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The Truth hurts I guess. I got work to do.
/r/askMRP25/10/17 12:38 AM
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So that’s what I planned to do. Just stfu about it. But what if she asks and I have done it. Deny deny ?
/r/askMRP24/10/17 08:39 AM
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You’re right. I guess my guilt got to me and she asked why I was being distant and I told her. I didn’t think it through fully and after I told her I thought how fucking stupid it was Bc I broke trust for pretty much no reason. But it was too late I had said it so I had to own it
/r/askMRP22/10/17 11:16 PM
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What is points 2 and 3 referring to?
/r/askMRP22/10/17 10:42 PM
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I don’t because I’m going to do it anyway. I have been. It’s a matter now if actually telling her when it happens or not
/r/askMRP22/10/17 09:41 PM
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Because I make mistakes and was trying to figure this out as I went. Thought I had the right idea ended up being wrong. I’m learning.
/r/askMRP22/10/17 09:41 PM
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So what’s your real advice to my question
/r/askMRP22/10/17 05:24 PM
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Of course I put the pressure on her. It’s my terms it’s up to her to decide if she’s going to be with me under those or not.
/r/askMRP22/10/17 04:44 PM
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So when you say set hard boundaries are you telling me I should bring it up again and let her know she cheats I am gone. Also when I do do it. Isn’t it better now not to tell her. Kind of a what she don’t know won’t hurt her thing. Keep denying. Or come straight out and tell her.
/r/askMRP22/10/17 02:22 PM
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I know I was thinking the same thing. I mean the way I originally approached it was half assed so I see why I got the criticism. I guess we will see how it goes. I’ll keep you updated
/r/askMRP22/10/17 02:14 PM
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See the thing here is. And what I didn’t mention and why this actually has come up. I’ve had a side chick for over 8 months now. She has no idea. And things were going great. The issue is I started to develop feelings for the side chick. Side chick wants to be with me. But I’m in this mess now. I didn’t know things would end like this. I thought I had it all figured out
/r/askMRP20/10/17 05:14 PM
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You’re right. I did do that. Fucking stupid but now that you mention it. I did. I wanted to make my bad feelings go away and instead I put myself in a dumb spot. I also caught her texting her ex today. She left her phone in my gym bag at the gym and I saw him pop up. Before I left I gave her it back and said. Your ex texted you. Calmly. What did I expect? So I went home to shower. She sent a picture of their text. She cleaned her car out today and found his dog tags in there. She asked his addre…
/r/askMRP20/10/17 03:03 AM
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Oh boy man. Too late! I caught her texting her ex today. It was about his dog tags she found in her car. She asked him for his address to send them back. But she left her phone in my gym bag and I saw it. Told her her ex texted her back and then left the gym when I was done. Came home and showered. She came in to explain herself. I smiled and said don’t. But then I went out.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 02:58 AM
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I just told her I can’t promise anything but if it happens then it happens. I also caught her texting her ex today. How convenient, he left his dog tags in her car. She cleaned her car out today and text him to get his address to send them back. She left her phone in my gym back at the gym and I saw him text back. I told her “your ex texted you back” in a calm voice and then gave her her phone. She was in the jacuzzi at the gym. I headed home and showered. She came in to explain herself. I told …
/r/askMRP20/10/17 02:56 AM
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What things do you recommend I read and study. I’ve read the sidebar it’s not going to tell you what you want in life. I can re read it again do you Recommend I start at the main sub or the married sidebar
/r/askMRP19/10/17 04:12 PM
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You’re right I don’t know what I want. I wish I did. How do I get there? Trial and error? I’m not going to lie I am scared of regretting it. I’m scare I’ll leave her for someone who is only half as good. That I’ll never find another girl I can trust like I do her. My minds going crazy. Is it weak? I’m sure it is. I want to know all the answers to my life. But I don’t know how to get there yet. Did you always know what you wanted? How did you get to that point?
/r/askMRP19/10/17 03:37 PM
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I’m a guy I’ll always want to fuck other women
/r/askMRP19/10/17 01:50 PM
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They do.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 04:36 PM
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Good way to put it. Thanks I’ll update
/r/askMRP17/10/17 04:34 PM
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Say “hey I seen you on social media. You’re cute but you look like your breath stinks. Just wanted to come find out” and walk away
/r/askTRP16/10/17 09:35 PM
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My take is don’t torture yourself. If you count your calories. Weight your food and get a legit meal plan from a dietitian. You will see just as good of results without torturing yourself from not eating carbs. When I cut I get a basic clean meal plan. Weight my shit. And I can get an eight pack in 2 weeks prior to little to no ab definition.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 09:21 PM
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Got it
/r/askMRP16/10/17 08:28 PM
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Why be miserable isn’t it better to just split then
/r/askMRP16/10/17 07:36 PM
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What if she asks why I need to bang other females. Or even better she’s going To ask who
/r/askMRP16/10/17 07:36 PM
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I’m 28. And we both signed a lease together
/r/askMRP16/10/17 05:58 PM
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Id say I’m a 10 to her but she does have stronger morals compared to other women I’ve dated so it can go either way. Mostly likely not in my favor but who knows. She’s foreign and from dating American women and foreign women. Foreign women blow American women out of the water. I can’t lie to you a part of me is scare of losing her and then regretting it down the road. So that’s probably why I didn’t do this sooner. I’ve dated a lot and haven’t found a women who is this hot. This loyal. Always ha…
/r/askMRP16/10/17 05:17 PM
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So what are my options to not go insane like I am
/r/askTRP05/10/17 03:15 AM
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Is there anything I should. Could. Or shouldn’t say about it? I see it this way. If I decide I can’t handle it. And I back away. She’s going to ask why. If I keep things the way they are and I keep seeing it. I’m going to get annoyed and I’m going to have to play it off like I don’t care and I’m not good at doing that either
/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:38 PM
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Number 2 hits home right now. So what would you do in this situation
/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:31 PM
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No trust me I know for a fact she doesn’t.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:29 PM
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But my other FWB isn’t like that at all. She’s loyal as fuck. She doesn’t entertain any of that stuff.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:20 PM
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That's good advice thank you for not trying to make a fool out of me and mocking me like a lot of guys do on here. We need more ECs like this. I appreciate the help
/r/askMRP17/09/17 06:56 AM
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We'll answer me this a while back I posted about getting in an argument with my LTR about a girl I had on Snapchat. I used to fuck this girl and when my LTR asked if we had hooked up. I said she was just a girl i had met through a friend. I denied it like you said. And everyone said I'm a pussy and should have owned my shit. And said it was a girl I fucked. This place is confusing sometimes. It always contradicts.
/r/askMRP16/09/17 07:13 AM
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Nope and she probably will never know. But she might. Either way. I'm okay with the worst Case scenario. Just wondering if it happens. What's the best way to deal with it
/r/askMRP15/09/17 04:24 PM
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Bc I wanted to. Bc I like sex. And yes
/r/askMRP15/09/17 04:22 PM
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I cheated because I like new pussy. But want not obligations to it. Other than sex. Other than that my LTR is great. It's just new pussy. I like it
/r/askMRP15/09/17 04:21 PM
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A lie. A fib? they're both the same thing. Unless you want to be childish. But the OYS is more about men lying to themselves. Makes sense.
/r/askMRP15/09/17 04:19 PM
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Too late been for 6 months now
/r/askMRP15/09/17 02:05 AM
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He's right. Swarms of you have flooded this sub where are you all coming from. Rule 0. Read the sidebar before you post. This post is pointless
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:13 PM
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Yes of course I have. Haven't we all? Brothers. Best friends. Everyone gets into agruements
/r/askMRP10/09/17 06:47 AM
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Okay makes sense. When you say ie dishwasher wasn't unloaded you mean it shouldn't be about something small like that right?
/r/askMRP09/09/17 06:50 PM
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Can you give me an example of that
/r/askMRP09/09/17 04:51 PM
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Can you give me an example of what you mean. At situation or argument given both instances. (Holding frame/control and vise versa)
/r/askMRP09/09/17 04:51 PM
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Awesome!! Thank you, will be reading tonight
/r/askMRP09/09/17 04:04 PM
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I'm not married but I do have a side girl. So you're saying you admit nothing but at the same time don't deny it? What if she finds out ? Also why be married then and not just be single? Just trying to pick your brain with this since most guys are against it here
/r/askMRP05/09/17 07:19 PM
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Because how are they keeping these women from cheating? There will always be better and I feel like unless they have this information most guys are clueless to any of this obviously. So how aren't they all cheating. Idk what's so hard to understand about the question
/r/askMRP01/09/17 09:37 PM
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It's more about understanding. That's what this sub is for. If you get butthurt every time a question about the sub gets brought up it looks like a cult. There's no reason this can't be disgusts or shouldn't be. Tons of members over at TRP (ECs) are commenting stuff that implies that all women will cheat is some big better comes along. It's totally a reasonable question
/r/askMRP01/09/17 04:30 PM
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Kind of irrelevant but Are you married? And if so cheat?
/r/askMRP01/09/17 02:59 AM
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And when you say get stronger in your frame how is that acquired. By keep reading the sidebar?
/r/askMRP01/09/17 02:56 AM
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There may be some truth to that. I think my biggest fear is it happening and me not knowing it is.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 12:34 AM
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I'm not saying they all won't. But some of them won't
/r/askMRP01/09/17 12:06 AM
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This so fucking much. I agree with every word. It's nice to see written out. Thank you
/r/askMRP01/09/17 12:04 AM
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To be the best version you can be. The whole Package we will say. But I don't think you need to look at your woman as a cheating robot. But I see what you're getting at with that question. "You may never need or use a fire escape but it's doesn't hurt to know where it is." Right?
/r/askMRP31/08/17 11:56 PM
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Totally agree but I was reading a comment from trengod37 who said his girl is a nurse and doctors hit on her all the time and she denies them. He said even tho he isn't a doctor he has all areas of his life in top shape. And an EC was saying he's delusional that she will cheat anyway just because they are doctors
/r/askMRP31/08/17 11:37 PM
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I'm not arguing that AWANLT. Because I totally believe they are. I just don't believe they all are cheating over it. I believe a big amount will hamster their way into divorce before, Or at least show massive amounts of signs of things heading that way
/r/askMRP31/08/17 11:19 PM
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Exactly
/r/askTRP22/08/17 09:03 PM
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As I said. Let me slow it down Everyone. Psychologically. manipulates. Even. You. You ever reward someone for doing something you liked. Manipulate. Ever tell a child their behavior was good or bad? Manipulate. Ever kiss your girl and tell her good job for doing something you liked. And then ignored her for doing something you didn't. It's manipulation. Ever ignore a girls text. Or wait a while to text her because you know texting her as much as you want would turn her off. Manipulation. We all …
/r/askTRP21/08/17 08:59 PM
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You're missing the point. Being a leader is a form of manipulation. I'm not talking about that. You can say it's a feminine trait but you manipulate. All day. We all do So stop trolling and going around saying it's a feminine trait and not to do it. Bc you do it. We all do. It isn't feminine it's a form of power
/r/askTRP21/08/17 02:35 AM
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u/i_forget_my_userids
/r/askTRP20/08/17 03:11 AM
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The problem is I already had paid for the tattoo (from another artist in the shop who is now in jail) and I just want it finished. He's kind of taking one for the team by finishing it when the kid who is in jail already got the money. So I tip him (paid 600 an tip him around 100 each session and we have had m4-5 of them) almost more then I paid for the tattoo. I know it'd be considered a covert contract but I figure he would have more respect since I tip him so well Our next session he told me t…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 07:38 AM
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Yea. I do unfortunately
/r/askMRP17/08/17 04:05 AM
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I'm re reading it now because I suck at it. And I do go autistic.
/r/askMRP16/08/17 06:32 AM
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Who can cheat on that??? Her. You did.. Me: goes autistic. Great shit tho I'll re read it tomorrow and really absorb it.
/r/askMRP16/08/17 06:21 AM
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I do this! She can't handle it without getting jealous
/r/askMRP16/08/17 06:16 AM
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My response is what I'm doing wrong. I did stfu in a previous situation and was told I was a autistic. But I didn't feel like it needed to be responded to. If I don't answer she has nothing to go off of to continue the argument. Sometimes she will hit me with something and I don't know how to respond. So I sit there and thing. Stfu. AA. Fog. So I'll say you're probably right I do x (fog) And she will say we'll what are you going to do about it? Ahhh. Say change? But then I'm in her frame. Say no…
/r/askMRP14/08/17 06:35 PM
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Poor guy. Did mommy not show you enough attention when you were younger? Well here you go cupcake
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 08:17 AM
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She always fucks me tho always
/r/askMRP12/08/17 10:46 PM
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That hard to do over over and phone.
/r/askMRP12/08/17 10:44 PM
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I do I read all the books it's idk when to apply them and when to actually shit and talk to her. Why would I fog here ?
/r/askMRP12/08/17 10:43 PM
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I don't ignore her
/r/askMRP12/08/17 07:04 PM
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I don't have the knowledge it supply's but I thought about it.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 07:03 PM
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I said the top one in another post and they all said it was DEERing. That's why I keep getting confused
/r/askMRP09/08/17 09:08 PM
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My bad for the rapid questions but km trying to grasp this. So if you're making a statement or informing Its not considered DEERing right. So what if I say. "I follow my ex because I don't have any issues with her" Or "I follow her bc I do" DEERing or statement?
/r/askMRP09/08/17 08:57 PM
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How is this not DEERing. Explaining you have a past. Defending that she can find someone else. This is where I get confused on when to stfu. Aa. Have a normal convo. Or if I'm DEERing
/r/askMRP09/08/17 08:29 PM
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I will try it but she will push me away and be all pissed of and want to know everything. She's nosey
/r/askMRP09/08/17 07:46 PM
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"You're being annoying" lol Another one would be Her: why do you have Ashley on Snapchat. Me: why not Her: bc she's a slut Me: oh Her: did you sleep with her Me: yea a while back we had a thing Her: wow you're disgusting. Me: okay Her: if you slept with her why do you have her on Snapchat. Would you like me to add my ex back on Snapchat. Me: idc what you do Her: so why do you have her? Me: ahhhhhh. Because I never deleted her. Her: does she post half naked pictures like she does on Facebook Me: …
/r/askMRP09/08/17 07:39 PM
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Isn't that DEERing. Explaining that to her ?
/r/askMRP09/08/17 07:30 PM
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Mostly it's about women I used to fuck. Why I have them on social media. Do I still talk to them. If she sees a chick say hi to me she wants to know if I slept with them. She wants to know why I don't say I love you back. She wants to know if I miss her. Etc.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 07:25 PM
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Yes sir
/r/askMRP09/08/17 03:52 PM
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I don't want you to. I want to understand what you mean. Just an example. When my SO is giving me shit about something. What would a goal be? Getting her to stfu? Kill her? Jk but really
/r/askMRP09/08/17 03:46 PM
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What would a goal be when it comes to that
/r/askMRP09/08/17 03:43 PM
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I know a lot of it has to do with me. But she's very naggy esp when she wants to know something. As I write this I realize I should just fucking tell her and deal with her bitchy attitude. But it will take me a down a road I don't feel like dealing with
/r/askMRP09/08/17 03:42 PM
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Good read. And that's my main issue I guess I dk what i want career wise. I have everything else figured out but that. But I'm still confused on how, let's say I want to become a medic and I go to school and all. How does having that goal change any of this. If my SO is giving me shit about another girl or some bullshit. How does having that goal in mind change any of this from now to then? It's still shit and I have to deal with it. When that happens (shit with my SO) how does knowing what I wa…
/r/askMRP09/08/17 01:09 PM
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It's probably more of idk what I want. With my career is my biggest thing. I literally don't know what to do or what I want. I have fitness goals. I want a family. Kids. Buy a house one day. Those types of goals. But as far as knowing what I want on a day to day basis. I just go with the flow. I know it's a habit I probably need to change. I'm in a routine. Work 11-7p. gym. Meal prep. Read. Repeat. I throw some shit for me and my SO to do on the weekends when I am off. But other than that I'm no…
/r/askMRP09/08/17 01:03 PM
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Thank you I needed to hear this
/r/askMRP09/08/17 03:48 AM
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Thank you
/r/askMRP09/08/17 01:57 AM
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What about why do you have your ex on Snapchat still?
/r/askMRP08/08/17 09:06 PM
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Masculine by design
/r/askMRP08/08/17 09:05 PM
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Just bought NMMNG audio book now. Thanks
/r/askMRP08/08/17 08:13 PM
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Not good. And it's funny you said that about the family alpha. I listened to his podcast today really liked it
/r/askMRP08/08/17 08:11 PM
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I've honestly been on TRP for years. Mastered he single life. But now I can't for the lift of me grasp this MRP shit. I'm trying. But I AA when I shouldn't. And freeze up thinking what should I do. And go silent. My SO constantly is hitting me with idk how to respond to. It's annoying to me. But sometimes I guess she has a point. Sometimes. She don't. And I can't see what the difference is.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 07:21 PM
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But isn't owning up to it DEERing? For example I did something that was probably not something I should be doing while in a relationship. I owned up to it and fixed it. But she wanted to say I was lying. And looking stupid. And I had to explain to her I owned up to it. And fixed it. I didn't lie. Conversation over
/r/askMRP08/08/17 07:19 PM
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I'm reading it now actually just started that chapter
/r/askMRP08/08/17 06:36 PM
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I've read WISNIFG. NMMNG (a while ago). The rational male. and am ready MMSLP right now. I'm right at the beginning of the MAP chapter Along with some side bar posts. Yes I lift. A lot I also take roids so I'm good in the jacked department 27/213/6 foot
/r/askMRP08/08/17 06:36 PM
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