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| 2 | Don't Try To Unplug Other People.The funny thing is: When you are red-pilled, beta males and women subconsciously respect you and adore you. They cannot articulate what you possess, but they like it. When you try to unplug a man from your social sphere, let's say you hand them The Rational Male, one of the two things happen: They either go "Aha, I knew this was not real you.", and they lose all the respect and even go further to mock you, or they get convinced, learn the stuff and just like a sith apprentice, the moment they fe… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 03:23 PM |
| 6 | What Response Should I Give After "I am Sorry, I behaved wrong." type of message?This is nice, I will keep that in mind. Unfortunately, I am not really flirting with her since she is in my hometown and I am abroad. I just want to keep it cool, so that I can nail it if I get the chance later on. Nothing will happen in the short run. This is why I need a different strategy. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Stop Being a Beta In a Relationship : Easy yet Effective SuggestionsIf she is the center, you can only hide it like 2 hours. Girls smell that shit. Don't put her in the center. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 11:24 PM |
| 4 | Ariana Grande: Another example of AWALT, Female Rationalization, and Victim Card.He looks like a guy, who could have easily been a CoD addict, masturbator, stone-head who is all tatted up and has a toxic girlfriend just like himself, living in a shit neighborhood. Considering this he is having his best times and extremely lucky. Whatever he does makes sense frankly. He is nailing Ariana (for now) and people talk about him, 1000000000% above where he should be. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 11:39 AM |
| 4 | Ariana Grande: Another example of AWALT, Female Rationalization, and Victim Card.I searched Pete. He is far away from being handsome. Ariana could easily ride model tier guys for the next 10 years. Obviously he is her beta. Alpha is the guy who pumps these bitches in a constant routine. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Focus on the Destination or Journey?This is how I am perceived, you know what happens when you act way different than how you are perceived? You become a creep. I cannot act like I slay 10 pussy every night and I am the most interesting, winner guy of all time, while it is objectively not true. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 09:13 AM |
| 0 | Focus on the Destination or Journey?Dude, socializing is a huge time investment. Monk mode, lifting, getting better in your profession these require discipline. As a result, you are slowly pushed out of the society. They start not calling you, because you always have a thing to do, you always leave early... Having a social network is maybe the hardest one among all these, I know these kind of people, they spend a lot of time and effort and money into this. I have none of these resources. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 09:11 AM |
| 1 | What to do when Cockblocked in Nightclub Dancing Situation?It occurred several times with different people. They probably assume that just because they dance several steps in front, facing the girl, they have something going on. I don't care, last night I literally couldn't dance with girls because of constant pushing and irritation of incels. There must be an alpha way out from this. The problem is you don't even know the girls name so there is a limit how assertive and entitled you can act. I am asking this point actually. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Post-Wall Women and their Double StandardsWhy don't you go and commit to one twinky boi? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 11:47 PM |
| 4 | In-Depth Plate Theory for Nerds: Nerdy Girls As A Proving GroundDude, did you just fantasize about alpha names? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 07:36 PM |
| 3 | AWALT example: Bluepill Gymbro tries to white-knight a single motherWords of wisdom, right here | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 07:23 PM |
| -15 | Frame for Dummies. What it is and ways to build (and keep) it.Because he is able to repeat what he has read at thousand other places? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/18 11:00 AM |
| 4 | A good quote from Norm MacdonaldIntelligence is your capability to adapt, evolve and win. There is just one thing that shows that you are intelligent, and women respond to that more than men: it is power. If your wit and humor brings you power (makes you famous, wealthy, influential etc...), yes they respond to that. George Carlin's, Louis CK's humor are signs of intelligence, not your nightlife douchey best friend's. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up - Top tier plateStop kidding yourself. When this is the case, you try months later but it is like lottery. If it works out great, but you do not give it a shit. Right now, you plan and hope about it. You will think each day if enough time has passed for you to try again. This is deeeep oneitis. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 10:14 AM |
| 1 | The response to all the “how should I be?”-type questions.I always tell my friends, whenever they ask me such questions: if you were the guy who would have done that, you would not have asked me in the first place. Even if I tell you now, you will fail the next time. These small things do not matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/18 10:34 PM |
| 3 | I fucked up - Top tier plate"Is there anyway to reestablish maybe months later?" Pathetic. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/18 09:35 PM |
| -5 | Yes, Men Do Leave the MarketThe mentioned "men" are loser betas. The real alphas has been swimming in v juice like never before. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/18 05:46 PM |
| 8 | Lockdown - Day 2 - Posting is locked, Comments are open.Whoever downvoted me is either Hillary or tranny. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/18 05:44 PM |
| 8 | Lockdown - Day 2 - Posting is locked, Comments are open.Libtards, SJWs, ugly feminists and gay best friends have been attacking the last base of masculinity for a long time. They are not idiots or trolls. They consciously lower the quality and solidarity in here. THIS IS WAR. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/18 05:23 PM |
| 2 | The self actualized male( Being a player is arbitrary)Excluding the gold-digger whores, even the most self-actualized man may not be approached by high value women if he does not have the looks. Most men with average looks will always need to give the extra effort to attract high value girls, later on at some point she will be bored and leave. If she wants to settle down, she will stay with you but this will only make you a cum-bucket's husband. I do not see a winning situation, even for the real hot guys, they just enjoy this game more. In short, … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/17 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Question the QuestionThis dude is so confident for a guy who coaches underdeveloped males fitness classes, and teaches some Indian dudes to hide their weaknesses. If you are that smart and alpha why are you trying to sell some shirts online bro? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 03:28 PM |
| -9 | 6 blue pilled behaviors, disguised as red pilled, that trap men in blue pilled beta purgatory.NoFap is a redpill concept because fucking your hand while some alphas fuck real women shows that you are being utilized as a alpha slave and prized with nothing except some humble amount of money, netflix and porn. There is nothing more blue pilled than this in my opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | "You are sooooo not my type!!!We should seriously lift. People assume you are a loser from the beginning if you belong to STEM fields and the only way to break this is to have a physical proof. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/17 10:30 PM |
| 3 | "You are sooooo not my type!!!What is with IT and engineers, can someone tell me? Why do you always target these people? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/17 12:11 AM |
| 2 | True abundance mentality is having regular and guaranteed sex. Anything else is wishful thinking and pure mental masturbation!If she is giving it for something in return (in OP's case commitment), she is equally capable of giving it for free as well. OP is hamstering. There are two types of women in this world. Virgin or stoned to death women, and sluts. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 07:07 PM |
| -6 | So "Buffy the Vampire Slayer" is now officially Evil White Straight Men Propaganda trashWho cares about Buff the whatever? What the fuck is this post about? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 02:54 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill, Beta, Nice Guy AnthemI have never thought about it before the way you say, but it makes perfect sense. If it was not a black music, liberals would have already smashed it down. Black shield protects the rap narrative. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 02:53 PM |
| 5 | The Blue Pill, Beta, Nice Guy AnthemI knew this shit was coming just from the title. Anyways, you made me watch the video clip as well, and now I have cancer. Thanks bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 11:47 AM |
| 1 | The Extended TRP Literature CompilationI will look at Evola's writing. I support what you say. You know a lot about the corporate Anglo American world view and of course you want to learn the real truth and not read these. All I said was if you do not know about the corporate AA world view to begin with, you should read about these as well. You can contribute to this list as well, and politics and philosophy section can be branched into ideological stems. This way people can refer to works like Evola's and so on if they are intereste… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Looks-Hypergamy on reality TV shows = social programming for not-top-tier females to only go for Chad's.I think you do not get what I meant. I know these tinder experiments. These guys are extraordinarily handsome. What I meant was, take the guy in the video. He is buffed in a not very aesthetic way and that is it. There are millions of guys just like this. I repeat, if you are not model-looking good, you being buffed or slightly more handsome than the average will mean nothing. NOTHING. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 10:07 AM |
| -1 | Looks-Hypergamy on reality TV shows = social programming for not-top-tier females to only go for Chad's.Because ugly or short mediocre everyday guys are still lower value than these guys. It is simple. What is the problem? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 10:45 PM |
| 16 | Sex Dolls More Popular than Actual WomenJust shut up dude. Reading this hurts me. What kind of sick fuck is this? I hate marriage, I do not want kids, if I have kids someday I freak out if they fuck toys or become some genderless fluid cock sucker. What the fuck happened to this world? Aliens come and shit all over us please. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Looks-Hypergamy on reality TV shows = social programming for not-top-tier females to only go for Chad's.Stop watching these shows, and your SMV evaluation is wrong. Male SMV depends on many things... Many of these jacked guys you say 8/10, 9/10; they do not matter. They earn nothing, dead end job, idiots who can only talk about soccer and cars... Girls do not want that. They want powerful guys, in terms of muscles money status and so on... Your evaluation is wrong, because you overinflate males. In terms of females, yeah 95% depends on looks. If you say 8/10, she is probably 8/10. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 08:48 PM |
| 1 | The Extended TRP Literature CompilationIn my opinion, it shows how a typical person can easily be deceived and manipulated by pulling simple tricks that seem like the rational answer but indeed not (many examples are about statistics though). I am sure there are many books just like this, but it was fun to read. I can remove it in future if more theoretical substitutes are nominated. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 05:05 PM |
| 1 | The Extended TRP Literature CompilationOkay I removed it. It has an excellent documentary though. Whoever interested can just watch it to get the idea. It is bullshit but it is a part of the Western narrative. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 11:21 AM |
| 1 | The Extended TRP Literature CompilationIf I had time I would have definitely read both Das Kapital and Mein Kampf. All of these including GGS have a huge impact on the mediocre person's perspective, because they are being brainwashed with them. If you do not know the agenda you are talking about, you cannot lead the herd. You need to know your enemy. Have you read the Quran or the Bible? I have not read either. They are the biggest impact, most influential books of all time. Full of fictional shit, but who cares? Billions of people h… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 11:07 AM |
| 1 | The Extended TRP Literature CompilationI looked at them, I know some of them and they are eye-opening. I will update all those to the list when I have time. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 09:15 AM |
| 2 | The Extended TRP Literature CompilationYou are welcome dude. I hope everyone gets some time to read some of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 09:14 AM |
| 1 | The Extended TRP Literature CompilationUpdated. Thank you for the explanations | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 09:10 AM |
| 1 | The Extended TRP Literature CompilationThank you for the explanations, I updated the list. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 09:05 AM |
| 4 | The Extended TRP Literature CompilationI agree with you on that, these books have nothing to do with Red Pill. However, you need some skills to rise up among mediocre people. This is part of the Red Pill. I know Guns, Germs and Steel is bullshit. The History and Vision part may be all about lies and dreams. However, it is part of a political curriculum in which people base their opinions. You cannot say "Hurr Durr Africa is an underdeveloped shitshow" in real life. Even if it is true, it does not have a point. Be intellectual, build … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 08:50 AM |
| 1 | The Extended TRP Literature CompilationI added these two to the list. Thanks dude | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Is There an Extensive TRP Literature Survey Somewhere?Thank you for the answer. I am looking for history, decision making, economics, cognitive psychology, philosophy books that will make you a more powerful and aware man. These books you addressed are more about psychology and sexual dynamics (I saw 'The Prince' which is more like what I asked). I want to extend our literature to dimensions about "status and power" as well. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 04:12 PM |
| -1 | Is There an Extensive TRP Literature Survey Somewhere?Can you specifically direct me to the page? I am not asking for sexual dynamics books. I am looking for history, decision making, economics, cognitive psychology, philosophy books that will make you a more powerful and aware man. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 04:07 PM |
| -4 | Is There an Extensive TRP Literature Survey Somewhere?You played with the names of the books and I will not try to search on google and correct each one of them. You are a stupid loser. Looking like an aspergers kid while trying amused mastery and trying to be funny on a sub full of males. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What makes females attracted to you are the same things that make everyone attracted to youI replied this to "...some guys can be very successful with women while never being AMOG or any such thing." This is simply looks, it has nothing to do with status. A high status guy does the exact opposite and gets the girls. I agree with you though in general context. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/17 12:53 PM |
| 3 | What makes females attracted to you are the same things that make everyone attracted to youThat X-factor is your looks. Some ugly dudes here are getting really delusional. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/17 10:50 AM |
| -1 | While you're talking to her about TRP, I'm fucking her in the assThey will think you are a poser an imitator, getting your ideas from some anonymous friends online, which is extremely cringy itself. They should discover this themselves. The only reason talking about RP to other males is promoted here is that the managers of this manosphere has a vested interest in this. They earn more as the community grows. Do not promote this community in your private life. There is no gain for you to do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 06:55 PM |
| 2 | While you're talking to her about TRP, I'm fucking her in the assIt smells like many other posts here lately, but still, if any of you talk about the RP to anyone, including males, you are the dumbest thing on earth. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 08:46 AM |
| 11 | An RP Report From the Days I had No Idea What It WasNext time, if I ever get into a serious relationship again, I will not mate-guard her from orbiters; but I will look them in the eye and treat them as sub-humans worshipping my cumbucket. I will kiss the girl and spank her ass around them. I want them to feel so humiliated that they will not stay and suffer this. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/17 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Beta Bucks boss: do not do this. If this is what you've become, wake the fuck up.It is not like we get into a physical fight or something. You get into a social group, beta bitch does not lift, no masculine traits, he has befriended all the girls in the group in friends to lover mentality. He is a genderless loser. He targets you instantly, cock-blocks in every possible way, looks at you as if you are going to rape a girl in the group any time soon, mate-guards girls he call best friend and so on... I hate those disgusting bitches, I think they are not even blue pilled becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 10:25 PM |
| 35 | Beta Bucks boss: do not do this. If this is what you've become, wake the fuck up.BB trying to AMOG others because he has some type of irrelevant (in terms of masculinity) leverage is so annoying. I do not know how to overcome this. I usually befriend the dude secretly behind the doors, but do not stay close to him in public (to preserve my image). If you make those faggots angry, they are capable of playing all feminine games and gossiping about you to extremes, they can hurt you in feminine ways by talking behind you and so on and you cannot even fight these bitches because… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 11:20 AM |
| 22 | Attractive Women with Ugly dudes.You do not matter. She can have sex with anyone she wants and after years of carousel can land a beta male. Women are living the paradise right now. Men are slaves. Being an alpha may give you sex, but you will still lose at the end. At some point, you will either end up with a slut or die alone without a family. Enjoy the decline, don't bother venting about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Why bitterness, sour grapes, and inability to objectively take in truths of life that might not favor you will stop you from ever making it.Okay, it means she is really high value. There are many very attractive girls who will settle for a lower deal than this guy. Besides I am 90% sure that you + millionaire + fit body would still get a similar girl. I think of myself, I am not chad looking, but if I were a millionaire; with me being exact me, I would have gotten the uppermost girl in my social circle the same night. 90% of it comes down to status and money, if you are not literally seriously ugly. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Why bitterness, sour grapes, and inability to objectively take in truths of life that might not favor you will stop you from ever making it.I suppose you are an average dude, so believe me these girls are not HB10; they are probably HB9 or HB8. You should be fine with HB7s, especially considering your present state of mind, even this will be a great chance. Besides those, the biggest alpha male you may encounter (let's say the dudes you say) are probably nothing far away from who you are. Big shot alpha males: Tom Brady, Donald Trump, some fiction characters like Don Draper, Harvey Specter. I do not think that you even encounter the… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Why bitterness, sour grapes, and inability to objectively take in truths of life that might not favor you will stop you from ever making it.Your brain is fucked up from media and porn. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Why bitterness, sour grapes, and inability to objectively take in truths of life that might not favor you will stop you from ever making it.Nicely said.. However, we should also add that if we are reading this right now, we are also far away from our goal. I believe no guy who is even slightly close to the status of an ideal male that this sub praises probably would not have time or motivation to read through this sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Why bitterness, sour grapes, and inability to objectively take in truths of life that might not favor you will stop you from ever making it.This is the most influential thing I have ever read in my whole life. We are surrendered by Disney lies and media propaganda while in fact the uttermost truth is here. I do not know if I will ever make it, but I agree 100% with what OP says. At least I know my weaknesses and strengths and I try to improve myself, instead of disparaging "the chad". | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 11:34 PM |
| 2 | "Male feminist" asks reddit how to approach a girl who only likes alpha males. Everyone tells him to just be yourself and be a nice guy.If he does that, he will see he is exactly the opposite of what she likes. By doing what he is doing, he preserves his hope. The only thing that is deeper than the abyss a beta is in, is his overthinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 10:47 AM |
| 16 | Women in STEM are they really been pushed down- an engineers opinion.I am an engineer as well. In academia, STEM women are always 1 2 points above from what they really are, just for encouragement. They are treated extremely positive-biased. There are not many engineer or mathematician or physicist girls, because they are not interested in these, and they are not persevere with anything this hard because of their nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/17 06:25 PM |
| 3 | I cannot resonate with women on an emotional levelI think what you say definitely happens to me. I am basically no one to them. This is a beta attitude. I do not take risks while I am flirting girls and this makes me any other person. Thanks a lot it makes sense. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 09:44 AM |
| 2 | How to become more charismatic | A practical analysis of Dwayne 'The Rock' Johnson and how he uses the principles outlined in 'How to win friends and influence people'Good point. Some qualities fits on you only if you are the stronger hand. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Head-swiveling, prolonged stares, and commenting/liking/PMing women's social media is a demonstration of low value and fucks up the SMP.The last paragraph "Always talk to attractive ..." is gold. Do you want to be noticed by the hot girl at the very first step? Act like she is your younger stupid sister. However, I do not get the social media strategy. I am not good at it, so I go from the way the OP describes. I stay away, thereby stay cool (I hope). However, there are some guys who manage their accounts well, and seem like social popular guys and thereby increase their SMP from where it is in reality. They basically do what gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Be handsome?It is a form of prostitution and these girls never desire them. If your looks are below a certain limit, you will never be desired even if you have all the money in the world. Style and fame is a different issue. I am sure Mick Jagger is desired. But some millionaire granddaddy is not. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 06:32 PM |
| 8 | Be handsome?The main idea is true. You overemphasize looks but still I get you. The solution is do not settle with these bitches. You will lose when you take the deal. You know that. You are extremely bitter because deep down you know you will take the deal and get one of these bitches as your wife. Pump and dump them in their thirties and run away like these chads do. It will make you feel better. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 11:04 PM |
| 30 | "I'd hate to have to settle for a mediocre man"She will fix billionaire perverts. This is what Hollywood says you know. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 10:25 AM |
| 1 | TRT/Steroids Effect on GameI suppose you are not sick or something, so just try this: Workout regularly for several months, stop porn-masturbation-orgasm (try not to masturbate at all or once a week at most), eat red meat/ fish/ nuts. Then, at the same day of your nightlife event, drop by the gym, even if it is not your workout day, just spend half an hour lifting. If you do not still feel like a predator that night, chop off your dick and donate it to some transmale. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 07:08 PM |
| 125 | Being the "other guy" helped me swallow the red pill. Here are some lessons I learned.I am a lurker here, I do not think I have passed the anger phase yet, but I do work hard to improve my SMV. I have never been this guy before, but I will not say you did a wrong thing. I agree with all the lessons you say. Red flags are red flags. This is it. They can hamster on anything. They have no ethics, no objective compass to guide them. They are open to anything unless there is a huge pressure (like in Islamic countries). On the other hand, I believe self-improvement is our opium. We wor… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/17 10:58 PM |
| 8 | Social media and women.I absolutely agree with you. I have never even tried online gaming, because I know many girls in real life, and what their perspective is. For a vast majority it is a validation game, for the rest well they are probably diseased now. The real alphas and gamers hit the clubs and parties, they never waste their time on online dating. Social media is another thing though they are present there but as the cool, only logging in once in awhile type of guy. I try to position myself according to this st… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/17 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Social media and women.Those guys you are looking for will never be wasting their time here. Don't be so naive. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/17 04:47 PM |
| 3 | The expectation of their nCount is with high probability close to 100 by the time they are 25.Nope it was in a party house, I busted them by mistake. I immediately closed the door of the room when I saw them. She was not really my type though. The funny thing is, she directly befriended me with her boyfriend story; then she did a similar thing to another guy but she was flirting with him (it was more of a shit test), he failed miserably because even though he was good looking and socially likeable he had this nice guy attitude that you would smell from a mile away (btw I really like this… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/17 10:30 AM |
| 71 | The expectation of their nCount is with high probability close to 100 by the time they are 25.When I was an exchange student in US, I met an EU girl who was just like me in orientations. We had a nice non-sexual conversation for about half an hour and then she told me out of nowhere that she had a boyfriend who was a childhood lover to her, looking forward to getting married and how he was frustrated when he learned that she was moving abroad. I thought back then how nice it was to meet your lover at a young age and go through all of it together and so on... Two weeks later she was fucki… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/17 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Friend's life being destroyed. Another case of Awalt.The primary mistake here is sleeping with a 34F. If he had been smart enough to smashing 21F, she would not be as eager to make herself pregnant. You can reduce the risks by sleeping with young girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 09:50 PM |
| 2 | How to Approach for a Second Try?The problem is I am in a scarcity mentality right now. This is true. This is why, I will completely forget about this till I make a better social circle and be with some girls there. Thank you man, it helped a lot. Still I feel bad for what I have done to myself in past. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 11:06 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach for a Second Try?Thank you for your response. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 11:00 PM |
| 0 | How to Approach for a Second Try?I am not waiting. She is not my oneitis. I just feel bad. Because I acted like I would have never done if it happened right now. I never thought I would move to a city where she is the only person I know. We could at least have fun, she could meet me with her girlfriends, but I was befriended like a beta back then. It is a shame. I do not want to be seen like that, but the truth is I should never reach out to her, because there is NO cool way of doing this at this stage. Being remembered like so… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 10:52 PM |
| -1 | How to Approach for a Second Try?There is some background... she left my city a week later; I kept on living my life than after a year I moved to where she lives now. I literally change in a year, and now she is the only person I used to know from past in where I live. Would not you want to give it a call? Is this pathetic? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach for a Second Try?I have not gotten into the details, but there is some reason I want to contact her. I moved to another city and she lives there already. Without displaying my SMV through some canal, I just look like a lonely guy who is looking for some friends and reaching out to her like a puppy. My IG account may be just that canal because there are some cool social guy image there. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach for a Second Try?Calling is way better. Don't you think? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 10:21 PM |
| 3 | How to Approach for a Second Try?This was really inspiring to me, thank you for your response. When I read it, I saw a hopeless beta. We know that she will not reach out to me, because she will never reach out to a guy who is waiting hopelessly to be reached out. There is only one way out from this as far as I am concerned. Either not trying at all, or acting on what I want. I ask you what is your advice in case I act. What you describe is not me. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 10:20 PM |
| 0 | How to Approach for a Second Try?Well, the thing is I cannot come across her in real life. I must call her. If I make my intentions clear on a phone call, she will not respond because she knows my old self and already rejected him. In this case, I should call her as an old friend or something and I do not know if this will work out. I have no strategy in my mind. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 08:53 PM |
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