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Basic Questionbetter_red_than_d3d/r/askMRP01/03/19 03:01 PM
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OYS #5 STATS: 28yr, wife26, married 5 together 7 5’9” 160lb 12%bf navy method Sq: 200 5x5 Bp: 125 5x5 OP: 95 5x5 Row: 95 5x5 DL: 225 1x5 READINGS Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, TRM, Pook, WISNIFG, MAP Current: TWOTSM, Day Bang PHYSICAL I’ve gained 10 lbs since I started lifting. I’m planning to gain another 10 before cutting. StrongLifts 5x5 3 times this week and went to 7 BJJ classes in 6 days. RELATIONSHIP Overall I’ve been doing a better job maintaining frame and not DEERing, but had a few fuckups t…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 02:02 PM
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For me it was more the fact that I believed that marriage was the end of the game. She said “I do” now I can relax, because only terrible people cheat, and my wife is not a terrible person. Then I read TRM and... oh... all women can cheat. The game never ended and I’ve just been fucking around doing jack shit with my life. How could I have been so damn stupid!!! But I’m okay now, time to get to work!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 01:10 AM
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Thanks for the feedback! Yeah, the sex validation thing was really childish and I should have seen it as it was happening. As for the job thing. I am the “video guy” at a large company. None of my coworkers work in the video/film industry, and I feel like I’ve become disconnected with the industry that I used to have a passion for. The work I do is dull, redundant, and it doesn’t challenge me at all. I could a) find a job where I would be a part of a production team, working on new creative cont…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 01:06 AM
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My wife complains about how society puts so much pressure on women to look perfect (photoshopped images in magazines, makeup commercials, etc.) and says that women should not have to adhere to such high standards. That’s what she SAYS. Then she spends hours watching makeup tutorials on YouTube, meticulously researches every skincare product she buys, uses anti-aging cream at age 26, and goes to yoga everyday. That’s what she DOES. It’s become a hobby of hers and I can tell she really enjoys it. …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 02:07 PM
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OYS #3 Stats: 28yr, wife26, married 5 together 7 5’9” 152lbs 12%bf Sq: 175 Bp: 115 OP: 95 Row: 115 DL: 215 Mission Be my best self and live a fulfilling life. Goals -find my mission -quit procrastinating -start my social life Readings Finished: NMMNG, MMSLP, TRM, Pook Current: WISNIFG, MAP, TWOTSM Mental/Marriage It’s been a few weeks since I last posted. I’ve made a lot of progress mentally, and am pretty sure I have moved to the acceptance phase. Working through the anger phase has been tough.…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 12:25 PM
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I told my wife that if she ever gets pregnant I will get a paternity test no matter what the circumstance. It’s not a trust issue, it’s just a matter of policy. Now it’s in her head that if she ever has an affair she better use condoms or she will be caught!
/r/askMRP01/04/19 02:29 AM
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Thanks for putting me back on the right track, and I really appreciate the business advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/19 01:12 AM
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I definitely have a problem with rationalizing my lazy behavior by making excuses. And I have a tough time dropping my ego and owning my shit. The truth is that I am pretty sure if I added another 5lbs to my reps I’d be failing sets. I don’t know my 1 rep max, but I am weak. I sometimes need to sit out a few rounds towards the end of bjj, but that happens regardless of when I lift or not. Thanks for calling my bullshit on that. You’re probably right about the anger/resentment. I thought I was ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/19 04:55 PM
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Edit: after reading u/LeadingMyLife ‘s comment I realize that I wasn’t being honest with myself when I wrote this. I am trying to do and say the right things, but I haven’t internalized the core concepts yet. I seek validation in everything I do and I try to hide my flaws. I didn’t see it when I wrote this post, but I was even trying to seek validation from you guys and I wasn’t actually owning my shit. I am going back to reread NMMNG and work on breaking free before before doing anything else. …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/19 12:53 AM
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Thanks for the advice! I tried it the next night and it worked. She told me she was feeling tired, but would have sex with me in the morning, or we could have sex now, but she would be half asleep starfish. I said “I want both.” And she was suddenly awake, we went upstairs and fucked, and then fucked again the next morning.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 08:34 PM
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Thanks for the reply. The red pill has been tough to swallow, but denying the truth would be a disaster. I’m not gonna think about kids until I get myself figured out and she finishes school, we can talk about it then. I’m still not even sure it’s something I want, and I have enough other shit to deal with. Now that I think about it, I was probably just feeling conflicted about the kid think because I didn’t like that I didn’t have a choice (oneitis). Once I have options the choice is mine.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/19 01:41 AM
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When you say “feminine duty” are you referring to the cooking/cleaning/shopping? I’ve seen some mixed messages around MRP regarding housework. Some say that since it’s stuff you would be doing if you’re single, then you are being a good captain by taking care of it. My take on it is that I no longer rely on my wife for anything except sex. She never nags me to do anything because she knows I handle it all. I am completely independent, and she is not needed, just nice to have. But then I wonder i…
/r/askMRP01/03/19 07:47 PM
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It was within 10 minutes. I waited until the show I was watching was over and turned the tv off to make it not obvious, but she knows we would usually watch another episode and I never go to bed without her, so yeah, it was obvious.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 05:48 PM
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I was worried I would come across butthurt, but I didn’t want to look like a begging puppy either. I really do need to get better at gaming her. She seems annoyed whenever I try to game her, but I’m guessing that’s due to my low SMV.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 04:19 PM
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You’re right. You’re 100% right. She is an extremely strong willed person, BP me just thought that meant that she wanted to lead, and I dug myself a hole. Now I realize that the fact that she is strong willed means that I need to step it up even more.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 03:59 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I am working on restarting my social life. That’s now my priority #1.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 03:52 PM
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For history: she rarely gives hard a hard no. Even when she isn’t in the mood, if I push hard enough she will eventually give in for some starfish sex. Sometimes when she is in the mood she will still resist because she likes when I keep pushing. I guess it makes her feel wanted when I keep trying, but it makes me feel unwanted when she rejects me, and I want to change that behavior. Last weekend I pushed and pushed and got some starfish sex. Then the next day I got a text saying “will you pleas…
/r/askMRP01/03/19 03:40 PM
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For he stats, see my other comment I copy/pasted my #1 OYS. I am in shape, but have been an emotional train wreck in the past (getting better in the last 3 weeks, but I know it will take more time than that) and mediocre career. I know she wanted me to cuddle because she asked for it. We were still cuddling, but she wanted me to stick to the clothes parts. I think you’re right about the different realities. She says all the nice things to me, but doesn’t show it with actions.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 03:32 PM
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I posted this OYS this week, but it got removed because my new account (it’s still visible to me, so I thought it was up still). Here for context. OYS #1 Stats: 28 years old, wife 26. Married 5 years (together 7). 5’9” 150lbs BF 12% Why I’m here: Since discovering MRP 3 weeks ago I have realized that I have been doing everything wrong my whole life. I’m a beta nice guy with a mediocre career and she is a med-student. The road ahead is not looking bright for me unless I make some significant chan…
/r/askMRP01/03/19 03:23 PM
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OYS #1 Stats: 28 years old, wife 26. Married 5 years (together 7). 5’9” 150lbs BF 12% Why I’m here: Since discovering MRP 3 weeks ago I have realized that I have been doing everything wrong my whole life. I’m a beta nice guy with a mediocre career and she is a med-student. The road ahead is not looking bright for me unless I make some significant changes right now. Things my wife has told me in the past: “If you get a six-pack I will WANT to blow you everyday” guess who still doesn’t have a six-…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 08:59 PM
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