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beta_bud/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:59 PM
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You lost me at "I asked a lot of my female friends about it" lol
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:43 PM
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Either way is bad. Which is why you never answer honestly. Make a joke. This is pickup/seduction 101
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:18 AM
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Such an easy shit test to pass. "You're/You'd be my first" How many times have you had sex? "Today?"
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:20 AM
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You're doing the right thing. I've dealt with boyfriends knocking on their girls door while I'm in her bed. No pussy is worth fighting some dude for. Unwanted drama. Keep strong dude and find a better plate.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:04 AM
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Hahahaha. Then she blocked me on Instagram!?Jesus Christ get a fucking life
/r/askTRP29/11/17 02:57 AM
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Read the Sidebar = I'm being proven wrong and losing frame by reacting to everyone in askTRP in rage.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:46 PM
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At what point does the sidebar say "be a fucking pussy" or "be insecure as fuck and not let 'your' woman talk to other people"?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:45 PM
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Dude. No. Both of your 'techniques' reek of butt hurt. You are basically saying "I'm to insecure to see you talking with another guy / human being so I'm going to react to it." OP never suggested she gave the dude her number or anything major. So what if she flirted? (OMG, another person made my girlfriend laugh). All that matters is that you're the man and you don't react (AKA loosing frame). Even if she did act out of line and gave this dude her number. What's more beta than saying "Have a goo…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:02 PM
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Both of these are losing frame. Continue the night as if nothing happened. Why would you give a shit if she's talking to another guy if you lived by RP principals? Abundance / She's not yours / IDGAF. Have some confidence that she could talk to that guy all night and keep her entertained, but she's still leaving with you. For all you care, she can leave with that guy and you still are gonna have a great night. If you don't feel this way, you are overly invested. seriously.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:41 PM
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NOTHING! Little story. Was with my ex. She went to the bar and a guy started talking to her. I didn't give a shit and she came back almost mad that I wasn't jealous. point is, if you are jealous then you are too invested emotionally.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:10 PM
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Dude! This is great! Can't wait to see the others.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 04:02 AM
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Overthinking a post about overthinking ^
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 04:18 PM
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Thoughts? Yeah. You're a fucking bitch
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 12:54 AM
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Short answer....No Take all the top voted posts and align them with Trump. Then make your own decision.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 06:46 PM
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Im 32, man. Tons of life to live. Believe me, 30 is the new 20.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 12:03 AM
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Dude. She is pregnant. Thank the fucking heavens you don't have to be in that situation. You know what that dude is going through right now? Hell, seriously. You made out dude, big time. You get to live your life however the fuck you want to without a kid in the picture. How do you not see this?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 08:32 PM
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You're over invested and creating a self fulfilling prophesy. read Models by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:32 PM
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Holy Shit. Reading this (/r/niceguys) helped me jam the RP even deeper. So cringy but I could see myself in some of those posts at times. NEVER AGAIN! ::takes shower to rinse off the cringe::
/r/askTRP07/10/17 07:35 PM
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I'm sorry to say man but the Disney bullshit you've been buying is wrong. "The One" doesn't exist. True love is a myth. She would only consider you an option again if you have a higher SMV than her (real or perceived). If you don't know what that is then start reading the sidebar. You are more invested than her which puts your value in her eyes very very low. The only real RP advise is to move on and work on completely removing attachment to her.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:35 PM
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^ this exchange is gross. Wrong sub
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:14 PM
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You are in no state to get her back. Seriously, The only possible scenario that she comes back is when you don't give a shit whether she does or not. Also, where are the mods on this one? This dude posted like 100 times the same question on different forums. If you came for RP advise here it is: READ THE FUCKING SIDE BAR AND IMPROVE YOURSELF. NEVER DIG THROUGH THE TRASH AND NEVER GO BACK TO AN EX. Or do the opposite and come back when you realize everything you are doing doesn't work.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:10 PM
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IMO, just completely ignore it. An Ex used to get pissed because guys would talk to her and I wouldn't get jealous AT ALL. She even said to me "I wish you would get jealous sometimes". We all know (hopefully) to never show jealously. If you even have those jealous feelings, take a step back because you're too emotionally invested. (not talking about you, but to anyone who may be reading).
/r/askTRP06/10/17 06:11 PM
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WTF You never "dated" this girl. dude, seriously. GTFO
/r/askTRP06/10/17 06:06 PM
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wow. This is not RP or sexual strategy. It's quite simply being a piece of shit. I actually hope she never talks to you again. And she'll probably talk to all her friend on how creepy you were watching porn and jerking off right next to her. Cringy
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:12 PM
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At home call center stuff. It sucks but can help you with conversation and confidence if you can target your motivation like that. Just look on craigslist. Tons of stuff out there. Advise: only work a couple hours at a time. It's soul sucking
/r/askTRP02/10/17 11:59 PM
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First, Accept she has moved on. Get more plates and realize you only want her/have feels because you can't have her at the moment. It's a hit to the ego. It also may be a shit test to see if you care, either way don't react.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:19 AM
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Dude, she sees that you're butt hurt. Read the sidebar on shit tests. Agree and Amplify! It's no different than a high school bully. As soon as she sees you don't give a shit then the power comes back to you.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:57 AM
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This is the BP sickness and RP is the prescription. This can only be overcome by realization the harsh truths of RP and really internalizing it. This shit doesn't happen over night. I've been lurking and reading the side bar for almost 6 months and still struggling. The more and more you see it for yourself the more it becomes true. Read ALL sidebar material and ALL field reports / anything to do with AWALT. Think back at your relationships and how they've failed. Take a look at your friends (ev…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 01:39 AM
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In the side bar there is a great article "Getting over a breakup" The most important part in there is realizing it's over and accepting it. Only then can your psyche start to heal and change. Take a few days and really internalize that she is never coming back and you'll have to live your life without her forever. It gets so much easier after you keep telling yourself that. Every time you think of her just say to yourself "This person is no longer in my life, that person I used to know doesn't e…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:00 PM
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It's not that easy since they are her songs. I'm thinking about letting her think she has the power, then being unavailable when she actually needs my help. Make her depend on me. Your right, I did fuck up and not set boundaries at the beginning. AWALT brothers, MOTHER FUCKING AWALT (anger phase is strong right now)
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:12 PM
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Well, I did it because I saw potential in her songs. So it was a project for me to really use my connections and knowledge to get something going. This was pre RP days. Little did I know AWALT, that once a woman doesn't need you anymore, you're gone. hah
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:58 PM
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Solid advice, my friend. I haven't thought of my boundary. If this project didn't have potential I would be out of there. I hate being in this position of scarcity. It's not just for relationships, abundance or scarcity comes through in all aspects of life. ugh.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:49 PM
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What I'm trying to say is that I'm replaceable. But I want to stay in for my own benefit. (in case it takes off, because it's really good). I basically helped this singer-songwriter from just having songs, to having a full band and recording an album. Never saw this disrespect coming. So now I either ride it out, quit, or ask you all for advice to get my power back in the situation .
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:26 PM
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Not my project. It would be in the same vain of dealing with a disrespectful boss.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:20 PM
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The thing is she's really good. So i'm lacking in abundance obviously. I want to see this project through because it could be great for my career. I feel like there are two options. 1. continue to be disrespected and possible further my career. 2. leave but sabotage myself. I almost feel the first option is a more machiavellian approach. If I can just detach and not get butt hurt, it could be my gain in the long run.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:09 PM
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Ok so you've already tried to ask her out on FB and she didn't give you her number or anything? I dunno man. At this point she's not too into it. Maybe try to be un reactive next time you see her but I wouldn't ask her out again if she didn't respond to the first approach. A girl who's interested will make it easy for you. Next.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 10:03 PM
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Dude, I get it. But blocking on everything, even her friends reeks of butt hurt. The point of this is to truly not give a shit if she exists or not. That's the real game plan. Going nuclear like that shows that you actually can't handle it and she has the power. I agree that she was using him, though. But not in a way that we might think. it's not deliberate, it's how they are. TRP teaches to get past the anger and accept it's how they are. I'm sure if OP really thinks about it, he'll recall the…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 09:27 PM
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That's tough, man. AWALT but, she is still human and cares about you for now. Hence the reaching out asking if you're alright. Just don't let it get to the point where you become on orbiter. Or even worse a remote orbiter. She can't think that if she comes back to town you're gonna be there with open arms. Just take the approach and tell her "This isn't what I want and I'm gonna move on". Or just tell her to stop contacting you. (if you really want to see the hamster start spinning) You're doing…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 08:44 PM
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Put her into your frame. Do you have her number? Try one night to say "Hey, I'm at X place. Come join". If she flakes then hard next, if she comes you have a change to escalate in your own world (frame). Also, What IOIs? Can you be misinterpreting?
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:56 PM
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Seriously, I've made a complete idiot out of my self with my last ex because I wasn't ready or indifferent. It's truly when you don't care (abundance mentality) that you can have those convos and make them want you again because you know you can and will find someone better. This won't work unless you really internalize it. Fake it to you make it works with new girls, not old. It's really all about perceived SMV. If she feels she talking to a stranger because you don't care to summon those old f…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:43 PM
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I can see where this is going. My advice would to act completely indifferent. Which will be hard because you aren't. I'd suggest getting to that point before meeting up because you will fuck up. She would be so attracted knowing that you could leave and be totally fine. If you aren't at that point, it will show. The relationship may go a bit longer but if she senses you're overly invested it will go downhill because she'll have a perceived higher SMV that you. Good luck man. I'm sure many folks …
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:32 PM
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