betacrucis Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
207	Stare down oneitis to enter the Matrix		betacrucis	/r/seduction	01/06/19 09:45 AM
1	Closing at a cafe while she's on a networking coffee date	Comprehensive	betacrucis	/r/seduction	22/01/20 08:56 PM

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3	Social media is cancer to your life: A simple philosophy to become a tribe builder instead of a lone wolf. Great content. The question is about discipline: how do you build this, stone by stone? How do you catch yourself before or even during staring at yet another rectangle for yet another hour? How do you BEGIN being constructive rather than passive consumer? Tips, please, gentlemen.	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/20 01:42 PM
2	How to really stop putting women on a pedestal? Have you read Models?	/r/seduction	13/06/20 11:57 AM
1	Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attached Read Models.	/r/seduction	16/02/20 11:54 PM
11	I Hooked Up With the Hottest Girl I Have Ever Had...But I Need Advice I went home showered and passed out from 10 AM to 3 PM. God I miss college.	/r/seduction	15/02/20 03:51 AM
1	Just got rejected and I feel like my heart was broken before I even went on a date Read Models. Recognise that chemicals in your brain are deceiving you. Gftow Listen to some Patrice. https://youtu.be/C1IsDto41Tw	/r/seduction	26/01/20 12:05 AM
1	Closing at a cafe while she's on a networking coffee date Look, I don’t understand the rule. I’m not a n00b at this, so the faq is not going to help, though I appreciate the gesture. I will post in the other sub. But I have no idea what this sub is for, at this point, because I can’t even imagine a post I could put up that wouldn’t be taken down.	/r/seduction	23/01/20 02:10 AM
1	Closing at a cafe while she's on a networking coffee date I don’t understand. I am asking about how to close a girl who’s in the middle of a work meeting at a café. It came up bc I had an experience today but I am clearly not asking how to get that particular girl. She’s gone. I’ll never see her again. I’m asking about future similar situations. So can you explain to me how this is against the rules? I’m a bit pissed because I knew this would happen— first time I’ve posted here, of course I was going to get taken down.	/r/seduction	23/01/20 02:03 AM
1	Closing at a cafe while she's on a networking coffee date This is not a post about a specific person. This is not about oneitis. It’s about how to handle this kind of situation. I’d appreciate it if you would reinstate the post. It’s not a field report. It’s a question about outer game strategy.	/r/seduction	23/01/20 01:58 AM
9	Depressed virgin. I am typing this right now inside my parents' house. I am socially isolated and having moderate amount of FOMO. It is another Saturday night and I have no plans or anything. What would you suggest? What are you doing to implement? It takes time and patience — but also some action. Start small. Start simple. It will come! I have a lot of advice, but Models contains most of it. Also, you don’t need to hit bars to meet people. You can walk around Chinatown (or wherever downtown). You can go to a meetup. You can simply go out and read a book at a restaurant by yourself and be content with that. This, may I add, is pretty key and something that took me a long time to develop — being comfortable…	/r/seduction	23/06/19 01:53 AM
5	Depressed virgin. I am typing this right now inside my parents' house. I am socially isolated and having moderate amount of FOMO. It is another Saturday night and I have no plans or anything. What would you suggest? Yes. Read Models. This is the only advice you need. The rest is commentary.	/r/seduction	23/06/19 01:53 AM
1	Stare down oneitis to enter the Matrix Respect my man. This is all great stuff!	/r/seduction	02/06/19 03:53 AM
2	Stare down oneitis to enter the Matrix Lol thanks my brother!	/r/seduction	02/06/19 03:52 AM
1	Stare down oneitis to enter the Matrix My work is done. ;)	/r/seduction	02/06/19 03:52 AM
1	Stare down oneitis to enter the Matrix This is hard to give advice on, because it's tough to know what's behind it. It sounds like the thought behind it is, "Why can they all be happy while I'm alone?" Not the greatest mindset to be in, which I think is what you're hinting at wanting to change. Go back to my original post and start with Models and work your way through the material. Happy to answer questions in DM. Oneitis is a blessing because it's a challenge that can really help you break through to becoming a better man all aro…	/r/seduction	02/06/19 03:52 AM
1	Stare down oneitis to enter the Matrix Then you'll LOVE Models. Read it!	/r/seduction	02/06/19 03:49 AM
2	Stare down oneitis to enter the Matrix Ah a fellow Aussie. Bonza!	/r/seduction	02/06/19 03:39 AM
2	Stare down oneitis to enter the Matrix Sorry, to clarify: I meant CBT techniques that aren’t the triple-column method. I’m thinking primarily of biofeedback. Strongly recommend Feeling Good by Burns.	/r/seduction	01/06/19 05:51 PM
3	Stare down oneitis to enter the Matrix “Models” is an incredible reframing of rejection (among other gems.) If you haven’t read it, go to your local bookstore and buy a copy and do so immediately! I use both CBT and mindfulness and I think they’re complementary. CBT triple column can be remarkably effective when done correctly because it helps you recognize the logical errors in your toxic thoughts and allows you to start replacing them with rational alternative thoughts. Other non-triple column CBT techniques like biofeedback are al…	/r/seduction	01/06/19 02:54 PM
22	Stare down oneitis to enter the Matrix My humblest apologies for completely buggering up the analogy. But you knew what I meant!	/r/seduction	01/06/19 02:42 PM
1	What did you start doing to get girls to view you sexually? Read “Models” by mark manson. There’s a lot of cheap old e-versions online; splurge a few bucks and buy the book from a store. It could change your life. There’s a lot in there about authenticity, honesty, vulnerability, and directness. It’s quite practical. One key takeaway is making friends with rejection. If you’re honest and can handle rejection by reframing it as a good thing, you’re going to fare a lot better. This one thing has profoundly changed my relationships with women. “Game” is kin…	/r/seduction	09/05/19 02:48 PM
2	Do some girls just have "flirty" personalities? Tell him. It’s the kindest thing you can do.	/r/seduction	28/04/19 12:28 PM
26	Im heartbroke. Im suffering. Been all day crying. I’m going to give you the gift someone on Reddit once gave me: read “Models” by Mark Manson.	/r/seduction	03/02/19 04:41 PM