culture. The voters are just fed up as wealth inequality continues hurting them, especially since they are mostly high school grads … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or are RP men becoming indistinguishable from American conservatives?Another Trump lookalike did come: Desantis, and he's not incompetent like Trump. But voters don't want Trump clone. They want the real thing. That's why I'm praying Trump to keep running every 4 years. Let Trump grift but the left to win for the foreseeable future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:48 PM |
| 7 | Is it just me, or are RP men becoming indistinguishable from American conservatives?Lots of words to say Trump is naively dumb and let the deep state pull one over him. But conversing with you is pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 09:36 PM |
| 8 | Is it just me, or are RP men becoming indistinguishable from American conservatives?You know I want to be snarky and say okay if the election was rigged against Trump and Cons, then Republican voters should just stay home and not vote. It's going to be rigged anyways so why waste time and effort? But I just want to be real. Trump was the POTUS during the election. His appointees had complete control over Justice Dept, Commerce, and every Intel agency in the country. If he was cheated while he was the boss, then that's just 1000x worse than admitting he just lost because he was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Is it just me, or are RP men becoming indistinguishable from American conservatives?He does have a chance to win, but odds are overwhelming in favor of Biden. Unlike 2016, Biden has won against Trump. It would be suicidal for Reps to nominate a loser who already lost once, but like I said, Cons want to lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 08:31 PM |
| -1 | Is it just me, or are RP men becoming indistinguishable from American conservatives?At least 4 more years of feminism coming up thanks to Trump. Dems should celebrate Trump as the one who finally destroyed core conservatism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 08:09 PM |
| -2 | Is it just me, or are RP men becoming indistinguishable from American conservatives?And Trump will continue to lose, but I don't want him to go to jail. Let the man run for prez past 2032 so we can finally establish the ultimate feminist, anti-patriarchial (to some here anti-men) leftist society from winning so much. Let Trump cook! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 07:53 PM |
| 11 | Is it just me, or are RP men becoming indistinguishable from American conservatives?Haha, strong and traditional, and you name Trump and Tate? The guy who's divorced twice and had to pay hush money to pornstars? The guy who lost to "senile old Joe"? Sorry, we libs don't like weak guys who keep getting convicted of rape and sexual assault and lose to career pols. And Tate is traditional? I'm sorry his whole scheme is paying women and trafficking poor Eastern European women in Romania. That's the definition of strong and traditional? We libs perfer our strongman to stay out of ja… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 07:45 PM |
| 1 | As long as men are way hornier than women, none of this will change. The only solution to the current disaster is a pill that safely lowers testosterone/DHT and subdues the male sex drive, leveling the playing field.I didn't say it it's just a theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | As long as men are way hornier than women, none of this will change. The only solution to the current disaster is a pill that safely lowers testosterone/DHT and subdues the male sex drive, leveling the playing field.As long as it's not nuclear (I know odds of it going nuclear is high in a WW) then mainland America would be extremely protected and it would be mostly soldiers but it has to be in the millions to make any noticeable difference... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 06:39 PM |
| -2 | As long as men are way hornier than women, none of this will change. The only solution to the current disaster is a pill that safely lowers testosterone/DHT and subdues the male sex drive, leveling the playing field.I don't even think a World War would even reduce the imbalance unless millions of men were lost. Starting a draft for war would only mean more women would enter the workforce, and after the war, the surviving men would do no better than they do now. So, a major war with incredible casualties is the only other solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:12 PM |
| 0 | What’s a good OLD vs. IRL dating strategy for normie men vs. non-normie men?I'm personally on the side of apps for my own reasons. But people are becoming more lonely and are spending less time trying to make connections in person unless you're a guy who has 1000 friends and is throwing a house party every Friday, in which case they would slay in person and online. My prediction is the continued reliance of apps for dating. People who predict apps are dying, and people are just going to be meeting people like it's 99 are in for a rude awakening. But that's just my 2 cen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:01 PM |
| 2 | The “goods are odd” is actually something men encounter more than women on dating appsNah I'm not an alpha, and I've no desire to ever be one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:44 PM |
| 1 | The “goods are odd” is actually something men encounter more than women on dating appsNo, it just seemed appropriate, but now that you mention the 80/20, I guess it's a good fit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:21 PM |
| 2 | The “goods are odd” is actually something men encounter more than women on dating appsYes, I believe that men are at least 5 times odder than women, but the true ceiling is not known, and I say that as a man myself. And even in your own comment, you indicate how much odder men are. Men forcing themselves to go on dates with women they don't find attractive just to get their dicks wet. Men will literally fuck holes in the wall. Men will fuck a coconut if horny enough and we both know how degenerate men are. There literally is no ceiling to the oddness of men, and I'll die on that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | The “goods are odd” is actually something men encounter more than women on dating appsBut even by your assertion, we know the rate of oddness is not the same. As I stated, women swipe on 2% while men are on 40% and more. One could argue that the swipe rate of women is so low because there's way more men than women on apps, but I am not convinced by that argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 04:44 PM |
| 0 | The “goods are odd” is actually something men encounter more than women on dating appsUmm bro what are you smoking with this post? Your whole premise and conclusion and arguments are flawed beyond redemption, and your conclusion doesn't follow your premise, but I'll only address one part of it. If we say there's an equal number of odd/weird/creepy ratio in both women and men (I extremely disagree with this and in fact men are wholly worse by orders of magnitudes), then statistically both have the same odds of encountering an odd profile. But we know this to be inaccurate as women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 04:28 PM |
| 3 | What to do with the libido gap?If she's truly hurting, then she can leave. I've no physical or emotional control over her. But she just doesn't want to and is actually afraid that I'll leave her so... here we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 09:31 PM |
| 2 | What to do with the libido gap?I never said what I'm doing isn't wrong, but it's the most equal suffering I can dole out while actively not doing anything or changing anything else. I simply take away my body from her just as she has done so in the past. I'm not entitled to anything, and neither can she be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 04:36 PM |
| 3 | What to do with the libido gap?Not really. Everything else is alright in our relationship, and I would've been happy with more sex, but now she'll experience the pain I've felt when she rejected me. No more physical intimacy for her, so she'll feel the loneliness I've felt every day of our relationship past the honeymoon phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 04:28 PM |
| 4 | What to do with the libido gap?In that case, I'll advise you not to look at my profile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | What to do with the libido gap?I'm not unhappy with our arrangement, so why should I break up? She can break up if she wants, but that's on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | What to do with the libido gap?Now she's the one who's always initiating, and I'm always turning her down because I'm not in the mood, and let me tell you, the power trip is INSANELY good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:58 PM |
| -1 | What to do with the libido gap?My gf didn't want to have sex more than once a week, so I'm now cheating on the side and my libido has crashed during for actual relationship and now I go to sleep at 9 PM every night intentionally so we don't have sex and she has to get herself off alone. Life is good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:37 PM |
| 2 | i think that being a smooth talker is the best ability to pick up womenApparently, you did not read the part about my friend being attractive and tall but giving me, his friend who's a guy, creepy vibes. But go off king 🤴 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | i think that being a smooth talker is the best ability to pick up womenI would argue that being a millionaire/billionaire trumps looks and social skills by miles, but no one's arguing that those guys are competing with average men in everyday life. The same could be said about actual models in like Ohio state instead of where they would actually be, which is a place like NYC | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:26 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMale, early 20s. I don't subscribe to the pill concept because it's such a pointless debate imo (I realize the sub I'm in). I am on the ASPD spectrum, so I see human interaction not through attraction but rather through a very selfish, machivellian way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:24 PM |
| 2 | i think that being a smooth talker is the best ability to pick up womenIdk anyone who's a 5'3" bald janitor because he's charismatic and funny. But I know plenty of 5'5" guys who are servers/hosts/bartenders who kill it because they're charismatic and funny and are also out Thurs-Sat every week. What's so curious about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:03 PM |
| 3 | i think that being a smooth talker is the best ability to pick up womenThe line between an awkward guy who won't leave a girl alone and a creepy guy is very, very thin... And I know those women you talk about. One of the women I know slept with a midget after a night out, and she's low-key hot, too. A midget with sandals. But also, she slept with plenty of hot guys almost every weekend. Everyone gets their turn really. What the midget had going for him was that he was out going to bars with the women and he was friends with everyone in their social circle, and he w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 04:47 PM |
| 6 | i think that being a smooth talker is the best ability to pick up womenA funny, charismatic man who dresses exceptionally and can make everyone laugh, but who is also average and isn't "hideous"? I would bet my life on the average guy. You don't understand that a guy who gives creepy vibes is scary. Doesn't matter if he's the hottest guy if a woman thinks that she's dealing with a basement dweller. Also, we were not talking about a "boring" guy. We're talking about guys who seem to have no social awareness. Almost everyone I meet is boring. That's not what the disc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 04:35 PM |
| 3 | i think that being a smooth talker is the best ability to pick up womenYes, a 90 year old billionaire could get his dick sucked at a club, so what? We're not talking about a guy who could be a model. We're talking about a conventionally hot guy who is just awkward and weird. Also, just because a very attractive but awkward man can get a woman once in a while isn't an achievement. He could get 3x or 4x times the number of dates/ hookups if he was socially adjusted. It's about missed opportunities that are not charming would bring about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 04:28 PM |
| 3 | i think that being a smooth talker is the best ability to pick up womenI mean, my friend gives me a weird vibe, and he's my friend and I'm a guy lol so I'm sure women would be even more put off by him and guys like him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 03:28 PM |
| 9 | i think that being a smooth talker is the best ability to pick up womenI've a friend that's like 6'4", handsome face conventionally, is white and educated. But he's his worst enemy. He's clingy, texts too soon, seems like he has nothing going on in his life, and is always complaining about women. He spends his day making shitty political memes and has no passion. I'm not sure if he's autistic but he just gives "off" vibes. He has everything going on for him to the point that he should be killing it in the casual dating scene. But he's inability to create comfort an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is…Cuz I've nothing to lose if they say no. Nothing of value would be lost in that rejection. And if they say yes then its just a ons or a loosely defined fwb that's actually a bootycall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:47 PM |
| 0 | The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is…I actually like sluts as a man. They're more experienced, they're easier to hook up with in general, and they know stuff that guys have liked and usually are down for more sex than non-experienced sexually women. But I like to separate the sluts if I may into two categories... 1st category is the hot (artsy, tattoo and piercing), spiritual kind who's into clubbing and keeping things casual while having a roster. Doesn't matter if it's 50 partners or a 100 she has had. She's hot and no guys that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Men have leverage, but it is not always as obvious... and a dark prediction for the futureIn a society like that I'll become a gay husband if it means that I'll live a comfortable life and won't be killed/raped in the streets. And I'm straight as an arrow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Men have leverage, but it is not always as obvious... and a dark prediction for the futureI really don't know... I've had to even file harassment against a woman at work cuz they were creeping on me but I'm definitely on the uglier side. Maybe I'm charming but that's it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:28 AM |
| 7 | Men have leverage, but it is not always as obvious... and a dark prediction for the futureBrother, I am neither rich nor attractive, but I am juggling multiple women and going on dates almost every day of the week. The skill of getting women through charm is more satisfying than through pure attraction or status/money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 08:07 PM |
| 12 | Men have leverage, but it is not always as obvious... and a dark prediction for the futureYour "predictions" are pure bs. Women are out earning men overall, even with the wage gap. The college gap keeps increasing with more women attending than men every year. Women don't need rich men to live good lives and by rich men, are you talking about the likes of Jeff Bezo and Musk? Those guys can and always have had their options since they're billionaires, but what kind of women would want to leave their bf and screw with Musk? Population collapse is also not an issue in the US, for which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | [Wall Street Journal] Dating Apps Put a Hefty Price Tag on Finding Love [x-post from /r/Economics]I really, really don't want to sound like I'm bragging, but I don't think I'm anything special, and I go on dates pretty regularly and I use the free version. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 03:16 AM |
| 0 | [Wall Street Journal] Dating Apps Put a Hefty Price Tag on Finding Love [x-post from /r/Economics]I'm not bragging dude trust me if you read my comments, I'll call myself ugly all day. But I'll admit I've a pretty awesome profile and nice prompts, but my question is, how do the companies decide to hide some men's profile while showing others? If they promote better profiles than that's natural since those would get more likes from women, and a man with a bad profile wouldn't get any matches even if they showed his profile to 100k women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 03:06 AM |
| 1 | [Wall Street Journal] Dating Apps Put a Hefty Price Tag on Finding Love [x-post from /r/Economics]I don't and have never paid, and I get a decent amount of likes from other women and get matches from the likes I send as well, so I'll argue that your suspicion is flawed at least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 02:26 AM |
| 2 | [Wall Street Journal] Dating Apps Put a Hefty Price Tag on Finding Love [x-post from /r/Economics]I only use the free version of dating apps and they're more than worth it for me. I would've never went on a date had it not been for the apps and I'm a guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Social isolation and male datingI'm the farthest from a Chad. I'm a liar and a cheat who can only get women through deception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: What do you bring to the table?I'll give you cheating too but you won't ever find out about it. Good deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:25 AM |
| 17 | Discussion: What do you bring to the table?Lies, love bombing, agreeableness, conflict avoidance, sweet talk and kindness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Social isolation and male datingI'm really not tho. I used to go months in hs before I even talked to girls in high school about ANYTHING. I was and always will be ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Social isolation and male datingI'll always see myself as ugly and worthless even though others might disagree. Even then it's all a facade of grooming and wearing nice clothes with fake confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Social isolation and male datingHonestly, men need to be happy on their own. I've always thought that if I get a gf or if I sleep with women, then I'll be happy, but it's not true. I've been more depressed since I've started dating my gf, and I just started resenting myself that a woman couldn't solve my issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Social isolation and male datingI'll first like to say that I see myself as extremely ugly and undesirable. To the point that I've never and will never approach any women in real life in order to flirt with them. I primarily date using online apps. With that said, plently of women have approached, complimented, and even flirted with me when I've been out to concerts, bars, and clubs. But I've never been complimented staying home on a Friday night. Even with that, I'll argue that online dating is so much better than trying to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 09:29 PM |
| 7 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Being yourself never works. No matter what anyone will ever say. It doesn't work. Change yourself to what women want or fake it till you make it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 08:25 PM |
| 2 | OLD is about tactics and not moralityI'll chime in as someone who's on the ASPD spectrum. The matter of the lies matter more so than the lies themselves. I unfortunately found out the hard way that big lies ALWAYS lead to destruction, but little lies can be covered up and later on forgotten about as the sunken fallacy settles in a relationship. But make no mistake this path only leads to pain for yourself and others down the line. But it is addictive and at some point you truly lose who you are a person. The manipulation slowly rot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Earning more and getting fit isn't always the solution for romantic relationships.. understanding a woman's emotional needs is."I mean, it's normal but I assumed the whole premise of this post was that emotional intelligence, being in touch with yourself, and like going to therapy would be attractive to women. But emotional intelligence only comes in when you're already at least talking to or in a relationship with women. If you had no chance with women before then, having EI won't change that even 1 bit. And if we assume what I said as fact then this post would be redundant wouldn't you agree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Earning more and getting fit isn't always the solution for romantic relationships.. understanding a woman's emotional needs is."Yes, that's why I said emotional intelligence is required but not sufficient in itself for a relationship with a women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Earning more and getting fit isn't always the solution for romantic relationships.. understanding a woman's emotional needs is."Emotional intelligence is required but not sufficient for a relationship, and it is wholly not needed for casual flings/fwb. The two factors you mentioned re: money and muscles (physical traits) can be seen visually such as nice toned bodies and money, which can manifest in having a good career, nice lifestyle which can present itself on instagram by traveling to a different continent every Friday which shows disposable income. Emotional intelligence can not be seen until later on, and it can be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveYes, but that process is expedited by the loneliness suffered by women. It is about the small advantages that overall contribute to breaking the solidarity shared within the group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveWinning at all costs requires sacrifices of morality. The sad thing is I embody everything you associated me with in your comment, and I still have a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveIt's good for men and obviously awful for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveI wrote this post fully, acknowledging that loneliness is a bad thing but a necessary condition to men's success in dating. I fully agree it's immoral, but as proven, it is required for women to prioritize finding a man due to said loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveI agree with everything you've said and would like to add that society also plays a role along in wanting babies with the actual desire to have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:10 AM |
| 4 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveYes, they do talk about guys, although you mentioned in your comment that they're not lonely. It's the loneliness that causes women to be more proactive in trying to find a relationship. Also, friend groups from what I have witnessed are inherently critical of men that other women are talking to or dating. They're much more likely to point out any physical or personality flaws of men then if an individual was judging a potential bf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 10:02 PM |
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