bettydraperapologist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	This poor man's wife and family - but porn is a normal and healthy expression of sexuality 🤡 wtf? like crispin glover in charlie's angels? jesus christ.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 11:37 AM
31	This poor man's wife and family - but porn is a normal and healthy expression of sexuality 🤡 yes! they grow up learning what to say about themselves to get pity when they are caught. they casually throw around suicide and self harm because they know it makes them seem more sympathetic - they aren't looking for help, in writing this post all the guy wants is for someone ( a woman) to tell him he's not a bad man so he can be absolved. if it was so intolerable, they'd act on the urge to get help. men love acting on their urges.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 11:28 AM
11	OH NO! I’ve been outed as ‘vanilla’ by some p*rn-sick scrote who says my sex life must be boring. Whatever will I do?!?!? #VanillaIsValid Most women who engage in kink are doing it for their male partner's benefit or to gain the attention of men. most of which is unconscious and i'm not judging -that's female socialisation! Even if women did genuinely experience sexual arousal through their own pain and subjugation, that is a form of self harm and should be treated as such. He calls a sex life without violence "miserable" because he's projecting. It makes him miserable that women call him out for his pornsick habits and outright m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 03:42 AM
17	If you removed the context from this post, you'd think it was a mother writing about her toddler son. Why do pickmeishas coddle these manchildren like this? Sis let him cook for himself! this is wildly messed up but i do feel sympathetic for this woman. i know a lot of you think she's being infantalising but i think this could very well all be coming from him. I've not been in this exact circumstance but i know how quickly a relationship can become completely unbalanced without realizing because you're chasing this impossible goal of doing THE MOST so that your shitty partner appreciates you/recognizes your efforts. He's fussy and spoilt and uses his neurodivergency to guilt her…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 12:43 AM
50	A great video on choice feminism a few years back my friend was toying with the idea of stripping and i was trying to casually get her off that ledge without going full radfem on her and scaring her off. I talked about how her perspective on what was happening was probably different from what the men at those clubs were thinking and she actually said "well all that matters is that YOU feel empowered in what you do, their opinion is irrelevant" !!!! ...and this is why Choice feminism is toxic, it encourages women to actively ign…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/21 04:14 AM
9	“Flowers are impractical and expensive”, my ex said. He was not a flower guy and I thought I could accept it i think a certain kind of guy sees the act of giving flowers as submissive (spending money on a person that has 0 benefit for them) so if they do follow through with it, i think they want it to be considered a huge sacrifice (!) and for it to be literally discarded so quickly i must really hurt them right in their tiny entitled hearts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 11:23 PM
14	“I am a piece of sht, but it’s not completely* intentional” Yuck! i literally grimaced while reading out what he said to you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 11:10 PM
29	“I am a piece of sht, but it’s not completely* intentional” i LOATHE when men use the excuse of "i didn't mean/intend to hurt you" like, that's not where the bar is. we are adults, i expect that people who know me well, consider me and my feelings when they make decisions that involve me. Men are just so self involved and it needs to be brought up early in the relationship if there's any hope of them working on it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 11:07 PM
18	Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡 i feel like if we gave them sex dolls, they'd still whine and complain that its not the real thing and that their "needs" aren't being met. I think the problem is that we humour them argument too much. I hate that there's ambiguity in this. We need to constantly be screaming in men's faces that sex isn't a right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 10:39 AM