besteni Archive

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2	Am i in the top 80/20? Im 16 and will you just answer the main question. You decide. Look... So I could tell you that I'm definitely top 20, and you are NOT top 20. How does that feel? Or I could tell you, that you ARE top 20. Is that any better? What does it change? Maybe you would agree, object or question my call, or me being "top 20". In any case, you miss the point. You are obsessing over a value judgement from people who don't know you. And whatever answer you get, you are still you. It makes no difference because there is no list - it is simply a value judgement.	/r/seduction	14/06/17 10:32 PM
4	how to i get a girl emotional when i barely know anything about her? You talk to the person, basically. Ask questions, listen and then respond. Then repeat.	/r/seduction	14/06/17 10:24 PM
4	God could've gave me the natural male drive to hunt and pursue women, instead he gave me approach anxiety... AA isn't something "God" gave you... You are human, plain and simple. It's completely natural to be nervous when venturing in to unknown territories. It's in your DNA. But it can get better. Your AA probably won't disappear for good, but you can learn to change your attitude towards it. For instance, I used to freak out when doing presentations etc., but now many years later it's a part of my job. I still get nervous when I speak in front of big crowds, but the fear doesn't control me. I accept …	/r/seduction	14/06/17 10:16 PM
1	Am i in the top 80/20? Im 16 and will you just answer the main question. You decide. To me it seems that you are hustling for approval. Also, what does that even mean, to be in "top 20", and who would decide or know that? On what grounds? It's just a value judgement, nothing more. Don't fall in to this comparison game. Focus on something meaningful and real. On giving back. That's what makes a good man or woman.	/r/seduction	14/06/17 10:02 PM
5	how to i get a girl emotional when i barely know anything about her? Short answer: You dont. Get to know her first.	/r/seduction	14/06/17 09:52 PM
1	Noticed im not the same around girls when dating as compared to when I gamed them. I agree with the message, but it isn't about merging two different selves. You are one person with a vast range of behaviours. It's simply about staying alert and bringing your best.	/r/seduction	08/07/14 07:35 AM
2	How do I turn the conversation sexual when I am a virgin? Does this have anything to do with Gregory Batesons cybernetics?	/r/seduction	19/01/14 09:19 AM
3	What do you when you're always the only one carrying the conversation? Regarding topics, try remembering the acronym FORD, which is Family, Occupation, Recreation and Dreams. Whether you are doing 'something wrong' also depends on how you feel and think about it, right? Personally I love asking most of the questions and letting others do the talking. I find it interesting to figure out what makes people tick, their motivations and so forth. All of which often make very interesting conversations. Rarely a conversation is 50/50, but really it doesn't need to be.	/r/seduction	03/08/13 05:53 PM
1	David Wygant is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME! Been a fan ever since I heard you on Pickup Podcast with AJ and Jordan. You are an inspiration!	/r/seduction	24/02/11 01:19 PM
3	[FR] Number close nerves I wouldn't generally suggest you go for some canned material, it will never come across authentic. The way I see it, you point out a lot of relevant stuff yourself, however one comment that I have: Try not to be too outcome-dependent. You seem to be nervous about the consequences of making SOIs or not, having FTCs or not, an excuse to ask for number or not etc.. Not being outcome-dependent is key if you want to get rid of AA, and has definitely helped me overcome several sticking points. Practic…	/r/seduction	15/06/10 01:15 PM
1	What to do when there is an exception to the rule? First thing that surprises me is that you talk of rules. The way I look at it there are no rules, thus no exceptions. By all means, when meeting a girl use what you know, but be willing to adjust to whatever may come. Take your lady friend for instance. In game lingo, one might say she had LSE, that her perceived social value does not match her own understanding of her social value, that she might feel peer-pressure, feel a need to put on a show, she just prefers beta-males etc. etc.. Point bein…	/r/seduction	14/06/10 03:45 PM
6	What is the best way to take advantage of a female wing? Social proof. Enough said. If she's experienced you can get into telling her how to open sets for you etc., but even if she is not, her just having a good time around you will definitely be noticed by potential targets miles away.	/r/seduction	14/06/10 02:37 PM