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Yeah but society still gas lights men and women that it's equal or even that women have it worse, which is why this sub reddit exists. I mean I don't mind that this is the fact, I just wish this privilege was at least acknowledged you know? Doesn't feel good being told that you're the oppressor all the times when it feels like you're the one at the disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:26 AM

Proof women have it easier. This sub is done. We've found the conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:37 PM
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Dating apps make men want to kill themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:17 PM
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Women think 90% of men are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:16 PM
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I didn't? You assumed I did
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:14 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:19 PM
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Because no one would in the first place lol. Men and women love completely different lives. Women will complain about too much attention and men complain about having no attention. The only difference is that people are at least sympathetic towards women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:14 PM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:12 PM
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That's not related to what I was trying to imply. You're arguing that it's ok to be afraid of men because they are more likely to commit crimes but not black people because they are oppressed. Have you ever thought about the men's feelings though? You think it's a happy life where most people are afraid of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:36 PM
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People do not give a shit about men. There is no sympathy for men. I literally gave an example and your response was how women also have it worse. That's the life of a man. Feeling like you can't talk about anything without being neglected or shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:21 PM
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So we should be afraid of black people too since they commit more crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:18 PM
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I guess man but I'm literally talking about the dating aspect ok bud
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:15 PM
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You can say that about anything, being rich doesn't equate to wellbeing either but obviously some things are more likely to make you happier than others. Being a male virgin makes you highly discriminated against.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:11 AM
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That's a little harder to do since like 95% of divorces favor the mother taking the children but I would say the two kids I knew in high school that were raised by single fathers were some of the biggest players in the school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:39 AM
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Lol I guess that's an upside.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:27 AM
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Just in general, women should not give dating advice to men so being raised by only a woman is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:20 AM
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I sort of mentioned this to the other guy but being raised by only a mother is more likely you screw you over in the dating scene on average but of course, but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:18 AM
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Just saying, the weakest men are the ones raised by single mothers and there has been an increase of single mothers and an increase of incels and male virginity, most of which were raised by single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:14 AM
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Going bald is a good biological example, it makes most men suicidal. Even being short too, you have no idea how depressed short men are. On a social aspect, men are much more discriminated against.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:12 AM
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I don't think that having parents that even love each other matters, just not being raised by only a woman. Seriously, single mothers are straight up ruining the next generation of men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:08 AM
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Definitely, but having a good father is definitely the best option and you won't always have other options, especially since schools are dominated by women and even if you try sports, you might have a hard time adjusting to the masculine team if you were raised by only women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:07 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:04 AM
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I mean, same goes for fat guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:02 AM
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It's much harder for guys to make friends, especially with women because you're seen a threat to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:02 AM
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I really do wonder though, it must be better than having absolutely zero attention right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:01 AM
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That is not even close to the worse thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:56 AM
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I feel like this was posted by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:54 AM
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Are you stupid? Men can make a million dollars before getting married and have to give half of it after the divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:53 AM
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Ive been saying this for years. I really think that having divorced parents increases the likelihood of men being single because most men lose out on their masculine father figure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:45 AM
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I suppose that when you live your whole life being told your is privileged by the other gender when you feel like you aren't, you want to prove why the other gender is priviledged instead
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:43 AM
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I can assure you, men are way more monogamous than most women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:15 AM
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wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:59 AM
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I agree, charisma and personality can go a long way but even with practice, it's still hard to be good charismatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:56 AM
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My grandmother and aunts feel the opposite. They liked staying home and raising children. They didn't mind not having to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:18 AM
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I wish there was more empathy and compassion for men's issues. Our society show's us to feel so much empathy for women and minorities which is great, but now we have this idea that men don't have problems or don't deserve sympathy. All I ask is for more of men's issues to be acknowledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:08 AM
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Living the dream now I bet. I always regret not investing in bitcoin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:55 AM
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Are you older, I feel like it's mostly the younger generation that has this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:54 AM
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Interesting. Just curious, what was your history and experience with crypto and bitcoin?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:41 AM
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Interesting, thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:29 AM
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Let me guess, MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:28 AM
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In my experience, you never see ugly men with hotter women unless they're very rich which most men will never be able to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:26 AM
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But do the ugly losers have a better life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:18 AM
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For many women, this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:15 AM
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When did you buy bitcoin?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:14 AM
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Which point did I prove? I never said being financially stable made you attractive, I said it's pushed towards men Can you give me some examples of ugly men's benefits over ugly women's benefits in life in general? "A man’s only preference is not being fat because he already expects her to be beautiful, wear makeup, shave, etc" Not all men expect this. Men's standards for beauty are very diverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:09 AM
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Ugly men ain't exactly tall or strong. And what types of sexual capital?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:03 AM
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I can agree, older men probably have it better than older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:01 AM
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I think women think that the standards for beauty are much higher than what it is. A lot of men's standard for women are just don't be fat, and even then, many men will still like fat women. I could ask you, why is working out and being financially stable pushed towards men? You never see short men with taller women. Also, I don't more frequently see ugly men with gorgeous women, I never see it actually unless they're rich or a famous actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:57 AM
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The point of this sub reddit is to have an open discussion about genders you know. Why are you complaining that it's happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:54 AM
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Please tell me this is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:47 AM
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Most men aren't exactly wealthy you know. This I feel is the biggest misconception women have during purple pill arguments. Saying that being judged for wealth over looks is somehow a benefit. Usually that means you're also not loved but being used. Plus, men are definitely judged for looks, especially at a younger age. It is much easier for an ugly women to find love than it is for an ugly man to be wealthy because the standards of beauty is much lower for women than women realize. And I'm not …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:40 AM
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The standards for women's beauty are incredibly lower than women realize. Literally not being fat is enough for a lot of men and there are still many men that like fat women. Men's standards are mostly genetics like height and jawline. The things men can improve are much harder like having to build muscle or maintain a wealthy career. Being judged for utility isn't exactly a good thing you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:31 AM
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Kind of proves my thought process. The standards for women are much easier, for men, it's mostly genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:25 AM
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I think it's easier for an ugly woman to find someone that loves than it is for a guy to become wealthy or have a redeeming quality. Also, ugly wealthy men are just used at that point too. Ugly men get zero female attention. Ugly women, definitely get some male attention, it's up to women to try and weed out who loves them and who's using them which seems to be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:23 AM
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Why'd you get a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:13 AM
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Sure, doesn't deny the fact that men still put up with women's issues longer. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:11 AM
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I'm creating a list of the positives vs negatives of the genders. Add on to the list if you can. ​ Men: Cons: More likely to be discriminated against, avoided and called creepy Less likely to find a partner Pros: Less likely to take body shaming seriously More likely able to improve themselves in other ways socially ​ Women: Pros: Easier chance at finding a partner Supported more by the body positivity movement Cons: More likely to be taken advantage of for sex More likely to depressed for their…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 04:54 AM
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Many definitely will. Men will get like one match a day and communicate with a girl until they get ghosted or rejected. And I don't mean just looking for sex either, wanting an actual relationship,
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 04:46 AM
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I think some of it is definitely true but it's up to you to decide what to do with that information. You can either play the victim mentality and feel the cards are stacked against you and give up, or you can use some of this information to benefit you and improve yourself. And honestly, I think the red pill improved me more than it harmed me but again, it depends how you use it and where you get your sources.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 04:34 AM
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I disagree, there are definitely a lot of men like that but there are many more men that aren't. The reason you're not finding these type of men is because men don't go around saying they have no standards. If you look at dating apps, men will swipe for anyone just to find any kind of relationship.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 04:29 AM
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I can 100% agree with you that no one's problems should be more important than anyone else. We can never experience what other people feel and I hate when someone tries to share their problems and then people go "what about my problems". But I think you're being quite hypocritical by saying that men don't get discriminated for their sex, do you honestly believe that? You have no idea what men go through, same as men have no idea what you go through. We shouldn't say either gender has it worse be…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 01:01 AM
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I think the reason men say this stuff to women is because the type of men saying this have literally no standards so they are saying that they would date and love a woman who believes that she is forever alone so that's why they believe it's impossible for women to be forever alone. However, most women aren't going to have zero standards like some men. They might not only want "Chads" but they definitely aren't going to date someone with no standards because those types of people are not attract…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 12:52 AM
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I don't want to be complimented by someone that isn't interested in me so I don't get lead on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 01:58 PM
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Unfortunately, I was raised by a single mother so I don't know how to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 08:46 AM
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No way that actually worked
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:20 AM
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This is the worst argument I've ever seen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:06 AM
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Why do you think men would think this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:01 AM
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Yeah, on average men are not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:40 AM
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Depends on who you ask. You know not everyone thinks the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 01:12 AM
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Hasn't happened to me but I know many innocent guys at my school that have had rumors go around because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 01:07 AM
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They probably would imo. A lot less women are motivated to lose weight because they don't have to and know they can still find some man that would accept them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 01:04 AM
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I think a lot of the ideas of the red pill are true and people that learn about it do one of two things, improve themselves with the information they now know or just be mad at women and not do anything about it. When I first learned of it, it changed my way of thinking a lot. Society tells you one thing but the truth is another. I spent a long time learning about it and was mad about it but I realized that instead of wallowing in self pity, I can improve myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 12:56 AM
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Because men know what they want and will tell you, women don't know what they want and give the same generic response
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 12:42 AM
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Actually, I think looks matter to women more than men. Looks don't matter as much to men as people think
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:16 AM
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Only my mom says this and it's the reason I'm ugly because I never bothered improving myself. In reality, looks definitely matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:15 AM
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Let's be honest, she might've not have been flirting with you and probably has no sexual interests in you either.
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 12:37 AM
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I will honestly say that the best thing you can do is talk to as many guys as possible or try a dating app. There are men out there that are willing to love anyone no matter the looks but are too shy to say something first. From personal experience, I feel more men are more likely to lower their standards than women but you may disagree, it depends on experiences. If you get yourself out there and meet enough guys, odds are someone will like you. Easier said than done of course. Maybe try tinder…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 03:28 AM
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