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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Need a place to share		bifkinator	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/20 08:12 PM

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1	Need a place to share i see now. youre one of those mgtow guys. look man i know youre trying to "help" others from a place of hurt youve probably experienced from a woman in your life or a lack there of but coming on places like this where people are truly hurting and need advice or someone to encourage and uplift them to spout your illogical ideology is kind of fucked up. i know that you probably have a reason to have the views you do but to preach that all that matters is possessions and money and that women are on…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/20 02:06 AM
1	Need a place to share also saying men are "brainwashed" by society to want a relationship, or as you call it "chasing pussy", is like saying video games have brainwashed us to be more competitive and aggressive. thats not society brother thats a little thing we call biology. people chase relationships because were wired for it biologically (with some exceptions) and its beneficial for children and society as a whole not the other way around.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/20 10:19 PM
1	Need a place to share sound a little bitter towards women my man. maybe practice what you preach. and i dont think telling people to stop chasing relationships and start chasing money is right or wise. money isnt bad but its also not everything. relationships are important whether theyre romantic or not. not the best advice ive heard if to be honest.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/20 09:30 PM
1	Need a place to share sounds like youre truly better off haha. when i look back on my ex i clearly see she has serious mental and hormonal problems (i dont mean this in a sexist way at all, all the women in my family have told me she had hormone problems). shes is extremely mentally unstable and her hormone imbalance which she has struggled with ever since i met her has controlled her to the point that her emotions have become her driving force and not her reason. her new bf can have her and put up with that shit bec…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/20 04:50 PM
3	I Just Don't Know What to Do youre not alone in feeling this way man. it takes time to get over your over ex. i got over mine pretty quickly because we were only married a year and because of how terribly she treated me and luckily i realized pretty fast how selfish she truly was and it made me never want her back even if she came back to me. just focus on making yourself a better person in whatever aspects you feel you want to grow in. for me it was being more confident in myself and working on my physical image and health…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/20 04:38 PM
1	Need a place to share thanks for the encouragement man! im already feeling much better after seeing people have read my story. im looking forward to 2021 and what it brings. as far as weight, keep it going man! ive put on 7 lbs this year but my body composition is wildly different than it was a year ago. ive got alot more muscle on my frame which i needed as ive only been a runner in terms of exercise. I lost over 35 lbs about 4 years ago when i graduated college and was incredibly thin but now i feel like i look mor…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/20 04:12 PM
2	Need a place to share i think youre exactly right. now that im out of it i can see that raising kids and what not would have been a nightmare which is something she was constantly worried about from the moment she told me. shes also one of those people who doesnt respect other peoples views or opinions or just other people in general so i dont think she would have ever respected me if she ever did at all. it absolutely is a blessing now because my opinion never mattered in my marriage only hers did. im so thankful im…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/20 04:07 PM
0	Need a place to share i agree with you on the first point. we did wait until marriage to have sex but i dont see it as a mistake personally. in my opinion sex is unique to each individual in terms of what they like and what not. I dont think sex before marriage is necessary for a healthy relationship or sex life. there are millions of people out there with healthy, successful marriages that waited until they were married to have sex. Its about patience and learning each other and your needs/likes and what you each do…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/20 11:37 PM
1	Need a place to share i highly doubt it. shes not one for internet culture or online communities. also this all happened over a year ago so i doubt it was her if it was couple of days ago.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/20 11:28 PM
3	Need a place to share i now know that how she treated me was partially my fault because i put up with way too much of her shit for way too long. i can see it now but hind sight is always 20/20. when youre in the relationship and you deeply love them its hard to see whats going because you dont want to in a way and you want to assume the best. at least for me, im a very optimistic person when comes to judging people and their actions. but now i have a feeling i will be very "no nonsense" in future relationships. im no…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/20 11:27 PM
2	Need a place to share i like these a lot of which ive already done. its been just over a year since everything happened and since then ive been lifting heavy 5 days a week, reading a ton, have poured a lot of time and effort into hobbies and projects, done a significant amount of counseling with my counselor of 6 years, journaled regularly, and thought of several ways to pursue a career i just struggle to decide what i want to do. My alcohol consumption has almost completely stopped (never had a problem with it just …	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/20 10:29 PM