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Charlotte, San Diego, Las Vegas, DC
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:47 PM
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If it works for you then good for you.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:44 PM
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You as assuming the ones that do this are not attractive. Maybe for you but not for me
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:58 PM
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That is the point. You get with women who are moving to you first
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:56 PM
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That is complete nonsense. People who do choosing signals are more successful in their attempts that the cold approach. But do whatever you feel like, its not that deep
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:55 PM
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I don’t need to cold approach so maybe you are an expert, at begging
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:54 PM
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If you kiss ass to get a hot woman that is self respect?
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:14 AM
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I mean you can do what you want. But to me, that would be lowering myself and begging for women’s attention. If i meet someone naturally then sure but I won’t go out of my way
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:13 AM
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I suppose it is easier if you look good, but even still aim for what you can get and don’t be unreasonable, choosing signals will work. If you want to dream go ahead and keep begging
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:06 AM
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You gotta go where people are. If not clubs or bars, do concerts or brunches or those paint classes or volunteering in non profits. But it is all the same. Grocery stores are much harder because people are in a different mindset
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:07 AM
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A bird is hand is worth two in the bush
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:02 AM
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If you go where she is at, and she looks at you or doesn’t move away, then you could smile at her and see her response. try some small talk like what are you drinking, and by her response you can tell if she is interested
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:01 AM
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First you gotta make sure you look good, after you know based on how they position themselves when they are near you, and whether they are seeking your attention. Usually they would come stand by you or stay around your space for no apparent reason. A good way is to ignore them and move somewhere else and see if they end up near you again, or if they twerk in front of you but that could be attention whores too. I guess i would say is that she looks like she is lost and she is standing around you…
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:00 AM
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I’m just saying in my opinion it is a terrible thing to do. You should look for choosing signals and go to women who like you
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:46 AM
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Find something better to do with your time instead of looking desperate. Respect yourself brudda
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:33 AM
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Please don’t say that. You are supposed to be manly.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:32 AM
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Some women are goofy and don’t know how to approach. Sometimes they say the same to me. You are doing good, just act like you don’t give a damn and they will like you. Talk about what they have on, not in a sexual way, and move on from there. What are you drinking, been here before, etc
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:31 AM
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No free validation, yes sirr
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:15 PM
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It means they can get most women, under the right circumstances and with the enough effort
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:14 AM
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If you are good looking, it happens. Just ignore them
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:35 AM
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You gotta treat as a casual thing & just enjoy each other. Obviously you can’t marry a model unless you filthy rich
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:51 AM
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I have dated a model before. Just enjoy and don’t take it too seriously
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:16 PM
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Never ever text anything sexual. You will be aired in group chats. Tell her to come find ojt
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:26 AM
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By being good looking and having charisma
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:00 PM
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They like whatever the last guy they liked did to them
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:56 PM
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How many woman you going to kiss without catching cmv
/r/seduction22/03/22 02:40 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:37 PM
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focus on yourself bro. It’s over
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:28 PM
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If she likes you, you can get away with a lot as long as you give her just enough to stay
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:24 PM
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By being more than regular at some part of his life like money, looks, charisma
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:22 PM
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Gotta speak the truth
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:00 AM
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Can work vs will work. I can bang my coworker and still work the same job. Is it a good idea though
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:02 PM
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to each his own
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:42 PM
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Plus after you have been with many it gets old. Focus on yourself more and less on women
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:42 PM
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Send me bitcoin then pussy
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:37 PM
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There is more to life than filling used holes
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:31 PM
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You just have to stop caring about impressing women. That’s the only difference
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:26 PM
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You gotta stop thinking they are better than you. And stop giving them the win too easily. Treat her like you would a fat ugly woman who is your friend. You wouldn’t be trying to impress her or jump through hoops for her. Or give her free attention
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:25 PM
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Don’t kiss women because they suck dick and eat ass. Not until you know them first or have seen they don’t have herpes sores on their mouth. Best of luck
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:16 PM
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This is the typical low interest woman. Don’t put any more effort, let her come to you. Pump and dump, then block her
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:15 PM
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Volunteer in as many places as you can. If you are not afraid, join dance class or one of those exercises classes women like.
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:14 PM
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It is simple, don’t talk to women who don’t seem interested in you and don’t even look at them. Personally, I go out of my way not to give a woman I’m not tryna get any attention. She can twerk infront of me in the club but if I’m not interested, i would turn my back on her literally. You gotta remember, you’re attention is gold, dont waste it on a woman who doesn’t give a damn about you. Stop giving them free self esteem boosts
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:11 PM
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A club is not So You Think You Can Dance lmaaao. If you like dancing just dance. I think for you it looks like you are trying too hard and you appear corny to the women. Remember women like a challenge, you falling to their feet and worse going around asking every woman to dance is just a disaster and the opposite of what you should be doing. Dance because you like to and never do anything to impress women. And never ever approach a group of women for anything because even if she wants to, she w…
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:08 PM
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Listen man nobody gives a shit about you. Nor should you care about the other people. If you are going there for women, they can tell. But if you are going there for just music and drinks, just do your thing and stand where other people are standing. If you were going to refill your soda at mcdonalds when you are on your own, would you be anxious? No. Its the same thing. You are only anxious because you are there for women. My advice is go just for a good time. Don’t push for anything unless she…
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:54 PM
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Why are you going on six dates and why do you need to go on dates
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:48 PM
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I got out it early. I don’t want to get whatever is spreading around. Quality over quantity
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:47 PM
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Just no, don’t ever do things like that. Unless she comes to you or sits next to you. It just makes you look like a loser
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:46 PM
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Use sarcasm, once in a while. That’s about it, if you aren’t naturally funny. Being funny is really about understanding how people are feeling and thinking at a certain point. You can’t learn by watching videos on youtube or reading a book. Its a judgement thing, and honestly just an improvisation thing
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:45 PM
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Very easy. Stop putting women on a pedestal. Or people in general. But on a date for example, you are probably sitting across from a woman who has swallowed a load or had it on their face or has done just as disgusting things like eating ass. Even if they haven’t just assume they have. How can you be nervous when you know they most likely have done these things and other degrading things with other men
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:34 PM
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You need to forgive anyways. It doesn’t benefit you in any case to be angry or bitter because things that happened in the past will never change. Don’t let other people control how you behave towards them. Otherwise, you would be just like them
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:29 PM
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Emotionally or physically? In any case, it won’t do you any good to hold on to it. Forgive and let it go. Otherwise you are going to punish your kids because you are a bitter person
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:22 AM
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Don’t resent your parents. If they thought they were helping you but they were just wrong, how can you blame them. As long as they care for you, why would you blame them. We are all human beings, we don’t know everything
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:19 PM
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If you are not willing to try something then there is nothing more. Just stay at home then
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:43 AM
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Stop being a pussy and try it
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:42 AM
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Aaah then you just missed out
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:46 PM
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She didn’t say sorry for spilling the drink on you? I wouldn’t talk to her
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:34 PM
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I would say those were fake friends anyways. Most people don’t have three people they can call if they need a couch to sleep on. They are just people they get drunk with that they call friends or people who they are better than that makes them feel better about themselves. My suggestion is to just live your life and do things that you want to do. Find some team sports, volunteer somewhere with a nonprofit, go to Church, or anything that gets you out there. Put yourself in the vicinity of women o…
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:27 PM
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That’s true too
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:18 PM
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The old me would have said, if she offers herself back to you pump and dump then block her, but the wiser choice to act like she doesn’t even exist. Purposely chose to ignore her
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:03 PM
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You gotta apologize and tell her you’re not really trying to rush her, and that you two should get to know each other better
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:44 PM
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That’s if they are normally a whore. But she sounds like you may have a good woman, who probably wants more than just sex. She thinks of you as potentially a bf or maybe even a husband. So she wouldn’t do anything to make you think bad of her. And to make sure you don’t think she is using you, she splits the bill
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:43 PM
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Why not?
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:26 PM
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Then maybe she is a decent woman who doesn’t just sleep around. I wouldn’t rush her, sounds like she is genuinely interested in you but just wants to make sure you don’t just pretend to care for her to use her. What is the rush for anyways? If she is cool to be around plus she pays half, why the hurry for sex
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:26 PM
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First of all, quit all online nonsense. All you gotta do is make sure you dress well(meaning no t shirts, or any clothes worn by a teenager) , have a nice haircut, smell good. Next, go on IG pr eventbrite find some promoters or some DJs in the area and you look up the spots the usually go to. I wouldn’t go to clubs, but bars are usually good in cities. Especially those with dance floors. Next, when at the bar order a drink, find somewhere to sit and just wait. Don’t be checking out every woman t…
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:19 PM
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Act like you don’t want anything, and you get everything. Being too friendly sends off neediness, the opposite of what you want. You want to be cold, but charming. Plus don’t be too available, or reveal anything about yourself. Its about her not you. Essentially, act like it wouldn’t make a difference to you if she left or stayed, and stop trying to win them over. You are better remember that
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:06 PM
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Just say you should split the bill, while you get to know each other. If she truly cares about you and she isn’t broke, then she shouldn’t have a problem with this. If she refuses, you dump her. She is using you for food or attention because we know she probably aint a virgin
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:00 PM
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Are you doing this because you want to or because you need that validation that you can sleep with many women?
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:57 PM
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You just gotta seem friendly. Smiling at people is a good way. I think the only reason men would avoid a quiet girl is they would think she doesn’t want to be bothered.
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:55 PM
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You don’t have to drink alcohol. Just get a ginger ale or red bull or something.
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:51 PM
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I go alone to bars 90% of the time. I have never felt any kind of way about it. Honestly, i go there for music or to get a drink and also because I’m an attention whore I love rejecting women. Who really do you have to impress? I wouldn’t marry a woman from a bar so who cares really what they think
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:46 PM
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If you want to stop being a virgin, first you gotta work on yourself physically, dress well, smell good, have a good haircut, don’t be fat. Next, if you want to go to bars or clubs imitate someone who gets a lot of women. Don’t buy any woman drinks, don’t stare, be in your own world so to speak and watch for a woman sending you signals. The key is you gotta be sure she wants you otherwise if you get rejected by her, it gets worse and every woman there would have seen it.
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:39 PM
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