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Don’t worry all you need is your kids man. You got this.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/20 01:00 PM
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I have them everyday, but I want to guaranteed my days off if she switches jobs or something happens. Believe me my kids are my life.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/19 08:24 PM
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Why not one kid for both?? Is there a bigger tax advantage of having two? Instead of one?
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/19 02:23 AM
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I think she doesn’t qualify for that we were only married 3 years
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/19 02:23 AM
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Yeah I stay far away from alcohol. But it’s hard I atlest drink once a month like 4 beers. I say drink if you can have it under control.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/19 10:48 PM
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It’s hard. Especially when they are small because the kids truly enjoy the holidays. Like right now my little one is all pumped for Christmas, saying she want to bake cookies for Santa and make a ginger bread house. I’m with you and keeping busy it’s hard to not have your kids on your mind. But I usually go work out, work on my house, haven’t really gotten to watch much tv for my self since my kids have cartoons playing in the background (coco is playing non stop). I’m also watching on how I spe…
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/19 10:47 PM
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I do face time, on some occasions like yesterday, they were excited for Halloween and their costumes.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/19 07:54 PM
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I’m with you man. I just needed to hear it from other people that are in the same position.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/19 02:45 PM
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Yes, that was my first though; missing special moments and not waking up to your kids every day kinda thing.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/19 02:44 PM
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Thanks. That’s the problem I need a good lawyer. Since I’ve never been divorced. I think my case is a little complicated I work 4pm to 230 and she gets her schedule rotated. But she’s in the morning shift right now. But my shift is alway the same and holidays always off
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/19 06:42 AM
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We just recently separated and I think she hasn’t taken them in for check ups. I’ve taken them in when one was sick. But i have them majority of the time right now and when we were together I was the one taking care of them the most. For instance today, I told her I wasn’t comfortable her taking the kids in dates, when she barely knows the guy. I gave her the option of her cancelling her date with this guy and she said she will leave the kids and I asked her multiple types. So she left them to m…
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/19 01:14 AM
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I meant how does the court decide who will have custody? In my eyes I’ve been more with the kids but she thinks the same and wants full custody.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/19 12:50 AM
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Yeah. I have little girls and I’m more emotionally attached to them. So it hurts like hell when I don’t see them. We’ve been separated for about 6 months. And I’m barely stated the divorce and it’s stressful because idk what she’ll ask for.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/19 12:22 AM
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Haven’t started the process yet. But now my ex is changing the days she wants. And I think she’s just doing it so she gets more money through child support. How does the child decide custody?
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/19 12:18 AM
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Yeah no kidding, I just received a proposal for child support for $850. I just hay that my kids have to transition so fast from not having me to another guy that she barely met. And I have the kids most of the time. I don’t know if I should get a lawyer and see if he can lower my payment!
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/19 08:26 AM
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Do you get the feeling of feeling angry?
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/19 10:54 AM
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I feel your pain. The years you were committed ending in a blink of a second and just to think of it was all a waste. But life lessons were learned, well hopefully.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/19 10:51 AM
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I feel you man I want her back but deep inside i kinda don’t it’s a hard struggle especially when you have kids. But I just tend to look at the negative things she’s done and focus on me and move forward. But I get it some days are harder then other. I still feel pain but it will go away.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/19 11:37 AM
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I’m dreading this moment. Stay strong
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/19 09:15 AM
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Man that’s exactly. What my ex does. But it’s the opposite she would leave early morning when the kids are sleeping ( just to hang out with “friends”). And my kids are just 1 and 3. And I have to be there with them. But when she comes home I take care of the kids and she just sleeps through the whole day. And I can’t even go to the gym like I used to. It’s annoying. That she can’t focus on the kids. I also can see who she talks to on the phone bills since I’m the one paying for it ant have seen …
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/19 05:34 AM
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I agree with you. About throwing every excuse in the book. She told me that I didn’t buy the kids clothes but when I do buy it she’s says there ugly. And she doesn’t look for the fact that I paid her car insurance for 3 damn years, maintenance and bought her new tires just last year. She said that I also I didn’t care about her. Which is bs. So guys be prepare. They are just trying to make us feel like shit. I think some women can’t handle being tied down by a family or having a relationship wit…
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/19 03:44 AM
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I as well am going through this. There’s no way to change it if she has told you she wants out it’s serious. My wife said the same thing. This sucks I know. I can’t decide what to do either. All sorts of emotions as well and overwhelming for sure. But she’s probably in the early stages of talking to other guys over the phone. And trying to go to the next stage.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/19 12:58 AM
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