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(You) are likely just fine! Relationships unfortunately almost always fall apart and it sucks. Straight up feels like mourning a loss! I’ve been there with a marriage / 7 years gone. People make terrible fleeting choices and you can’t let that bring yourself down. Always take care of yourself first be it happiness, health, and more. Continuing growing, continuing pursuing if it feels right, and let life’s lessons give you lessons on partner selection
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:47 PM
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You have no idea what white knighting is and that’s barely a woman, only in court. Stick to one’s who can sit at a bar.
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:23 PM
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It’s weird on a development level and loser status. 18 year olds are damn near kids. You’re 23-24 and date a 18 year old … eh ok. You’re 34? I’m going to assume you have some issues. Down vote it, but if it was your kid or sister you’d have issues with it
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:01 PM
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Ice hockey , motorcycles/rebuilding them, dabble with guitar, new scuba diver, but ultimately traveling and learning culture is my favorite. I do them all for me as without them I’d be lost in the world
/r/seduction26/10/22 06:18 PM
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Partners come and go. There’s only one (you) do what you need to do to make yourself happy and enriched and add a partner/s to compliment your life when the time fits and is correct
/r/seduction25/10/22 04:25 PM
3

Takes both
/r/seduction25/10/22 04:23 PM
1

Hey on the other hand it might go from moving out this month, to this week. Lesson learned. Roommates is a tricky one and often just a fantasy. I try to not make moves in situations where people feel trapped. (Why I also don’t do hike dates, or this roommate situation) It puts her in a spot of “oh shit, I live here /sleep here, now what “ rather it is a yes or no. In the future. Lightly flirt with roomie if at all, but maybe leave all of that on her.
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:45 PM
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They’re all hookup apps. Leave it out, get the match, and tell them out of the gate you’re “keeping things light hearted, slow moving towards a serious relationship”. 99% of the time it’s well received as opposed to just saying it. Women still want to be chased a bit. There’s no game of cat-mouse if everyone just knows what’s going down.
/r/seduction03/10/22 04:16 PM
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I’d just run as soon as she asked if you’d simp for her. Either which way. Make your intentions known prior.
/r/seduction02/10/22 10:41 PM
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Then try harder
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:54 PM
-6

The people here have all spoken. Time to take that information and move on down the road
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:13 PM
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My Frenchie is my wingman and center of my whole world honestly. Pup is my ride or die and definitely helps with the conversations. I find it makes having people at your house more comfortable as well as opposed to going back somewhere empty
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:50 PM
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I used to be this way. 50’s maybe not, 30’s in a year yes. To each their own, but I just have too many hobbies, friends, and realized a lot of it was major validation. Maybe you’re hitting that mark, maybe not, but some aspects of life are going to be majorly lacking and unbalanced with that lifestyle. It’s exhausting enough at the pace I date. (That sounded chodey for folks having troubles, I apologize). Enjoy if it’s genuine joy, but I like knowing my partners and doing other things a little m…
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:57 PM
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Notes: yes I agree. Get in, get out, move on. Find my comment down the line. Secondly: I don’t really want to associate with a gal who can’t handle one more conversation coming from a place of flattery. Fortunately she won’t want it anyway right? So move along from those ones, they were never going to happen, but you don’t know unless you try. That’s my point. I see yours even if it’s … eh..
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:37 PM
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Getting approached is generally part of life. I get approached tons in my line of work, out and about, and so much more. I think most are going to assume that the woman/individual can survive handling those interactions that aren’t coming from a place of seduction. Having the mindset of “I’d hate to bother her, she probably deals with a lot of people” is simply disqualifying yourself before you start.
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:25 PM
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Women (most) don’t want to take a lead on anything. At least initially with dating / dating interactions. You take the lead on starting the conversation. You take the lead on picking the date spot, you take the lead on making any moves guiding towards intimacy. Eventually she’ll warm up and contribute in those areas, but mostly they don’t want to or honestly don’t know how to half the time. YOU have to lead the conversation. Saying hi literally drops a big ball in her court with nowhere to throw…
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:11 PM
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Dude. There’s a whole Reddit section for people Learning to approach. Women aren’t getting it 20 times a day unless it’s a club
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:07 PM
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You say they’re tired of it, but most Don’t even have the guts to make public compliments these days sooo
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:00 PM
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No woman no cry. Get woman prob cry. Cry
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:33 PM
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Lol kings don’t listen to any of this
/r/seduction08/09/22 06:33 AM
1

As little as possible so I have something to talk about when we meet
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:54 AM
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Seconded that do not settle on any big items. I mean any. It will end bad. None the less ya got give it a try now and then (or not)
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:43 AM
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Yeah I’ve never met any total smoke shows who hang out on Reddit tbh
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:59 AM
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Bubba, you’re looking for validation here! If you’re getting dates don’t worry. Solid photo ya got there
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:47 PM
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Just a straight loser. If these are all your real thoughts, seek therapy, hit the gym, get a new wardrobe, and we’ll all lift you up in the process
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:53 PM
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As someone who is divorced and spent a lot of time doing casual things …. It’s perfectly fucking healthy and I’d be more alarmed about someone jumping into a serious relationship.
/r/seduction22/08/22 03:42 PM
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All around.. it’s probably better being extra skinny vs extra fat. However if you have the ability to dial it in and add a few it would likely help ya
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:07 PM
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Or she’s just dragging you along
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:08 AM
1

Just take the “why pay for milk when you can get it for free” to heart. Keep doing you and your own thing. Let her poke at those questions. Is what it is, but it makes it all easier. Women hate needy dudes, and if they wiff it just a smidge they’re out. Not saying you were particularly needy, but if they even think it.. it’s over
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:15 PM
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Hiking is a terrible date until you know someone. I’ve done it and halfway through you’re kind of in this spot. Do I make a sexy move/hike kiss? Could be great! Or she could not be feeling this at all and now we’re trapped walking for miles together if you go for it and it’s a awkward situation. After you’re sweaty and gross. She likely won’t want to come home with you in that state unless you know her well. Lastly never talk to her about being alone like this. Just completely throw anything rel…
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:10 AM
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after the first text all you needed to say was “all good, peace. Hit me up if you change your mind” and delete her #
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:52 AM
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An inferior position to the girl because you ate her out. Good fucking grief lol. This isn’t word from the wise.
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:50 AM
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You just think it’s the most embarrassing moment of your life! Just wait!
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:14 AM
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30’s are better. You’re pulling older, younger, and people assume you have your shit together even if you don’t.
/r/seduction04/07/22 07:41 PM
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Just enjoy the ride of meeting people rest falls in place
/r/seduction02/07/22 03:08 AM
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Less is more early on, be honest about your intentions, most of them just want to feel something. Typically it’s passion sprinkled with a little healthy suspense
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:12 PM
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My favorite is if they have a pet I’ll say something like “that cute smile, great eyes, perfect hair, oh and you’re also pretty cute just as well!” Usually throws em off or is kind of funny. I stick to pet / dog stuff and if you aren’t a pet person I’m probably not interested anyway haha. All in all something to actually talk about besides looks
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:19 PM
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Honestly just have to realize and become comfortable with the fact that life is fairly long and women, friends, hell all forms of relationships come and go. As soon as you become a little more comfortable with that and learn from it the better you’ll be. You’ll gain nothing by not going except regret. Go, have fun, be polite, you’ll be a better man for it.
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:18 PM
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It’s 4 months. Imagine 4 years. Run
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:48 AM
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Just delete this whole thing now
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:18 PM
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Nothing kills it more for me than being called dude/bro. At least for me personally. Honestly, just wish more women had the guts to initiate things. Good grief the dating world would be easier
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:36 PM
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Ok.
/r/seduction19/06/22 08:39 PM
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Hahahaha maybe the top ballsy ones, but generally no.. you will still have far better results putting work in
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:40 AM
0

💯 no question. I go through spurts where I don’t want to date or sleep with anyone just so I can focus on myself, job, goals, whatever it may be. Time for yourself is a investment that will pay off so long as you utilize it correctly. The type of person I want to date also requires me to have that level of dedication to bettering myself just as well.
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:52 PM
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This
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:41 PM
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Yeah, you just really can’t put a whole lot of stock in these things. I’d feel differently if it was a in person encounter
/r/seduction01/06/22 03:36 PM
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I have had many tinder / hinge dates and hookups that were me being left on read and just not replying for weeks months until they reached out. Didn’t chase em, didn’t pester them, moved on to others, and they eventually came around. No point in being bitter or burning the bridge, but do expect it’s done. To be fair I’ve done it to women just as well. It happens when you’re talking to many in a online dating scene
/r/seduction31/05/22 09:30 PM
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Statistically… I’m still going to go with a yes. Low value high value.. who gives a shit, she has better odds than a chubby guy lol
/r/seduction24/05/22 09:24 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:18 PM
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What’s the second most scary thing for you? Practice that. Mine is interviewing. I’ll interview for jobs even when I’m happy at mine. Rather I get the position or not I got the practice, and more importantly I have even less nerves the next time! Find the second scariest thing in your life and concur it. Get real comfortable with that scary feeling until you get a high off of it. Seriously it sounds cheese ball, but if you do something scary enough times it either becomes less scary, or in my ca…
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:05 PM
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I’m 💯 going to try this
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:57 PM
5

When you have options be it man or woman it becomes easier to not settle down. Generally speaking
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:31 PM
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Nothing positive comes out of it. Your way more likely to get a positive reaction from a “wow, he didn’t pester me and now I’m free”. No way does she go “oh his persistence is attractive” they make memes about those guys. Let it go. Find another cute chick and you might gain attention.
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:27 PM
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If you aren’t presenting the very best attractive version of yourself, you’re going to have a hard fucking time. Especially in a world where it’s so easy to swipe through potential partners. What sets you aside from others? Me? Lost 40 pounds, grew a beard, got some tattoos ,for me not dating, but it helped) lifting, better job, cool ass hobbies like playing hockey and motorcycles. Flaunt the crap out of my cute ass French Bulldog. It’s all a big peacocking session to get your in, and eventually…
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:11 PM
1

My buddies 6’4. Hasn’t had a date in years. I’m 5’11. Go on several a week. All about your efforts, be it in self and pursuit
/r/seduction18/05/22 10:57 PM
1

If it is, they ain’t the one
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:07 PM
1

If your goal is to date, simply move on there are others more open. If you have nothing to do that day, why not, just don’t bank on anything sexual taking place and be cool with no agenda.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:16 PM
1

Traveling hookups require being social and willingness to throw yourself into some uncomfortable social situations. You say you hate clubs / feel awkward. But who the hell cares you’re traveling. You’ll never see them again. You can be kind, attractive, solo, and not a weirdo if you try. That plus stating you’re traveling on your internet dating apps will help or at least funnel out the wrong ones
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:51 AM
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I go for “hell yeahs” only. Who wants to hang around someone who treats you like a chore. It’s way more fulfilling, as well as attractive in my eyes to go on a date with someone who is “hell yeah” let’s meet up. I shoot one shot, one invitation, it’s accepted, declined, or they come up with the next plan if they aren’t available. Otherwise I don’t shoot an additional shot. Way too many potentially better partners out there.
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:04 PM
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Nah, just sounds weird. Don’t say this op. You just have to make those moves and the rest will fall into place.
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:34 PM
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Why severally limit yourself to niche women who will think this is great on a first date, when you can widen it to almost all women who will think it’s great on a 4th date
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:19 AM
1

How much are you paying these coaches
/r/seduction04/05/22 12:53 AM
1

Karma, what goes around comes round, and so on. So many women out there, why get in the middle of bs. Not worth it
/r/seduction02/05/22 08:04 PM
1

In typical context it seems to be used in a derogatory way. What you can take away from it: no one is yours, you’ll never know when it could end, always try your best.
/r/seduction23/04/22 11:48 PM
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I tend to be a long in the tooth texter. My rule is to try and have her text be the last. Tends to keep the balance for me. If there’s a spot where you can disengage, absolutely do it. It’s hard to undertext, it’s easy to overtext
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:54 AM
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I’m an emotional guy about certain things. I did have a ex drunkenly tease and berate me over my complicated relationship with my father that I chose to dive into and share with her. It’s further pushed me to be even more carful with being “open”
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:33 PM
1

It’s ultimately not her problem. I recently broke up with a gal who just laid in bed all day for months. Wouldn’t work, wouldn’t leave the house. The energy got unbearable. I know she has some things to work on and I’m sad and empathetic, but being in that relationship really sucked me down. The right balance is having a supportive partner as YOU work on YOUR issues in a productive and active way.
/r/seduction07/04/22 04:45 AM
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If she doesn’t make you go “damn” when she walks in the room, she ain’t it
/r/seduction27/03/22 05:43 AM
3

Cheaters get zero chances. Could talk to me about what bothers you first (be an adult)
/r/seduction27/03/22 05:35 AM
1

Cringe
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:43 PM
9

Harsh, true, necessary
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:32 AM
2

Nicely done and great courage. However.. in the future I don’t think I’d sit around with her for 20 minutes. You don’t really know each other, and it can potentially make some stress or uncomfortableness rather you know it or not. It’s also better to seem like a busy guy with a place to be. Next time you see a good one approach, ask her a question like where is such and such to break the ice, tell her you think she’s cute, try to get a # and move along. It’ll leave some mystery for her, and give…
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:17 AM
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10 this past year after my divorce and going to the gym consistently. But honestly you can’t sleep your way out of personal troubles and it’s a bad measure for the value you bring to others and the quality of life you can live. Seeing someone now consistently and it’s nice to feel cared for over playing the dating/sleeping around games imo. It’s not a competition out there and everyone has their own speed and progression.
/r/seduction27/12/21 07:59 PM
1

Debbie does Dallas
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:41 PM
1

Stop
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:55 PM
5

Don’t bring it up unless she brings it up (up until you’re having conversations about making it a exclusive relationship or what you want it to be). With that being said be mindful and proactive about protection for her sake and others as you date around. When I was actively dating multiples ignorance is bliss, and I didn’t want to hear about who the woman/women slept with either.
/r/seduction09/12/21 09:37 PM
2

Shine a flashlight at them 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:53 AM
5

Only thing weird here is this post. It’s family dude. If you can’t even trust your gf with her family you have bigger issues in the relationship.
/r/seduction16/11/21 08:18 PM
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You can seduce in a classy dignified way for all involved. Many here don’t get that
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:31 PM
3

Be prepared to lose someone who at this point is purely a friend
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:22 PM
1

Never have told a woman what I make, and typically can stay more busy than I desire. You’re doing yourself no good by sharing private information like that, especially money. Attracting the wrong attention, while looking insecure.
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:06 PM
2

I’ve kind of slowed down my dating as of late to a singular gal, but right after my divorce last year and for the better part of this year I was on a tear. Usually take them home date one etc. attractiveness of course helps. Don’t you want a attractive date / s.o. ? But like everything, things can be supplemented for your behavior, hygiene “vibe” - ( I hate that word) Etc. You’re better to continue to work on you, and when you talk to potential dates act like the world doesn’t ride on it, becaus…
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:16 PM
1

Just gotta do it, .. man. Seriously. Maybe that’s what separates the boys from men. “Doing it” reading books and watching videos can’t beat the manliness of actually diving deep into something. Moving out, careers, hobbies, shit even love. Instead of reading about manliness, read about budgeting appropriately, make sure you can afford to move out even if you need a roommate and do the damn thing. At that point you’re well on your way and even ahead of many
/r/seduction22/09/21 12:52 AM
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Exacty. I love traveling and experiencing things solo. Just went to Hawaii for a wedding then explored solo for two weeks, including bars
/r/seduction21/09/21 06:12 AM
4

Get your own money
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:32 PM
3

On to the next one. Your shot your shot and there is no way to better improve the situation, only demise it. Best case, you bring a smoke Show home and she sees you walk in the building with her. Don’t let this gal know you get let down, don’t let her know her ghosting shook you either. It shouldn’t anyway! Plenty of other women and ways to spend your valuable time. Maybe she’ll come around later.
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:15 AM
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No one wants to see a picture of a dick. Not even the horniest gal. Dicks are ugly. - someone who wears one
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:32 AM
10

Yeah you don’t have a fwb until you’ve Benefited! In these situations I typically don’t pry into my partners previous sex life, so there’s no reason to share your lack of one
/r/seduction19/08/21 03:38 PM
3

Haha id always say I have snacks. But those are MY snacks
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:01 PM
1

Or hurt lol
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:42 PM
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