bienebee Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Never make the first move I asked my husband for the time on a concert and initiated our first conoversation. It ended up lasting 4h, we kissed at the very end and exchanged contact. He was the one initiating the next few meetings. I always prefered initiating initial contact but only very young was I pushing too much after it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/21 01:47 PM
2	The truth about all your guy friends. My straight male friends are two from childhood and 4 of my husbands lifelong friends. I think a part of those friendships that make it work is either early childhood or "the bro code". Other men don't mske it safe to hang out by giving a weird vibe.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/21 11:24 AM
7	Hot Take: There is no 'way' to meet a High Value Man It is pure luck. I met my husband 6 years ago in a club on a psychodelic concert, in a city we both visited the first time, in a country neither of us lived. I was 22 and we just wrote a few months on facebook, I expected absolutely nothing, he suggested visiting me 2 months later, and we saw each other 3rd time on a festival I already planned to go so he said he will come with friends too, and ended up coming alone after they bailed. Our first 6 months were just doing touristy stuff together in…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 04:42 PM
2	Being bad at giving thoughtful gifts is a red flag. Stay away from any man like this. The comments are full of women buying their own presents because their partner doesn’t get them anything at all or gets them something they don’t want. 💀 This is ridiculous. When money is being spent of high-end stuff the user should get to choose exactly what they want. We are both into tech but hubs knows that our preferences are different. He set up speakers in every room in our house because that is his thing but he never tried to insult my intelligence by claiming they are for me. We usually exchange small gifts and stay in sync about big individual purchases, seems to work because no one is abusing the system. This guy knows exactly what he…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/12/20 10:35 PM
1	PUAs were welcomed into the mainstream with reality TV shows and late night show guest appearances. FDS is labelled a hate group and our mods get rape and death threats. The stark difference in how our culture responds to male vs. female dating strategies is pure cultural misogyny. Sounds like a healthy beginning of a relationship. Don't worry about them accepting you, you will probably either vibe or be able to stay neutrally pleasant based on your mutual caring for the same guy. Ratio of me participating in their activities is usually 1/3 of the times they go. My invite is always open and I go to stuff they do that I'd personally find interesting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 01:00 PM
25	OLD LVM don’t put in any effort into appearance I can confirm, moved to Western Europe (from Eastern) and the things I enjoy most are hiking, short trips and good food. I work 40h, husband works 30 and studies for extra certification, we both have good health insurance, we each take 2-3 day trips alone maybe twice a year. This Tuesday we are both off and we go to a museum, he got us yearly tickets for all of our city's museums since travel is so restricted. Coming from a culture that's as bad as American, in some aspects even worse, western e…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/20 08:12 PM
7	PUAs were welcomed into the mainstream with reality TV shows and late night show guest appearances. FDS is labelled a hate group and our mods get rape and death threats. The stark difference in how our culture responds to male vs. female dating strategies is pure cultural misogyny. You described my husband to the t. Also, on the notion of buddies. He has 4 best friends that have each individually became my friends too over the course of years, and each 4 of those friends have partners, live together with them, 2 weddings wait post-pandemic times. If your guy is friends with scumbags, that is a huge red flag.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/20 08:02 PM
6	The older man con You should think of this as a sliding scale with age. I met my husband when I was 22 and he was 27. Our sixth year together, 2 years married. So 13 and 18 would be godawful, and even 19 and 24 I'd frown upon. At the time I was in the last year of bachelors and he was getting back to study after working a trade. Our maturity levels matched, our goals matched and we both found support in each other. At your age, even 3 years are a huge difference, but later you can't judge so absolutely. Although,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/20 02:15 AM
4	Money is power. Why financial independence and security is important. Yep, 50:50 worked for my parents who were born in 1951 and worked the same job making identical money with benefits that didn't penalize her havig 3 children. Those days are long gone even here in Europe.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/20 09:59 PM