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completely true
/r/seduction23/07/24 07:41 PM
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Well the dating pool situation as you say at my age is really a thing. But still I see many of my friends and people I know with tons of success and I guess a problem of mine was to compare myself to them in the dating aspect.
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:52 PM
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Quitting expecting woman to like me and expecting to have sex. When a expectation is not met we suffer. So instead of doing tons of stuff to make them like me and hope they do I will simply start giving a fuck about they liking or not liking me. My style is also above average and I have even received many compliments from men, women and strangers about it. But style is not really important for this (from my experience).
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:46 PM
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I just moved to a new city 2 years ago and have more friends than my past city (when I was younger)
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:28 PM
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In my country and more specifically social group/community, approaching looks lame and desperate. All my female friends tell me that being approached makes the guy look tacky and is showing too much availability. I don’t know anybody locally that has had a successful cold approach. So no cold approaches is not even something I thought about trying. Ive even seen women being the ones that if they cold approach they mostly get what they want but they almost never do it.
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:22 PM
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That may be our biological purpose but its not our life purpose
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:06 PM
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This is what I mean. Will do!
/r/seduction23/07/24 04:58 PM
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prob gonna hit the gym now
/r/seduction23/07/24 04:53 PM
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The quitting explanation is so true. But what I came to realize is that I should just take the time I invested in seduction to something else. Time is limited here, so might as well invest my time in to more beneficial things.
/r/seduction23/07/24 04:50 PM
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I have many friends and tbh really good social skills but when it comes to the sex part (seduction) I just don’t exist.
/r/seduction23/07/24 04:41 PM
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everybody my age have had millions of experiences with women in general so it cant be an excuse
/r/seduction23/07/24 04:22 PM
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I mean your right but if they are in the phase of getting to know each other the chances of her having a turn off is way more likely. Why would she like to date a man without confidence? She is not in love yet so its not hard for her to just dip. I get your point but Im not sure about it in this situation. Plus, my experiences with women being really cold is a lot so its just my opinion.
/r/seduction11/07/24 04:00 AM
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she’ll probably just have a turn off and dump him if he tells her about it
/r/seduction10/07/24 06:27 AM
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Stop obsessing over having game and focus your energy on something else. Also, cold approaches for me are useless. Its hard finding a genuine and cool connection with somebody. Make plenty of friends so they can present other people to you.
/r/seduction05/06/24 12:59 AM
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It could've been anything. Don't overthink it. She was probably just fucking around.
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:43 AM
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Stop worrying about that. Maybe its something about self esteem that they can somehow sense.
/r/seduction22/04/24 04:27 AM
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As you say I'm going to try once more. If the same happens I'm out.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:44 AM
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Yeah I'm starting to work on other girls. But this situation had me thinking what happened. I guess I wont really care anymore.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:43 AM
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Yeah that's why I never insist but still end up going nowhere. And about preventing it I really do not know what to do. I usually let them do the chasing, I take care of my masculine frame, I know how to flirt or play with them, I never show neediness or too much availability. It annoys me since I have tried to understand and see what causes them to pull away even in the most unexpected moments but I just cant find why. I'm starting to believe that they just want to hookup once, or use me as a v…
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:56 PM
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It's probably because she wants you to pay attention to her even if she doesn't like you. She thinks you might be a source of validation.
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:56 PM
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If she likes spending time with you then she probably is interested in you. There might be many reasons to which she is doing this. Now it has only happened 2 times so don’t really worry about it. She just might be trying to play it hard or she is just holding back. Try escalating instead of going directly to kiss her. If she’s not letting you escalate then she doesn’t want to. If you keep seeing this behavior then she’s just playing with you. Don’t try or just move on if this is the case.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:32 PM
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good point
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:21 PM
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Alright thks man, I’ll follow your advice the next time I have the opportunity.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:45 AM
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yeah It does make sense but I feel it can kind of differ depending on the girl. Im currently in a situation where this girl has reached out after pulling back and she asked me when would I visit her again, and I told her to visit me first since she lives like an hour away. I just didn’t feel like she deserves me driving far away just so I could see her after she pulled back. Thats why I told her she should do it first as a way to make her demonstrate if she really did want to see me. you know? A…
/r/seduction14/01/22 09:16 PM
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It could be an option but wouldn’t it be that im too available if I tell them to meet up? I say it bc maybe they would think that whenever they pull away they can easily come back and see me, therefore being an available person to them. Also I could probably be more dry after they come back and make them demonstrate that they really want to see me but if they don’t I guess I was just a piece of validation for them idk.
/r/seduction14/01/22 07:46 PM
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Yea I never double text for the same reason, problem is that if they get back to me I don't know if I should continue showing interest or slowly showing I'm losing interest etc.
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:09 PM
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This is why my mood this week is sort of down because some part of me believes what you say and the other part believes on what I think. She did show more interest than I did but her ex really got her fucked up. So at the end she would've ended up in the same situation and my time would of been wasted a lot more.
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:47 AM
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Yeah ik Im just overthinking stuff that really doesnt matter but idk its just the vibe that feels sketchy
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:37 AM
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This sounds more like how to get a girlfriend
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:04 AM
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This is actually a pretty good way to see it
/r/seduction04/10/21 07:42 PM
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Its the complete opposite for me. When I'm energized or my social momentum is on point (social mood/energy) is when girls notice me more. I've also heard before that when you're needy the girls can feel it. They sense this vibe in you that they don't feel attracted to. So I could suggest that whenever you go to a public place don't expect something to happen or girls to just flirt with you with eye contact all the time. Don't try looking for who is making eye contact with you and who is not. It …
/r/seduction14/09/21 01:19 PM
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Try implementing the push/pull technique or basically tease her. You have to be careful bc it depends on the vibe of the conversation. It all depends on where you are, what are you doing, and who is it. I'm actually quite good at conversations and sometimes flirting but my only problem are the cold approaches. I just imagine the situation to be very cringe whenever I approach a girl. I kind of fear that Ill somehow fuck up to the point where I wont be able to approach the same girl again.
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:15 PM
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The same goes for me. I just cant seem to find a way out of this.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:02 PM
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She probably was scared that you would react in some way that would of seemed that you rejected her. This is actually the main reason people don't approach someone they feel attracted to.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:37 AM
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The problem with some guys is that they fear fucking up since they will damage their image to approach her again. At least that happened to me before but I slowly ignored that thought.
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:23 AM
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