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bestyoloqueuer/r/seduction19/05/14 05:47 PM
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your mom had swolio after I was done with her :)
/r/seduction26/12/14 07:56 AM
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My skin is thick as fuck. It's no prob.
/r/seduction26/12/14 12:35 AM
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I don't owe anyone anything.
/r/seduction25/12/14 09:06 PM
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Too much random stereotyping. "always text back" <- And I should text them back because otherwise you judge me as being childish. I'm sorry, but you lost me at this point.
/r/seduction25/12/14 07:01 PM
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THXU2
/r/seduction16/12/14 10:48 PM
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If I did enjoy the moments I wouldn't be wallowing though. I think at the moment this wallowing is the only way I can get any 'satisfactory' conversation with people because it's kind of like the only topic I feel I'm competent talking about. It's either awkward small talk, which definitely does not give me my social dosage or talking about this shit on the internet.
/r/seduction16/12/14 10:10 PM
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Going to the gym has helped me, but I still am never satisfied. I always feel like I don't do enough. And lately I think I'm stalling. I don't believe a world can be a 'better place'. I think it's all relative no matter what. I mean the overall sum of people being happy vs not happy can't be altered, because of human nature. The only thing we can make a change on is about discovering new stuff. About universe etc, but I don't think I have what it takes to help about that. Being nice alone won't …
/r/seduction16/12/14 10:07 PM
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I think the things I enjoy are mostly ego based. I enjoy things only when I'm doing good at it or winning. So regarding hobbies I'd potentially only would like ones with competition involved. Potentially soccer, wrestling, fighting etc. But the problem with those hobbies is that I can't meet any girls through it, since the amount of girls doing the hobby is a small percentage.
/r/seduction16/12/14 09:58 PM
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But why do I want to become a better person? Why do I want to improve myself? Ulterior motivation for these is also to be attractive to women or 'get laid'. Some of the motivation would perhaps be validation seeking (if I become this good person and improve myself people will praise me). I'm more disgusted by the validation seeking part though.
/r/seduction16/12/14 08:32 PM
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I don't think people usually even talk to me so I could try or attempt to listen to them.
/r/seduction16/12/14 06:32 PM
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Except my opinions are detrimental to social success.
/r/seduction16/12/14 05:38 PM
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'We have a thirst for knowledge'. I think it's generalisation. I actually do not have the thirst, I force myself to learn new things. And I think my ulterior motive is to finally get laid. I don't care about politics, about famous people, about anything normal girls might be interested of. If I were honest with people I would just bum them out constantly. This forces me to be silent in most social situations. I find myself a work that I have potential in. I work hard, learn and to get as good as…
/r/seduction16/12/14 04:56 PM
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Trust me I've read a lot about this and my conclusion is that nothing really matters anyway. Well I know it does matter in a sense, because I do want to get laid so I need these things to matter, but they don't.
/r/seduction16/12/14 04:19 PM
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Idk how to lead though, because I do not have opinions about things.
/r/seduction16/12/14 04:12 PM
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I blame my life on 2 letters. M and E.
/r/seduction14/12/14 08:48 PM
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she's definitely trying to coax op into a snafu
/r/seduction14/12/14 08:46 PM
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Why not self sustaining? He could have a work/job/passion that easily takes care of any financial problems. There are people who don't need long relationships with girls. One day, you'll die anyway.
/r/seduction13/12/14 05:55 PM
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Wat
/r/seduction13/12/14 05:46 PM
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One thing I'm going to mention though is that just because a person doesn't joke often doesn't mean they don't joke ever.
/r/seduction07/12/14 06:13 PM
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Bringing fanny pack back into the fashion.
/r/seduction07/12/14 06:10 PM
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The title of your post made my head hurt.
/r/seduction07/12/14 04:11 PM
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It's a regular 1 dollar question and the answer lies within your mindset. Simple answer is in life never put your eggs in one basket. You have tons of semen, you don't need a single girl to spend it on. You either get hold of your feelings or fail.
/r/seduction07/12/14 04:06 PM
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Anyway this all boils back down to GFTOW. Such is life and it's not bad if you realize how to take advantage of it.
/r/seduction07/12/14 04:04 PM
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That is my #1 problem. Except I do not know what to say to people whom I know well too. It seems as if thinking of things to say and listening to people is a chore. Say I practice this and if I get good at this will it stop feeling like a chore and will I enjoy social situations? I don't know. I think part of it is internet ruining it for me. It's like any joke IRL is a repost and since I've already read it on internet I find it boring. And any things commonly people would say is like a repeated…
/r/seduction06/12/14 11:44 AM
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Yes and also do not have sex with women because some women may regret this and call you a rapist. Your problems are becoming more clear. You either get over your fear and start kino/escalation or have no success until the end of life (or until they invent cyborgs to have sex with you).
/r/seduction27/11/14 07:47 PM
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Based on what you've been writing I am pretty sure that to some extent you are giving a 'I am helpless and lost puppy dog' type of vibe. Time for shit tests? What do you mean by that? Also what do you mean by being fairly direct? Why don't you attempt to touch women? Kino and escalation are essential to get somewhere with women.
/r/seduction27/11/14 07:27 PM
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1) Girls saying they have 'bf' or being taken doesn't mean the conversation is over. 2) The moment you ask for advice or imply that you have problems with getting women you lose attraction tremendously. I'm pretty sure you are giving out that vibe already before with your attitude. It sounds to me as your interaction with women seem to go in a way that you try to please them and be liked and so they will feel sorry for you when you ask for advice and try to boost your ego. You probably fail most…
/r/seduction27/11/14 06:59 PM
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How do you know they didn't just say that so they wouldn't hurt your feelings? If you really have looked into this and read theory/material you would know that women probably are not the best to give advice about how to make them be attracted to you. You are still not giving any information. Unless you give detailed information it's impossible to give REAL advice on how to become successful. Posting a detailed field report would be decent.
/r/seduction27/11/14 06:40 PM
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Post a field report of one of your common approaches.
/r/seduction27/11/14 06:33 PM
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You seem to have been accepting only bullshit advice. World isn't about doing 'right' things. There are no such things as 'right' things. You have a goal, right? If you do not have a goal, there is no point even to try, because you don't even know what direction you are trying to go so you go randomly in circles. Some people might have been more lucky to go randomly in circles in more favourable positions. You will however have to set a goal and take the steps necessary to achieve that. What are…
/r/seduction27/11/14 06:16 PM
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How many approaches have you done? What happens when you approach?
/r/seduction27/11/14 06:10 PM
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They are married now.
/r/seduction27/11/14 05:56 PM
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Is it sad that people feed from seeing others do bad so they can feel better about themselves?
/r/seduction26/11/14 05:23 AM
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I'd argue, although from my experience that most probably do care atleast about getting laid. It's often just that people rarely are good at everything. So if you're good at math, or school subjects you might lack the social skills needed to get laid.
/r/seduction25/11/14 06:44 AM
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I'd first have to become smart.
/r/seduction24/11/14 07:41 PM
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Not giving a fuck is a serious business.
/r/seduction23/11/14 11:11 AM
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I didn't mean to imply that she doesn't give a fuck, but one self shouldn't give a fuck if he doesn't get a smile back. Move on with your life and always assume best out of strangers. Unless of course you have doubts that someone might murder you. In that case, be aware. Usually people cold at first can be won over by not getting affected by their coldness. Don't give much thought to negative reactions from other people, don't take this personally. If you have to rationalize in your head that sh…
/r/seduction23/11/14 10:50 AM
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I think if someone doesn't smile back at you it's rather better to think that they must be having a rough day or they are shy kind of people. Or that whatever they are going through must be hard. Or simply not give a fuck.
/r/seduction23/11/14 09:09 AM
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Yeah, but why do I want it to be part of me? And why do I want to do those things? How do I know I do not want it to be part of me to be liked and get validation.
/r/seduction23/11/14 09:07 AM
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You have the potential to be extremely good at misinterpreting humour.
/r/seduction22/11/14 02:34 PM
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You need to assert dominance by showing some of your own. Either ball or buttcrack cleavage should work fine.
/r/seduction21/11/14 09:44 PM
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Also smashing a bottle on your forehead. It conveys alpha status.
/r/seduction21/11/14 09:23 PM
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If she doesn't return the ball it means I won. I win all the time, I must be good at this hypothetical texting/tennis sport.
/r/seduction21/11/14 09:21 PM
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Yeah I can imagine it. you: "Dave... DAVE.. Dave.. DAAAAAAVEEE" the girl: "WTF????" you: "Oh right, Mandy!!"
/r/seduction21/11/14 06:01 AM
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I agree, although it's sad never getting to be on this sub ever again :(
/r/seduction21/11/14 05:59 AM
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Jaden's got it.
/r/seduction17/11/14 09:00 PM
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I do that. Except she doesn't get it either.
/r/seduction17/11/14 09:00 PM
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Drugs
/r/seduction16/11/14 08:39 PM
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Only talk about Ford, if it's a Mustang. Otherwise the girl will think you're a cheap slut and will make you her bitch. Unless you're into getting your behind demolished, then do not attempt this.
/r/seduction16/11/14 06:29 PM
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I usually see what's in the fridge and if it's empty I'll force her to order some pizzas.
/r/seduction16/11/14 04:31 PM
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I don't think 6 actually implies that you should give her a compliment when she's fishing for that. She's right to say that she probably does want you to tell her. But she never implies or says that if you do or do not give a compliment it will change how she's attracted to you. She's talking about what indicates interest not what one should do.
/r/seduction15/11/14 01:34 PM
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Extremely infuriating and annoying article.
/r/seduction15/11/14 01:30 PM
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Yeah, if I had to describe the impression I got with 3 words it would be awkward-wannabe-snobbish guy.
/r/seduction15/11/14 12:38 PM
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And wtf is being smart anyway. I rarely get what people mean by someone being smart or not. I often think it's all part of being pretentious, but maybe I'm guarding my ego from being jealous. Man, I'm not sure at all. But tell me how do you judge someone to be smart?
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:31 PM
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I think it's more of a matter about what you want in life and what you want to achieve. There's no single correct way that everyone should follow. There are people who enjoy micromanaging their skills and becoming as good as they possibly (like your idea of it seems to be) can. As well as other kind of people who are just looking to feel naturally good with women. So for them it's more about mindset. And of course a lot of it can be inbetween and not black and white. I don't judge either one neg…
/r/seduction27/10/14 07:45 PM
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Similar interests don't mean similar type or personality. Also your source of 2 people don't imply rest of the people are the same.
/r/seduction16/10/14 04:34 PM
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Depends what batshit insane means.
/r/seduction16/10/14 04:03 PM
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I would say not only it works in opposites, it works in areas inbetween as well. This takes the complete point of the post away. Do you think in the world that any or even most two persons in a couple are similar? Do you think it's in a such manner in happy couples? In my experience no, and people and couples can vary a lot.
/r/seduction16/10/14 03:58 PM
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Don't you think you are overgeneralising?
/r/seduction16/10/14 03:56 PM
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If you want to attract girls, grow a vagina. Simple as that.
/r/seduction16/10/14 03:55 PM
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I agree with most, except the thing about being stoic and quiet. It seems to me as if your perception of someone of high value is really narrow. In reality I don't think there's a one type of ideal.
/r/seduction11/10/14 08:07 PM
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I think 'testing' can be subjective in this discussion. You could easily consider any social situation a test. Shit test probably is more narrowed down though. And in a sense it would be a situation where a person is testing how far she/he can get with a person and what are the boundaries. Checking the mobile phone message, without context... I would say we have no idea whether this is a 'shit test' or not. I agree on the well done response.
/r/seduction10/10/14 04:43 PM
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Although the content was decent, I think it's more about delivery and the content doesn't really matter that much on the outcome or the perceived smoothness.
/r/seduction05/10/14 06:59 PM
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Also don't forget to read the next article, where you will find out that inner game is not your problem. You don't get laid because you have bad inner game, you don't get laid because you're not famous! So get famous.
/r/seduction30/09/14 08:08 PM
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also tl;dr; have sex asap not to fall into friendzone (which supposedly noone knew and what you knew wasn't just simply wrong. It was WRONG).
/r/seduction30/09/14 07:55 PM
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Sounds like a click-bait title to me and also a title that sounds arrogant and can be offensive to many. The information didn't live up to the title at all. All already thousand times blabbered information. And the debate about whether friend-zone exists or not is also quite ridiculous since both sides seem to talk about different 'friend-zones'. 'Friend-zone' exists because there are situations where one side only wants to be friends and the other one wants more than that. It can happen to eith…
/r/seduction30/09/14 07:01 PM
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Would you rather ask "What would James Bond do?". or "What would I do?"
/r/seduction13/09/14 10:45 AM
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I think I've been doing something wrong then. I usually suck shit when I start a new thing. Also I was NEVER satisfied with my lifting results.
/r/seduction08/09/14 09:28 PM
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PUA is about improving yourself and getting your self-confidence up. At certain point you shouldn't be worrying about how to retain a girlfriend. I think it would be exhausting if you're in a relationship and instead of doing more important stuff you have to think of using seduction techniques or think about retaining. So the better question I think is how to achieve that state. So think about that.
/r/seduction26/08/14 06:09 AM
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Well you still need to say something when cold approaching, you can't just hop into 'just talking' or whatever is that supposed to mean? I don't think PUA approach is used right in the context though. PUA approach might but doesn't have to be with a canned line opener. PUA approach can be simply asking the girl opinion about something relevant (in this case the only thing that is fixed and rehearsed before is the ability to find something in the environment to ask opinion about it). Overall I th…
/r/seduction26/08/14 06:01 AM
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Yeah, this one is hilarious. Not sure if it adds anything to the 'seduction' process, but good for entertaining yourself.
/r/seduction25/08/14 05:47 AM
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It's use would be to tease. If you tease properly she shouldn't feel bad. But tease is just part of a style and it's not mandatory.
/r/seduction25/08/14 05:45 AM
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As long as you keep up the rhyme, you will succeed with girls big time.
/r/seduction25/08/14 05:42 AM
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You're not really proving your point of only needing to say 'hello'. If you're confident and funny without trying or training to become such, then you're considered 'natural'.
/r/seduction19/08/14 02:30 PM
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Filthy naturals..
/r/seduction19/08/14 02:18 PM
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So much effort to fake this shit all the time. Alright I will fake, but social situations will never be enjoyable.......
/r/seduction27/05/14 07:23 PM
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Because it takes guts to take your own life. Or the pain has to be bigger than the survival instinct.
/r/seduction26/05/14 03:49 PM
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There are other things that words sometimes can't talk out of as well. Some are diseases like cancer, some are mental diseases.
/r/seduction24/05/14 03:52 AM
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Yeah, there is no magical thing at all and life is just life and is how it is. Now help me out of this hole it's so deep I keep getting burnt by molten iron.
/r/seduction24/05/14 02:46 AM
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Sad when the mindset about therapy is that it's 'just words' and how can this possibly help. PS: I have seen plenty of different therapists (longest one for more than a year. Every single time I think how it's a big scam and a huge waste of money. Not saying that it can't help other people though. It's just my thoughts. So the harsh reality is you either do the things you're uncomfortable with and improve yourself or you do not or you don't improve like me and then your whole life 'sucks'. There…
/r/seduction24/05/14 02:01 AM
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Well I think I've been forever in the self-pity, self-blame part, but this just makes me depressed. I don't get angry and this anger doesn't turn into action. Any suggestions?
/r/seduction20/05/14 05:01 PM
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It's weird because as a male I feel that when I look at other males they are also more likely to look at me when passing by or get in eye contact. But girls in a sense seem to be always 'minding their own business' / having a cold attitude and simply like ignoring. I used to read somewhere that one shouldn't smile before the girl does, so in most cases I haven't, but maybe I should. There's also the matter of whether to smile with open or closed mouth. Sadly I don't have that drop dead gorgeous …
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:32 PM
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I think it definitely can be creepy or impolite, but it also depends on a way it's done. Shouldn't start staring from too far away. The gazes meeting should be 'accidental' etc.. I haven't ever catched a girl checking me out though.
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:27 PM
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Good job. And good luck working on your inner game.
/r/seduction18/05/14 09:01 AM
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Solid mindset. I love stories about AMOGing and group manipulation etc. Wonder if there's a good place to find these.
/r/seduction17/05/14 12:35 PM
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I don't understand how a confident/successful/attractive man can say something like that. I would perceive the guy to say that to have lack of success with girls (which is an unattractive quality), cause he is implying that he has had bad experience with most girls/women. If a girl says that to someone I would sense she is problematic as well. If every guy seems like a pig to you, where do you think really lies the problem..?
/r/seduction17/05/14 12:25 PM
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I think it would be better to make her qualify to you in a more positive way. This sentence sounds like whining and it also makes you seem like you perceive most women in a negative way. I would expect this sentence from a bitter guy who has had bad 'luck' with women.
/r/seduction17/05/14 12:19 PM
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I wish I had fat to remove so I could get higher self esteem. But I dont. So I have low self esteem. Such is life.
/r/seduction17/05/14 12:13 PM
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I'm not bored by myself only because I have internet. I'm bored around other people though.
/r/seduction17/05/14 11:35 AM
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What happened to saying "I clone people" instead of the truthful answer?
/r/seduction14/05/14 08:41 PM
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I agree, and this is why I will never get laid :(
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:02 PM
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I can't do the joking-flirting thing. It just seems impossible. My mind doesn't seem to be able to work that way. I could read all the standard responses to different things and still be unable to use them in real life situations. Can't do it with people I've known for a while, can't do it with any people. I honestly wish I could, but I'm not even sure how to develop that skill if I can't even practice it, because I can't do it in practice and my whole life I've thought of it, but can't do it. I…
/r/seduction12/05/14 07:51 PM
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Value can always change. But it's not equal.
/r/seduction12/05/14 04:05 PM
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Yeah, well what are we anyway then? And in what way are we equal? I feel like you're talking about something that doesn't really exist, but you wish it did so you could think that world is a good place.
/r/seduction12/05/14 03:58 AM
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World and humanity etc is trying to create an illusion of equality. In reality it's impossible unless everyone was a clone of each other. Any skill, attribute a person can make that person more valuable/desirable which makes the person superior.
/r/seduction11/05/14 07:04 PM
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I think it's delusional to say that people are equal, however this should not be an excuse not to approach.
/r/seduction11/05/14 09:53 AM
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Despite not being sure if it would help me, I would def want to try it. Just wish I knew where to get it.
/r/seduction09/05/14 08:41 PM
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One could as very well say 'Just be happy, don't be (any of the negative emotions). I'm not even sure being down on myself is a choice. Some people keep saying it is, but why would I want to choose that? Everyone suffers, little kids in Africa suffer from hunger. Why should my problems matter anyway. I mean there's people out there that suffer a lot more and could be helped with even a lot less effort. You can't help me just by feeding me. I'm not sure what you mean by expectations. I don't real…
/r/seduction09/05/14 08:39 PM
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I have done mushrooms and salvia. Mushrooms weren't really that insight giving though. Salvia was a terror show. But I would certainly like to try others as well. Unfortunately I have no idea where to get them. But MDMA has worked very well for me while on the drug (the socializing part with people).
/r/seduction09/05/14 08:34 PM
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Social interaction makes me feel constantly pressured. It requires effort from me to pay attention and think of an answer and keep the ball going etc. Also the questions that pop in my head like... Am I bothering him/her? What should I say? Wonder if he/she is feeling as weird/awkward as me? Am I asking too much questions, so it's like an interview.. But I can't think of any statements that would fit here. How the hell can I keep a conversation going, if nothing comes to my mind. Am I being bori…
/r/seduction09/05/14 08:29 PM
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I've thought about it. And I think it will take at least 5-10 years before I can reach the value that I might/might not be satisfied with. It's just a depressing thought. And whenever I see other people happy and partying I get reminded of it every time, that I can't enjoy life now. But maybe if I do 100% constant effort for the next 5-10 years, I will be able to? Not even sure. Makes me really question is it even worth it. And obviously, there are still things that about myself that I can't cha…
/r/seduction09/05/14 08:02 PM
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My goal in life is to improve myself. Except I have wasted too much time before compared to my 'competition'. Not only wasted time, but I'm not as gifted socially as my 'competition'. Meaning in order to get to their level I will have to train and practice a lot more, simply because they have more talent. But. Since it's a lot easier to get experience and training if you are already good at it (talking to women), then they not only have more talent, but they get more practice as well. My qualiti…
/r/seduction09/05/14 07:55 PM
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People keep getting offended though. Or they actually think I'm stupid, which I might as very well be, but not because of this particular 'stupid' thing I said.
/r/seduction09/05/14 07:02 PM
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Most people are better than me. I can't ignore the reality.
/r/seduction09/05/14 06:49 PM
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Well I do got a job which is 8-10 hours a day and quite physical. Usually by the end of the day I'm pretty exhausted. I thought meanwhile I would learn programming in order to not live all my life with a low paying job. I also've been going to gym for half a year (maybe as a hobby?), but I think with a physical job right now I'm going to skip for a while. Maybe I will get used to the job so I can go to gym as well. But to be honest since the job is low paying I don't veel it adds value to me and…
/r/seduction29/04/14 04:30 AM
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I have the opposite problem of not being able to get it hard. I have no problem getting pretty much instantaneous boner from porn. When I was 16 I was disappointed in how bad I was doing with girls so I started reading PUA stuff. I went out, approached girls as a psychology experiment (made it easier to make it socially acceptable for me). So I got a girls number and invited her to my place when we agreed on having sex beforehand while my parents were away. However I was hella nervous and couldn…
/r/seduction28/04/14 07:30 PM
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I find it entirely plausible it could have happened when he was on MDMA. The effect of MDMA made me pretty much the person I wished to be in terms of interacting with people. Not that this particular event happened for sure. Anyway I'd go as far as to suggest anyone to try mdma at least once in their life (of course research about it first).
/r/seduction02/04/14 10:45 AM
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Yes, you seem to lead a happy life. I'm glad for you and jealous. What I want to do is whine on internet forums and wallow in self-pity. If I was myself in social situations and didn't fake in real life, I would just drive everyone around me away.
/r/seduction22/03/14 04:55 PM
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Hmm. I want to fap all day long and lay on my bed. We'll see where it proceeds to lead me.
/r/seduction22/03/14 03:39 PM
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Some people don't have to work at all to get pussy, some have to work hard and some can work hard and still not get any. Is that a surprise to you?
/r/seduction22/03/14 10:13 AM
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Isn't that a terrible analogy?
/r/seduction29/10/13 06:18 AM
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hatergonhate swagy0lo haters i love U!! :)
/r/seduction19/10/13 05:54 AM
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