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This is awful advice but I suppose true according to your verbage which means success with ANY woman. No, dont lower your standards.
/r/seduction01/12/25 09:02 PM
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Alright bro /: where though? Sometimes I feel night game is too loud. Gym is too awkward
/r/seduction26/06/25 08:04 PM
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Where do you approach?
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:30 PM
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What?
/r/seduction25/06/25 05:00 AM
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It was on her watch /:
/r/seduction24/06/25 09:55 PM
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Dang how many did that take
/r/seduction24/06/25 09:54 PM
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Dm me your profile
/r/seduction22/06/25 10:24 PM
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I’m 29 bro and am more attractive than ever
/r/seduction29/05/25 11:03 PM
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Yo bro you’re most likely not actually an 8
/r/seduction09/05/25 09:13 PM
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I did it for two years. Pursuing women, having numerous casual sexual partners. It was ok. Dont regret it at all. During the time I was happy to be having sex. Had 3 sexual partners who I saw for 1+ year weekly. I could tell they caught feelings for me and thats not a good feeling to take advantage of that. Im in the opposite problem now, I'm down bad. Its interfering with my life a bit, like back when I had multiple sexual partners I wouldnt cross lines with women who were in my friendship circ…
/r/seduction20/02/25 06:00 PM
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https://youtu.be/ibO0SnxqoXE?si=TWTJd738hhVLlN5Z
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:00 AM
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I heard there was an evolutionary reason for this. Like being rejected = you and your bloodline will die off. Being rejected means you can get kicked out of your tribe and die as well. Idk
/r/seduction05/02/25 08:43 PM
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I know a handsome guy who puts in a lot of effort into being handsome. I actually haven’t met a handsome dude who doesnt. But I have met a ton of guys who put zero effort into their looks. And they wonder why they don’t get the results.
/r/seduction30/01/25 05:33 PM
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I can answer privately. Don’t want to publicly judge someone. But if he wanted assessment I’d be open to that.
/r/seduction23/01/25 09:56 PM
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Out of curiosity can I see what you look like? Edit: nvm saw your videos of you playing guitar
/r/seduction23/01/25 09:38 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction22/01/25 08:33 PM
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No, everyone is different. Some women are so secure with themselves that they dont look down on themselves for wanting sex. My last girlfriend made me wait a long time and I do respect that.
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:55 PM
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Yes but he’s automatically jumping into what he thinks the issue is. Guys I’m not having success with girls because I have too much fkboy energy. Like bro that’s not why
/r/seduction26/09/24 11:01 PM
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I think you just have to go in and have a fun date man. Ask them questions and show your interest
/r/seduction26/09/24 05:22 PM
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There is no fuckboy trap. Girls like fuckboy vibe. Lol bro. Yea no. You need to be humbled. The fact that girls aren’t going on dates after first or second tells all. You’re not as good as you think you are. You need to reflect on why you’re not getting more dates and why these girls don’t want to continue dating you. It’s not because you have fuckboy vibes.
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:39 PM
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Get some hobbies
/r/seduction08/06/24 05:01 AM
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Too late. She has a kid and probably a relationship
/r/seduction08/06/24 05:00 AM
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Very easily 🤷🏻‍♂️ I applied bad tactics that probably attracted unhealthy women so don’t take my advice. I just straight up would not contact them unless it was for sex. Most of the time I had 4-5 girls hitting me up at random times. And I’d have 4-5 girls I’d hit up on different days. I’d always plan ahead though. Like ask a day before if they’d like to see each other tomorrow
/r/seduction06/06/24 06:08 PM
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Yes I felt this way with my first girlfriend and ended up breaking up with her. Biggest regret of my life and it’s been haunting me for 4 years.
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:18 PM
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For me when I did this, it was dating apps. And going out. Take on dates, get some drinks, escalate, repeat.
/r/seduction05/06/24 03:59 PM
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Send me a pic of yourself bro I can help
/r/seduction31/05/24 08:01 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction30/05/24 08:26 PM
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Can’t stop it bro, just have to accept it. Only other way is to be brutally honest but even that won’t work. This is one of the reasons I stopped doing casual flings, they always caught feelings for me and it made me feel bad.
/r/seduction29/05/24 07:03 PM
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The fact that you wrote this post only after 6 hours
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:50 AM
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What you think of the Kendrick vs Drake beef bro 🤣 Ah ok, you’re looking a little skinny fat then, got some roundness to your face. I’d say cut while staying high protein to keep muscle mass. According to google there 14% south Asian, 10% Chinese and 45% white? Does that sound right? I’d recommend going to the white spots then, shoot your shot at the girls you like
/r/seduction20/05/24 04:02 PM
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Damn you look good to me bro and 6’4? What’s the percentage of black people where you’re at? Are you specifically into white women? Only thing I can say is I can’t tell if the loose fitted clothing is making you look a bit more skinny fat. You got abs?
/r/seduction20/05/24 03:36 PM
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Let’s see the photo
/r/seduction20/05/24 03:23 PM
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Bruh go maximize your life first
/r/seduction20/05/24 02:28 PM
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How tall are you? Why aren’t you in peak physical shape? Style on point? Grooming on point? Do you have a social friend group?
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:37 PM
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Ehh, I disagree. I think you can attract girls of certain ethnicities. Ethnic groups hang out with one another and have a certain vibe to them. Just match it. Of course there’s outliers, but majority of the time ethnic groups/races have similar vibes to them. Example: hood chicks, lululemon/Starbucks chicks, latinas Of course race isn’t directly attached to these archetypes but generally speaking they are
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:10 PM
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This is the craziest post I’ve read man. Wtf do you mean sexual chemistry? What makes you say that? Also wtf is this post
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:20 PM
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Be confident in it man. Nah I’m focused on my goals, instagram is distracting. You have to do it in a way that doesn’t make them feel bad. I was off instagram for 2 years, people got very defensive when I would say like I’m not on it because it’s too time consuming. It was guilty conscience on their end so they’d project shame on to me because they know they likely waste a lot of time on instagram. I just say “It was too distracting for me.” The “for me” is big so you don’t make them feel bad ha…
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:36 PM
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Man. I have personally met the dudes who think this way. I was trying to coach one, it was driving me nuts.
/r/seduction13/04/24 04:42 PM
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There are teens also making millions on social media and streaming. It is what it is. Focus on you
/r/seduction13/04/24 12:59 AM
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Lol. I’m glad you think that bro
/r/seduction12/04/24 08:17 PM
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It may seem obvious to us. But this message can easily be construed like that.
/r/seduction12/04/24 07:27 PM
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"Fairly attractive", how do you know this? But good job man. Do this a couple more 100 times and you'll get way better at it and see a lot of success.
/r/seduction12/04/24 07:15 PM
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I think the biggest thing here is you have to actually go to the pond, get in the boat, bring the net, etc. I dont want men to misconstrue a lot of whats being said here as "Doing less = more women". And then do nothing and expect women. You have to put in work, put yourself in vicinity of women, be social, work on yourself etc.
/r/seduction12/04/24 07:13 PM
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I believe the opposite is true. The more energy you focus on women and attaining multiple women, the more you will get, that’s just facts. You have to be a Chad to not put any energy into getting women and then getting women. When I put myself out there, go out more, ask for more girls instagrams, go on dating apps, I got wayyy more women than now. Where as now I’m focused on my goals and grinding. Not many women. Now yes the more energy and time you focus on women the more time it’ll take from …
/r/seduction12/04/24 06:00 PM
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Yes men and women are different. It’s not hard to understand what women want honestly. Theres countless YouTube videos and channels that detail what women like, you should check em out. What is your goal here
/r/seduction12/04/24 05:56 PM
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You said it yourself in the post “if she’s hot enough”. Now what if a girl likes you but you don’t like her? Friendzone is not only for men. A man can put a woman in the friendzone as well.
/r/seduction11/04/24 09:00 PM
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Why are you trying to dissect this? The friendzone is not for men to understand or accept. It’s when a guy likes a girl and she puts him in her friend zone.
/r/seduction11/04/24 05:04 PM
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I date a bit then make a move, no need to talk
/r/seduction06/04/24 07:30 PM
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No
/r/seduction06/04/24 06:29 PM
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10% body fat at 205lbs. I think what this primarily does is give YOU the confidence. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction26/03/24 02:25 PM
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Manosphere took over which is more real. I think PUA was selling a dream to men. The new manosphere is about leveling up.
/r/seduction26/03/24 02:24 PM
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6’1, 205 lean 10-12% body fat
/r/seduction21/03/24 10:28 AM
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So? You have to socialize to hit on girls. Either way, men should absolutely pursue a woman who they know has a common interest. I feel women should be more open to it as you know this man has a hobby, has discipline, shared lifestyle. But I digress, I can’t tell women how to feel.
/r/seduction20/03/24 03:54 PM
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Friendly reminder to all readers. You should absolutely hit on girls at the gym. Dgaf. It’s a public setting. Why should two people who have a common interest/passion/lifestyle not be talking to one another? Even if just friendly? Doesn’t make sense.
/r/seduction20/03/24 03:14 PM
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Foh
/r/seduction20/03/24 03:13 PM
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What’s your height? Send me a pic to dm ill help you out
/r/seduction20/03/24 12:17 PM
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If you want help dm me a pic and I’ll help you out What’s your height?
/r/seduction20/03/24 12:36 AM
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How many women have you been with bro?
/r/seduction20/03/24 12:33 AM
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Focus on making money bro
/r/seduction20/03/24 12:27 AM
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It was dating apps for me. Maximize as much as possible
/r/seduction20/03/24 12:26 AM
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Have you used bumble or hinge?
/r/seduction19/03/24 05:54 PM
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Jesus man 135 at 6'1? Yes gym would alter your entire life. I am not exaggerating. I was a skinny kid, more like 150-160 at 6'1. After putting on muscle, the whole world treats you differently.
/r/seduction18/03/24 03:22 PM
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This is what I personally believe. I believe it all boils down to primal things. Women want men who are bigger and can protect them and provide for them. That’s primal. Back before civilizations n shit, a man needed to protect a woman from predators, especially in her most vulnerable state, pregnancy. Translates to today.
/r/seduction15/03/24 04:12 PM
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What is this dumbass post man
/r/seduction14/03/24 05:45 PM
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No I still want children. I just have to find a woman that is most tolerable. There are still many traditional women in my culture as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 01:15 PM
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No dinner dates. Just go on the first date with the intentions of getting to know her. Then ask for a second one
/r/seduction08/03/24 02:11 AM
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Good shit bro
/r/seduction08/03/24 01:51 AM
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I’m just an outsider looking in man. Am brown too but Latino brown haha. I have noticed when I go out I see groups of Indian men flocking together. Even on trips I’ve noticed group of Indian dudes. Rarely do I ever see Indian females out and about. And rarely do I see Indian men grouped up with Indian females. Like other ethnicities you’ll see friend groups mixed with male and female. What’s up with that? Just curious
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 06:11 PM
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“Would you like to grab a drink together?” Also barcades are great
/r/seduction05/03/24 06:05 PM
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Don’t do dinner dates. Anything, mini golf, bowling, art museum, out for drinks/dancing, festivals, concerts etc
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:25 PM
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Testosterone There’s a reason there is post nut clarity
/r/seduction03/03/24 05:52 PM
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Why tf would you ask those questions jackass
/r/seduction14/02/24 05:03 AM
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Boy
/r/seduction13/02/24 10:11 PM
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Fk em. You’re a man. A man should never be ashamed for pursuing a woman, it’s what keeps the human population going
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:06 PM
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Soln: Dont move to San Francisco
/r/seduction09/02/24 10:11 PM
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I wake up and have 2 breakfast burritos: 2 egg wholes, 3 egg whites, 2 extreme wellness wraps, one slice of turkey bacon in each, and some low fat cheese. Last time I calculated this was like 50-60g protein Maybe like 3 hours later I have protein oatmeal with berries and nuts Then I have one meal usually a protein source, rice or potatoes for carbs, and some veggies At night I usually do one protein shake around 40g protein. Or sometimes a meal instead similar to first meal So like rougly 150-18…
/r/seduction09/02/24 10:09 PM
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Not entirely false. I'd say $125k is the new $100k because of inflation. Definitely not $200k This is such a priveleged/spoiled comment to make though. $100k gets you far and richer than most. Average salary in US is $60k
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:20 PM
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Why though? Are you from US?
/r/seduction09/02/24 04:48 PM
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Send me physique pic
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:50 PM
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What are you doing in France?
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:47 PM
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You can get there man. Just takes consistency and discipline. How much older we talking? Ping me I can help you out
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:42 PM
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No but in my humble opinion, unless you do calisthenics or all body weight workouts, this is just a general baseline for a really good physique. If you can do those numbers at 12% body fat you will have a damn good physique, that is with 100% certainty. You’re probably skinny. As far as looksmaxxing goes if you wanna be maxed out while skinny you gotta be tall like 6’1+. A short skinny dude is unattractive to most women. Post your physique though This is mine when I was 12% body fat: https://img…
/r/seduction09/02/24 06:20 AM
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Is your fitness on point? 12% body fat with bench 225, squat 225, deadlift 315? Shoulder press 135? Is your fashion on point? Different outfits for different occasions from casual to upscale? Also need to get your emotional state in check. Plenty of youtube videos and books for that. There are plenty of youtube videos man, dont need to spend $2k until you have all the things above, and even then there’s other things you can do before needing a coach
/r/seduction08/02/24 10:18 PM
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I personally think its better to go to hers. You can leave when you want vs having someone around who you have to kick out.
/r/seduction07/02/24 06:11 PM
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Uhm yes there are. They’re also lurking, they have their own platforms and content too
/r/TheRedPill02/12/23 05:49 PM
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Lol. 6’5 already puts you ahead bro. You’re playing on easy mode
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 01:13 PM
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Me
/r/seduction22/09/22 10:13 PM
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I think what’s more important is you’re in shape. You’ll attract someone that’s into the same stuff as you if that is what your portray
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:39 AM
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Bruh fk what they’re talking about. Go up and chat a girl up. Ask her questions about her class. They have no idea what they’re talking about. I know a girl who was standing in line to buy a clicker at the university bookstore and the guy in line behind her made conversation with her and got her number. They’ve been together for 9 years now.
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:29 PM
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He hasn’t lied yet
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:46 PM
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The Weeknd - call out my name Drake - come thru
/r/seduction25/08/21 06:49 AM
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Who cares about what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:00 PM
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I found multiple from dating apps. Unfortunately it doesn’t seem like being upfront about it will find you anything. I got mine from hanging out first, having drinks etc. Inviting over to my place and pursuing sex. Afterwards the girls seem to either want to continue having sex, or they want something deeper that I can’t provide so they end up walking away.
/r/seduction09/08/21 10:09 PM
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How old are you? Height and weight?
/r/seduction26/07/21 06:58 AM
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Interesting
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:49 AM
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I have hyperhidrosis in my palms so I’ve never been able to do this /:
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:55 PM
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Idk bruh. Men need to take their power back. Stop being fkn simps. Too many men allow themselves to be orbiters. There’s an abundance of orbiter simp men, which is why women collect them. But also idk, just level up and you’ll be fine. Level up in every aspect, your scent, fashion sense, body, grooming.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:30 PM
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If they make them as realistic as possible then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:29 AM
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Feminine All the things you mentioned don’t matter. A woman just has to be physically attractive. The hotter she is, the more she can get away with. How much money a woman makes doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:26 AM
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Uhm no I very much want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 06:14 PM
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Bruh wtf, grab her and makeout more. Grab her hand and put it on your dick. You’re the man, you take charge
/r/askTRP21/01/21 08:39 PM
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Women also can’t grow beards The point is it takes effort to look good. A lot of defeatist losers tell themselves it doesn’t and some people are just good looking. Completely false. Check out the video
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:04 PM
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Disagree. Men go through same amount of effort. Change up their whole diet and workout 5x a week just to look good. I’m in this boat. If you’re a man and you groom well, get a good haircut, dress well you instantly get more attractive. Plus fitness, as well as teeth whitening. Example: https://youtu.be/A4Cq1CV2cfw There’s a lot men can do to become more attractive. A lot of defeatists don’t think so so they don’t even try.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:35 PM
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Same exact boat bro. Just have to keep leveling up. I’m currently in the process of upgrading my fashion. So I’ve been going to the mall a lot. Saving up to get my teeth laser whitened. Thinking of getting tattoos. And of course still hitting the weight room. Scheduling with a friend with a good camera to take high quality pics of me. So I can upgrade my dating profile. Try to level up in every aspect. One thing that I think gets overlooked is posture. I had bad posture and have been working on …
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:18 AM
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Can I see your profile?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:42 AM
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Because of the simps
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:26 AM
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LMR? But thanks. I felt shamed a bit and decided to delete the post lol.
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:39 AM
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Pursuing sex by the 4th date makes me a horn dog? I thought that was a normal timeline. I said it in another comment, but I pursued sex with my ex gf of 3.5 years 4 dates in.
/r/seduction23/10/20 05:32 AM
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ugh 🥴 I was thinking that too, I thought my place was nice for the most part
/r/seduction23/10/20 05:30 AM
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Never thought something was wrong with them. The narrative of the post was more along the lines of what am I doing wrong? I thought it was normal what I was doing because I’ve pursued sex sooner with other girls in the past and they were on board with it. Maybe I’m pursuing sex way too fast? I don’t know. Is it better to not pursue sex so quick? But then when if 3-4 dates is too soon? Even my ex girlfriend of 3.5 years I pursued sex along the same timeline. We had sex two weeks in.
/r/seduction23/10/20 05:22 AM
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Hinge
/r/seduction23/10/20 05:06 AM
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You in a major city?
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:40 AM
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What’s a cuck
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:07 AM
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How old are you? And where do you live?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 10:52 PM
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Da fuq? So you have a short wingspan? Mf u 6’2 talkin about how do I overcome genetic drawbacks 🤣 bruh wtf and you’re white. White men are most desired in the sexual marketplace bro
/r/askTRP22/10/20 08:48 PM
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How tall are you? Isn’t MMA weight driven? So you will always fight someone within your weight class? Not true that tall = long wingspan. Jimmy Butler and Blake Griffin are example of tall guys who don’t have long wingspan.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:44 PM
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Your post sounds full of defeat and excuses. Tyler Herro and Duncan Robinson just balled out in the NBA finals. They are both over 6’6 but they work hard at their craft. The answer is work hard on your craft. MMA? Seems like most MMA fighters are not black? Idk though. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.businessinsider.com/who-are-the-best-fighters-in-ufc-mma-bellator-2020-2%3famp quick google search shows many non-black fighters at the top.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:37 PM
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What is your point?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:17 PM
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Bullshit
/r/askTRP22/10/20 06:49 PM
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Why does no one refer to white people as “whites”, but white people refer to black people as “blacks”? It seems dehumanizing. I’m not black btw.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 06:28 PM
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Only one I have a problem with is #5. I feel like texting in general ruined my previous relationship. Im now against texting for conversation and would rather talk on the phone, or facetime, but the best option is to see each other face to face. I try to keep texting to a minimum. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4qT3tWclX8c&t=3s This video pretty much describes me in my last relationship.
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:50 PM
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I’m going through exactly what you’re going through. I hope you find happiness and a partner that makes you feel loved
/r/seduction17/09/20 02:32 AM
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all of em
/r/askTRP12/09/20 04:35 PM
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https://youtu.be/Ow1-uj0ToVY
/r/askTRP08/09/20 12:11 PM
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I typed a response, but this 1,000%
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:27 PM
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are you in college? are you pursuing a career?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:11 AM
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Any counter points?
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:06 PM
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Same here bro. Before covid it was easier for me to land a date. Lately, as soon as I bring up a date they vanish. My theory is before COVID there was a higher number of girls on dating apps who actually wanted to go on dates. Now that a lot of stuff shut down, the girls who never really used dating apps started using them for validation. When before they’d get validation from going out.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:27 AM
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It probably would lead to a version of the talk. I don’t see why you can’t just say “I wanna take things slow before I get into a committed relationship with someone, as I’ve been burnt in the past.” I feel like that solves all your problems. She’ll be understanding you don’t wanna meet family and she’ll understand you don’t want to enter a committed relationship with her at the moment.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 06:17 AM
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I see. Darn bro. Only thing I can recommend is hacking the brain to release more happy chemicals. Use this time to pick up a new hobby. Mine were guitar and cycling and sitting in nature. Just greatly changes my mood dramatically. Playing guitar is therapeutic and so is cycling as well as just basking in nature. https://imgur.com/a/naNx9Rf
/r/ExRedPill14/08/20 10:49 PM
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Nah man you won’t lose. Say meeting family is very serious to you and you’d prefer not to meet family and friends until you’re more serious. Personally for me, I mean this. Meeting family and friends is a serious thing for me. But for you, she’ll think you actually take her serious and want to see if things will go in that direction.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 09:38 PM
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What’s your major? Thought of getting a job like a bartender?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/20 09:36 PM
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Why don’t you have a job? EDIT: Sorry you said you work. What is your job?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/20 08:57 PM
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This the one ☝🏽
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:05 AM
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I’d build her up, but be careful and don’t over validate as she might take it for granted in the future when she does build confidence. I had a girl who I was with for 3 years. She was shy and awkward initially. I complimented her heavily. I did see her confidence grow as time went on. She started dressing better and wearing more flattering clothes. I didn’t retract. I kept complimenting her and she took it for granted. She Ayesha Curry’d my ass. One day she told me she doesn’t feel pretty becau…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 03:22 PM
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How old are you?
/r/askTRP07/08/20 10:00 PM
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I’m in the same boat as you bro. I have no solution aside from working on myself. Been improving my fashion and fitness so I can be ready when covid is over. Shit hits me sometimes and I get a lil down, but I try to stay positive by hacking the brain. And by that I mean do activities that produce happy chemicals. Seratonin, oxytocin, dopamine, and endorphins. https://imgur.com/a/naNx9Rf I started playing guitar and cycling and it’s helped a lot. Also cycling to a park and just absorbing the natu…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 05:52 AM
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I haven’t approached yet. Only place I go to the is the gym. Just bought a road bike so maybe I’ll start cycling at parks. Been getting choosing signals at the gym but it’s just not in my favor. It’s actually pretty frustrating. Two girls now have done the most obvious choosing signals and it frustrates me because the cards are stacked against me. We’re in the gym one of the most at risk places for covid, and they’re wearing masks, and we need to social distance.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 05:01 AM
7

Idk bro. Thirstiness turns women off. I was in a situation like this. She told me not this time. I said ok with a smile and I understand. And backed off completely. I thought me backing off would turn her on, so I initiated ONE more time. Same result. She said not this time. I backed off and said ok I understand. And didn’t initiate at all after that. Played it cool. I fucked next time, and the next time after that. No big deal. What helped me is KNOWING that thirstiness turns women off. Could e…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:45 AM
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He might have not been judging you. If I saw a dude cold approach I’d be proud of him and envious that I don’t do that.
/r/seduction05/08/20 05:09 AM
0

Some people take this COVID thing really serious. Just say I respect your boundary but I refuse to live my life in fear. And agree to see her in 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 09:49 PM
2

I say get a computer science degree and then in the summers you can do paid internships that typically pay $20+ an hour
/r/askTRP30/07/20 04:19 AM
2

Appreciate u king 👑
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:08 AM
6

Drop the weight and rep out to failure
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:08 AM
9

You’re a product of the people you surround yourself with bro. Your friends sound like fuckin lames. I vote to cut em off. You got 20 G’s and no car? Bro, get an old Honda Civic or Toyota Camry for a couple G’s. Yeah you definitely need to eat more. Eggs are cheap, chicken is cheap. You can make gains on a budget.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:53 PM
3

I don’t know bro. There’s no reason to go that extreme. What country are you living in? I got a BS in computer engineering. This was before red pill. I was solely driven off the fear of not amounting to anything in life and working at a fast food restaurant my whole life. Work on your time management. I went to school full time, studied all the time, hit the gym at least 3x a week, and still hung out with my friends while working night shift jobs on the weekends. No need to intentionally isolate…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:26 PM
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You have to switch it up. I couldn’t break 215 for a while doing 6-8 reps. Couldn’t bench 225 for reps. Dropped to 185 for 12-15 reps for a couple weeks then was able to bench 225. Also add drop sets. Plus you have to eat a lot, your body needs fuel.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:11 PM
6

It’s in your biology to be attracted to pretty girls As for your problem. Maybe you aren’t busy enough in life
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:23 PM
3

The guys the young girls want have a lot of options so those girls end up getting played.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:59 PM
2

That’s your problem. Get a 6 pack and you won’t be dealing with this bs. Not BECAUSE of the 6 pack. But from lowering your body fat to a point where you internally feel amazing. Your face slims down and your jaw looks more defined. Feel like you’re on top of the world for accomplishing gym goals. Working toward something. All of the above.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 06:26 PM
3

You NEED to hit the weight room bro. At least 5x a week. Change your diet to consist of vegetables and protein. Meal examples: Chicken rice and beans Chicken Brussel sprouts and potatoes Ground turkey chili Salmon veggies and mashed potatoes For breakfast eat eggs everyday with oatmeal. Protein shake every day. Be honest right now. What do you look like? Body frame, weight and height. I have a gut feeling you don’t have 6 pack abs nor bench and squat 1.5x your body weight
/r/askTRP17/07/20 02:08 PM
1

Worthless: The Young Person's Indispensable Guide to Choosing the Right Major https://www.amazon.com/dp/1467978302/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_gfleFb3CYXEPY I recommend reading this book. Saved my life when I was 18
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:58 PM
1

Deadlift, squat, bench press
/r/askTRP16/07/20 04:06 PM
1

I got you bro, I won. You have to lick my balls now
/r/askTRP15/07/20 11:59 PM
2

ligma balls
/r/askTRP15/07/20 06:26 AM
1

I don’t think you comprehend ligma bro
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:24 AM
3

Everyone is saying unicorns don’t exist, and abundance mindset blah blah. You found a rare girl bro. Not many girls out here virgins. According to TRP women have sex readily available and fuck plenty dudes whenever they want. But you found a girl that contradicts that.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:07 AM
7

I watched once upon a time in hollywood and thought Brad Pitts character had a strong frame
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:58 PM
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Idk. I’m just not buying any of it. Having a healthy strong relationship has always been their image. They might not even be married but just put on a show for the people. I don’t believe it. I think it’s as you said. August came out and ruined that image so they had no choice but to speak on it. Their image of a healthy relationship makes them money. It gave Jada the platform she has. Them being so strong in their marriage is the reason people tune in to the red table talk, because it gives Jad…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:02 PM
0

Where you live?
/r/askTRP12/07/20 02:44 AM
2

Hasn’t worked for me either in the app
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:53 AM
17

Chicken is $2 lb. which is roughly 150g a lb. doesn’t get better than that Tuna Ground turkey Eggs And of course whey protein
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:52 AM
7

Personally idc as long as it looks real. Some of these jobs are done so horribly, big ass cheeks with skinny legs it looks ridiculous
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:26 PM
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I never thought of it that way but yeah I think that’s what’s happening. Big booties is the thing now. The natural ones look amazing. The surgically enhanced ones look awful, big butt cheeks with skinny skinny legs. Edit: Idc if it’s surgically enhanced as long as it looks real. Thighs have to be proportionate to the ass. Looks ridiculous when girls have a huge ass and chicken legs. Demi Rose for example
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:33 PM
3

Stand with your chin up and your back straight. That alone makes you feel confident, which shows.
/r/seduction09/07/20 03:46 AM
3

I feel like asking for affection can come off as neediness which turns women off. It’s always been said, even before red pill, that women are attracted to confidence and turned off by neediness. I too have been fucked up by red pill and am afraid to ask for affection. But in the past I’ve been so needy and for a period of time my girl was absolutely repulsed by me. It wasn’t until I started focusing on myself working out, hanging out with my boys, and pursuing other hobbies that I didn’t have to…
/r/ExRedPill08/07/20 10:43 PM
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Idk bro. I feel like everyone’s grilling you pretty hard. From the conversation you posted it looks like she texted you first, which is a sign of interest. You acted on it by inviting her to hang out, and she didn’t reciprocate. Not a big deal, hard next her and that’s it. She may have lost interest for whatever tf reason.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 10:15 PM
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Just do what you feel bro. If she loses attraction because of it then pull back a little bit. I was very very very in love with my girlfriend. Omfg I cringe at it. I gave her so much validation. Always telling her she’s beautiful, like every chance I got. I kid you not. She started feeling insecure about her looks, and actually told me it was because she wasn’t getting attention from other men. She said me telling her she was beautiful was like her parents telling her she was beautiful. She actu…
/r/ExRedPill08/07/20 10:07 PM
2

Lifting for me increases my confidence. Also I never got women until I started lifting. And all the girls I’ve been with drooled over my muscles. So idk, I love lifting. Thankfully I enjoy it. I enjoy the process, I enjoy the actual exercises, feeling my muscles swell up “the pump” I also enjoy seeing my body change as a result of my workouts and diet. Never gonna stop, if my body allows it. It is true hella dudes will be all over you asking about your muscles. Whatever. Doesn’t mean girls won’t…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 04:21 PM
3

Accreditation
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:13 AM
1

Nice Are people not wearing masks?
/r/seduction06/07/20 09:39 PM
2

Where are you doing this?
/r/seduction06/07/20 05:34 AM
4

Do you consider yourself sexually attractive? Do you maintain a masculine frame with your girl? Do you constantly practice self improvement? I think if you work on yourself, dread would work on her.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:12 PM
2

Nice man that’s motivational lol Do you have/want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 11:21 PM
2

How old are you bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:27 PM
4

Lol
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:00 AM
7

I don’t think a man would settle for a girl when he thinks he could do better. Which tells me you aren’t a 9, but think you are.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:01 AM
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Why are you considering dating this girl? Post pics of yourself. Cause nah bro. If you’re a true 9 your options would be ridiculous, to settle for a girl that you claim is 6/10 just shows you’re not 9/10.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:49 PM
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You’re not a 9/10 if you’re considering dating this girl.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:44 PM
3

How are you doing this in the middle of a pandemic?
/r/seduction02/07/20 10:31 PM
7

Yes at age 20 I was incredibly lonely. I was a lonely sap, sad that I couldn’t attract girls. Felt like no one wanted me and I’d never find a girlfriend. Pretty dramatic at that age looking back at it lol. I had never had a girlfriend before that. I wanted intimacy badly. Which is weird cause I never had it before, I was longing for companionship. I was longing for my person to share my life with. Finally got a girl I fell in love with, fell deeply in love with her. Some of the happiest years of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:39 PM
1

You’ve been approaching during quarantine?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:48 PM
1

Yeah it’s a paradox. Personally, I’d say don’t wonder around. Do things where women are there organically. Like the mall, or coffee shop. You’re not old enough for bars yet but if you’re in school just go up to a girl in class. Or girl walking around. Have you seen “how to beast” YouTube channel? He’s good too. Good tips from him. He doesn’t have the same mindset as AMS when it comes to cold approaching. It’s good to listen to multiple ideologies. Personally, I’d say don’t look like you’re wande…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:26 AM
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I sprinkle red pill mindsets/ideologies in conversation. Another one of my closest friends does the same and has actually done that for a long time, so lately I’ve been wondering if he’s up on TRP. I’ll never ask though.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 03:46 AM
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Wrong video, my bad, this one sounds like what youre going through: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b6SBwS21OI4&t=793s Skip to 5:25. He talks about being in a hungry state. It resonated with me. 6:45 he describes what a hungry state is. 11:00 is what I think you should listen to12:00 is funny and also i think is important It basically boils down to looking thirsty and not confident and not calm. Always having wondering eyes looking around looks unconfident and thirsty and that is huge attraction…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 10:22 PM
1

The video is good though
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:53 PM
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You should post a picture of yourself. Also watch this https://youtu.be/kGpooiL8V-g
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:21 PM
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I don’t even wanna have that conversation with my future partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:09 PM
2

That’s a slippery slope my friend. Don’t think you should look at guys as below you. I used to have that mindset. I don’t think you’d look at Leonardo DiCaprio as below you. Some guys might have hella money and or status and think it’s funny that you feel so much better than them because you have abs, some guys simply don’t care.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:43 AM
1

I feel like it’s important man. I find it hard to believe a dude with a solid set of abs would be feeling sorry for himself. The body fat percentage needed to have a 6 pack is so low it would be noticeable all over the body, it would be noticeable that said person is in excellent shape. The face especially. The confidence you get when you have abs is ridiculous. Most of these dudes complain on here and think they’ve maximized their self improvement when that’s rarely the case. And yeah I agree h…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:26 AM
3

You got 6 pack abs?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 05:31 AM
1

I’m 24. I play mostly frank ocean, Daniel Caesar, some drake The girls I go for usually like that music but it’s the music I love
/r/seduction06/06/20 09:33 PM
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Nice bro. At least you’re getting it. Make sure you’re getting enough protein and calories and carbs a day. Diet is critical to building muscle and strength. Just hate when people say self improvement doesn’t work when they haven’t accomplished what I mentioned in the previous comment. Once that’s accomplished, I promise you getting women is easy.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:03 PM
1

This will be me soon bro /: just broke up with my ex. Gonna miss the fuck out of her especially having sex with someone whom I’m extremely physically attracted to. Need to start going out ASAP.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:38 PM
2

Worthless: The Young Person's Indispensable Guide to Choosing the Right Major https://www.amazon.com/dp/1467978302/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_x992EbEQDC0RC This book saved my life when I graduated high school. I was an aimless 18 year old kid with no plan. I read this book and studied electrical engineering. I’m now a computer engineer making $75k. I credit this book
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:25 PM
2

Are you shredded? Have a 6 pack? Bench 225 for reps? Squat 225 for reps? Deadlift 315 for reps?
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:17 PM
1

Ahhhhhhh I see. I’ve had two girls with kids try to get at me, they see me as a provider That’s cool anyway bro 👍🏽
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:25 AM
1

Damn bro how’d you get a 22 year old? I’m 24 and get anxiety sometimes that I’m running out of time. Glad to hear I’m not
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:15 AM
1

I’ve never approached a girl. Like seriously never have. All the girls I’ve gotten in my life came to me. Not a humble brag, I’ve always had approach anxiety. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and now that I’m out of college I think I have to approach or else I won’t get any girl ever. The other girls I got i met through my social circle. I moved cities and now have no social circle. Kind of nervous and excited
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:10 AM
1

What country are you in?
/r/seduction05/06/20 03:08 PM
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Just take from it what’s important to you and what would add value to your life. Self improvement is big time. I promise if you work ok your appearance by going to the gym, working on your fashion, hygiene, etc, you’ll find a girlfriend
/r/ExRedPill05/06/20 04:24 AM
2

Agree 1,000%. It is a righteous protest. If she wants to go he should support her, and she should support his decision to not want to go.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:46 PM
1

Dudes stronger than me in the gym I understand the time and commitment they have to have to becoming that. I’d never feel negatively about them. I know what it took them to achieve that. I used to be super jacked at 17-19. Weight lifting was my entire life. That got depressing, and I never ever feel any type of way when people are jacked af, cause I know I wasn’t really happy when I was jacked af.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:29 PM
1

How so?
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:51 PM
1

Interesting, never really listened to him besides his old school classics which were about love
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:44 PM
1

Yes, I need to stop listening to it, I’m looking for music recommendations, hoping someone on here had a playlist they’d share. And I agree. I listen to Metallica most of my workouts
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:44 PM
1

huh
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:42 PM
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This used to happen to me all the time before I discovered red pill. My blue pill beta behavior made my girl unattracted to me, constantly denying me sex and head. Once i started working on myself, stayed in better shape, better clothes, better grooming etc etc, stopped being needy, and stayed in my masculine frame, this stopped happening.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:54 PM
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Appreciate that bro, thanks
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:47 AM
2

Same here. Except with my last girlfriend. A lot of beta shit I did
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:46 AM
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Mind me asking how old you are and why you say that? It’s just that sometimes I get the feeling like I’m running out of time and I need to settle down and start a family soon. Which means find a girlfriend soon because we need to date and I need to vet her. I do want a family in the future. I know you’re not supposed to put timelines on things but 30 years old for my first kid seems ideal. Would like to hear mindsets of the contrary belief.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:49 AM
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I really wish I found red pill when I was 17-18. Shit even 16. But if I found it at 19 my life would be so different. Did a lot of blue pill shit from age 19-23, before I found red pill. A lot of bitch made shit. I was too pussy to approach girls, didn’t know girls were shit testing me when they were, didn’t practice self improvement, stayed home with my parents when I could’ve moved out way sooner. Still glad I found it, now 24. Better late than never.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:15 AM
2

respect dawg but for real though I need to practice that as well, acknowledging my self worth.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/20 09:32 PM
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I see what you’re saying. I interpreted what OP was saying as, he finds it hard to trust that women are with him for him or women are with anybody for who they are. He assumes all women are either with their man because of how physically attractive the man is or because the man has resources that women want. He said he does well with women.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/20 08:50 PM
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I had to acknowledge the times I lost frame when trying to understand frame. Frame is just your energy whatever that may be. You might have a goofy frame, a serious frame, etc etc. But it’s your frame. When someone gets you out of your frame, that’s when you don’t have a strong hold of your frame. Example, you’re in a good mood, your girlfriend gets mad at you for something and then your emotions switch to match hers, she yells at you and now you’re yelling at her, you’re now in her frame. If yo…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:07 PM
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You don’t. You accept it and try to become what women want, assuming you want to be attractive to women. I’m shallow and I’ve accepted that. I think most men are. We’re mostly attracted to looks. So I understand if women’s attraction to me is shallow. What does it mean to be attracted to “you”? What do you want a woman to be attracted to? What defines “you”? And why do you want a woman to be attracted to that?
/r/ExRedPill18/05/20 05:53 PM
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No. All men want an attractive girl. I can’t be mad that a girl didn’t want me at my worst because no one would want to date someone at a persons worst. At my worst I was a skinny fragile kid who was super dorky, really terrible posture, lacking in any kind of confidence. Didn’t take care of my body or face and lacked a sense of style. I wouldn’t want to date the female equivalent of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:46 PM
1

I live by myself. I think of all the money I’d save if I had a roommate. Still want a roommate, but I don’t know anyone in the city where I live.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:02 AM
1

How does your body look? Are you shredded?
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:28 PM
0

Sounds like the bottom line is looks matter. Most dudes need to invest in their looks and they’ll see more results. Also. Did you always go out with other people?
/r/seduction02/05/20 08:28 PM
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Practice makes perfect One thing for me is not to get excited and change rhythm when she’s getting close to cumming. Usually when my girl is closer to cumming I get excited and therefore go faster and harder and I blow it. Just keep a steady pace
/r/askTRP02/05/20 03:38 AM
1

A beta bitch Jk. Luckily I saw tons of beta behavior growing up and it disgusted me. Dudes getting played and simping for chicks. Before red pill my biggest beta qualities were my lack of masculinity and lack of game and lack of understanding of girls. I always had hunches that women were into certain things like guys that are douchebags, status, and money. After discovering red pill it confirmed these hunches. I never held frame with my girl EVER. ALWAYS being in her frame. She lost so much att…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:23 AM
1

I’ve been into milfs since I was like 12
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:31 PM
1

I feel like TRP has been blowing up lately. I see a lot of dudes obsessing over alpha and beta and now simp is going viral.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 06:16 AM
0

Know what is true? Not really understanding what “mocked as a fantasy” is trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:12 PM
0

Ehhh kind of. Don’t agree with 100% with all of red pills teachings. Some of the stuff taught I think is valuable and useful to men. So no, to answer your question.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/20 06:02 AM
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He’s the GOAT Ok jk, but not really. What he preaches is what has saved my life and improved my relationships with women. Stay on your grind, work on yourself, are his basic philosophies. Which I agree with.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/20 05:47 AM
1

How’d you meet this girl bro?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:07 AM
2

What’s more important is how you responded to her declining this. The answer is to just withdraw attention. Not completely withdraw but drawback on how much attention you give her and how often you respond to her texts etc. She’ll start acting right when you do this.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 12:43 AM
1

Earlier you said I’m an ESE and not a software dev. A software dev is literally someone who develops software. You are correct tho I definitely need to have more fun when talking about my job.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 12:32 AM
1

I don’t really feel elite. Id say I just make conscious eating decisions. Before quarantine I was training 5-6 times a week. Ive gotten pretty lazy in quarantine, but my diet has been pretty solid still. Did some googles on body fat, I’m definitely not over 13% and I’m definitely not under 11%. So I’d say around 11-13 typically. I’m confident saying I’m 12% body fat. I don’t use any extra supplements or assistance. Just whey protein. Used to do creatine, might jump back on it when gyms open back…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 12:12 AM
1

I literally develop software, so aren’t I a software developer? I just refrain from telling people I’m an embedded systems engineer because no one knows what that is. Maybe I could start saying that which will lead people to asking what’s that? And build convo? Idk. Software dev for electronics makes sense and ppl at least have an idea
/r/askTRP26/04/20 06:52 PM
2

I gotta work on being enthusiastic about it. I’m always sort of embarrassed to say it. I made a comment in an earlier post. But I feel like a lot of 22 year olds kind of feel bad for themselves because they studied 4 years for a degree and can’t find a job. Meanwhile I had a job lined up after college so every time I brought it up I always felt like they kind of felt bad for themselves. I had zero engineering friends in college and post college lol. When I hung out with engineering guys it was a…
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:27 PM
1

I have a bachelors in electrical engineering. I do embedded systems programming. I kind of don’t like saying I’m a software dev cause people imagine apps and websites, but I am a software dev, for electronics.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:24 PM
1

I’m 6’0 205 lbs, around 11% body fat. I’ve never tried to fit the mold of “engineer”. No one ever thinks I’d be an engineer when they meet me. Still working on my fashion, but I think I’m pretty fashion forward. More geared toward street wear.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:23 PM
2

One thing I always sensed, not only from girls but from dudes, is like a sort of self pity? Cause most 22 year olds are graduating college and realizing they can’t find a job with a degree they studied 4 years to get. So when I would say I’m an engineer, I felt like they felt bad for themselves in that moment. Id always feel a shift in the energy. Felt like that had something to do with it too.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:18 PM
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Not me. I’m a computer/software engineer. Girls seem to be turned off by it lol. I don’t bring it up unless it’s asked explicitly
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:05 AM
1

This a book?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:59 AM
4

How does online dating not work for you anymore?
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:58 AM
1

Embrace it bro
/r/askTRP25/04/20 01:41 AM
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I’d say don’t try to entertain people, especially women. Idk really, just chill.
/r/seduction24/04/20 08:41 PM
1

Sounds like a dude posting. Idk tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:39 PM
4

Idk bro. I used to be goofy and corny with girls. Went on a date with this one girl and I said almost nothing the whole date. Kept masculine frame. Ended up with banging twice. This girl knew absolutely nothing about me. Asked nothing about me on dates. She created an image/idea of me in her head and was attracted to that. It was actually sad that this worked. I ghosted her. It isn’t fun to act that way. It’s depressing actually lol. Swallowing red pill is pretty depressing if you’ve had complet…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:37 PM
1

She’s getting old and like others said, hitting the wall soon.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:35 AM
42

Damn bro, that’s fucked up. That’s like banging your bro’s gf, that’s a line I wouldn’t cross. Bro code shit.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:37 PM
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Nice. What kind of hobbies if you mind me asking? I’m trying to branch out and do this. I’m 24 just moved to a new city for a new job and know absolutely no one.
/r/seduction16/04/20 12:41 AM
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How old are you and how’d you make new friends?
/r/seduction15/04/20 08:31 PM
5

Hit the weight room bro. Workout 4-5 times a week. Eat a lot of protein carbs and veggies. Example: Fish rice and Brussel sprouts Chicken green beans potatoes Ground beef with fajita veggies and rice Eat eggs for breakfast. Drink protein shakes. Go to the grocery store once every single week. Every single week. I can tell you don’t workout, so don’t say “I workout already” I doubt it. Get swole and have a 6 pack. I promise she’ll start acting right. Everybody is telling you to drop her. I wouldn…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:02 PM
1

Think you came off butthurt
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:01 PM
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I feel that and I agree 100%. But the general consensus of your post is that you’re an average dude, when you’re far from that. You definitely worked hard to increase a lot of aspects of your life making you way above average. In my opinion you should focus more on the success you got from your self improvement. The vibe of your post is that guys can get the same success as you if they just become confident, when that’s not possible for most average guys. You should be preaching self improvement…
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:07 PM
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What’s the context lol? Like wtf why would someone say that? Alright. Let me ask this. How tall are you and what’s your body build like? I really doubt a swole scary looking mf is getting shit like that
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:38 AM
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That was my point. It'll be harder for the average joe not to have that same insecurity compared to someone who can bang literally any girl on the planet, exaggerating, kind of. ​ But yes, you are correct. There are many guys who rock the baldness and don't try to hide it, they embrace it and look amazing.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:43 AM
1

Lebron James has a legit reason/underlying excuse to be insecure? Like what?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:39 AM
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Don’t see how that’s having a victim mindset. Lebron James is one of the biggest athletes in the world and he’s unhappy with his balding, that tells me there’s no hope for the average guys. I’m not balding by the way, yet. Hopefully i won’t anyone soon. Was feeling bad for guys that are balding. I agree though. The guys you listed definitely rock the baldness. I stand corrected.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:10 AM
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Examples? Just curious. That seems hella disrespectful for people to just bring up unless theyre like your friends or something.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:48 PM
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Man. That shit makes me sad. Seems like there’s just no solution to balding. All these bald dudes doing everything in their power to hide their baldness. Always wearing hats, then fake hair. Lebron James, one of the biggest athletes in the world, but he’s so insecure about his baldness. Sad, because it just tells me that there’s no hope for average guys. Seems like these big name guys try to embrace baldness but ultimately they don’t like it and would rather have hair /:
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:28 PM
1

Who gives you shit for being bald? Like what situation does that happen? Are these people your friends?
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:18 PM
1

What do you mean by take shit? What’s an example? In what situation don’t you know what to do?
/r/askTRP29/03/20 04:14 AM
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I disagree, those are anomalies. Sure, somebody outwardly disrespects you, I'd get mad. How often does that happen though? If you're constantly being moved out of frame, that's the opposite of maintaining a masculine frame. I'm speaking from a relationship with a woman standpoint. It's an anomaly to be moved out of your frame and it be justifiable.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 04:05 AM
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To me. weak behavior is trying to entertain a girl, arguing with a girl, or getting emotional with a girl. Emotional to me as in angry and upset. That’s weak. Yelling is the weakest one.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 03:43 AM
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What does it TRULY mean? Idk. To me it means being neutral regardless of what’s thrown at you. Not changing your mood/vibe/overall state of being. Example: your girl brings up something that you did that made her mad. Example of a bitch made response: get defensive and start an argument and change your tone of voice to angry and upset. Yelling and stuff like that. She took you out of your frame. Maintaining masculine frame: Staying calm, speaking in a masculine tone and addressing what she said …
/r/askTRP29/03/20 03:41 AM
2

100% 👍🏽
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:19 PM
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Bro haha. Idk. This red pill stuff is cool n all but eventually most dudes get married and have a family. I hope when I’m 30 I have a wife who I tolerate and some kids on the way. Take what’s valuable to you from the red pill, would be the best advice I have. For me some of the general messages are what add value to my life, work on yourself, always be improving, masculine frame, not showing weakness/neediness, dread game. Shit like that. Abundance mindset. There are perceptions that I believe n…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:18 PM
1

It’s hard but when I was in a ltr I had absolutely no motivation to workout. I was in the worst shape of my life. When I got out I started hitting the gym more frequently, my body was and is amazing right now. I got addicted to the results and seeing my body transform. As for your situation? Idk what to tell you. Why do you want a good body? NOW, I’m in an ltr and through trp I have it engraved in my head that I NEED to be working on myself at all times regardless of whether I’m in an ltr or not…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:22 AM
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How are you supposed to know someone wants more if it was never discussed? The problem is a lot of girls will have sex with a guy and go through the motions then the guy ghosts them. Painting men as evil. But all of that could’ve been solved from the beginning if the person who “wants more” established that they wanted more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 11:08 PM
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“If you know you don’t like someone all that much, don’t sleep with them.” Why? Sex is a mutual act. In that moment we both wanted sex, so we had sex. Why is sex tied to the assumption that a LTR will come from it? The same thing could be applied “if you haven’t established a relationship with the person, don’t have sex with them!” A LTR A genuine attempt at a relationship? If I date someone for 3 dates, I consider that a genuine attempt at a relationship. 3rd date I find out you aren’t the one,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 11:01 PM
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What’s the difference? Both cases you’re ending things with somebody. The line gets blurred when pump n dump isn’t defined. The way I see it, this girl might think I’m “pumping n dumping” her. But in my eyes I’m not because I tried and realized she wasn’t the one for me. I just hate that men get painted as the bad guy in the situation for realizing early on that person isn’t the one for them. There is no difference between that and ending a relationship. Only difference is time spent on the pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 10:57 PM
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Not a dick move to stop being interested in seeing somebody. So is breaking up with a long term SO a dick move? Why? 2 years in you realized that wasn’t the person for you. What’s the difference here? Time? I don’t think it’s a dick move to break up with somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 08:22 PM
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Nah. I disagree with this 100%. When people first start dating they put the best version of themselves in front of you, are shy and hold back their true selves. After knowing them for a bit you start to see them for who they really are and start uncovering things you didn’t see before. Personality traits, beliefs, things like that. I was super excited about this one girl initially, but now I don’t want to see her again. Didn’t have intentions to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 08:20 PM
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Exactly. Idk. If a girl was awesome and we connected and had chemistry why would I want to get rid of that? I started dating this girl last month. First date went well. Second date went really well. Third date was really god awful. I realized by the third date we didn’t have chemistry and I didn’t like her personality and she did a lot of things that completely turned me off. But sex is involved so now I’m an asshole who pumped and dumped this girl? I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 08:16 PM
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Being a woman seems to have so many downsides. Periods, the fact that once a month you have a period that alters your mood, makes you bloated and hungry and you bleed from your vagina. Pregnancy ruins your body is another, and also fear of being infertile. If you don’t get pregnant by a certain age your chances go down of ever having kids. Fear that men only want you to fuck you. Fear that you’ll never find a man. Fear of being raped and stalked by creepy ass dudes. Fear of being murdered and ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 11:24 PM
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Option 1 is so passive aggressive it’s cringey af.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:32 AM
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I don’t understand what your point is. I’m preaching that you should budget and be smarter with money. Are you against that?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/20 10:43 PM
7

Yeah you’re right. I guess in my opinion, getting pussy shouldn’t be the goal. Cause even if it’s not the goal you should still be doing those things anyway. Saving money, establishing good money habits. That’s my opinion though. If you’re fine with being 23 and having no car and living with grandparents than none of what I said matters.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/20 10:37 PM
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Not about slaying puss. These are basic things a young man should be doing. Especially when they don’t have a car and live with grandparents. And extra especially when they use not having a car as an excuse as to why they can’t attain a better job. This advice is not related to slaying puss.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/20 10:29 PM
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You still have yet to acknowledge my advice about budgeting and saving your money. You’re 23 with a full time job, do you have a good credit score?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/20 10:12 PM
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Its all excuses bro. Everything you say is from a defeatist mindset. “That proves that my way didn’t work” Ok. So try a new way. Yeah you can start from humble beginnings. You sound like your path is over which it isn’t. Don’t stop at humble beginnings, you’re 23, keep going. If you pursue a field or a trade that is high paying you will get a good job. I asked you what did you do that you define as “working so hard”? Answer that. What did you do that you define as “working so hard”? You haven’t …
/r/ExRedPill17/03/20 10:03 PM
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I think my mans is trynna say that if you believe women want a man that is top ten percent, why aren’t you trying to become a man that is top ten percent? A lot of dudes just defeat themselves and say “I’m not top ten percent therefore women don’t want me”. Defeatist mindset.
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:29 PM
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I commented on one of your previous posts. “I think people realize you can go through years of self-improvement and still end up with nothing.” Sorry. I don’t think this is true. Pursue a trade or a skill in a high paying field in demand for a couple years and you’ll reap the rewards if you put in the work. “I look back at my younger self working so hard and cringe because I thought it will make dating easier but it hasn't.” What exactly were you doing when you were “working so hard?” “I got tir…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/20 09:24 PM
1

Jesus. What kind of business do you run? If you don’t mind me asking
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:26 PM
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You haven’t explained how it’s weird. You said women are into you for your wealth. I just wanted to know how much wealth makes that happen. How much money does one make before it’s noticeable. Didn’t think it was a weird question, but I guess it is to some.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 04:08 PM
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What’s “weird” about it? Because society has made it that way? For people to ask about money?
/r/askTRP17/03/20 04:04 PM
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It’s really not. How is it “weird”?
/r/askTRP17/03/20 04:02 PM
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Why not?
/r/askTRP17/03/20 04:01 PM
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How much you make?
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:55 PM
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You no longer care about men? I feel like that just makes you normal and non insecure. Insecure would mean that there is a problem, there is no longer a problem. Constantly thinking about how other men perceive you is what’s weird. So I think that just makes you a regular dude now lol. That’s cool though bro. I’m glad you are no longer insecure.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:04 AM
1

Engineer. Just working from home. Shit kinda sucks because gyms are gonna start closing down temporarily. Bars are closed. I’m gonna get really bored. Might pick up video games.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 11:45 PM
1

I sometimes catch myself feeling a panic. Will be 24 soon. I’m scared that all the best women my age are already taken and getting ready to marry and move on to the next chapter of life (marriage, kids, etc etc) and all the women that are available have issues. Am I overreacting? Should I just relax?
/r/ExRedPill16/03/20 10:08 PM
1

https://youtu.be/b6SBwS21OI4 Watch at 11:00
/r/askTRP02/03/20 06:40 AM
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“Many guys feel angry because they did everything they thought was "right" in order to attract women (get good grades, get the work experience, get the corporate job, be a good upstanding citizen) and they felt it gave them no advantage whatsoever with women.” Lol. They did all that work TO attract women? That’s sad. That should be done for yourself not with the intent to attract women. I’m an engineer. My motivation was never to attract women. It was because I didn’t want to be a manager at a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 12:14 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:58 PM
2

I’m jealous of your courage bro, good shit!
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:11 AM
4

Is that how you get inner confidence? Just constantly giving yourself positive reinforcement?
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:54 AM
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I just don’t know WHAT to say. People say don’t be direct. But I feel like a bullshit sales rep trying to have a convo first and then make my pitch. I’d rather say “hey I think you’re cute, can I take you out?” And get straight to the point. Some people say not to do this tho. I lose less time and don’t invest anything.
/r/seduction02/02/20 06:41 PM
1

How many days a week do you do boxing?
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:26 AM
1

https://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/beginning_training_guide.htm
/r/ExRedPill15/01/20 10:28 PM
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https://www.bodybuilding.com/content/transformation-preparation-7-step-beginners-guide.html
/r/ExRedPill15/01/20 10:28 PM
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You’re good looking in the face bro. The beard looks awesome I’m actually jealous since I can’t grow one, you’re tall. I follow both red pill and ex red pill to gain perspective. Some of the red pill stuff is extreme and crazy. But the basic teachings are that you need to work on yourself and improve yourself. You need to find the fire inside you and go to the gym and lose weight and build muscle. Bro, you’re really good looking. Start hitting the weight room 5 days a week, work on your diet, do…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/20 10:21 PM
1

Started working out when I was 16. It was almost immediate. Lot of girls gave me way more attention than ever. Constantly touching my arms and stomach. I was always the skinny kid. Started working out religiously and gained a lot of lean muscle. Worked at a fast food restaurant where all I ate was grilled chicken sandwiches, and egg sandwiches with double egg. 60g protein shake everyday. Working there taught me that you can eat kind of healthy eating fast food, lots of lean protein sources. But …
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:25 PM
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Everyone says not to approach at gym. But AMS approaches at the gym and advocates for it 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction12/01/20 01:19 AM
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I promise you those guys wish they had the balls to go up to girls like that. Good stuff man.
/r/seduction09/01/20 05:54 AM
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I want to say this as nicely as possible. There is absolutely no way in hell an 18 year old MAN would pose as his mom through text talking about her pussy and sexual relations with someone he views as a father figure. She sent those texts.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:43 AM
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So there’s texts of her sending him saying her pussy was throbbing and she’s not admitting to having sex with this dude?
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:35 AM
1

High protein, low calorie. Works for me. And I play basketball a lot. I work 8am - 5pm. Have breakfast in the morning. Lunch at noon. And a 2nd lunch at around 4:30p. All home cooked / meal prepped. Low calorie high protein with some carbs. Usually a protein like chicken breast, or lean ground turkey. I have a variety of meals I swap out so I don’t get tired of eating the same thing. But my meals are usually a serving of veggies, a serving of carbs like rice or potato and protein. Gonna start in…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 09:16 PM
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I started my fitness journey with my friends at age 17. I got buff. I still had the same core group of friends so nothing really changed. When I went to college I still made other friends. Idk man no one has ever been salty toward me. If anything I got nothing but positive recognition from guys. Asking what workouts I do, how do I eat, stuff like that. I’m not saying what you’re saying isn’t valid. Maybe take a step back and view how your attitude and interactions are with these guys. One of the…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:11 PM
1

Sounds like things are going well for you my guy. 6’5 and have two businesses. She might have told her friends about how gorgeous that other dude is but she definitely raves to her friends about how awesome you are. Dude might have a cute face, but that’s just one factor. If she’s doing everything to try and please you it sounds like she already sees how valuable you are. I guarantee if you drop down to 12-15 BF% you’ll feel amazing and hella confident. I always do. I’m at about 10% and maintain…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:10 PM
3

You sound like a catch bro. She probably feels like she hit a major upgrade with you. You fear you might compare yourself later? Ehh it sounds like you blow this dude out of the water, only thing is he might have a better looking face but that’s not enough to get insecure about. What’s your body fat percentage?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:08 PM
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Go harder in the gym and go harder on your diet. You said you have man boobs and a belly. I promise you won’t feel insecure when you lose that.
/r/seduction08/01/20 04:03 PM
1

It’s annoying. A coworker of mine told me he married his girl at 18. I’m 23 and been with mine for 3 years. He asks “when are you waiting for?” I just say “I haven’t planned it out yet.” Usually kills the conversation. I’m sure they start to think in their head I have money problems and can’t afford a proper marriage or something. But yeah all my coworkers are very blue pill. I’m 23 so it’s socially acceptable not to be married. Id imagine being older, the questions would probably be a lot more …
/r/askTRP07/01/20 04:40 PM
2

Are my friends weird? Cause we don’t console each other at all. We don’t talk about feelings or when we’re sad. Probably don’t want to look weak amongst each other. I usually go to my older brother for that kind of stuff.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 04:23 AM
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Yeah. Idk. Being in an ltr is pretty sweet. I enjoy having my person who I do everything with. You just have to take what’s valuable from here and what’s applicable to your life. For me the importance of self improvement really resonated with me. As well as women not being able to love you the way you want them to. And maintaining frame, not with women but in life. TRP has made me just understanding of women and allows me to take relationships less serious. But the self improvement man. I stoppe…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 04:11 AM
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75% red. 25% blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:35 AM
3

I’m 23. I use reddit a lot now because I graduated college and my job is insanely boring so I browse reddit all day. I’m a lurker in this sub. In college I didn’t have time to be on reddit. Now it’s an app I use a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:58 PM
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I’m so sorry that happened to you bro. Is there any way the beating by the muggers could’ve been avoided? Why would they beat you up? Did multiple guys mug you barehand? Any weapons involved? I really hope I’m not being insensitive to your situation by asking, id just like to gain insight in case I’m ever in a situation like that or anyone else reading. Any advice you’d give to people in a situation like that? Was it just out of the blue?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:44 AM
0

What else is there to go for to communicate with in the future? Social media?
/r/seduction03/01/20 09:42 PM
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What do you say?
/r/seduction03/01/20 08:31 PM
1

What are examples of these big cities? And what are examples of mid tier cities?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 11:05 PM
3

I went through the same thing bro. Couldn’t eat for almost 2 weeks. Constantly almost blacking out every time I’d stand up. Guess I was so malnourished. Drinking is easier. If you lift I’d say drink thick smoothies to avoid losing so much weight. I lost a lot of weight and gains during this time. Peanut butter in a protein shake will add tons of calories. I should have done that. High calorie high protein shakes is my suggestion. To avoid so much weight loss and gains loss.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:18 PM
1

I guess I still believe some girls are kind hearted and not evil sluts lol. Maybe I should stop thinking that?
/r/askTRP19/08/19 04:36 PM
2

Thanks for the suggestion I’ll look into the rational male
/r/askTRP19/08/19 04:35 PM
0

It’s never asked. I feel like that question doesn’t come up until afterward. Maybe I should open up with that from the beginning?
/r/askTRP19/08/19 04:35 PM
6

I’ve been dealing with knee pain for years. Never knew what the problem was, it was depressing. I stopped squatting and hitting legs for years because of this. I didn’t play a lot of basketball because of this. I was just down and thought my legs were just broken. Doctors prescribed me anti inflammatory drugs and told me I just needed to rest as I was simply just over using my legs. This was a bunch of fucking bullshit. In my experience doctors just give you medicine to cure the symptoms of the …
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:32 PM
1

Why do you say to delete ig?
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:21 PM
4

I have two meal options for breakfast: Eggs with sausage. Oatmeal with nuts and berries. I add a scoop of protein to my oatmeal.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 01:32 PM
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He’s talking to you from the perspective that the ONLY reason you’re working out is to attract women. Like you said, you do it for you to feel better and more confident, which naturally attracts women. If you’re into bigger women like me then they want bigger dudes FYI. I don’t mean obese women, I mean voluptuous women. Every single one of them I’ve encountered did not want to be with a skinny dude. Side note, when you’re bigg-er, you do get treated differently by other men. What I’ve noticed is…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:20 PM
1

I have shit posture because I’m at a computer all day and have played video games my entire life. I stretch at all times during the day. Whenever I’m passing through a door I’ll stretch, I’ll get up occasionally and do chest stretches. Just when I’m walking around I’ll do stretches, like clasping my hands behind my back and stretching my chest/front shoulders. It’s helped tremendously, all my lifts have become easier and less painful because of stretching. I used to get pain every single time I …
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:37 PM
1

My family was super against me getting an apartment. I didn’t want a home because 30 year mortgage, plus my job gives me mobility so I wouldn’t want to worry about having to sell a house if were to find a job in a different city. I graduated university, and got a good paying job. I let my family influence me to staying and saving money (which was good) but I got sick and tired of living at home. Felt like I wasn’t progressing in life and my parents treated me like I was still a child. I am happy…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:51 PM
1

What kind of situations do you get shit tested in? Like what happens that tells you it’s a shit test? Im asking because sometimes I can’t tell what a shit test is.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:41 PM
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