How in the fuck do you get performance anxiety from sex I mean that is the most beta thing ever. I get it if you're super wasted but sober? Come on somethings wrong then
To work with your pessisism and negativity, realize things are bad, but dont hate them. Just internalize different people with different upbringings have different views and interests, and it doesnt make them stupid or a fan of stupid things, just different things. Dwelling on how things are flawed is ultimately unproductive. You'd be better off thinking about why people like it despite the flaw.