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14

The other guy probably actually fucked her well unlike whatever nonsense you were doing, by choice.
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:15 AM
1

The only way to recover is to fuck the life out of her friends and have word get back to her
/r/seduction22/12/25 10:15 AM
13

traditional values I live in Dubai, and there are probably tens of thousands of Central Asian women here as sex workers and then go back home after a year or two as if nothing happened. Tbf though, most of them are the breadwinners for their extended families. So I guess that’s family oriented.
/r/seduction17/12/25 04:05 PM
20

Most women don’t realize that’s how we feel everyday. Men have a cycle too, it’s just daily.
/r/seduction14/12/25 11:07 AM
64

Yes. Getting hookups was easy mode when I lived in a tourist city.
/r/seduction13/12/25 07:41 AM
3

Yeah in my experience the women who says this WISH they wanted a low key guy, but usually they get bored by their stability real quick
/r/seduction04/12/25 01:21 PM
2

You are probably overweighting emotions because you don’t have the mechanics down yet. Without good physical mechanics, all you’re left with is emotions. Nobody is good at PIV strokes at first.
/r/seduction02/12/25 08:30 AM
17

I say guys should lower their standards a couple times so they can experience a woman’s genuine, burning desire for you. IE, that’s the easiest way to experience being somebody’s “fuck yes!” And if you want wifely and motherly material she might even be a better partner for you than the hotter women you’ve hooked up with, if that’s what you’re really after ultimately. A hot wife who’s not onboard your mission is just a pretty pain in the ass.
/r/seduction04/11/25 09:53 AM
10

This used to be 100% the case, but now there is a lot of bad advice on TikTok brain rot. Either way, it’s a bullet dodged. You don’t want a woman who’s listening to strangers or taking advice from chronically single friends.
/r/seduction14/10/25 08:54 AM
1

No, but maybe if you’re under 30 and have your own share of brain rot
/r/seduction12/10/25 07:00 PM
125

3) When I was young I used to get embarrassed for popping a boner immediately once a girl sat in my lap, but every single one of them told me they thought it was hot af 5, 6, 7) I developed this theory that women are less inclined to psychedelic drugs because the way they orgasm is like a super potent drug itself
/r/seduction27/09/25 11:48 AM
3

Ain’t nothing wrong with a 6. I actually recommend most guys try this. At least then you’ve experienced a woman’s genuine burning desire for you, and you can take that experience forward and recalibrate.
/r/seduction21/09/25 08:48 AM
146

You need to confident, direct but not too direct, and flirty. What most guys don’t mention is the luck factor. I’m pretty sure most strangers I’ve had come over or invite me straight to sex they were ovulating.
/r/seduction20/09/25 05:23 PM
1

It really is, and still somehow better than AI slop
/r/seduction20/09/25 11:40 AM
1

Dude you’d be surprised the kinds of men that hire sexworkers. They’re more often fairly decent looking, extremely busy, and otherwise socially normal than the cheeto-dust neck beard virgin types
/r/seduction18/09/25 01:10 PM
1

You probably need to lower your standards to be honest. If you’re already being given the run around, you’re not meeting women who are actually highly attracted to you. Or, up your game and your looks.
/r/seduction18/09/25 06:39 AM
1

I think it’s common for both men and women to experience this around 30. Especially so if you’ve been single for a while and/or haven’t had long term relationships beyond a couple years. We learn to like our solitude, have less tolerance for bs, unwilling to compromise, set in our ways, etc. All of these are counter to the mindset a relationship usually requires. Being in a successful relationship takes a lot of leadership. It just is what it is. If the juice ain’t worth the squeeze, that’s your…
/r/seduction18/09/25 06:27 AM
4

Attractive women have heard every compliment under the sun, and if you’re not saying it in person to back it up with your irl charisma it’s basically meaningless. Sliding into DM’s it really doesn’t matter what you say. You just have to say something to get the ball rolling. If you really want to be memorable, don’t compliment women. Especially if you haven’t got naked together yet.
/r/seduction14/09/25 08:53 AM
3

When I was being a slut in my 20’s I realized that if a married woman is on a girls night out, she’s often easier to hookup with than a completely single lady. Play at your own risk. The risk is that you may become entirely or forever disillusioned with long term committed monogamy, but actually there are some bad biases at play.
/r/seduction11/09/25 03:10 PM
3

I remember when I was a sophomore in college I had this gorgeous older woman tap me on the shoulder and ask if I knew her from somewhere. I just said no as an honest answer and went straight back to dancing. My friend, who was good with women before me, was like you idiot she made you an entry. And it clicked. Never repeated that mistake again. Thanks for the lesson E
/r/seduction07/09/25 05:13 AM
14

It’s safe to assume people are fucking other people when you’re in the early dating stages
/r/seduction06/09/25 11:19 AM
94

Fucking lol. OP writing like it’s live action tinder
/r/seduction06/09/25 10:47 AM
9

Too many Indians in this sub it’s gone to shit
/r/seduction30/08/25 06:35 PM
18

Chatting for four hours is the woman’s equivalent of a guy getting a forty minute blow job. Quick lunch = last attempt of extracting something from you. I would just move on or booty call her late at night inviting her for drinks at your place.
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:37 PM
2

It was wild when it first started. One night stands on tinder were super easy. Now, all the attention has gotten to women’s heads aka hoeflation. On the opposite side, many men have no self worth because they can’t get laid. Then, usually after it’s too late, the women realize that the men that would have sex with them aren’t the same ones that would commit to them long term. Now, allegedly, young people are having less sex than ever. I think that’s because we have higher rates of social retarda…
/r/seduction27/08/25 02:08 PM
2

30’s. People in general used to have a lot more individual character. I think the internet has a way of making things slowly “lowest-common denominator,” if that makes sense.
/r/seduction27/08/25 02:05 PM
1

This is good advice. I’ll also add that I “tapered” down by pit stopping at gonewildaudio before fully transitioning to spank bank.
/r/seduction26/08/25 02:32 PM
3

I remember in 2016 when they had that women’s march thing the girl I was seeing asked me if I would come. I said no way you go do your own thing with your gal pals. She was a bit annoyed. After the march, she called me over to hookup and was complaining about all the guys that showed up just to try to get laid. Women have always been keen on this sort of thing. It’s just that now they have a catchphrase to describe it.
/r/seduction25/08/25 12:31 PM
3

No. I find the performative male meme to be a healthy fraud check on inauthentic men.
/r/seduction25/08/25 04:15 AM
14

Yeah. Low effort + high maintenance = goodbye
/r/seduction24/08/25 09:52 AM
1

Bullshit, you’re deflecting. If that’s your concern, just be direct and ask for a recent sti check w blood, urine, and Pap smear. This is way more normal and will actually present you in a good light unlike asking for her body count.
/r/seduction24/08/25 05:34 AM
18

You should never ask. Most women will never tell you an accurate number anyway. So all you’re doing is fucking up the vibe. This is true even if she’s a virgin or slept with 100’s. You need to be able to discern for yourself if it’s high, medium, or low. I don’t really buy into the body count thing. Her womb imprint and father figure is way more important. I’ve seen former escorts become the most loyal partners and virgins before marriage become impulsive cheaters after marriage.
/r/seduction24/08/25 04:57 AM
2

Stop projecting onto her and reflect on yourself, internally. Why are you afraid of losing someone who won’t answer your calls, respond to your texts, and rejected your love saying they don’t have feelings for her?
/r/seduction24/08/25 04:00 AM
7

Women are intuitive. You’ll get found out.
/r/seduction22/08/25 07:44 AM
0

Is it really ghosting if they respond later and meet up again? In my opinion, almost all women pull away at some point. Even the ones with super strong interest. Some are just playing power games. So yeah they might have sex with you after you stroke their ego and chase them some
/r/seduction21/08/25 06:55 PM
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rare occasion it worked worked 70% of the time Great dude. You slept with one more woman and caught a bunch of unnecessary L’s along the way.
/r/seduction21/08/25 06:15 PM
1

bpd sex is so fun at first, but if you’re not on top of everything she’ll turn you hollow quickly
/r/seduction20/08/25 06:23 AM
-6

This is not necessarily for you, but if others are interested in reading old Indian texts on this subject, beyond the obvious Kama Sutra; Matsya Purāṇa and Agni Purāṇa Anangaranga and Ratirahasya Post edit— this is not about pickup, sorry
/r/seduction15/08/25 03:43 PM
67

Never stop a woman from leaving you
/r/seduction15/08/25 03:36 PM
1

I’ve had a couple different fwb’s who would go out on a dinner date with someone else and then call me over to fuck after. I thought, woah— how many times have I been on the opposite side of the equation? It just immediately dropped any pretense around sex I had assumed about women.
/r/seduction15/08/25 07:09 AM
46

I took an ex to a work event. I was still young like 25 and a pretty late bloomer to game. I ran into an old client there, who is extremely attractive. I chatted with her for a minute or two. Absolutely nothing flirty at all, strictly professional even. Standing straight up, handshake. Pretty stiff. I make my way back to my ex and boy she is some sort of mood. Like just sorta about to burst from the seams. She asked me who that was, and duh she was jealous. When we got to the bar after the event…
/r/seduction13/08/25 06:55 PM
2

Raja Yoga by Vivekananda and the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle (this one didn’t make sense to me till I came back to it almost 10 years and several trips later)
/r/seduction13/08/25 03:20 PM
5

Spinning plates, fucking chicks, that’s all way easier than marriage game imo. The game never stops. Unless you become a sanyasi/ascetic.
/r/seduction12/08/25 06:36 PM
2

https://youtu.be/VpnN6jvEkho?si=2Y4qVwl9c4g8IZv2 It’s a music theory joke
/r/seduction09/07/25 03:23 PM
1

Yeah well what you described is maturity. Yes. Thats needed.
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:26 PM
50

Being able to dance is the easiest way. I flipped the script and do what women do. I dance for myself, by myself. And then they come to me. I’m not even a good dancer. I move for myself and couldn’t care what other people think. I’ve just eaten enough acid/mushrooms to get grooving if the music is moving. If you can move in syncopation and remember that everything is on the 1– women just sort of innately assume that you can fuck. Or at the least they get curious about how you fuck. My looks are …
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:19 PM
10

These sort of men need to come to terms that being single is also an option
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:19 PM
1

Fix your mental health, and you won’t look depressed and stressed out. Plenty women find grey hair hair sexy, even bald/buzzed.
/r/seduction25/05/25 09:33 AM
1

I used to. Most times I’d get a couple more dates and some sex or an on and off fling. These days it’s just on to the next one, and life is much simpler that way. Some of them will hit you up days, weeks, months, or even years after no contact. Great. At that point it’s purely recreational and nothing beyond that. Streamlining your decision making makes life easy.
/r/seduction24/05/25 08:05 AM
18

You’re not understanding female nature. She wants to break the rules for the guy she likes.
/r/seduction28/04/25 03:26 AM
6

I rarely see this being brought up, but where she is in her menstrual cycle can have a big influence on the results of your approach.
/r/seduction26/04/25 11:06 AM
7

Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior
/r/seduction25/04/25 04:00 PM
2

Lmao for sure. If you’re getting your sexual needs met easily and consistently there is no need to fantasize about a 10 that does nothing for you
/r/seduction25/04/25 01:29 PM
8

Nah when a woman really really likes you, she’ll do most of the relationship building and pursuing. The remaining 20% is making plans, asking her out, and escalating with the correct timing, like a pinch hitter with the bases loaded.
/r/seduction17/04/25 02:33 PM
1

UJ/ girls with hairy arms
/r/seduction11/04/25 06:02 PM
14

Agreed. I’ll also add that acting too much unbothered is shooting yourself in the foot. It was true maybe 10+ years ago, but now most women will just see you as pussywhipped because they know they are acting out of line by ignoring you or whatever game they’re on. A lot of women want to be corrected and lead by a man. You need to be able to tell/show them how to behave without being condescending.
/r/seduction25/03/25 09:24 PM
1

Don’t listen to what women say in their public persona
/r/seduction22/03/25 06:21 PM
5

If she actually respected your time she would have let you know she’s not available and asked for a reschedule
/r/seduction15/03/25 06:27 PM
3

“I’ll let you know” is Womanese for “not interested but I’ll enjoy the free attention for as long as this lasts.”
/r/seduction15/03/25 06:21 PM
1

I got laid a decent amount through fetlife. I also got a really well paying gig as cfnm bartender for private parties. For anyone else reading, go to the local munches and meet irl instead of dm’ing. You’re right though that it is full of obese older women with inflated egos. Something you left out is a lot of mental illness on there as well. A lot of the pretty women are a lot harder. As it should be, cuz this isn’t regular sex. You’re wanting to tie her up or cnc or some other freaky shit that…
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:18 PM
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