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29

Oh yeah, crippling insecurity and neuroticism are always a total panty-soaker 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/22 04:34 AM
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Absolutely this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/22 04:25 AM
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Yeah my experience getting into a relationship with a "shy guy" was that he was just massively insecure and eventually turned abusive when he sensed I was trying to leave. Some come across as shy because they are boring and/or lazy with poor social skills. And guys like this are becoming more common with a lack of IRL socialization, preferring to zone out on video games or some crap. There's also a difference between "shy guys" and men who are simply soft spoken but interesting. When I think of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/22 04:18 AM
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Haha shrimp posture! 🍤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 01:19 AM
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Ugh then they go straight to rough and fast pounding, I hate that shit unless I specifically ask for it. I don't want the entire session to be jackhammering, there's no finesse or sensuality to it. Instead of making love they just "hit it".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 01:13 AM
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They have to in order to reconcile their sad compulsion with the fact that these are thinking, feeing human beings they are watching get degraded onscreen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 01:08 AM
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The lack of zest for life is a big one. They live under a cloud of anhedonia, their dopamine receptors withering away bit by bit. The internalized shame and self disgust eats away at their self esteem. They have to dehumanize the women on screen and ignore the suffering and exploitation they are getting off to, so they double down on misogyny and hatred for all women to make themselves feel better. Another part of their hatred is their weakness, on some level they know porn addiction is utterly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 12:46 AM
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I got permabanned from the relationship advice sub for saying there are a lot of pornsick neckbeards on Reddit in general. There was a post about a woman catching her brother masturbating while sniffing her socks and undies and there were a bunch of sickos in the comments defending him. Apparently I pissed off a pornsick mod with an incest fetish. Guys trying to defend and normalize sick behavior is a clue they are warped, erectile dysfunction and depression are often present, and I think they t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 12:15 AM
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I am loving the crazy cat lady life. My husband and I treat them like our children, it's one of the reasons I knew he'd be the right man to marry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 10:18 PM
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I've seen several therapists but I honestly gained the most from other women in 12 step recovery. I don't do meetings anymore these days but may start up again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:22 PM
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This happened to me a few days ago though the man was a stranger. I have no memory of the actual penetration. I still feel a little dizzy and weird three days later and like it was all my fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:04 PM
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I always Google and check a guy's social media before meeting them, it can say a lot about a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:29 PM
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I'm confused who said what here. I would like it if someone sent me a silly picture of a cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:23 PM
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Oh without a doubt there have been red flags galore but as women we are heavily conditioned to gaslight ourselves into believing LVM behavior is acceptable, it's our fault, they'll change, and we convince ourselves we are overreacting if we have a bad gut feeling about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:54 AM
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The nightmares I've heard about custody issues are horrifying. A vindictive baby daddy can do things like prevent her from moving away in the future if she gets a better opportunity, poisoning the kid against her, the list goes on. They can abuse and neglect the child when they have shared custody but if there's no physical evidence nothing is done. He's got all the money and she's going to be screwed. I hate when I see women keeping pregnancies with abusers, it's a life sentence they will never…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:47 AM
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I had a guy criticize my eye makeup on the first date. There was no second date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:26 PM
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Yep, and too many pickme mothers who don't want to believe their kids when they try to get help, it's fucking horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:15 PM
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FUCK POLITENESS. If you get a bad vibe do not ever be afraid of offending the guy by cutting off a date early. I'm not saying to deliberately provoke men but when they are making you uncomfortable do not try to soothe their ego by staying. Even if they haven't done anything yet you can put your finger on just trust your intuition if you get a bad feeling and make a quick exit. I follow a lot of true crime and sadly many victims wind up in dangerous situations because they didn't want to be rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:03 PM
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Absolutely this. LVM have nothing to lose and it's just a numbers game for them, they figure if they just aggressively hit on every woman they see eventually one will have low enough self esteem to reciprocate. HVM tend to be much more subtle and polite, also there are so few of them that the sea of scrotes is all we see unfortunately. HVM are also oftentimes happily married already and we just don't see them in the dating market.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 10:56 PM
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There's nothing worse than having to depend on a man's generosity to get your needs met. I'm a former sex worker and thank god I got out of that lifestyle, went back to school, and make more now than I did as a stripper. I absolutely hate asking a man for money, I really wasn't a good hustler because I had a hard time pretending I cared about customers. I had some sugar daddy type dates before but they got annoyed with me quickly because I never did "full service". It's ridiculous for a 19 year …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:19 AM
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Did he get fired?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:09 AM
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I used to have a drinking problem and without exception every male "friend" who had the chance took advantage of that. Never ever get too drunk with a male "friend", they WILL pounce on the opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:36 AM
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His line and wink sounded like something a car salesman might say to humor a grandma or little kid. She's reading a little too deep into things lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:59 PM
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I always find it cringe when people add edits to their original story to argue with commenters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:51 PM
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Or maybe he wants a MFM threesome lol. If I told my husband a hot new coworker flirted with me he'd just chuckle and say "Of course he did, you're beautiful!" and then we'd make fun of how cheesy the dude is trying to schmooze his way up the corporate ladder. He certainly wouldn't salivate at the idea and want a celebratory dinner. I did have an ex (he was fairly HV, we parted amicably) who enjoyed going clubbing with me because he was shy and I would get a ton of attention from people. He loved…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:42 PM
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Any man that has to say "I'm not a rapist" is indeed a rapist. He used coercion and manipulation but that doesn't make it any less violating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:54 PM
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Block them completely and I definitely wouldn't be envious of the horrible relationship she's gotten herself into. Maybe he has found he can use and abuse her even more than he did you. She is taking the bullet that you have finally dodged and hopefully someday she comes to her senses, but that's not your problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:51 PM
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This is a cool suggestion! I certainly wouldn't want my 5 year old self to be addicted to cigarettes and I'm really struggling to quit smoking. I have a really cute kindergarten picture of myself and should place it in a prominent place to look at every time I reach for a cigarette.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:43 PM
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Ugh like Leonardo DiCaprio. I wish I didn't know what a scumbag he is because he's in a lot of good movies and it kind of ruins the story for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:17 AM
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Dude, if you're just really into "old souls" then why don't you cruise for dates at the nursing home? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:10 AM
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Sometimes I wonder what percent of men would date 15 year old (and younger) girls if society didn't frown on it and the girls had no real option to say no. It's done with alarming regularity in some countries with child brides and if it were mainstream in the US it makes me sad to think how many men would go for that. I am unfortunately one of the statistics of children who've been molested, I was three years old. Soo many kids have been sexually abused before they've reached puberty and I think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:06 AM
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And he's the one that chose to date her, some guys like to take advantage of women with low self esteem and mental health problems, posing as a "white knight" but the truth is their savior complex is rooted in a need for power and control. Also birds of a feather fuck together, so he may have been drawn to a mentally ill woman because he is mentally ill and likes to think of himself as the "better" of the two of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 03:18 AM
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Or piss dribbles around the base. HOW FUCKING HARD IS IT NOT TO PEE ON THE GODDAMN FLOOR?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 02:54 AM
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I think it's reasonable to peek, also if a guy has medication for STDs, narcotics, psych meds, etc it's something I definitely want to know up front. You can tell a lot by a person by the contents of their medicine cabinet. Health issues aren't necessarily a dealbreaker but if they have medication for a serious issue and fail to mention it early on then that's a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 08:23 AM
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Go with your gut! As you said it's going to be far more uncomfortable to reject him in person if there's no chemistry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 08:13 AM
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I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't know first hand that he's a sexual predator. Men who are this depraved often start their behavior in childhood victimizing siblings and younger family members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 04:00 AM
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There were some fun aspects to it, I've always liked dancing and been obsessed with beauty and makeup and I loved having an excuse to dress up in glitzy costumes. I was a crazy party girl and working at strip clubs facilitated a wild lifestyle. It can really fuck with your self esteem to be compared to other beautiful women and if I had a slow night I felt ugly and jealous. Guys that date strippers are almost universally low value as fuck and I dated some world class losers. Like many sex worker…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 03:12 AM
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I'm a former sex worker and agree 100%. I am lucky that I never did any kind of sex work that could leave a digital footprint, I mostly worked in strip clubs. I used to struggle horribly with drug addiction and the adult industry very much feeds that kind of dysfunctional lifestyle. I was able to break free, got into recovery, and leveled up with my education and career. Today I'm very proud of my work in healthcare and I'm making more money now than I ever did in sex work (I was never a very go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 11:24 PM
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This! I can't stand having to beg a man for money, I've been there done that. I put in the hard work to level up career wise and self sufficiency is so incredibly freeing. When I was a young broke pickme I did look for sugar daddy type men but discovered the hard way they are ALWAYS emotionally abusive and I hated the power dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 11:11 PM
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I had a rich ex boyfriend who was very emotionally abusive and held money over my head constantly. I have dated a handful of wealthy men and there was always a weird power dynamic that I hated. I'm sure there are some decent rich men out there, but I never wanted to have to beg a man for money again so I went back to school in my 30's and make 6 figures a year now. I married a very kind and loyal man who isn't rich, we keep our finances separate and he happily does all the cooking and most of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:58 PM
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Ugh it reminds me of this flamboyantly gay bartender guy I knew, he thought it was funny to just reach over and grab women's crotches and laugh hysterically at his own audacity. I never saw him get called out, I was just kind of stunned and confused when he casually did it to me once at a crowded bar. I barely even knew him. He was super popular because he sold cocaine and would share if you acted like you liked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:56 AM
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$2,000 for a YEAR of attention and explicit content!? That shit's embarrassing. One of the many many problems with sex work is women's insecurity about their value and it's very common for men to get away with lowball rates. WhenI was in the industry I was pretty timid and didn't want to come across as "rude", so I wasn't a very good hustler. I'm making way more money now in a respectable career and I regret that I did sex work. If I was going to do it I should have at least stood up for myself …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:27 PM
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This is gross on so many levels. I used to be the typical pickme "cool chick" that hung out with tons of guy friends, though in reality they were just orbiters who fed my need for external validation. These were supposed platonic friendships but I went through a promiscuous phase and at various points hooked up with more of them than I care to admit. Each and every single one of my male friends were eager to hop in the bed with me if I had a lapse in judgment and allowed them to. The ones I didn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:20 PM
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I'm so sorry you went through that nightmare. Before dating again I would highly recommend a good trauma informed therapist. What's going on with your ex sounds like it's still an active situation. Is there any way to get a restraining order without having to actually see him in court? I was abused under the guise of a "BDSM" and "swinger" lifestyle with my predatory ex. On a side note I have struggled with substance abuse issues and it took me a long time in therapy and 12 step recovery to come…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:59 PM
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At some point we have to stop infantilizing ourselves and other women. I'm a survivor of childhood abuse as well as domestic violence, but I took the initiative to snap out of the victim mentality and hold myself accountable to my own bad decisions by getting the help I needed. Hell, joining this sub is a great start for women who want to take ownership of their lives, stop self-defeating behavior, and stop letting the trauma of our past dictate our present. There are a lot of resources out ther…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 05:38 PM
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Unfortunately abuse of pets is not uncommon in domestic violence situations. My physically abusive ex once threw my terrified kitty at me because "you love the cat more than me!" (Which was 100% true lol). I had been in the process of trying to break up with him and that incident definitely sped things up. Guys like this often threaten suicide as a manipulation tactic, which gave me a great excuse to call his family and friends to come get him for his own safety (even though it was really for mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 05:22 PM
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This is especially true of men on the streets. It's harassment, pure and simple. If I walk by some random who says "How are you doing today?" he has just put me in a situation that requires me to give him my time and mental energy. He is not entitled to a response or acknowledgement. He does not care one bit how a stranger is doing and only asks that question of attractive women. It's okay to completely ignore "friendly" guys. Same goes for coworkers and acquaintances who try to corner you into …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:53 PM
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This post is excellent!! I swear men who are secretly degenerate just leak creepiness through their pores. You know how they say dogs can smell fear? Well in a similar way women can smell bad intentions. The problem is we gaslight ourselves into giving them the benefit of the doubt. Always trust your gut and if in doubt don't let the societal conditioning of female politeness override your radar! I'd rather be called a bitch than raped or dead in a ditch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:38 PM
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Most BDSM these days is just sanctioned sadism towards women, and if we point out that most male "doms" are using it as a thinly veiled excuse to hurt women we get boo'd for KiNk sHaMiNg. I used to be involved in that scene and there were rules and community guidelines that doms took very seriously. Now any scrote into abusive porn can independently assign the Dom label to themselves with zero accountability or communication with the organized kink scene. I don't necessarily vilify everyone into…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:18 PM
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Oxford dictionary meaning of Sour Grapes: Used to refer to an attitude in which someone adopts a negative attitude to something because they cannot have it themselves. They are fabricating this supposed "wall". At the age of 46 if I went on Tinder my matches and inbox would be filled to the brim whereas a significant portion of men get zero attention at any age, especially the redpill/incel/MGTOW guys who claim no one wants older women. They're jealous, plain and simple, and it's sour grapes tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:55 PM
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Can confirm. In my 20's my circle of friends were mostly lesbians and I really wanted to join the club. I considered myself bisexual and tried dating a really attractive butch friend of mine but she laughingly pointed out that I was going to end up with a man and she was right. I've casually fooled around with women but the rush of infatuation and real sexual chemistry just never happened. If sexual preference was a choice I'd have a wife today lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:23 PM
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This is especially critical for women who hope to raise a family one day. I'm childfree by choice today in my 40's but when I was in my 20's I was on the fence about having kids and I did go through a period where I mourned the loss of that opportunity. I spent my peak years in abusive toxic relationships, and even though I was open to having kids at that time I thankfully refused to procreate with those men. If I had met a worthy man who would make a great dad and financial provider my life wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:00 PM
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My SIL just got out of a nearly 20 year marriage with a guy like this. Literally the day their youngest child left for college she packed her shit and left. Her ex NEVER wanted to take her anywhere, or even go on a walk around the block together. She's beautiful and such a fun, outgoing person who loves to explore the world. Her marriage was lonely but fortunately she has a magnetic personality and a big circle of friends, so she at least went out and did stuff with them. Sometimes though you re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:51 PM
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Yep. Lifelong bachelors are not to be trusted!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:35 PM
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On the sex subreddit I swear there are multiple posts a week of women complaining their boyfriends won't bathe or properly wipe their poopy butts and these guys get pissed if she doesn't want to suck his smegma crusted dick. The sad thing is these women are asking advice on how to phrase it in a way that won't offend these foul men, and don't want to break up, yet the guys have no problem rudely expecting her to cater to their stanky neckbeard ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:20 PM
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Whoa. 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:46 PM
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Misogyny is one of the main tenets of most rap music. Women are being groomed to accept "baby mama" culture much to the detriment of themselves and their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:40 PM
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I live in a rural state and you know they are especially unhinged when they have flags flying on their jacked up trucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:33 PM
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Also women their age simply won't put up with their bullshit. I'm in my 40's and wise to the ways of scrotedom, and not afraid to call out their shitty behavior. I was so much more tolerant and naive when I was in my teens and that's exactly what they want, it's why large age gap relationships are predatory in nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:27 PM
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They also have a very pedophilic view of what they want in a woman. I see quite a few of them expressing that they want submissive virgins, but most women have had sex before the age of 18 so the demographic they are talking about are actual young teenagers. But if a woman is in her 20's and waiting for marriage they want nothing to do with that and advise each other not to let her "string them along". So, what they are looking for is a horny virgin in her mid teens who will be ignorant and naiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:20 PM
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Thank god you are so perceptive and stayed firm with your boundaries. He sounded tricky and I bet he was "spinning plates" and having sex with multiple women the whole time you guys were talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:06 PM
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Oh my god this is horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:52 PM
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He's cloaking it with humor but mark my words, he is not joking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:51 PM
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LMAO god I flopped around with my red nose and billowing clown attire for soo long in my pickeme days it's embarrassing! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:32 PM
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That's fine, in the meantime women are slowly rising to power and taking over the world! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:26 PM
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My husband stops the instant I am tired of sex, he takes a long time to cum and has no expectation that I will make myself physically uncomfortable to get him off. We're both pretty low libido and I simply just get tired and uncomfortable quickly, and it takes me way too long to orgasm for me to even feel like finishing. I asked him if "blue balls" are a thing and he laughed and said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:22 PM
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These men are especially adept at turning their partners into struggling single mothers. Guys like this are happy to pass on their DNA with no commitment and the women in their life mistakenly think a baby might be the magic solution to secure the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:03 PM
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There's a massive increase in sexual assault crimes in places like Sweden that have an open door policy to these guys, it's terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:02 PM
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They're also easier to deal with than rolling an adult around in bed to change a soiled incontinence brief!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:07 AM
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I have oversized boobs and basically no ass and I have gone so far as to try binding. I used to wear a lot of pushup bras with low cut tops and enjoyed all the attention but as I've gotten older I've been slowly creeping towards a more asexual mindset. Now I dress very modestly and can't stand being ogled, but one of the benefits of being over 40 is that I'm invisible to scrotes now, which is fine by me! I look like I'm wearing a tent in many shirt styles so I bought a few binders to try and hol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 02:12 AM
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It's interesting that porn marketed towards women tends to focus on caring and mutual respect, whereas the popular porn geared towards men focuses on exploitation, degradation, and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 11:22 PM
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When I was in high school me and my little friends would crash their parties and run off with their alcohol lmao. Looking back that was definitely a risky venture. I attended a private high school that was situated on a large university campus and I can't tell you how many times I got hit on by college men when I was very obviously just a high school kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 11:11 PM
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It's so sad there are men out there who literally want to kill the women in this community, and they especially focus on the mods here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 10:13 PM
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Patience pays off. I was a little discouraged that the auto mod kept removing comments that I had put my heart into. It actually took a few months because the mods have an endless stream of potential invaders and they just want to make this a safe and supportive community. There's a lot of dangerous creeps out there and they especially enjoy stalking and harassing the mods, I can't imagine all the scary messages they must see on a daily basis! I think you have to be a very strong woman to deal w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 10:07 PM
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I wish so badly this community had been around when I was younger. I think back to my days of low self esteem and non-existent boundaries and physically cringe. Sometimes I'm really embarrassed about my past pickme ways and all the mistakes I've made, but the only thing to do really is learn from it and focus on the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 06:23 AM
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My annoying ex wants to maintain contact with me, I shut that down immediately when I asked him to send me back the money that I had wasted on him during our relationship lol. He got very quiet after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:59 PM
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The Locum Tenens aka travel docs are the worst. They take temp positions and leave a trail of nurse and CNA conquests across the country. They are also almost always married as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:53 PM
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Absolutely disgusting, he sounds predatory as fuck. Cab and Uber drivers have a front row seat to people in very vulnerable situations and I've heard so many horror stories about creepy drivers it's scary. One time when I was younger a cab driver tried to proposition me into a trafficking situation, claiming he had a lot of wealthy clients and could make me a lot of money. Mind you I didn't say anything that would lead him to believe I'd be interested in such things. Creeps just have a way of al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:47 PM
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Ugh it reminds me of Chris Watts. His beautiful wife and children died for the sake of his dick and his ego, and he's absolutely loving all the attention he's getting in jail from his mentally ill pickmeisha fan club. It's especially gross when they seriously believe they have been absolved of their crimes after being "saved" and becoming fake born-again Christians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:32 PM
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Gardening is such a nurturing pastime, my husband is a gardener and a chef and loves to surprise me by decorating our patio with beautiful seasonal arrangements. Now if a guy's idea of "gardening" is just growing marijuana for his drug habit that wouldn't appeal to me personally, but then again I'm not a weed smoker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:23 PM
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I used to be one of these women but deep down I just wanted to be loved. I had a really traumatic childhood leading to mental health and addiction problems and was trying to fill a void with drugs and casual sex. After I got professional help my views on dating shifted and casual sex just seemed so hollow and sad. A lot of my past behavior was about seeking validation and unfortunately women these days are being programmed by a hyper sexual culture to believe that male attention is critical to o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:57 PM
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This is an excellent point. I've been through some very dark and self-defeating phases in my life and I struggled horribly with addiction. Now that I think about it the men who were attracted to me then all had ulterior motives of finding a woman they could easily control, just use for sex, or they were also battling their own demons and wanted a nonjudgmental girlfriend they could party with. My self esteem was so low and I was just a blob of depression and anxiety when I was using, no HVM in h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:38 PM
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This is an excellent point, now that I think of it Cosmopolitan magazine only really appealed to me when I was in middle school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:48 PM
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Male depravity never ceases to amaze me, the lengths they will go to hurt us are astounding. Years ago I learned the hard way that you can't always trust the male bartenders and bouncers of nightclubs either. When ordering a drink WATCH what the bartender is doing if possible. I have been sexually assaulted more than once by "security staff" who are supposedly there to keep the female patrons safe. The staff at nightclubs and concert venues have a front row seat to observe which female customers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:36 PM
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And he probably has a shouty voice and sweats alot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:26 AM
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By "voluntary hardship" he means he will make any woman's life a complete living hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:00 AM
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Thank you for the work you all do! I imagine you probably deal with creepy cyber-stalkers and threats on a regular basis and that takes a really strong person to handle. Some of the guys with a vendetta against this community would be potentially very dangerous if given the chance, so stay safe friends! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:44 PM
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The men who hate this sub have just been giving it the most free advertisement lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:26 PM
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Ah yes, someone's gotta fetch those tendies after all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:18 AM
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Every rich guy I've dated wielded money over my head and I hated having to ask for things or check in on purchases. I earn more than my husband, who is a chef, and he does all the cooking, gardening and domestic stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:10 AM
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For safety's sake I haven't engaged on here under my main account but it seems to take a really long time to get flaired and approved. I understand though, the mods definitely have their hands full dealing with what I imagine is a constant stream of trolls trying to harass and infiltrate the sub. From what I've seen on the mAnOsPhErE subs they are completely obsessed with FDS, it seems like we are mentioned in some form on nearly every post or comment section. Hell hath no fury like a scrote tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:40 AM
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Typically you have to pay a fee to do a thorough investigation but I think for the sake of safety and peace of mind it is worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:54 PM
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I'd screenshot the conversation and send it to his wife before blocking him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:47 AM
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There is no sum of money I can think of that adequately compensates for something so destructive and invasive to a woman's body and emotional well being. I once had a gay couple at a bar that didn't even really know me tell me they'd pay me $15,000 to be their surrogate and I just laughed at them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:25 PM
106

Meanwhile they are entrenched in their mother's basement brain dead on video games and porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:17 PM
1

It's like their goal is to look like an obscene human Bratz doll, with weirdly disproportionate floating orbs for breasts and buttocks. It looks clownish as hell lol! Men claim to like the "natural look" yet these women are followed by armies of thirsty scrotes frantically fondling their lil peenies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:12 PM
1

They only give a shit about it when it comes close to "their property" though. Typical territorial pissing without any effort to be part of the solution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:01 PM
19

Just answer "Oh hey there lil' ole limp dick!" And listen to his howls of indignation. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:37 PM
37

I've been in a rabbit hole lately reading about fundamentalist mormon polygamous cults and words can't describe the level of abuse they go through. One of my favorite books so far is Escape by Carolyn Jessop, that whole world is crazier than I could ever have imagined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:12 AM
53

Women still die in childbirth these days, it is literally one of the most painful, traumatic, and terrifying ordeals our bodies can go through. She is suffering alone because of something HE DID to her and he thinks that shit's funny. I hope he loses everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:05 AM
63

This is an excellent point, women often don't realize how living with abuse can have far reaching neurological effects!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:54 AM
24

Well you need to fix the root of the problem sis. This behavior is threatening and intimidating, destroying inanimate objects is often a precursor to physical abuse. You're on the right sub, many of us have experience leaving toxic men and can advise you how on how to proceed. I worry for your safety and happiness if you don't get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:49 AM
68

I could be wearing a flour sack with a clown wig on and my husband tells me I look great. On one hand it's nice to not have to dress up for his sake but at the same time if I'm going to make the effort to look good it's nice to have some sincere acknowledgement of my efforts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:54 AM
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