| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 30 | Why do guys DM random girls? | Discussion | betwen3and20characte | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 12:58 AM |
| 18 | How can I start going my own way? | betwen3and20characte | /r/MGTOW | 22/07/20 10:48 PM | |
| 2 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman? | Discussion | betwen3and20characte | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Men receive no sympathy from society | betwen3and20characte | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:39 AM | |
| 1 | Do boys of single mothers have a harder time finding relationships? | betwen3and20characte | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 06:08 AM | |
| 1 | Women are less empathetic to men's issues | betwen3and20characte | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:51 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | How easy or difficult is dating for you? How much male attention do you get in daily life?Yeah but society still gas lights men and women that it's equal or even that women have it worse, which is why this sub reddit exists. I mean I don't mind that this is the fact, I just wish this privilege was at least acknowledged you know? Doesn't feel good being told that you're the oppressor all the times when it feels like you're the one at the disadvantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 01:26 AM |
| – | How easy or difficult is dating for you? How much male attention do you get in daily life?Proof women have it easier. This sub is done. We've found the conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 03:37 PM |
| 12 | Are Dating Apps making you a Robot? (Or Are they a sign we already are?)Dating apps make men want to kill themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:17 PM |
| 6 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?Women think 90% of men are ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:16 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?I didn't? You assumed I did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:19 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Because no one would in the first place lol. Men and women love completely different lives. Women will complain about too much attention and men complain about having no attention. The only difference is that people are at least sympathetic towards women, not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?What happened? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:12 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?That's not related to what I was trying to imply. You're arguing that it's ok to be afraid of men because they are more likely to commit crimes but not black people because they are oppressed. Have you ever thought about the men's feelings though? You think it's a happy life where most people are afraid of you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 03:36 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?People do not give a shit about men. There is no sympathy for men. I literally gave an example and your response was how women also have it worse. That's the life of a man. Feeling like you can't talk about anything without being neglected or shamed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 03:21 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?So we should be afraid of black people too since they commit more crimes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.I guess man but I'm literally talking about the dating aspect ok bud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.You can say that about anything, being rich doesn't equate to wellbeing either but obviously some things are more likely to make you happier than others. Being a male virgin makes you highly discriminated against. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 08:11 AM |
| 0 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.That's a little harder to do since like 95% of divorces favor the mother taking the children but I would say the two kids I knew in high school that were raised by single fathers were some of the biggest players in the school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.Lol I guess that's an upside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.Just in general, women should not give dating advice to men so being raised by only a woman is terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:20 AM |
| 0 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.I sort of mentioned this to the other guy but being raised by only a mother is more likely you screw you over in the dating scene on average but of course, but not always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:18 AM |
| 0 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.Just saying, the weakest men are the ones raised by single mothers and there has been an increase of single mothers and an increase of incels and male virginity, most of which were raised by single mothers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:14 AM |
| 2 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Going bald is a good biological example, it makes most men suicidal. Even being short too, you have no idea how depressed short men are. On a social aspect, men are much more discriminated against. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.I don't think that having parents that even love each other matters, just not being raised by only a woman. Seriously, single mothers are straight up ruining the next generation of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:08 AM |
| 0 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.Definitely, but having a good father is definitely the best option and you won't always have other options, especially since schools are dominated by women and even if you try sports, you might have a hard time adjusting to the masculine team if you were raised by only women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:07 AM |
| 1 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:04 AM |
| 1 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?I mean, same goes for fat guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?It's much harder for guys to make friends, especially with women because you're seen a threat to everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:02 AM |
| 2 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?I really do wonder though, it must be better than having absolutely zero attention right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?That is not even close to the worse thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:56 AM |
| 1 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?I feel like this was posted by a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:54 AM |
| 0 | As a man, are there any benefits to marriage?Are you stupid? Men can make a million dollars before getting married and have to give half of it after the divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.Ive been saying this for years. I really think that having divorced parents increases the likelihood of men being single because most men lose out on their masculine father figure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:45 AM |
| 5 | Some of the men who complain about dating on here sound like SJWsI suppose that when you live your whole life being told your is privileged by the other gender when you feel like you aren't, you want to prove why the other gender is priviledged instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:43 AM |
| 0 | Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie.I can assure you, men are way more monogamous than most women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:15 AM |
| 1 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?wdym? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Many men here seem to underestimate or downplay the role “charisma” and “presence” plays in female sexual arousal.I agree, charisma and personality can go a long way but even with practice, it's still hard to be good charismatically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Conservative Values And Gender Roles Will Lead To A Happier SocietyMy grandmother and aunts feel the opposite. They liked staying home and raising children. They didn't mind not having to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:18 AM |
| 1 | What can us women do to make the world a better place for men?I wish there was more empathy and compassion for men's issues. Our society show's us to feel so much empathy for women and minorities which is great, but now we have this idea that men don't have problems or don't deserve sympathy. All I ask is for more of men's issues to be acknowledged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?Living the dream now I bet. I always regret not investing in bitcoin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?Are you older, I feel like it's mostly the younger generation that has this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?Interesting. Just curious, what was your history and experience with crypto and bitcoin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?Interesting, thanks for sharing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?Let me guess, MGTOW? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?In my experience, you never see ugly men with hotter women unless they're very rich which most men will never be able to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?But do the ugly losers have a better life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?For many women, this is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?When did you buy bitcoin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?Which point did I prove? I never said being financially stable made you attractive, I said it's pushed towards men Can you give me some examples of ugly men's benefits over ugly women's benefits in life in general? "A man’s only preference is not being fat because he already expects her to be beautiful, wear makeup, shave, etc" Not all men expect this. Men's standards for beauty are very diverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?Ugly men ain't exactly tall or strong. And what types of sexual capital? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?I can agree, older men probably have it better than older women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?I think women think that the standards for beauty are much higher than what it is. A lot of men's standard for women are just don't be fat, and even then, many men will still like fat women. I could ask you, why is working out and being financially stable pushed towards men? You never see short men with taller women. Also, I don't more frequently see ugly men with gorgeous women, I never see it actually unless they're rich or a famous actor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?The point of this sub reddit is to have an open discussion about genders you know. Why are you complaining that it's happening? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?Please tell me this is a joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?Most men aren't exactly wealthy you know. This I feel is the biggest misconception women have during purple pill arguments. Saying that being judged for wealth over looks is somehow a benefit. Usually that means you're also not loved but being used. Plus, men are definitely judged for looks, especially at a younger age. It is much easier for an ugly women to find love than it is for an ugly man to be wealthy because the standards of beauty is much lower for women than women realize. And I'm not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 05:40 AM |
| 7 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?The standards for women's beauty are incredibly lower than women realize. Literally not being fat is enough for a lot of men and there are still many men that like fat women. Men's standards are mostly genetics like height and jawline. The things men can improve are much harder like having to build muscle or maintain a wealthy career. Being judged for utility isn't exactly a good thing you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?Kind of proves my thought process. The standards for women are much easier, for men, it's mostly genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?I think it's easier for an ugly woman to find someone that loves than it is for a guy to become wealthy or have a redeeming quality. Also, ugly wealthy men are just used at that point too. Ugly men get zero female attention. Ugly women, definitely get some male attention, it's up to women to try and weed out who loves them and who's using them which seems to be hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Incel AMA 3: The IncelingWhy'd you get a divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Research Paper claims: (1) Men tend to fall in love more readily than women; (2) women tend to fall out of love more readily than men. Seems to explain / describe hypergamy (and a few other dating phenomena).Sure, doesn't deny the fact that men still put up with women's issues longer. Why do you think that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 05:11 AM |
| 4 | Is it harder to be an ugly man or an ugly woman?I'm creating a list of the positives vs negatives of the genders. Add on to the list if you can. Men: Cons: More likely to be discriminated against, avoided and called creepy Less likely to find a partner Pros: Less likely to take body shaming seriously More likely able to improve themselves in other ways socially Women: Pros: Easier chance at finding a partner Supported more by the body positivity movement Cons: More likely to be taken advantage of for sex More likely to depressed for their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 04:54 AM |
| -3 | The other side of the story. How women feel about the discussions of gender on Reddit.Many definitely will. Men will get like one match a day and communicate with a girl until they get ghosted or rejected. And I don't mean just looking for sex either, wanting an actual relationship, | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/20 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys believe redpill is true but left it just because of the toxic part ?I think some of it is definitely true but it's up to you to decide what to do with that information. You can either play the victim mentality and feel the cards are stacked against you and give up, or you can use some of this information to benefit you and improve yourself. And honestly, I think the red pill improved me more than it harmed me but again, it depends how you use it and where you get your sources. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/20 04:34 AM |
| -2 | The other side of the story. How women feel about the discussions of gender on Reddit.I disagree, there are definitely a lot of men like that but there are many more men that aren't. The reason you're not finding these type of men is because men don't go around saying they have no standards. If you look at dating apps, men will swipe for anyone just to find any kind of relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/20 04:29 AM |
| 2 | The other side of the story. How women feel about the discussions of gender on Reddit.I can 100% agree with you that no one's problems should be more important than anyone else. We can never experience what other people feel and I hate when someone tries to share their problems and then people go "what about my problems". But I think you're being quite hypocritical by saying that men don't get discriminated for their sex, do you honestly believe that? You have no idea what men go through, same as men have no idea what you go through. We shouldn't say either gender has it worse be… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/20 01:01 AM |
| 10 | The other side of the story. How women feel about the discussions of gender on Reddit.I think the reason men say this stuff to women is because the type of men saying this have literally no standards so they are saying that they would date and love a woman who believes that she is forever alone so that's why they believe it's impossible for women to be forever alone. However, most women aren't going to have zero standards like some men. They might not only want "Chads" but they definitely aren't going to date someone with no standards because those types of people are not attract… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Are you satisfied/content with your nonsexual interactions with women?I don't want to be complimented by someone that isn't interested in me so I don't get lead on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 01:58 PM |
| -1 | Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores?Unfortunately, I was raised by a single mother so I don't know how to do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 08:46 AM |
| 6 | Why do guys DM random girls?No way that actually worked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 07:20 AM |
| 1 | 1/3 of men (age >25) being celibate (within the past year) is not problematic (because it's their own fault + the society's)This is the worst argument I've ever seen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Has real or perceived male preference for low n-count ever impacted you or another woman you know?Why do you think men would think this way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 01:01 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average manYeah, on average men are not attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Why do some men wish for lots of casual sex but shame women who have lots of it?Depends on who you ask. You know not everyone thinks the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Men who have been harassedHasn't happened to me but I know many innocent guys at my school that have had rumors go around because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 1 | If men stopped fucking fat/chubby chicks would they lose weight?They probably would imo. A lot less women are motivated to lose weight because they don't have to and know they can still find some man that would accept them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?I think a lot of the ideas of the red pill are true and people that learn about it do one of two things, improve themselves with the information they now know or just be mad at women and not do anything about it. When I first learned of it, it changed my way of thinking a lot. Society tells you one thing but the truth is another. I spent a long time learning about it and was mad about it but I realized that instead of wallowing in self pity, I can improve myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Why does dating advice from men to get women differs so much from advice women give men ?Because men know what they want and will tell you, women don't know what they want and give the same generic response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 12:42 AM |
| 4 | Do you honestly get annoyed when people say “looks don’t matter, personality matters more in men”?Actually, I think looks matter to women more than men. Looks don't matter as much to men as people think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you honestly get annoyed when people say “looks don’t matter, personality matters more in men”?Only my mom says this and it's the reason I'm ugly because I never bothered improving myself. In reality, looks definitely matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Anybody afraid they might forget MGTOW instantly the second a hot girl starts giving them attention?Let's be honest, she might've not have been flirting with you and probably has no sexual interests in you either. | /r/MGTOW | 24/08/20 12:37 AM |
| 3 | What is your advice to a femcel?I will honestly say that the best thing you can do is talk to as many guys as possible or try a dating app. There are men out there that are willing to love anyone no matter the looks but are too shy to say something first. From personal experience, I feel more men are more likely to lower their standards than women but you may disagree, it depends on experiences. If you get yourself out there and meet enough guys, odds are someone will like you. Easier said than done of course. Maybe try tinder… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/20 03:28 AM |
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