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Don't let your diagnosis define you. The guy who invented ADHD said it was a load of bullshit on his death bed. Look into it. If you suffer anxiety, have you tried meditation? I only ask cos I actually spent most of my day doing a write up on it. Link at the bottom but don't want to make it seem like I'm plugging my blog lol. If it helps that'd be cool. If it's shit, let me know. The ex is still on my case to take her back. I know it's not very TRP, but I said I'd at least meet her and she can e…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 11:00 PM
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If you'd prefer a hostile environment for those coming here to learn, then I personally question if you aren't mistaking personal development for narcism. You can be a decent person and an alpha.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:55 PM
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Being a virgin at 19 isn't the end of the world bro. It's like using a cheat code in a video game if you fuck a prostitute. Cheat codes sound like a fun thing in a game, but it removes the challenge. No challenge means an empty reward. Also, it'll probably feel great and shit and you'll get a solid dopamine hit from it. That'll make you want that same feeling again, but you haven't learned how to get real pussy the normal way. So you go back to paying. Paying also means you aren't doing the hard…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:34 PM
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This. This is the right answer.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:36 AM
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She's manipulating you. That's not the foundation for moving in with someone. She will be a fucking nightmare. If she comes back and you want to stay together, it's now on your terms and you're in power.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:27 AM
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Play nicely. All here to learn.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:20 AM
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That's WhatsApp, a messenger app. And hers are the green tinted ones.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:43 PM
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Yea I spotted that. And I haven't entertained it. She's gone.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 09:05 AM
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Ironic haha.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 09:05 AM
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The fuck? Read the post you dingbat. That's not my texts.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 09:03 AM
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The mental emojis is him, not her. Let that sink in.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:00 AM
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I'm not in those messages. That's the girl I dumped, and the her previous ex (Mr emojis)
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:00 AM
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I'm neither of them. That's the convo between my now ex gf and her previous ex. She met up with him and I ended it. She sent me that to try and proove the innocence of the meetup, apparently. It did the exact opposite. Also, her ex is the one writing like a 20 year old girl with emojis all over.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:49 PM
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On holiday atm with nowhere to lift. Using the time to focus on our family business though. Ty bro
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:40 PM
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Haha already done pal. Beanie didn't like it 😂
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:31 PM
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Why would you want to?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:05 PM
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Could probably karma farm that shit on a different sub, it's gold
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:49 PM
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I deleted her number and blocked her after this shit. Exact same conclusions as you. Was too good not to post as an update.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:34 PM
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Hahaha. Even I was confused at first bro cos my brain couldn't compute a grown man fucking texting like that.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:26 PM
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God I fucking laughed at this. I couldn't believe my eyes. The amount of time it took to process what the hell I was seeing made ME feel like the retarded one.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:25 PM
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Bro, I wish I had answers. I have no fucking clue. He's actually pretty well off financially, so who the hell knows why he messages like that.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:23 PM
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Thanks pal. Gives me time to focus on my climbing and my business ventures. Love the community vibe here.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:53 PM
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Happy cake day. What do you mean by pronoun game?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:52 PM
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This made me laugh. I like it.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:51 PM
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Glad youre better off. Have you started the meds then? Already having a positive impact? Staying friends is probably a mistake though bro. All good this side. Dumped the gf last night cos she met her ex while I'm away on holiday seeing my parents. It's the top post on asktrp currently I think, if you want details. But yea all good, started a blog that I'm going to try monitise and I start a new job in in the beginning of April making decently more money. Staying an extra week in Ireland now, giv…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:51 PM
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Already ended it then get the messages in the update.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:46 PM
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Thanks bro. Make sure to check the update to the post lol.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:45 PM
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She broke it off apparently. That's her side of the story, and the only side I'll hear. So who knows.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:52 PM
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I don't know him personally. Just know his name. Tbh wether she did or didn't, it doesn't change things. Awalt after all. Clean break. Fucking her wouldn't be ethical because she claims to still have all the same feelings and shit. She won't respond to being played and it'll just open up more bullshit than I have time for. Finding women to fuck isn't the hard part, and they will come with less emotional shit.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:51 PM
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Thanks pal. Peace.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:48 PM
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Thanks mate. It's already over.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:48 PM
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Write a book. I'm serious. I'd read that shit. Ty bro.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 03:17 PM
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Fucking hell u couldn't be more correct. She's already done that, cos I justified. She's tried to make it out that I don't care about the relationship. I told her " you're the one seeing exes behind my back and hiding it, you're not acting the fucking victim cos I called you out on your shit"
/r/askTRP22/03/18 03:14 PM
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Going on the last two years, I'd average one or two new women a month without much effort. 3 to 4 if I applied myself, but tbh at the moment I've got a focus on developing a business and passive income through investments so expensive dating isn't a priority at all. I'd take random sex but focus on my own shit for a year or two. I'm not that aware of how to edit the way you did in your post, but she was cool compared to others for the most part. Far more down to earth and more into my interests …
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:57 PM
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I've already ended it. She's been trying to claw things back. Think she probably has BPD. She didn't tell me about it. She tried to obfuscate things. Cheers pal
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:39 PM
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Thank you. Realising I uniformed her without proper vetting. I won't commit before 6 months again, like yep preaches. U learn the hard way then u realise why this group preaches what it does.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:37 PM
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Well I know there's years of emotional investment, he drives a Porsche and is very well off. Better provider. Also treated her like shit in her view. Goes to show. U think I've swapped the red pill only to realise you hadn't.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:12 AM
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Hahaha love it bro. 👌
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:10 AM
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Chill bro. I had a harem before her and I'll get another. That's not hard to do. I'm at the age where I'd like to meet someone worth having kids with. I'd love to have kids, hence seeing if she was worth while. Lesson learned. Peace
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:53 AM
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Thank you mate.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:27 AM
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Thanks pal. This is solid advice and I'll be following it.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:40 AM
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Hey pal. Checking in. How's things going?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:45 AM
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Fuck you too, sweetheart.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:44 AM
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Love this reply.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:35 PM
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A finger is fine but three toes is too much.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 11:57 AM
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Paying for a date will always make you a beta. The fuck you even asking? Do you think any alpha, or even just regular fucking guy will pay for a date? Jesus bro please read the sidebar. Start at the very basics for now. It's not normal to pay for dates. That's just an escort that you're not realising you could have fucked for that price.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:33 AM
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You're over reacting. She's not done anything like that since you started, which means she's commited to you (for now, which is all u ever really get). Man up, get over it, and carry on. If you can't handle the fact that your girl likes sex just as much as you, then you have a lot of work to do pal.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:31 AM
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With enough time, your number of dopamine receptors can go down again. This is provided you stop providing your brain with dopamine through things like masturbation, Facebook likes, retail therapy etc. Look into diamine reward systems. FB and Instagram abuse this, their ex C levels have even gone on TV to discuss it and say how it's ruining society
/r/askTRP11/03/18 09:34 AM
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Lol. You've clearly done no martial arts but feel entitled to comment. Cute 💙
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:58 PM
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There's more to life than how many women you've had. Pussy only matters when you aren't getting any, or you have the same women. Trust me, you only think you're missing loads until you reach abundance and then it really doesn't matter anymore.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:58 PM
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Look up pressure points on the arms. Use those. They don't leave any marks but inflict some serious pain, but only while pressed. Show him that pain but do it in a way that doesn't have any long term risks.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 08:31 PM
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"This fire is burning red hot. It's destroyed thousands of homes. I can feel the heat from a mile away. I still want to touch it" Are you so limited in your choices that you want to risk putting your dick in crazy?
/r/askTRP07/03/18 08:28 PM
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Yea, that's called testosterone bro. That never changes. Ask any man. They will all tell the same story of wanting to fuck new women. It doesn't mean we do, but we always will want to. You're fine. It's a sign of being a healthy male
/r/askTRP07/03/18 08:26 PM
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Well you've got nothing to lose, but you will probably devalue yourself if you message again. If you have a mutual friend, arrange a meetup with both of them? Take the lead rather than being a bit beta and going via tinder. Also bro, get off tinder. There's a world of women. Get chatting to them. Go in with no expectations and then get places with ones that you click with. People on this sub overthink shit so much. You could spend months trying to design the perfect process of picking up, or you…
/r/askTRP07/03/18 01:10 PM
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This guy fucks
/r/askTRP07/03/18 01:07 PM
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There's no need to be unpleasant. Just kino and tease her a little. Say things that are cheeky but with a grin so she knows it's not serious. Being an asshole isn't the answer. Being a high value man that is used to women and speaks his actual mind is the answer. Stop trying to become something and just be your actual true self. Speak your mind. If you're bored, say so and then do what You want to do, she's free to join you. If you want to touch her, then do. Get out of your head on a date and d…
/r/askTRP03/03/18 06:34 PM
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Fuck me, you must be a right charming cunt in real life. You need to pull your head out your arse and actually read what I said. I know the theory is sound you fucking cretin. Fuck knows why you are an endorsed contributor.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 09:01 AM
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He's a hard person to get solid pics of his younger years. Any chance you could link? I've had a try to find them. Got pics of his wife? Google doesn't turn up results. Would be useful as I sent this to my mate and he won't even bother to watch it cos he thinks Tomassi looks beta.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 07:36 PM
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Can't help but notice that he's not exactly the most alpha guy out there. Poor posture, dad body, and beta mannerisms. His teachings are fantastic, but you sort of wish he embodied his own teachings.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 05:32 PM
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I know what that's like. I was married and it was masking a depression too mate. Took years to realise, or rather for it to get too bad. Went to doctors and gave in. Started taking Sertraline, which is an SSRI. Literally a life changer man. Been trying for like 8 months to get CBT therapy but the waiting list is long as hell. Sertraline worked wonders though man. It turned down any social anxiety I had and made me an all round better version of myself. Its been nearly a year and I'm working my w…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 01:11 AM
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How are things going since the break up? Holding in strong pal?
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:01 PM
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Wow. Nice little addition at the end there Cumguzzling cockhound
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:59 PM
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Thank you 🏆
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:58 PM
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Can someone explain why mate guarding is perceived as bad? If it was a plate, then sure id laugh it off and do nothing. If it was an LTR or girl I cared about, I'd have done exactly what OP did. You didn't make it a confrontation, you resolved it non verbally which is fine. He touched her, you touched him, he got the message. You did fine by me
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:15 PM
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"I'm financially independent. Go find another man that isn't"
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:26 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:51 AM
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Had like two hour sex to only coldplay once. It was actually pretty good. I don't listen to coldplay much. Try go for things without too much vocals, as that's just distracting.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 12:33 AM
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That's pretty normal, and stop worrying about putting a label of introvert on it. It's just s fairly normal reaction to have. Life requires balance. You need that bit of rest from social demands just as much as you need a social life. Make more time for yourself, job done.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 12:30 AM
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What does this have to do with TRP? Sorry pal but if you need mommy (TRP) to hold your hand through buying a watch, then you need to focus on the fundamentals mate. Go back to the sidebar, take it in, start making your own god damn decisions like the man you were born. When you were a 5 year old, did you ask anonymous online strangers what watch to buy so girls would like you? No, you did what the fuck you wanted to do. If you liked your shitty big ninja turtles watch, it's what you wore. You we…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 12:28 AM
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Rock climbing. More reason to touch her as you help her into the harness. Adjust the straps around her ass and hips. It gets kino going very early. Also, you're literally taking her life I to your hands. It creates moments of fear but in a good way, because you're the one making sure nothing goes wrong. Also, you will have a great view of her ass in tight leggings or yoga pants. 😉
/r/askTRP27/02/18 12:21 AM
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If she wants to keep it, you can't affect that. Have a chat with her about wether or not she is able to be a fit mother to that child. You might get her to see that now isn't actually the best time. Babies are a huge responsibility, and her life will be forever changes. No more girls nights out, single moms don't get guys even half as easily etc. There's also a huge financial burden and what it does to your body. I'm not a fan of abortions, but I think the alternative of a broken home is equally…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 02:19 PM
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Good read. Thanks for that pal.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 02:15 PM
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Meet more girls. Proximity advantage? What the fuck. That's not an advantage. You want girls that aren't too near so u can still be a free man. Never shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 01:40 PM
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Similar to " excuse me, see my friend over there? He asked me to come and ask you if you think I'm cute". It catches them off guard.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 01:36 PM
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You no longer have a girlfriend pal. She wants other dick, with the chance of coming back to you, while you wait around like a Muppet. TRP is always quick to suggest nexting; I don't often agree with how fast they are to next. In this instance though, next pal. You're young. Work on yourself and have some bloody fun. You don't need a gf.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 01:22 PM
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She's receptive, or she's have said no. Sort a time and a better date. Action date. Do a bloody action date. Read book of pook about action dates. Do something engaging. Some sort of class together. Find some local music. Do something interesting.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:42 PM
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No girl worth your time is going to be fuck yes to a random Instagram message.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:41 PM
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Don't bother. It's a crap read bro
/r/RedPillBooks21/02/18 05:14 PM
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This is brilliant.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:12 PM
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"I've got football practise in the morning." Pro tip: keep a pair of football shoes clearly on display. Even if you don't play. Works wonders at the weekend.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:19 AM
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Another great read is way of the superior man.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:16 AM
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Funny you say that. I lost my job two days ago.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:47 PM
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This guy gets it. Listen to him.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 11:56 AM
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“Beyoncé impersonator”
/r/askTRP24/01/18 01:36 PM
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Bad advice if you actually want to get anywhere with the girl.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 01:33 PM
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No. Just man the fuck up and approach. Imagine getting a text from someone you hardly know, it’d be shit. Exactly. Go bloody ask her, stop being scared. Women want men, not boys who use indirect approaches.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 01:31 PM
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Meet the flat mates first. Go for drinks with them if you can. I’ve ended up with fucking nightmare flatmates that eat my food constantly and can’t clean up. Also, always use an agency but make sure they have good reviews or a reputation for good work. a nightmare agency is hell if you have bad flat mates, because they won’t step in to resolve things. Make sure your contract is water tight. I’m happy to review the contract and pull out concerns if you PM me. I do contract reviews for a living an…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 12:34 PM
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Be nicer to those seeking answers? This is a place of learning.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 07:14 PM
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Probably downvoted as most on here are mid twenties and likely to be invested in crypto as it’s better understood by that demographic than conventional shares and stocks.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 03:31 PM
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Lift Save Invest Spin plates Don’t take shit too seriously Never stop improving Meditate daily Ensure you keep up hobbies that you are passionate about.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 03:13 PM
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You aren’t alone pal. Im in the same position. Had plenty other options, even one hot Brazilian stripper and a plate up the road but met a girl that makes me not interested in playing girls anymore. Imperative to keep up with being alpha and still spreading a little dread just so she knows u do have other options.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 03:11 PM
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Started with crypto. Saw about 3x return on investment in about 6 months. My honest advice is that crypto is a bubble. It has no inherent value. It’s fairy dust / a castle in the air. If you want to “invest” what you can afford to lose then sure, go ahead. The bubble will soon burst just due to the fact that it’s all speculation and none of it is real. It’s only worth something if someone else will pay you more. It has no REAL value. Index funds are a much safer option but will never give you th…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:34 PM
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Beautifully poetic
/r/askTRP09/01/18 07:01 PM
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Millionaire next door, it’s quite an old book. How much is still applicable? I’ve started with MMM. Thanks, I really like his articles. I could do with spending less on shit. I don’t really leave myself wanting for things which is bad. I’d like to know how to use the funds I have to make them work for me. Basically investment. Started with some crypto and had alright returns. I just think that’s a bubble waiting to pop. Any investment advice for a newcomer?
/r/askTRP09/01/18 07:01 PM
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Why, thank you very much 🙏
/r/askTRP09/01/18 06:52 PM
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That’s cute. You carry on then sunshine.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 06:51 PM
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People have fetishes through positive association formed through childhood occurrences, or learned behaviour through things like porn. Vanilla porn or sex can get boring. Dopamine is like a drug and it’s released into the brain for a whole bunch of reasons as a reward ( such as finding sugar or fatty foods as a means of survival, the sight of a woman who is sexually attractive etc.) another reason for dopamine release is novelty, aka seeing something or experiencing something that is NEW. Like a…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 12:41 AM
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Sounds like you’re into feet mate.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 12:34 AM
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Hahaha yes. This is amazing.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 12:32 AM
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Not happy with answers that don’t match your desired beliefs? This board is about asking questions so you can learn. You clearly just don’t know how to fuck. You should be making her do the things you want done. You’re the women in the relationship of you aren’t being dominant. Man the fuck up or you can lay on your back and take in the the pussy like a starfish.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 12:31 AM
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What is FIRE? Any further advice? I’m deeply interested in attaining financial independence.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 10:24 PM
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What exactly is anarchy capitalism?
/r/askTRP07/01/18 10:22 PM
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I’ve heard vegetable and plant proteins aren’t as effective at muscle protein sysnthesis though?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:13 PM
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This guys right. I’ve seen the same shit dozens of times. They cry when they cheat. Always.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 10:13 AM
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This. If your wife won’t allow you to check this, she’s cheated 100%. Don’t be a chump.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 10:12 AM
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Just ignore it. Like it was never even said. Or practise amused mastery. Her: “I’m not interested, can you leave?” You: “I like your charm bracelet. What’s the story behind that? / yea I was going to head back to my friends in a minute. But first, what’s your name?” Or amused mastery would just be “lucky for you, I’m into bitchy girls. Now say that again but with more feeling” then wink in a playful way. Just treat them like little girls. They tell you to do something, why would you listen to a …
/r/askTRP02/01/18 12:44 AM
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Well it’s when I leave their messages unread for a few days. It’s not by intent. Just too busy and I prioritise family and best mates first. Anyway, get enough time be happy and if a girl wants to move on, she wasn’t interested enough anyways.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 10:26 PM
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Yea. I do. But short term ones. Once the honey moon period wears off, most girls don’t live up to my standards and I next them. But I do prefer having one at a time for as long as it lasts, Be that a ONS or a 6 month relationship.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 06:30 PM
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Your goal should be to quit drinking for good if you’re an alcoholic. Otherwise you’re only lying to yourself pal.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 03:10 PM
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Here is mine Reduce alcohol intake to 2 drinks a week, only to cater for social situations that demand it. Lift 3x a week. Climb once a week No more than two meals a week that I don’t make for myself. Meditate daily Always keep a backup plate
/r/askTRP01/01/18 03:08 PM
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Personally disagree with this. Younger girls expect texting. I’ve had many plates fall away because I don’t text often enough. I am genuinely a busy person mostly. It can take my two to three days to reply just due to work and fitness and cooking and other shit. Some girls just take it as a lack of interest and move on. Some don’t.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 03:06 PM
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She may be asexual. Tried roughing he sex up a lot? Tie her down and dominate her. You might awaken her sexual urges. Also, let her worry about the lack of desire. Just fuck her the way you want to then. She will probably get off on you using her the way you want to. She’s putting out, you’re fine. If sex diminishes then demote or hard next.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 03:04 PM
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Always brush your teeth hand
/r/askTRP01/01/18 03:01 PM
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Outcome independence. You’re still concerned with rejection. Go out with the intent of getting 20 rejections on a night or day out. You’ll find you will get a number or sex before you get to 20. A girl doesn’t want you? Probably a shit test. Hold your ground. She’s welcome to leave, but you don’t leave at her first rejection. Hold fast. She’s testing your fucking manhood. If you buckle at the first bit of adversity, like a girls feeble rejection, she’s going to know that you’re a pussy. Hold you…
/r/askTRP01/01/18 03:00 PM
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“If you can’t afford to go out, you can come round mine”. Then just bang and turn her into a plate. If she’s not working, it’s not your fucking job to fix that for her. She’s a grown ass woman who can pay her own way. Think any girl would pay your half if you weren’t employed? Hell no. So why reverse that? Alpha fucks, beta bucks. Just have sex and don’t pay for her shit. End of story.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 02:57 PM
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You’re early in your journey bro. It happens to a lot of us. You’re still seeking love or validation from women, and any one will fill that gap at the moment. It’s like oneitis, but it’s an unhealthy attachment to what women offer, rather than one woman. Try monk mode. Learn to be comfortable being single. Take 3 months off and just focus on yourself. Don’t say no to sex but don’t go out actively hunting. Take time to work on yourself and pick up some new hobbies or interests. In meditation, try…
/r/askTRP01/01/18 02:52 PM
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People here are massively over concerned about this shit. How many men does his actually happen to? Seriously. Get a microphone if you’re so concerned
/r/askTRP01/01/18 02:45 PM
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“I’m guessing your costume didn’t end up at my place by accident. I remember a cheeky conversation we had, let’s pick up where we left off” This shit really isn’t complicated.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 02:43 PM
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Right with you bro. Alcohol no longer serves me.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 12:15 PM
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Okay why would you not say goodnight or good morning? I don’t consider myself particularly beta, perhaps many years ago. I do still text goodnight and good morning to girls I have an actual interest in. I don’t text that to the lesser plates.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 05:53 PM
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Vintage MySpace accounts are really in atm.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 10:14 PM
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Ask for bobs and vagene
/r/askTRP29/12/17 10:13 PM
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You know what to do. You’re just scared to do it. Hard next. If she won’t suck your dick, she’s not sexually attracted to you enough. If some stud muffin alpha told her to suck his dick, think she’d say no? Exactly.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 10:12 PM
2

Absolutely not.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 10:45 AM
10

This. If I had a girl doing this shit I’d have left her already. Why would I want an absolute shit person around me just to get laid? You can get laid in a lot of places by nicer birds.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 10:41 AM
7

I’m not saying your hobby is gay, but how many inches can you fit in your mouth? /s
/r/askTRP28/12/17 10:58 PM
4

Keep it short and DO NOT get wrapped up in explaining yourself. The longer you draw it out, the uglier it gets. Also keep it about yourself, no good comes from making it about her..it only serves to damage her which is not good for anyone. “I’ve done some thinking and this relationship isn’t working for me anymore. We’ve had great memories that I’ll always cherish, but things have changed for me. [insert making it about yourself here, eg follows] I’ve realised I’m not ready for this type of comm…
/r/askTRP28/12/17 09:47 AM
4

This is awful advice.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 09:43 AM
5

Nearing 30 and I’m in the same boat. I don’t think it’s always as clear cut as people make it sound. I’ve tried 4 career lines. The ones I loved didn’t earn enough; the one I’m in earns damn well but it’s soul destroying. I’d work in a climbing gym or animal shelter if they paid well. Good luck mate
/r/askTRP28/12/17 09:41 AM
10

This. You will meet so many awesome people and fit girls doing rock climbing. It’s awesome.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 10:53 PM
12

This is why I love TRP. THIS is a brilliant response. Thank you so much bro. You just upped my game.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 06:18 PM
11

When you guys cold approach, wether it’s in a bar or on the street, what are some good questions or topics of conversation you use when the conversation isn’t naturally progressing? What I mean is for example, you chat for a few minutes and then boom...not much further to discuss organically. What do you then move the conversation to? I’m fine with the approach and start, but I hate the questions girls drop around what I do for work or shit that’s boring.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 01:15 PM
1

This. Tinder is a shit show. Did it for two years. Got rid of it and just games irl. So much fucking better.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 01:53 PM
6

This is exactly it.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 01:49 PM
1

Did you smash uglies? (Have sex)
/r/askTRP19/12/17 11:07 AM
1

Mate, from the depth of my heart to yours, this isn’t the best place to be asking questions like this. No internet random person can help. All the therapy in the world can only lead you on the right path, but it is your path to walk down. No one can walk it for you. If you’ve tried SSRIs and other meds to the extent of their capability, then the issue isn’t chemical which helps to understand the issue. Have you ever suffered any substantial traumatic event? Childhood abuse? Physical abuse? Is th…
/r/askTRP19/12/17 11:06 AM
3

I liked this
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:27 PM
75

😂😂 this post 👌🏻
/r/askTRP18/12/17 02:59 PM
3

It’s not impossible to change an opinion and have a girl see you as high value. I’ve had it a lot on cold approach where they give me that bitchy vibe as if they aren’t attracted. It’s almost always a shit test and easily overcome by not giving a fuck and still gaming her and being cocky funny. It’s naturally easier if the girl finds u attractive. But I’ve definitely swung opinion in the past, so you can too.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 02:58 PM
1

It’s okay pal, I’m also fucking Scarlett Johansen, she’s not just yours.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 04:58 PM
1

Susan Boyle.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 04:56 PM
1

This guy gets it. There’s plenty of non celebrity girls who are hotter and better mates, I’m sure. If “no one is better than her” then this is a case of oneitis my friend and you know what to do...
/r/askTRP16/12/17 04:55 PM
2

To be honest. This. Exactly this. Lower SMV girls tend to smell funky as hell. Like horrible nasty downstairs smell and hairiness . Ass that reeks. I don’t know why the hell that is the case but it’s my observed experience too. Girls who are a bit chubbier tend to be the same. Maybe they get more sweaty due to higher body fat? Eating a chubby girls ass is rarely a pleasant experience.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 04:52 PM
1

You’re interpreting the content wrong. Like I can tell a woman to fuck off but in a flirty and fun way, with lingering eye contact and a smirk 😏. Maybe a wink at the end to ease the tension. If you’re actually telling a woman to fuck off in a stern way, are you at all surprised? Don’t be a dick head. Being alpha is NOT simply being a fucking asshole to women. It’s about a strong frame and a solid understanding of body language and tone. You can say anything you want, it’s about the delivery and …
/r/askTRP16/12/17 11:46 AM
2

“Finally reach my goal of 4inches” .....” extra around my biceps. God you’re mind is dirty, and my cock is already 4 inches”
/r/askTRP16/12/17 11:40 AM
2

I’ll reply tomorrow. Got ten girls to fuck, without any downtime or food breaks. Chat later 🤨🤨🤨
/r/askTRP16/12/17 11:37 AM
2

It gives you the women you want, just not the womAn you want. If there’s one woman you want, and you’re here, it’s because you’ve probably already fucked your chances. If you have a great life with great hobbies and it’s fulfilling and you keep fit, then many women will want you. At that point you pick the ones you want. Also you should only be approaching woman you find attractive to begin with. Not every single one will want you, but the higher your SMV, the greater the percentage that would w…
/r/askTRP16/12/17 11:35 AM
-7

“Think about me while he’s fucking you”
/r/askTRP16/12/17 11:33 AM
1

Not quite 30 yet. Not far though. I can see a noteable increase in my SMV though and it’s ramping up so I can only project that my 30s will be amazing. Think staying in shape and being assertive are of a higher requirement though.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 11:30 AM
0

I’ve read about and know about their games and shit. Not heard about them being flaky though. I’ll keep an eye on the forums. Your first point is valid, I realised as I said it that it comes across as caring. It’s a hard one to play correctly in normal situations cos some women do want to see an element of caring. No woman wants a guy that gives no fucks about them. I think they want a guy that gives no fucks, has options, but cares about them. On your second point. I know you’re probably correc…
/r/askTRP15/12/17 08:53 PM
-1

Okay. I vouch to keep my head about me. I’ll see if things go anywhere and I’ll report back on this thread. Quite honestly if she’s playing a game then she’s the best actor I’ve ever seen from a stripper. I’m not by any means saying it’s not an act, just a hell of a good act if it is indeed the case. Strippers do end up dating guys and investing emotionally. I’m not a bad looking guy and I’ve got a solid career and good status, demonstrated by the 20 or so people who came in to join us who all c…
/r/askTRP15/12/17 08:34 PM
0

Haha I like it very stoic.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 08:20 PM
1

Cute. 👌🏻
/r/askTRP15/12/17 06:48 PM
-1

I think ur coming from a weird place with your response mate. I’m not playing save a ho. I’m fine with her being a stripper or I wouldn’t be interested in anything outside of the club anyway. I don’t have the means nor desire to take her away from that source of income if she likes it. Sounds like you’ve been butthurt by a stripper. When I didn’t hear from her the first time, I didn’t let it phase me and I’ve fucked a handful of girls since. Literally seeing one girl tonight and a different tomo…
/r/askTRP15/12/17 06:44 PM
0

Lol. I’m not saying I think she’s that woman. I said that’s my end goal. And there’s been dozens of women who haven’t stacked up to that and likely most in the future won’t either. And I’m fine with that. I get that. I’m pretty sure if she wanted a sugar daddy she would find one. I’m not super rich and she must know that as I don’t spend much usually. I’ve only had a £20 dance with her. I’m not playing captain save a ho’ as I don’t care if she enjoys doing that job. At least I’d know first hand …
/r/askTRP15/12/17 06:39 PM
1

Thanks for the reply. Being honest, I feel like I’ve got game down and I can escalate and build attraction and close and all that, the blue pill that remains in me is that I do that to pursue an LTR as an end goal. I want marriage and kids one day, with the right woman though. I know it sounds stupid but this stripper and I have spent a good 8 hours talking across the nights and it comes across as a decent girl who left Brazil and does this as it’s a money earner. It’s not a high end place and f…
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:37 PM
3

Yep. This. 100%. Only benefit is knowing no other cock has ever been there. But shit at sex.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 11:42 AM
1

If you don’t want to fuck her, what do you want? You want her as a friend?...if that’s the case, you need better guy friends.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 01:20 AM
2

If you think you could get better, you’re settling. That “you know when you know” shit is actually pretty true imho.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 01:18 AM
1

Firstly, are there not easier situations or easier girls to attract? Secondly, this looks like it’s written by the girl, or by a pussy of a man. “Please” when asking you not to text his gf. Jesus. If I was indeed her Boyd I’d be far more assertive. “Stop fucking texting my girl you little fuck” is way more the style a man would reply”. Also if you got her number, she wanted you to have it. End of story. I’d reply “that’s cute that you feel a need to tell me you’re fucking her”
/r/askTRP13/12/17 01:15 AM
3

Firstly, why the fuck do you even notice one girl liking your pics? You should be having better shit to do than notice that bro. I don’t post much but I literally ignore 95% of Instagram likes and comments and shit. Simply do not find the time Secondly, what did you text her? Thirdly. Most girls just spam out likes. Don’t think that means shit. There’s a girl that I know who does the same shit. Likes almost every pic. Recently got a boyf. That didn’t change a thing. Some girls just spam like shi…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 01:08 AM
18

This guy should be top rated comment. The more you react to her shot, the more of a pussy you seem. If he’s a guy friend, he’s probably so fucking far into the friend zone that he is basically viewed as one of the girls. If she in any way fancies him, you should be able to tell. Be the man she desires, while that dude is the bitch-man she vents her shit to. He’s saving you an earful imho.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:57 AM
1

If you find out, you’ll be rich. It’s literally the reason why we drink. Exact same thing. I’m way more sociable and witty when I’ve had a few. I think that’s the case for almost everyone.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 03:13 PM
1

This guy gets it. You aren’t her events manager. Make her select interesting things too
/r/askTRP11/12/17 03:28 PM
2

Grind back. Escalate to as much touching as is acceptable in a club. Find somewhere more private. Smoking area / seating area if possible. Make out. Kino escalation. Get a cab home with her. It’s not rocket science mate.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 03:27 PM
1

Sounds like something happened in your life between those time periods. Did anything traumatic occur in your life? This board preaches abundance mentality so that people are scared of fucking up or enacting their desires without fear. You didn’t kiss her or whatever cos you were fearful in some way of rejection. Sleep with 5 ugly girls then 5 slightly better. Keen doing that till you’ve broken out of this cage you’ve built for yourself.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 04:03 PM
2

Imagine you prepared some delicious custard. You sit down and eat the custard but it tastes like literal dog shit. Do you a) continue to believe it’s custard and keep eating it or b) toss that shit out and make a new batch? Your ex wife is the custard. You put time and effort into the relationship thinking you were making something great. But the ingredients were fucked up and it turned into shit. No good pretending she was great or thinking she’s some unicorn. Toss that shit out. Get on the pus…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:32 PM
1

Okay. How old are you? That might help to know, even if you give a rough age idea. I work in a company of about 500 people and I’ve slept with 2 woman here and I’m seeing a third next week. Just let things happen at work if they happen but yea don’t force it. Be flirty with any woman and see what happens. Fear of rejection is very real and understandable. Through time with redpill ideas, meditation, lifting, and practise, you will stop giving a fuck about rejection. Make it a game. Go in knowing…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:20 AM
7

“It leads to me beating my red haired step child” “The police would really rather I didn’t” “I think 7 DUIs is enough” “I used to drink but it keeps leaking out of me. I can’t win” “Well, I tried every hole and none of them agreed with me”
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:00 PM
7

Unless you live and work in the same basement, and never need to leave the house for food, you see women every day. Guess where you meet them? Wherever you see them. Your issue isn’t a lack of places to meet them, it’s having the required balls to approach anywhere and everywhere.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:55 PM
5

I have strong text game apparently. Guys and girls alike have said that (guy mates who see what I send). I’ve had guy mates hand me their phones to send the first few messages. Trust me when I say it is SO MUCH easier to game in person. Text game is wank. But, since you asked. If it’s tinder, I go with something from their pics. For example one was a pic of a girl drinking in a garden with dogs around. “So, what else do you do with your free time other than get innocent dogs drunk?”. That worked…
/r/askTRP06/12/17 10:41 PM
2

Mate lose the first pic. Crop the last pic and use that one. Lose the pics that say “look, I just got a haircut”.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 10:33 PM
2

Go climbing together? Give her £10 ($15?) and take her purse or bag from her. She has to impress you with a home cooked meal but she can ONLY use the money given to her. Or double it and add a bottle of wine that she has to chose. It’ll be “fun” but also shows her sophistication and it’ll put her into that mode of having to validate herself aka entering your frame. Comedy club / cheap amateur comedy and a few drinks. Star gaze together in a rural part Lookup “experiences” like kayaking, zorbing,…
/r/askTRP06/12/17 10:31 PM
8

Mate. “I be free....”. He may as well have ended it with m’lady.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 01:32 PM
1

What’s that?
/r/askTRP06/12/17 09:45 AM
1

Thanks. Will chat to my GP
/r/askTRP06/12/17 09:45 AM
1

Can undiagnosed sleep disorders cause this? Can you identify this without a sleep study?
/r/askTRP05/12/17 11:05 PM
1

A semi colon would be more applicable then a dash. Punctuate shit out.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 11:04 PM
45

Some would argue that 63% of the global net-daily cringe quota is spent by the NSA—which is frighteningly similar to the percent black budget allocation they receive.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 11:02 PM
49

The only time I use “salacious” is to make it sesquipedalian or clear that I’m obfuscating.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 11:01 PM
1284

Haha. Wow lol 😝. I can’t believe what an idiot this guy acts like. I was shocked 😮 to see it!! Haha. I’m free literally any time you want to share more awesome 👏🏻 examples like this one. Shit was lit 🔥. Anyways. Hope to see more posts from you soon. Coolio 👋🏻
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 10:15 PM
49

If you are serious, there are better avenues of help and support. Please speak to any suicide prevention hotline in your country or the Samaritans immediately. Please also seek medical help as a medium term solution. Hopelessness is depression deceiving your brain. You ARE NOT your depression. In much the way that a virus can attack the body and render it weak, depression can attack the mind and leave it weak. Medication and time can heal your mind, and your life will improve with it. You will m…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:59 PM
3

Mate if you thk there is sth wrn with his spelling thn jus deal wth it.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:49 PM
2

Firstly, you don’t allow yourself to get to that situation where you are the subject of ridicule. But too late for that, so now it’s about reclaiming ground. Choose your words so that you only say things that are of value and cannot be misconstrued. Also, own what you say. If they take the piss out of it, you don’t humour it. Don’t have any reaction to it. You remove the fuel that feeds the fire by doing this. Flip the script. Find ways to undermine their words, but do so selectively as it sound…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 01:45 PM
3

Could be dopamine overstimulation. Would have suggested gluten free and dairy free. I also suffer brain fog. The biggest helper has been anti depressants for me. They lifted a large amount of the brain fog initially, but they aren’t to be taken lightly. Didn’t even start them for the brain fog but they definitely made me more responsive, improved reactivity of thought, I felt sharper and wittier with come backs etc. Adequate sleep and less dopamine stimulants should help. Cut out caffeine, alcoh…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 12:33 PM
5

Burns unit 🚑
/r/askTRP04/12/17 03:05 PM
9

Everyone knows it takes at least 5 days.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 12:37 PM
1

She never even showed up?
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:00 PM
1

Beautiful articulation. Screenshot this and saved it so I can look back on it in times of need.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 11:00 AM
1

Glad to hear it. How was the date?
/r/askTRP02/12/17 05:19 PM
1

“Want fuck in you. How much?”
/r/askTRP01/12/17 12:25 PM
3

Sure. I’ll be over in ten.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 12:24 PM
3

If I was going to kill you, I wouldn’t tell you. If I was trying to chat shit and get a reaction, I’d say shit like that. Do the math
/r/askTRP01/12/17 12:21 PM
7

This guy fucks.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 12:16 PM
1

And? How did it go?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 12:14 PM
5

I’m with you mate. Easier to bed but job girls with poor father figures but by no means are they worth the sex. I have reached a point where I will not LTR any woman with divorced parents. Exception can be made if parents divorced after she left home or was above age 18.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 11:21 PM
2

You’re living in the anxious future state. Depression is living in the past, anxiety is living in the future, happiness is living in the Now. What will be, will be—my friend. Wait for things to happen. You have 5 scenarios or more in your head, only one (if any) of those will come true. Why water 5 gardens when not even one of them may grow? Recommended reading : the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:58 PM
4

No good will come from telling them. Too little and you’re borderline virgin. Too many and you’re a fuck boy. Also, what do YOU get from telling them?.....not much right? Then why the hell tell them? If they tell you, that’s fine. Still doesn’t mean you tell them yours. My standard answer is “I dont count them, never felt the need to count it. But it’s enough”
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:54 PM
1

Please read the sidebar about oneitis. You’re invested in her. She’s nothing special in the looks department, not worth oneitis.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:54 PM
1

Quite honestly about a 3 or 4. Face is her best feature. She’s over weight which normally implies a low investment in self or an addictive personality. It’s relative to your SMV too bro. If you’re on the low end then there’s no shame in dating or fucking a girl like her. She’s still attractive enough. If she was great banter and a great girl then I totally wouldn’t mind dating her. It’s all relative buddy.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:25 PM
1

I’ll bite. PM me her pic and I’ll give you an honest 0-10.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:05 PM
1

So you say “good. I didn’t think we’d get any sleep”.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:50 PM
1

You do not ask one deer how to hunt another. .....
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:44 PM
8

With my hands on my hips and my crotch thrust forward while my dick flaps angrily about, snapping at the air and sputtering my golden rain?
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:40 PM
3

Similar to me. 28 though. About the same notch count. Same thing where girls don’t exactly chase after me but I get laid enough. Just be happy with your life. You’re invested in women too much by what you’re asking. You’re getting laid. Enjoy it. If you want more from a woman, it’s because you’re looking in some way for a mommy figure. Women won’t love you the way you want to be loved. You’ve got to find that self love mate.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:39 PM
3

It doesn’t really change the value of his advice. Dating people with any type of mental health issues is more difficult than dating someone without them. That is a simple reality. It doesn’t mean they’re a better or worse person, but the relationship will be more troubled. Given the choices, one is a logically more sound choice. You are seeing this from a place of emotional attachment to your condition and ego investment in the defence of it. The OP also has an emotional interest in the attack o…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:27 PM
2

Please, dear god keep posting.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:22 PM
1

!RemindMe
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:16 PM
4

The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi is probably the best book on the subject. Reading the Superior Man is also good. Models By Manson is a softer intro to red pill. Those are good starts to TRP. after that, read into stoicism as a philosophy. Good luck bro.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:16 PM
1

Mate. It’s so expensive. Socialise once or twice a week. Multiple hobbies and shit too. Planning a climbing trip that’s costing about £1000. It all adds up so damn much. At the point now where I’m avoiding dates unless they’re properly quality girls cos I don’t feel like the cost of a date justifies an average shag. Better shit to do but still take the odd sex that comes at a lower cost.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:19 PM
18

Dude you’ve met her once, you’re not her best friend or boyfriend. It’d be weird to buy her something. Get her a drink for her bday perhaps.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 10:35 AM
4

I’ve read it. I wouldn’t say it’s particularly TRP material. It’s a book on spirituality at its core.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 10:34 AM
-1

Yea you’re probably just the aggressor;if you’re not encountering conflict, you’re probably the one providing it.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:38 PM
1

You need counselling my man. You’re too worried about this shit. The problem isn’t in your underpants, it’s in your mind. Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:37 PM
0

Well, that sounds like bullshit right there because anger is unavoidable. Shy of never leaving the basement, you’re going to encounter conflict.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:09 PM
1

I’m not really concerned with 0.3 inches bro. I’m sure women aren’t either.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:06 PM
2

Amuse me with your suggestion then please.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:06 PM
1

5 is pretty average mate. Also I’ve heard enough women say that smaller is better. Often times a shorter dick hits the happy better if you get the angle correct. Learn to make a girl come with your fingers and have a gspot orgasm. Most girls have never had that. Pull that off and she will want you for life. Edit: sometimes you want a hot dog 🌭, sometimes you want a cocktail sausage. Both are good eating.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:13 PM
2

This is something I am currently working on. My first question to you is wether this occurs in the workplace or in general situations outside of work? The other factor is wether the relationships need to be maintained with these people? Effective conflict resolution is reliant on identifying your trigger reaction. You need to recognise WHEN you’re entering conflict. I know it sounds silly but just the recognition in that very moment of “I’m now entering conflict” allows you to pause and adjust y…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:11 PM
8

Do you have a passion? You need a goal that is hard to attain. Climb Everest, take a month off to travel Asia. Do something that infuses you with life.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 05:35 PM
1

Could you please ELI5 or provide some sources? I’d really be interested to read more about this but I’m afraid I just don’t understand it well enough to research it.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 05:30 PM
3

Do you alternate between warm and cold water? Like 3 mins cold then 5 mins hot?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 02:17 PM
1

This. Just lift. You are where you are because you make excuses.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 12:47 PM
2

Therapist and/or meditation. You need to understand why you drive people away? Is it because deep down you don’t feel worthy of them? Or do you actually prefer isolation? You need to deep dive on the root of this.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 12:46 PM
1

Install “calm” on iPhone. Might be on android too. I started using it about two weeks ago. It has a few free courses, after which it’s £35 a year. I know it sounds like a lot but that’s the cost of one night out..but for a year. I thought it’s worth it. There’s loads of other free resources though. Just google it.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 12:44 PM
8

Make it happen party dragon 💯🕺🏼
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 10:25 PM
1

The aim is never to reach that dude. And no I don’t. But we made this rule a decade ago. It’s a fall back.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 11:14 PM
-1

Stfu you little white knight prick. He attacked someone’s perfectly fine comment so I gave him a taste of his own bullshit. Back on your pony and ride off now sweet cheeks.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 11:12 PM
1

!RemindMe
/r/askTRP21/11/17 10:13 PM
2

See my post in reply to his.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:56 PM
0

Tells* (Don’t start a sentence with “because”) I WHOLEHEARTEDLY believe in the concepts* (word order) That’s why I post; that’s why I hang around (use a semicolon to separate independent clauses) I’m 47; my n-count is.... (again, semicolons are used to separate independent clauses). “Really makes you look like an idiot” - (IT really makes...) Community’s* I’ll just stop here. Don’t fucking go ranting about spelling when yours is piss poor.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:56 PM
3

This. My mates and I used to call it “Climbing the ladder”. Each new girl must be better than the last. If you go 6 months without, then drop the standards a few rungs and Work it back up.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 11:42 AM
1

Me Irl
/r/askTRP21/11/17 11:41 AM
1

!RemindMe 3 days
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:17 PM
2

!RemindMe 3 days
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:15 PM
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Nah dude. I’ve had porn addiction and still wanted to fuck women. The urge is still there. Porn addiction can fuck with you staying hard or cumming, but you still want to fuck women. I would have assumed you might be Asexual, but then the porn doesn’t make sense. Are you scared of women? Like scared of the actual intimacy?
/r/askTRP20/11/17 04:29 PM
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Life must be a dream 😂
/r/askTRP20/11/17 01:34 PM
3

This is beautiful, but a dark truth.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 01:33 PM
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To contradict other posters, you should always be gaming. Get your dick wet son. If you aren’t getting laid often enough, you will get oneitis so much easier. Also, having sex does positive things for T levels and your image masculinity. Don’t make it a primary focus, build a great life as a main goal. But still take opportunities that present themselves.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 09:52 AM
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Are you actually sexually attracted to these women? Have you ever been sexually attracted to a man? Think you need to honestly consider the possibility that your low sex drive stems from something other than testosterone. If you think you have low T levels, get tested and have it confirmed or debunked. Alternatively, you may have anxiety holding you back from actually engaging with a women out of fear of rejection. If you never approach or escalate, then you continue the fantasy of “yea I could …
/r/askTRP20/11/17 09:50 AM
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That’s solid advice mate. For me, that’s climbing. I love it and it’s a good way of meeting girls. I don’t think meeting women is the problem I face, I’m good enough looking and social enough. The biggest challenge I face that I’d love advice on, is what to do in your down time when you’re single. Like tonight, it’s a Sunday night and I can’t afford to be out every single night. It’s just so boring to be at home. Family aren’t in the country so can’t just go visit them. Got friends but equally i…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 10:38 PM
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If you really want to do something about it, and it’s justified, you need to find ways to bring pressure to him. Create more work for him than he can deal with, if you’re in that position. Or set him up for failure, but make it look like it’s a good thing for him and it’s out of the goodness of your heart.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 10:35 PM
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Can confirm. Literally went climbing on Friday night, met a cute American Asian girl who was only over for the week on business. Exchanged numbers as she was with friends and they were cock blocking. We met up last night, just the two of us. Hooked up. All from Climbing. The girls can be really hot.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 01:38 PM
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Just because you don’t like a person doesn’t mean you can go fuck with their income. U don’t know how long it might take them to get another job. Change what you DO have control over. You can move job. That way u also learn the valuable lesson of how hard it can be to find another one. This sub is about being a better MAN. Men tackle problems head on or chose to ignore a frivolous battle. They don’t use little pissy techniques like that.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:29 PM
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This is such a beautiful analogy. I love it.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:24 PM
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I would welcome any more advice or posts. Useful to see the views of a person looking backwards. I’m nearing 30, once divorced. Will likely never marry again. What would you say was your greatest learning to attract more women?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 04:00 PM
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It’s called banter here in the UK. You just have t have a better come back, or laugh and applaud them for a good one. Then get y ur turn when you can. Makes me wonder how people even get along in the states without a bit of friendly banter.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 10:22 PM
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“How do I manipulate a woman into sending me nudes?”.....if you can’t see how weird that is, you have a long long way to go.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 07:02 PM
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This isn’t incels. This isn’t an appropriate question.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:57 PM
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!RemindMe 1 day
/r/askTRP12/11/17 10:29 PM
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This is the right answer.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 01:07 PM
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Is this the place for this question? There’s entrepreneur and loads for f other subs way better suited.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 04:51 PM
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To give you a serious answer among a sea of trash,l. It depends somewhat on your age. A citrus smell is scientifically proven to be attractive to most women. I’m not saying go out and smell like an orange, but it’s what makes Hugo boss a great frangrance (the silver ball with an orange ring). It has a citrus base and most women would say it’s a good smell. Second, something with a manlie, musky base like Diesel Bad or Emporio Armani “better with you”. All of these are available in most shops. La…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 04:49 PM
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Cheers will try this. Just got a number from a cashier in a men’s clothing store. Quite a cutey. Might run “atleast I’ve got some new clothes for our first date”
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:51 PM
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This. Seek help if you struggle with depression or anxiety. I’m in the same boat and antidepressants have felt like a fucking life changer. They’re not necessarily needed for everyone but in the right circumstances there’s nothing else like it. Gyming and eating well are the second and equally vital part.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:29 PM
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How old are you? A rough age would help. If you’re just getting into it, then take small steps each day. There’s no huge rush. Also definitely start lifting if you don’t already. It helps in more ways than u can imagine. You look better and it increases testosterone which makes you more malt and women pick up on it.
/r/seduction04/11/17 09:35 PM
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Why did u not get her number if I may ask? Keep going buddy. Remember that almost every girl is waiting for a strong confident and engaging man to approach them. Pass the shit tests and have fun with it and you will do great.
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:52 PM
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Post a pic of you in your suit? Don’t need a face shot. Also I’m wondering why you’re wearing a suit on a campus?? It’s about wearing the appropriate clothes for the situation. Also, the clothes do not make the man. As long as you don’t look stupid for wearing the wrong clothes in the wrong environment, the clothes won’t matter half as much as brands will have you think they do. Last night I was the only one of my mates not in a suit, as they are in sales and I work in a form of management that …
/r/askTRP28/10/17 11:46 AM
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Swap with healthy snacks like hummus and carrot sticks? Or cheeses? There’s healthy treats still.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 01:02 PM
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“Manage my diet” isn’t measurable. For an objective to be successful, it needs to be measurable. Set a caloric intake or limit to one sweet a day or something like that. Also, have rewards for successful completion or punishments for broken rules.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:32 PM
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Focus on rest, ensure you’re in caloric surplus and ensure you’re applying progressive overload and you should see progress.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:17 AM
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Ensure you get adequate protein to start with. 1-1.5grama per kg of body weight. Ensure you get healthy fats and carbs. Lookup Marco ratios.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:16 AM
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Lookup stronglifts 5x5. Start with the big compound lifts. Get them right, then go to PPL or something but always include the 5 big compounds...and pull-ups. The 5 compounds are bench press, squat, deadlift. Overhead press and bent over barbell row. Do all of them with a barbell. No kettle bells. These will give you the best gains.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:15 AM
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It’s not hard to be friends with a woman. Seems that standard TRP view is that men and women can’t be friends. I think that’s crap personally. I have several girls as mates. Some I’ve fucked, others I haven’t. You do get some women who are cool to be around with and have interesting hobbies. Why avoid hanging with them. Sure, some may be attractive but it doesn’t mean they’re my oneitis. I focus on not being mates with girls I want to fuck, why avoid all other women too? Friendships form through…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:02 PM
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Jesus. You’ve slipped off the path if you think legalising rape is okay. Im dumbfounded.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 06:51 PM
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You both got what you wanted. You could step away in a decent way and not hurt the girl. And everyone wins.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:53 AM
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You’ve got to realise that to some extent, she’s not related and you spend a lot of time with her so maybe attraction would build. But, you will likely end up attracted to anyone you spend huge amounts of time with. There’s a whole world of women out there, who aren’t family. They’re perfectly good women. Go after them instead. Also, limit interactions with the step sister a little. No deep chats and things. Or find a way to get her to dislike you a bit more.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:50 AM
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Not to be confused with Wim Hoff
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 12:43 PM
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It's about what you eat. I agree. I'd rather get 3000 calories with a bit of fruit and a mix of diet. Not just pasta all day.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 09:24 PM
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Well if you don't like tattoos then fine. It's part of you polarising what you want and don't want. You can't judge someone and then get upset because they left. You polarised her away. So either you've got to not do that if you want the girl, or hold to your convictions, or re-evaluate your convictions. Why don't you like tattoos? Is it actually YOUR views on them, or that of your parents filtering down onto you?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 09:19 AM
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Any link to that fuckarounditis post?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 07:42 AM
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You have a very different interpretation of Fuck Hoes.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 11:34 AM
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Fantastic analogy. Will remember this for the rest of my life. Honestly really good way of looking at it.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 09:01 PM
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How do you orgasm without ejaculation?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 11:05 PM
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Hey man. Sorry for the delay, life has gotten a little busy of late. It's important to be real with yourself, she didn't chest because you out all your attention into your work, it's more likely because of other reasons. That may have been a contributing factor but give it an honest though. Well it's good to have hobbies, but cars and guns won't be an easy avenue to meet new women. You should be looking at try bff new things to meet new people. Dancing, climbing, language courses, volunteering o…
/r/seduction28/07/17 11:57 AM
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Salsa is a good way to meet women. Guns and cars aren't, and I wouldn't call those a purpose either. They're interests, not even hobbies. You sound like your wife was your life, rather than having your own purpose. I don't mean to be a dick, but that's probably why she cheated. She was likely no longer turned on by you once your world was her. Read "way of the superior man" where this is explained in great detail around having to have a higher purpose. Best of luck.
/r/seduction19/07/17 01:13 PM
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This isn't true. Women want to be wanted by men that APPEAR to be the strongest. This is why the deadbeat asshole with no prospects can still get women if he's deluded enough to think that he is a success and strong. It's about appearance more than reality.
/r/seduction08/07/17 08:54 AM
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Also a divorcee. Went through the same thing. You need to find your own purpose, not rely on having a woman in your life to do so. My career has stagnated for two years but I'm taking the reigns with it and have interviews this week. Managed to find a hobby that I really really love and it's really social which helps too. Women will want you when your life doesn't need them in it. Also why have you had no sex if you've been dating? How many dates? How many made it beyond first date?
/r/seduction08/07/17 08:31 AM
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Which country are you from? Know the good areas for a night out, depending on your age. Do you like cocktail bars, clubs, jazz bars, social type pubs? What sort of age range? What's your goal while here (hookups?)?
/r/seduction19/06/17 09:44 PM
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Better to simply ask "are you alone? Will anyone notice if you are missing?"
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:11 PM
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Did you assume her gender by chatting her up? Jesus Christ you meat eating fuck
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:10 PM
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Came here to say the same. Any girl would be like "fuck mate, u carry cards to meet strangers. Weirdo"
/r/seduction20/09/16 05:26 PM
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I approach any time I'm out and most girls just aren't that interested. I'm not the best looking guy around but I'm in shape and probably a 7/10 would be fair. But I have such little luck while I'm out in pubs and clubs and shit. I use tinder as i get about 12 matches a day and a date or two a week. No way I would ever manage those numbers through normal approaching.
/r/seduction12/09/16 01:15 PM
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Contemplate suicide
/r/seduction05/09/16 11:10 PM
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Present girls you fancy with a freshly laundered pair of your underpants. Neatly folded of course.
/r/seduction05/09/16 06:50 AM
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Read "way of the superior man". You will see where either you or her went wrong. Great read for any relationship.
/r/seduction28/08/16 09:58 AM
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Not to be rude but you look pretty much like an average bloke. I'm confused.
/r/seduction22/08/16 09:04 PM
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Jesus. I just want to see you're face now to stare in awe. That's mental. 786 matches? Edit: and they all message you first? Sufficiently jealous.
/r/seduction22/08/16 11:47 AM
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Yea dude that only happened once or twice after a reset of my account. Used to average ten a day only about two months ago.
/r/seduction22/08/16 07:12 AM
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I've just moved to Central London. I reset my tinder at the weekend, so I would t think so.
/r/seduction22/08/16 07:11 AM
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Are you stupidly good looking? Nice
/r/seduction22/08/16 07:10 AM
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That used to work but doesn't seem to anymore.
/r/seduction21/08/16 10:50 PM
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I've had 70 in a day where I just hammered right swipes. Those days are gone though. Only a year ago
/r/seduction21/08/16 10:30 PM
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Literally experiencing the same thing mate. Once or twice I would get 70 matches a day but an average of ten matches a day. It's gone down hill to like one or two decent matches. Been wondering if my standards are just going up or if tinder is dying.
/r/seduction21/08/16 05:13 PM
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