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| 3 | [deleted by user]LOL, take everything here with a grain of salt. Most of us are not experts are seducing dudes... Besides having a big booty, I personally like someone who is confident and has enthusiasm. Like, if I say "Lets go to the zoo!" Something like "Fuck yea, I love otters!" is good. I guess the old "agree and amplify" works on most people. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Best Age for Tinder?I was regularly getting matches with 22 and 23 year olds until I hit 40. Now it's less common... I would not know about the under 21 crowd. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Late 30s fat woman re-entering the dating poolI'd tell you there is nothing wrong with a little fetishization... Anyway, plenty of people like some squish. Don't over think it. Be confident with your self, so people can enjoy your actual company. Not everyone will like what you are selling, but someone will. Nothing wrong with being fat at 40. I do fine. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:09 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Oh damn, something I can talk about. So first thing is, burning money will not get you laid. But it does help solve a lot of logistical issues. For clothes, sign up for something like stichfix. Will save you time and eventually build a wardrobe that you feel comfortable in. For your home, you want a quality location. Renting a loft in downtown is usually cool, but what ever you like. Is downtown Dallas "hip"? Mostly in a safe neighborhood. Ideally walking distance to a few bars. You want big spa… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 07:02 PM |
| – | Guys in their 30s who are not in a committed relationship and still hookup with random women, how do you deal with pressure from society?That's not what real women want. Can we not? Some "real women" wanna be a cumdumpster and not bother learning you name. | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 10:59 PM |
| 6 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?it would be so romantic (from a girl's perspective). I figured that out a while ago. Nothing says romantic like jizzing in a lady and then immediately saying "lets do more things together". | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 04:19 AM |
| 9 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?Best dates are sex then food. Never understood the dinner -> drinks -> sex date format. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 03:42 AM |
| 14 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?This person fucks. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 03:34 AM |
| 4 | Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women?Seriously, lots of junk on tinder but plenty of good women also. | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 01:40 AM |
| 5 | Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women?Of course that's true for single men in their 30s. Hell, I'm single at 40. Don't get me wrong, i have some fans. But for sure a group that is let's say not real happy with me. | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 01:37 AM |
| 27 | Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women?I'd flirt with a co-worker before someone at the gym. | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 01:30 AM |
| 2 | talking to guysValid question, but the honest answer is dudes (so most of us here) are not gonna have generic enough advice. I can tell you what personally works for me. But I don't have any messages from you so I doubt that will be wildly useful. I might suggest asking your specific dude what he specifically wants. Can't hurt. Anyway, upvote and maybe someone who has experience flirting with dudes can chime in. | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 03:40 AM |
| 6 | You can never be rejected if you define success as giving the other person the opportunity to get to know you.Rejection for me is when someone gets to know me well over lets say a year and then still doesn't like me. That sucks. However, it is thankfully infrequent for me. And probably for most people. A lady not responding after a few messages on Tinder? That isn't a rejection because you really can't reject a whole person based on a few lines. | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 09:15 PM |
| – | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?How to immediate approach: Step one. Someone caught your eye for a reason. Take 2 seconds and form that reason into a few words so you are ready for... Step two. Walk up to the front of this person. "Hello, my name is /u/decapitate_the_rich. I had to come over and flirt because reason." Speak clearly and calm. Step three. Appreciate the response. Feel free to admit you are not the best at flirting. As long as they are still talking you are okay. If they freeze up for more than a few seconds or s… | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 06:37 PM |
| – | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?You have to learn confidence via exposure. I've approached at least 1000 women. Never once has anything actually bad happened. I can say it's very easy and simple to walk up to a person and flirt and be correct, but you won't learn from reading that. You have to actually go do it for your self. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 05:46 PM |
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