bfurman78 Archive

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3	Days from making final decision after 30 years of marriage You deserve happiness. That is a hill I will die on. You. Deserve. Happiness. If she is able to provide it, that is wonderful. If she isn’t, than it is her responsibility to accept that you need to find it somewhere else. It will cause her pain, but that doesn’t mean the pain is wrong. Sometimes it is needed. You deserve to be happy too.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/22 04:42 PM
10	Days from making final decision after 30 years of marriage I just exited 22 years of marriage. 44, finding who I truly am. Mentally I gave up 10 years ago and just threw myself into making her and our 2 children happy. I thought I could fake it. I did for a decade. At some point you will break and can’t hide it any more. Being married longer than your friends isn’t a prize. Being married for 30 years doesn’t come automatic happiness. Suffering every day, just to be able to say “we’ve been together for 40 years…” only killed you inside. And no one else w…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/22 04:08 AM