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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | When am I done? | betatest-in-progress | /r/askMRP | 18/04/20 02:38 AM |
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| 1 | When am I done?I specifically called out that I'm NOT thinking that way. I understand there is no "done". And I've seen from other comments in the thread (and from the reading I've been doing) that my relationship with another person actually doesn't matter that much. What matters is my relationship with myself and whether I'm congruent with myself morally and mentally (am I being who I am?). [edit] But you're right. I did frame this post in terms of "who I am in relation to another". I guess my question was s… | /r/askMRP | 20/04/20 03:07 PM |
| 1 | When am I done?do you feel the need to be in another relationship? Oh hell no. If this one is done, then I'm done. For now at least. [...] ask yourself why you're asking these other questions about what condition you should be in [...] I was asking because there is a possibility of reconciling. And I wanted to know how much time apart to stake out for myself. The volume of time depends on the bench-marks (here I assume I know how much time it will take me to change). I think you still have some blue pilled pro… | /r/askMRP | 20/04/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2020Thanks for this. I hear you. I'm in therapy with my wife, and individually with a different therapist. ...person A convincing person B to do therapy is counterproductive... After the separation I asked her to continue sessions, she said yes. When I asked, the point was "staying connected and maintaining (what little) relationship we have left". This was from my need to know that things will be "ok". This is non-functional. When I make that request with that covert contract I'm assuming her prese… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2020OYS1 Married 9 years, together 10. 0 kids. I was here for about 6 months 5 years ago. Obviously I didn't learn much. The other day I saw someone talk about "shit testing" on an Akkad video on YT and I started looking at all of the stuff I used to read. I'm glad I'm back in to this. I need to change. Current Reading NMMNG, second time Current Condition Absolute beta-wreck. I cheated on my wife twice. Once in 2015 and once in 2017. We've been in couples therapy since 2015. I lied to her more than … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/20 05:01 PM |
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