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2	Is there a way to defeat deep-held beliefs about looks? (Mirror affirmations needed) Some people hold life-long degrading images of themselves (due to long history of their lives), deconstructing them requires a lot of small step work. Not saying it is necceserily OP's case, but just saying. Not saying you are not right but sometimes go out and ask girls is for some like saying go jump into the pool full of sharks. They need other things checked to bring the whole picture together. Therapy/Pharmacology is a good start also in those cases. Saying from my perspective. Recovering h…	/r/seduction	07/08/14 01:41 PM
2	[IG] Nice Guys Listen Up I also have this (slowly unlearning this though) i prefer to take "easier" targets, shy or alone people. But it is because a) she is a mirror of myself (shy, low self-esteem etc) b) it is easier for me because im newbie in pick up etc. All this means i prefer to take easy targets so i can avoid being vulnerable (Mark Manson's concept) and if i fuck up i can always say "well she was not that hot". But in honest introspection, i become suddenly nervous when "my type" of girl comes in, and I deeply…	/r/seduction	07/08/14 01:01 PM
1	[FR] 5'7 Asian went to club and made out with at least 4 girls. Only K-close. For first time in my life I felt God Mode. Warsaw? :p	/r/seduction	05/05/14 11:35 AM
2	Am I broken? I don't know how to fix my situation, would appreciate any advice. 23 y/o, forever single. You said it in such a good way i have to applaud you. The realization that dating, being social etc is different from "me" is the hardest part. To be honest i still cannot do that completely, but now i'm much more aware of that, and being aware is first step to catch the demotivating thought process when it happens. Catching these thoughts is change in itself actually. Even if not much yet changed externally the last half a year for me brought a lot of change. A positive change and a challange. …	/r/seduction	24/04/14 12:23 PM

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