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30, 6’2” 160lb. I work at a body shop and run a farm so I’m lean. It’s difficult to gain weight when you move as much as I do. Why do you want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:05 AM
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You axed the questions. I answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:34 AM
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Yeah? I ain’t paying several grand for something I learned in scouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:33 AM
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They’re not kids. They’re adults. Someone being older doesn’t mean they’re more intelligent or better at manipulation. You’re just projecting societies disgust at male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:00 AM
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See? There it is. Children think disagreeing is a personal attack nowadays. It’s ludicrous how sensitive y’all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:59 AM
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I work in a body shop painting cars. Go on several mile hikes quite often. I grow my own food and raise my own animals. I’m quite strong and put together. No knee or hip pain since I don’t sit around stuffing my face all day. You asking about my dick and referring to premarital sex with man whores as “play” tells me I don’t value your opinion much. I already didn’t since you’re a woman but now it’s laughable. Thanks for this wildly emotional and reactive answer to “can two adults consent to sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:56 AM
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Oh, I get it now. Like distrusting promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:53 AM
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Oh, I wasn’t aware you changed the conversation to something irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:53 AM
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Yep, more pathologizing of male sexuality. Are they both adults? Are they both capable of consent? If yes, (which it is) then mind your business. That’s what y’all love saying when I call people degenerate lust possessed automatons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:32 AM
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I’m 40 and I have 3 kids. 10 year old girls and 18 year old women are not equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:30 AM
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Some of them. I’m 40 and I’ve got a thick head of hair and I weigh 160 at 6’2”. Now would you answer my question, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:29 AM
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I was married to a woman for 12 years and I have 3 children one of them a girl. No, what I’m seeing is the people who love to say “who cares as long as everyone consents? It’s not your business” be complete hypocrites due to some deep need to make all male expressions of sexuality pathological.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:28 AM
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There’s no age lane. Adults can date adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:22 AM
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target, creepy, cringey, Hey, look! More pathologizing of male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:22 AM
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What power?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:20 AM
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Them being young doesn’t mean they’re automatically easier to manipulate. Someone older than you is just as likely to be a dipshit as someone younger than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:20 AM
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Are they adults or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:19 AM
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Here’s that bullshit “men are evil” line again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:18 AM
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I sure am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:18 AM
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Yeah, it does suck when people choose poor partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:30 PM
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Your first comment was about conversation but now you’ve changed it to long term monogamy. Please stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:29 PM
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If you don’t have intimate personal familiarity with the inner and outer dynamics of masculinity then you should be quiet. People wouldn’t tolerate men correcting women on how they actually feel internally, nor would they tolerate a group of men in academia creating conspiracy theories about matriarchy and arming men with rhetorical grenades. Point is unless you’re a man shut your trap about masculinity. Women have no idea what it’s like to be men and they have no place in defining what masculin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:28 PM
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I was asking because unless you’re a man then you should refrain from discussing things you have no possibility of understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:57 PM
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Your lack of understanding of how two people could possibly interact without 100% lockstep conformity with your beliefs says more about you than me. I, personally, don’t let ideologies supersede normal human interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:56 PM
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I never mentioned subjugating women as a solution. Why are you lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:54 PM
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Your last sentence is based on the false premise that 1) men weren’t also subjugated for the same amount of time 2) women didn’t willingly enter marriages with men and were seen as no more than farm animals which is so stupid I can barely even process it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:40 PM
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Oh, she was a victim huh? Poor woman got manipulated by the scawy Machiavellian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:38 PM
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Validation, female interest, companionship, conversation. You know, I personally have never seen any men reduce a woman to her pussy. Generally seems to be a trait or an internal projection by feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:38 PM
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It was rude of me to comment on your weight like that. And it was ignorant because i didn’t even consider muscle density as a factor. I know it don’t mean anything but I apologize for being rude. Thank you for not tearing after me which you could’ve rightly done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:36 PM
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What about your ethics? You were knowingly with a married man and you’re gonna claim the high ground? Women ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:31 PM
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Your uncharitable mischaracterization of men is likely your issue. Not the men themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:29 PM
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I think the issue more accurately could be described as “pathologization of male behavior and sexuality. “
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:28 PM
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Are you a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:21 PM
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Sad, ain’t it? I wish my ex wife wasn’t a disloyal hussy. Bitch was fine, could cook very well, and generally had a good attitude. Instagram rotted her poor little brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:20 PM
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I never said otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:19 PM
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Yeah, I’m aware sadly. The fall of women has been quick and decisive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:18 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:18 PM
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I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:16 PM
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I was saying that person is fat. Idk what you’re even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:16 PM
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Sure have. I’m bisexual have been a long ass time. Men are, generally, lovely and respectful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:15 PM
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I live in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:15 PM
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Why are you reducing women down to their vagina and discussing them as a price to be won?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:08 PM
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I thought the patriarchy hurt men too. Now it’s a illusionary mental cage?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:12 PM
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Fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:11 PM
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Sure that’s why women send imprisoned serial killers and rapists letters and nudes and offers of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:10 PM
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5’3” 140 Found your problem there, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:09 PM
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🐹
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:07 PM
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Modest, low n count, loyal, kind, honest, not fat. That’s all I want. Apparently that’s a 4 star experience nowadays. sniff Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:06 PM
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Maybe if you stopped your paranoiac attribution of the worst possible interpretation of ideas people would take you more serious. Let me help you out. The vast majority of men aren’t terrified of using our words like women seem to be. If a man says he wants a modest woman I would hazard 99/100times it’s because that man values modesty. Your sexual fetish obsessions of wicked Machiavellian men don’t belong on this here message board, partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:04 PM
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Workable Adjective Capable of being worked. Hope that helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:01 PM
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If she’s kind, honest, loyal, and has a hot body I’m down. I don’t care if she’s got the worst butterface I ever seent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:00 PM
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Being able to feed yourself without relying on a global network that’ll collapse under a slight breeze is always an excellent thing to learn. I refuse to be dependent on the State for my survival and I’m not going to handicap my children by neglecting them either. We have a computer in the computer room. They use that within limits but they’re not very interested. Turns out the internets boring as hell when you’ve got bows and arrows, miles and miles of untamed forest, and a farm to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:39 PM
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There is no elaboration needed. I got my point across with my first comment. What you’re wanting is for me to go line by line and pick out which parts correspond to my descriptions so that you can dismiss those points without engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:36 PM
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If you can’t hold a word in your head and scan text to see if that word may or may not apply to to said text I can’t help ya, boss. Try reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:02 PM
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Yeah, about what I expected. Deflection, minimizing, subtle shaming, and victim blaming. Thanks for proving my point, toots.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:04 PM
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This life is unimportant in every way excluding the development of your human soul, in my opinion. The greater your material wealth the heavier the chain that hangs you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:03 PM
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Okie doke. I’m sure you are cuz I’m smart enough to stay far away from anyone calling themselves a feminist. I’m mainly talking about the effects of feminist policy as felt by people on the ground. You know, 80% of suicides being male, 75% of homeless being male, 60% of high school drop outs are male, 70% of substance abuse cases being male, males outnumbering women 13-1 in the incarceration system, plummeting marriage and birth rates, high divorce rate mainly instigated by women etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:29 PM
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Thank you for baselessly and without provocation accusing me of being a bad parent. Really appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:18 PM
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Bruh. You can’t be serious right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:18 PM
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Do the right thing because it’s the right thing to do. The more it causes suffering the more you have an opportunity to learn and grow metaphysically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:17 PM
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It’s very unlikely to have that combination of traits in a society that rewards petty egoism, false bravado, subterfuge, and overwhelming greed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:16 PM
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Good for you. Feminism as a national voting bloc and policy setter has very different views and outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:13 PM
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Kind and gentle are desirable qualities. Ugly can be moved past if she has an exceptional personality and a rocking body. Fat is a dealbreaker and it’s the one most under the persons control. Idk why women expect men to pretend to be attracted to gluttony and sloth embodied in human form especially when so many women don’t give a damn about male suicide, homelessness, substance abuse, and general well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:11 PM
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Right instead it’s sex hormones and Instagram for many children today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:00 AM
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We don’t have kinks. Our minds haven’t been polluted with constant near omnipresent sexual imagery. Don’t take this as missionary only white bread we just used our imaginations. I am too big for my ex wife. There’s positions that make it difficult to go to far and I can also just be careful. Also we have mouths and fingers, ya know? Nine of this is a big deal if you haven’t been desensitized by our hypersexual indoctrination machine I mean culture. (The tone of this sounds condescending and I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:52 AM
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Dolly Parton in the sixties, Kirsten Dunst in the 90s, Nicole Kidman any decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:13 AM
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Sex is sex. Compatible for what? She shows me what she likes I show her what I like. My ex wife and I were virgins when we got married. We figured it out as we went. I’ve never understood this “compatibility” myth in regards to sex. It’s like “oh what if you’re not culinarily compatible? Like, what if you eat at 6 pm and they eat at 9pm? What if she likes chicken and you like pork?” It’s silly. You adjust and make space for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:08 AM
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Gottem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:24 AM
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None of them are cute at all. The hottest is a 6 at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:24 AM
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Why is modern society worth preserving? In what way whatsoever are we a functioning, healthy, humane, or logical society? I’ll never understand how people can see the issues surrounding us and their answer is to pour more gasoline not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:21 AM
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That’s why y’all should get outta there. No judgement but I’m not able to live in cities. The skyscrapers look like gravestones from out here and I like my woods a fair bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:19 AM
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Think for a second. I’m not being sarcastic. If the government is captured by corporate interests and the government is the one in charge of curriculum and education doesn’t it stand to reason that children may be instructed in a way that makes them ideologically and intellectually conform to the corporate system and also makes them easier to manipulate and extract wealth from? Why do you trust the school system to be properly educating our children? Look at the people around you. Do they seem l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:18 AM
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I find premarital sex to be abhorrent and spiritually degrading. And no, I’m not of any abrahamic faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:13 AM
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Yes, because of the needlessly complex material wealth distraction machine that we live inside of. People have been raising their children for tens of thousands of generations just fine. And I am an abnormality, unfortunately. Seems like most people nowadays were raised by the State in industrial schools under a strictly physicalist regime without any time dedicated to ethics, philosophy, etiquette, or metaphysics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:11 AM
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Something you’re obviously a master of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:48 AM
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Imagine moving in with a dude only because you’re attracted to them. Who would base a huge decision on something so shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:47 AM
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Wow eugenics sure is making a strong comeback
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:39 AM
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Wow, the liberals complete abdication of raising their children to the State is sickening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:40 PM
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You could axe me what I believe instead of reading my comments in the least charitable light possible and finding any reason to dismiss and insult me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:37 PM
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I sure plan to. Can’t keep my girl off me!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:36 PM
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I have 3. We don’t own a television and the computer I’m on currently is the only internet connected device within a mile. I spend 16 hours a day with my kids and my youngest has already caught and butchered his first rabbit at 10! He’s a smart one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:29 PM
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I have 3 so far and each one makes me even more joyful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:27 PM
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I haven’t said anything except that I thought you misread the comment. The insult was both unnecessary and irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:21 PM
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I’ve had several homeless people live on my land in one room converted sheds for the price of laboring on the farm. I give canned food and items I knit myself away every year. My parents only have 3 biological children but raised 13. My front door is never locked and near anything I own I’ll happily give away if someone needs it. I do everything I can to help the people around me and I do my utmost to always make the most moral decisions I can especially at personal expense. It’s why I live in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:20 PM
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I didn’t say I was against violence in general. I said I was against the increasingly violent and psychotic methods the State uses to force compliance and mental homogeneity. I can be against large government structures using violence and for other groups that oppose that state using violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:16 PM
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Wow, you didn’t even read what I said. You guys have been programmed to spit barely related emotional responses to certain words or phrases and you don’t even see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:05 PM
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Maybe some of us don’t subscribe to the cult of progress and we don’t find the continual unnecessary complication of life and the increasingly violent and psychotic centralization of all human efforts to be something to preserve and extend indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:01 PM
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The comment you responded to was specifically talking about soil depletion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:58 PM
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We know, you’re selfish just like everyone else. It’s the default emotional state nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:57 PM
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Being a good parent isn’t hard. Raising a child to be a good person is needlessly complicated and subverted by our schizophrenic, Byzantine, and rotten society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:55 PM
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Men and women are different. They have different priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:18 PM
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I’m not going to compromise my values just cause some woman has been so mollycoddled that disagreeing registers as a nuclear attack to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:16 PM
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Yeah we’ve been degenerating a while now. Entropy is the way of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:37 AM
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You have these things called eyeballs, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:17 AM
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Good for them. Most men I know can’t find women of high enough character to form families with them much less monkey branch from woman to woman. Luckily I don’t surround myself with men of such low character that they would cheat (monkey branching) if they could find a woman to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:46 PM
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Women tend to monkey branch. Men are the branch
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:19 PM
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Ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:24 PM
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Women dying in childbirth is mens fault? I’m pretty sure it’s men working throughout the ages to make birth more safe for women. The rest of your comment must be addressed to the wrong person since I haven’t said any of the things you accuse me of. I’ll never understand this reaction wherein this righteous indignation is summoned and your speech starts resembling a hellfire and brimstone sermon. Also, my family has been in the states since the early 18th century. I’m likely older stock than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:35 AM
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Yikes. What an underdeveloped man. Taking pride in chasing money, power, and gold was almost universally recognized as the traits of a wicked person just a few decades ago. May god have mercy on our souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:27 AM
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Life is metaphysical, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:25 AM
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Men and women got the vote at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:58 AM
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thousands of years of privilege What privilege? Was it Working the same farms women did? Was it men working deep down in the mines 14 hours a day? Was it the countless multitude of men killed in war defending women and children? Was it working on horrific factories or being pressed into grueling service aboard ships? Was it when men kept women safe, fed, clothed, and housed through their pregnancies? Was it when the majority of men got the right to vote which, coincidentally, is also when women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:43 AM
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No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:32 AM
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Pro tip: SIGN language is Shame, Insult, Guilt, Need to be correct and is a tactic used by the stupid, the desperate, and/or the dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:02 PM
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God forbid we treat women as individuals with individual likes and dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:01 PM
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What a positive and uplifting view of one half of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:58 PM
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Try communicating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:59 PM
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Women should communicate better then. The fault of communication always lies on the person doing the communicating not the listener.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:58 PM
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Those women sound immature and awful to be around. I couldn’t lower myself to have sec with someone of such low character.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:57 PM
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No, it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:56 PM
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This is sophistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:55 PM
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No, it isn’t. Also nothing you typed has to do with men pleasing their partners. Just a whole bunch of unrelated nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:53 PM
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Yes, in the 70s. Jesus Christ, the dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:53 PM
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Your version of history is an extremist position. You don’t get to claim all of western history was an oppressive and brutal regime of subjugation and forced pregnancy and then claim the side of reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:49 PM
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I don’t take orders, thank you. If you ask me kindly I’ll consider elaborating on that dense, incomprehensible sentence that you’re having trouble parsing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:03 PM
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The majority of men and all women both gained the right to vote with the 19th amendment. Women got that right without having to sign up for the draft as well. Additionally, the feminist mythology of women enslaved by rapist violent husbands is farcical. Do you actually believe western society subjugated half its population without issue until the Industrial Revolution? Do you really honestly believe if people heard a woman screaming from being beaten and raped by her husband that everyone would …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:01 PM
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Women by and large live off mens largesse since men pay more in taxes, receive less back, and receive less social security and medicaid. Additionally, 95% of the jobs that matter (infrastructure, construction, trades, etc) are worked by men. Y’all still need men. Y’all are just ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:55 PM
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Pro tip: being ignored by every single person is miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:53 PM
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Of course it doesn’t. We’re talking about women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:36 PM
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No, this guy changing his wording on an anonymous account on a forum board won’t change a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:34 PM
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There is no hardwired. We’re not animals enslaved to instinct. Women simply aren’t being taught to regulate their own emotions and become emotionally mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:33 PM
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Sure, Jan. That totes is something that happened. Even if it did who cares? I don’t need people’s approval of a person to date that person. Other opinions from outside the relationship are entirely irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:28 PM
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The issue is the words he used to describe the issue. Reading should help.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:08 PM
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Hey, hey, go easy on her, champ. That was a whole two comments ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:06 PM
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I love how men have to weather women’s emotional tempests and also have to heavily moderate their pec emotional reactions. Children, I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:04 PM
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Complacency isn’t a dirty word. I call it contentment. Constant striving and self improvement as if you’re a commodity is what the industrialists want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:01 PM
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Or women could learn that their feelings are largely irrelevant and act like adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:00 PM
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Yep that’s why I bowed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:59 PM
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No, we don’t want even more stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:58 PM
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just make new friends and pay a stranger that doesn’t care about you and gives bottom tier advice. No, humans haven’t evolved in communities and anxiety, anger, and despair are NOT reasonable responses to a situation that if our ancestors found themselves in (no tribe) meant certain death.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:50 PM
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The same could be said for feminism holding the world liable .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:47 PM
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Yeah the one thing I dislike more than mouthy women are sniveling men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:30 PM
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Almost entirety of your comment is arguing against positions no one said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:22 PM
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I meant the folk in this subreddit, not your mom and grandma. Apologies for the miscommunication, ma’am.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:22 PM
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Ain’t you a miss priss
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:20 PM
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Don’t listen to these folk. They’re so deracinated and without guidance that they find genuine interest and attention to be suspicious. I don’t blame them, mind you, but I do find it ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:06 PM
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That’s the other 5% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:45 AM
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I guess women need to go back to their fathers choosing their men then since it seems that women, en masse, are incapable of good decisions in the realm of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:58 AM
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My emotions and feelings aren’t for you to be attracted to. It’s not about having attractive feminine and masculine traits. It’s about being a fucking human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:55 AM
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Here’s example 4,362 demonstrating why men are 80% of suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:52 AM
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That’s 95% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:46 AM
6

It’s an act when we’re punished, mocked, shunned, abandoned, or disrespected for showing emotion? Must be a hell of an act if it can control others behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:45 AM
3

Course. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:44 AM
1

I date both. Men are more pleasant, more giving, and more gracious. Can’t get one to commit tho cuz of that promiscuity gays are known for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:33 PM
3

I date both men and women. Ain’t seen it yet. Us men express ourselves fine. We just don’t do it like women do so that’s “bad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:18 PM
7

His friends advice is common knowledge among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:00 PM
3

Good thing that’s vanishingly rare, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:54 PM
1

They probably mean a man that is aware of the situation instead of blindly simping until they grow bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:50 PM
3

What a simp. Women should learn to control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:39 AM
2

I have. My family respects and honors men for being men and women for being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:38 PM
2

This mythology that feminism has indoctrinated women into is disgusting. My forefathers were not violent to women. They were not rapists, nor did they see women as walking wombs. I’m continually astounded by the lack of grace and humility from todays women. I thank the gods my mawmaw is dead cuz if she met you hussies she’d likely catch a charge smacking some feminine charm into y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:36 PM
1

No, k was acknowledging that your point is so obvious that it was mind numbing to read it. I thought you were merely playing the fool before now I know you’re a professional fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:19 AM
3

You’re correct that out of a population of billions there is surely one person that my statement doesn’t apply to. Thank you for you’re incredible contribution to this conversation. Truly, only a brilliant mind could articulate such a profound message.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:05 AM
1

Get over it. Other peoples opinions are irrelevant. Grow a spine and be who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:12 PM
1

It’s thirty grand above average. Come back to earth, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:49 AM
5

Every single man that has been in a serious relationship with a woman has experienced this at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:43 AM
1

We didn’t have chronic severe dental issues before the invention and mass distribution of refined sugars. You don’t actually think this, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:25 PM
1

Sorry I worded my comments so harshly and that I responded to multiple of your comments like a sperg. I was clearly projecting my own issues onto your comments and reading a hostility that wasn’t there. Hope you have a lovely rest of your whatever ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:49 AM
1

personally I’d rather be hungry than eat something I don’t want. Spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:58 PM
3

Men want to feel desired. That’s it. No one will give us that except our romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:57 PM
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A person not feeling desired by their spouse actually means that persons needs aren’t being met regardless of the others perspective. It’s not up to one to decide how another feels and whether they’re fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:51 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:49 PM
1

This is called deceiving yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:59 PM
14

You can’t date men if you hate men. You won’t have a successful relationship until you drop your resentment and jealousy of men inculcated in you by constant low grade MKULTRA media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:53 PM
3

It sure is. That’s the beauty of love, though. You can seal your away and protect it from all harm and live a life feeling nothing or you can bear it for all to see and hold and live a life feeling everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:41 AM
4

Compared to money, no. She decided to prostitute herself to a very rich man instead of being my wife and a mother to our daughter. My only regret is that I didn’t love her even more while we were together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:38 AM
1

Because they aren’t taught to reign in their baser instincts and the media they consume is low grade MKULTRA that keeps them in their lizard brain so that they’re easier to manipulate which, in turn, makes the men easier to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:21 AM
3

I made a relationship work 14 years from 16-30. I’m fairly aware of the dynamics. You have to let shit go that isn’t important enough to end the relationship over. You also have to love the person you chose for who they are and not try to shave off or smooth out every little imperfection of theirs. It isn’t yours to do with as you please and it isn’t very loving to demand of others that they discard the parts of themselves that others dislike. Too often people are like the monkey that said to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:20 AM
1

That’s what I believe. It isn’t a dodge. Humans have been around for however long the universe has.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:15 AM
1

Since the beginning. The universe came into existence upon observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:27 AM
3

It’s not inevitable. Those women are immature and ruled by their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:23 AM
1

If you made it past 14 you were likely to live to 60-80 in olden times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:22 AM
13

Resentment doesn’t have to build up if people would be mature adults capable of perseverance and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:21 AM
13

Flirting with another man and telling him I love you over text.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 11:15 AM
3

You can control your libido. If your libido is driving then you aren’t.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/23 01:27 AM
1

We are below replacement rate on births, single motherhood is skyrocketing, men are 3/5 homeless and the majority of suicides in addition to men not graduating high schools at increasing rates, not getting jobs, and not starting families. This is due to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:35 AM
3

Why are you putting yourself through this? For what reason would you focus test, improve, and commodify yourself as if you were a coin operated boy? Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:00 AM
5

Oh, I just realized I didn’t say thank you for the kind comment. Sorry for being rude I do appreciate your support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:51 AM
3

Love you, brother. We’ll get through this just hold steady. I know that’s cliche as fuck but it’s also genuine 💪❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:49 AM
-2

Tradesmen get shit on every other place in society. Silicon Valley has been a net negative for society at large. No one ever liked nerds and I hope we go back to that soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:29 AM
3

This is some classist af shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:27 AM
4

That’s fine. The average woman is 5’4”, 170 lbs, and has a child. I have standards thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:10 AM
4

Please don’t get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:06 AM
1

I got out of a 12 year marriage to a woman a year and a half ago. I’m fine with men from now on. Thanks for the insult and shaming masquerading as unsolicited advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:04 AM
4

Not sex. Companionship, empathy, kindness, compassion etc. to reduce to sex like you did is disgusting and denigrating to men and to the men and women that raised them. Be best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:21 AM
8

I’m used to it. Being a bisexual man apparently means I’m a living dildo to more than a few people men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:18 AM
1

How you gonna bring up human nature like anything we do in post industrial society is natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:26 PM
3

Yes. If not, then you need to choose better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:22 PM
6

At least if a woman approached she’s making an effort instead of taking the free ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:22 PM
5

Maybe it’s your choosing that’s the issue since I don’t know a single man that feels this way and I know a lot of men (and I am a men)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:15 PM
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Grow up. Icky is a childs word.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:14 PM
2

Bull honkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:11 PM
24

Yep. I learned it was easier to have sex with my ex wife when she asked than manage the emotional fallout which ran the gamut from silent treatment for several days to locking my self in the bathroom to escape her fists and screams.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:09 PM
1

That isn’t your experience, though. It’s the expletive of your supposed friends. Bisexual men are like 2% of the population crazy how you know so many.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:40 PM
3

It would drop mens to ZERO Please try reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:39 PM
3

There’s no such thing as male camaraderie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:38 PM
0

Why are they taking so long to mature? They’re adults at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:28 PM
0

Women are not children after 18. Have some respect for women, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:19 PM
1

No, I will not accept dying alone just because middle class women saw an opportunity with the Industrial Revolution to betray the human race and become greedy assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:18 PM
6

They get alienated from their children while bankrolling the exes new lifestyle you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:13 PM
1

If that’s true why do they initiate the vast majority of divorces?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:12 PM
2

This pretending that women’s feelings are immutable or even important is obscene and repugnant. They should master their emotions like men do if they’re our supposed equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:06 PM
5

Men are usually more individualistic than women. I’m addition we’re competing against each other due to women’s inability to run a dating scene so cooperation is right out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:05 PM
6

Sure that way men can go from 1-4 matches a month to 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:04 PM
1

Yep. That’s why I don’t try. I’m not willing to degrade and humiliate women like they want nor am I willing to have sex unless we’re committed so I’m rules out entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:03 PM
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Likely her attitude. That’s what killed my sec drive for my ex wife. I ain’t gonna lay pipe if you’re gonna be a cunt day in day out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:01 PM
1

That’s cool. The bi people you know totally invalidates my experience as an actual bi person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:57 PM
2

That statement doesn’t say no men do it or that it’s exclusively women. Once again, you don’t have to change the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:55 PM
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And do you think that was his first tactic? Or do you think he was exasperated and on his last rope with his wife for not expressing her love to him and allowing him to express his own? Why are you assuming the man must earn sex from his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:41 PM
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The way youve expressed this is that it’s entirely his job to placate and serve his wife in order to receive sex. That her needs must be taken care of first before he earns the privilege of having sex with his wife. Like, think for 2 second a
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:39 PM
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It doesn’t just happen. It’s a result of poor communication, a lack of empathy and unwillingness to compromise with the person you’re supposed to spend the rest of your life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:26 PM
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She could’ve said no. No force was involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:41 PM
11

If women’s re so good at vibe checking why do so many of them get tricked by bad manipulative men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:37 PM
-1

Yep. Welcome to the world. You’re our equal, right? Then deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:35 PM
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No, you didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:31 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:30 PM
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Sure Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:30 PM
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Those are in no way similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:11 PM
0

If everyone else is the problem then you’re the problem. Unlike you I haven’t had a string of failed relationships. We got married at 18 and made it to 30 before she decided she’d rather be a prostitute than a mother to our daughter. That ain’t on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:50 PM
0

Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:12 PM
1

It’s probably because you aren’t attracted to men? I’m bi and most men are way hotter than most women. Many women look like jello poured into a skin suit. The men have muscles and genuine smiles at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:58 PM
1

Play a video game on the hardest difficulty available. Then play it on the easiest. Now you know their experience. Bump it up to easy-medium or medium for the single mother, bad attitude, or fat girl experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:50 PM
4

You don’t have to bring up men every time something is said about women. No one said men didn’t do that. It’s not even a harsh comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:47 PM
0

I am and men have always been nothing but straightforward with me. I’ve communicated more with my man in 3 months than my ex-wife did in 12 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:40 PM
1

We raised our own kids for hundreds of thousands of years.
/r/AntiFeminists16/08/23 11:35 PM
-1

Men. And the vast majority of men were just as oppressed as the vast majority of women. Your flaw is in thinking that unequal outcomes must only be caused by unequal opportunities but that’s blatantly untrue. Equality, rationality, and progress are myths. Get educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:36 PM
1

The average woman is fat, in debt, and has children. No thanks, I’ve got standards. Im tall, fit and tan since I work outside, own a house, a car, and the land my house sits on all debt free.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:08 PM
1

They don’t care. People are so self centered nowadays they don’t even grasp that their actions don’t happen in a vacuum and have an effect of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:51 PM
3

But you aren’t happy. Statistics clearly show women are less happy then they’ve ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:10 PM
0

Yeah! That’s exactly how I feel about the poors! They should value themselves more. Why would anyone but the most scummy business pay them a living wage if they don’t value themselves enough to earn it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:09 PM
6

Women got the vote at the same time the majority of men did. You set this society up just as much as any of us. Take some friggin responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:57 PM
2

People’s actions don’t happen in a vacuum. Your actions effect others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:54 PM
33

tricking women Once again the narrative is spun that removes women’s agency. I can’t believe how much y’all must look down upon women to characterize them as so ignorant and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:20 PM
2

Why are women allowed to generalize all men as dangerous after they have negative experiences with men but men aren’t allowed to do the same in regards to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:34 PM
3

you reacted poorly to being treated as less than human therefore you deserved it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:33 PM
1

Holy fuck y’all have internalized capitalism to a disgusting degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:32 PM
1

This is fiction. Like, literally a made up narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:30 PM
1

People need each other. Stim simping for capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:28 PM
4

The system we live under is in no way analogous to our natural state
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:19 PM
2

No, we haven’t. It’s feminists who demonize all male displays of emotions. Men (the majority) just want a sweet wife, a warm home, and a job that pays well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:17 PM
0

But whuddabout whamen?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:16 PM
1

I wonder why exposure to women creates misogynists?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:06 PM
-1

A person can be concerned about something without it personally involving them. This subtle implication that only rapists or accused rapists could have a problem with the demonization of men is repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:00 PM
-1

Men get raped irl as well. Don’t be disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:58 PM
-6

I’ve been raped by a woman and a man. I’m not suspicious or distrusting of people because of it. Carrying that fear is nothing but acidic poison that ruins your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:57 PM
-6

No, 100% of women have not experienced sexual violence from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:55 PM
-4

This has nothing to do with the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:54 PM
-6

Being cautious is fine. Literally no one thinks that’s unreasonable. What is unreasonable is the paranoid delusion most women operate under that says all men are dangerous and have no good will towards women and that male sexuality is deviant, dangerous, and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:53 PM
1

Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:46 PM
2

Guess you should make better decisions then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:11 AM
0

Then be skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:08 AM
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How convenient that the situation once again strips women of any agency. I could never be a feminist since I love and respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:04 AM
0

Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:21 PM
1

You mean… cooperate?! Like we’re some kind of partners?!?
/r/MensRights15/08/23 09:43 AM
1

You still get bossed around by men except they can fire you for any reason at any time, and they dictate what you wear, when you show up, when you leave, and even the exact range of emotions you’re allowed to express. How liberated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:57 AM
3

We can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:26 AM
-11

Yelling at a TV is different than subjecting another person to volatile explosive and erratic emotional outbursts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:25 AM
2

Thats polygamy. The comment I responded to said marriage. Learn to read, dipshit
/r/MensRights15/08/23 03:18 AM
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I judge strangers for all sorts of things. Our actions effect others ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:29 AM
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Nah 3 is plenty high. Past that we’re getting into jezebel territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:26 AM
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You’re not a victim. Men are not Machiavellian schemers. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:26 AM
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You should try dating someone for their deeper characteristics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:25 PM
2

Totes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:29 PM
1

My comment was directed at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:33 PM
7

Says the person not starving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:12 PM
1

I’d rather be hooked up to a car battery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:11 PM
0

reason incel is used as an insult Because the user of that insult doesn’t value women as people but instead only as notches to be collected?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:59 PM
8

How convenient a narrative you’ve spun. If women meet assholes it’s because they’re too kind and selfless. The only defense, of course, is to be preemptively hostile to all men so as to repel the bad ones and, with the power of bitching, draw in the nice guys “like moth to a flame”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:57 PM
7

Call it what you like but words have definitions and marriage specifically is a monogamous arrangement.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 08:22 AM
1

Thank you for lecturing me. I had no idea that my boundaries could be so harmful. I also appreciate you angrily saying exactly what I said. I could have done without the snark but at least you admitted you agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:02 AM
1

I’m a millennial you damn whippersnapper. Get off my lawn!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:45 PM
18

I’m glad consensual cheating works for you. I’ll check back in a year.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 10:49 PM
14

Nah. I’m not comfortable with immodesty and I’m not going to budge an inch on it. And yes, I have similar standards for men.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 10:46 PM
1

What? I was legitimately interested in hearing your music. I ain’t no spook. There’s a reason I live in the country as far from everyone as I can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:35 PM
2

Most dudes are good looking. Certainly much more so than the poorly dressed porkers with an inch of makeup that passes for the average woman today. Everyday I thank the gods that I’m bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:31 PM
1

Hey man I wanted to chime in and make sure you know you’re not alone. I was raised by a momma and daddy that loves each other in the way you’re describing and I’m a person who’s done his level best to show that same love to the world. It’s rough out here but stay on your path brother. Straight is the gate and narrow is the way <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:55 PM
1

Thank you but not really. I dabble in too much to be excellent at any one in particular. Music is my passion and I’m best with a bass guitar but I can hold my own on guitar and drums as well. The rest of my art is just me trying to expel my crackhead levels of energy so I don’t get into mischief. If you’d like to send me a link I’d love to listen!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:37 PM
1

I use Reddit on my days off and I watch YouTube occasionally. Other than that, no. Im not interested in social media. I don’t even own a television. If a woman were to axe me to delete my Reddit and to not use it I’d be fine with that. Also I’m not going to say reddit isn’t social media but it certainly is not the same as fb or ig or snap or any other of the dozen digital ghettoes that people mediate their interactions through. Not every site is social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:32 PM
2

Relationships are so much more than sex. Basing a relationship on lust and physical sensation will never last.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:25 PM
0

Straight up. I play music, paint and draw, write poetry, and short stories. I’ve never met a woman who was interested in my creativity excluding in the ways it specifically benefits her. Most of the time they get upset that I’m not going to stop creating art now that I’m in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:07 PM
1

It must be terrible being a slave to their minds like women apparently are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:50 PM
0

Emotional disregulation Inability to hear criticism Poor ethical and moral foundation Paranoia
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:48 PM
5

It’s called reality. Try not to choke on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:05 AM
1

That woman is not attractive. There’s not a feminine thing about her, she’s heavy set, and she’s poorly dressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:01 AM
0

IQ distribution among the two sexes Put that into Google Bada bing bada boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:56 AM
10

Limits exist and they’re mostly enforced by others
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:52 AM
1

I don’t know the details nor did I care to. I knew what mattered which is my daughter. It’s nice you delete messages from random men but not everyone is you. Thanks for the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:05 PM
1

How about you learn to be compassionate. You’re using excessively harsh language over a standard of mine that doesn’t effect you in any way. If two people can make it from 16-30 do you really think my chooser was messed up? Do you think someone can fake a loving marriage for 12 years? Or maybe like all human beings we have a break point where we will make morally reprehensible choices due to perceived personal reward and lack of consequences. Your comment was entirely unnecessary and rude. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:04 PM
1

Yep. That’s what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:01 PM
1

My wife of 12 years and the mother of my child left when she received an Instagram dm from a very rich man and she decided being a prostitute was more important than her family. So no, how about we don’t refute that “paranoid” stereotype that was invented whole cloth from thin air and in no way reflects even a sliver of reality. And yes, I’m bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:21 PM
1

Good. If someone values attention from strangers more than a romantic relationship then that is a person I’m not interested in. My first and only relationship lasted from 16-30. You know how I did that? It’s called “close the doors and shut the windows.” When you’re in a relationship with a person you remove potential threats to that relationship in order to protect it and each other. We have different ways of living. Big whoop. Your subtle implication that I am somehow dangerous for valuing a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:02 PM
1

Good for you. I’m genuinely happy that you have a positive use for social media in your relationship. However, that’s completely irrelevant. I’m not axing you to date me nor would I. Lovely story, though. Genuinely ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:58 PM
0

I wouldn’t demand it. It’s a condition of mine in order to be in an exclusive relationship with me. It’s called a boundary and if people don’t want to respect it that is their choice. I don’t do the whole partner thing. That’s just silly and repulsively corporate. I use the perfectly fine terms husband and wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:26 PM
1

No, it isn’t. People still have phones and letters and cars. If someone doesn’t want to delete their social media then they don’t want to be in an exclusive relationship with me. It’s a boundary, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:22 PM
3

Thank you. It means a lot to read that. Sorry for my bitterness. I guess I expected a totally different response so I spoke without kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:20 PM
1

Social media is a cancer. If you need validation get it from me, invite people over, or go see someone. A person that uses social media doesn’t value the same things I do and so I’d rather spare the time and heartbreak. It’s also due to being very hurt. My ex wife and I got together in high school and stayed together 12 years, lost our v cards to each other, the whole shebang. Some dude with hella money (like a lot) got in her dms on Instagram and she decided being a prostitute was more fulfilli…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:55 PM
2

It’s sad you’ve allowed yourself to be deceived like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:37 PM
0

I was married for 12 years and I’m a father. Try engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:37 PM
1

Bi man here I’ve opted out of dating women till they get their shit together. I’ve yet to meet a woman who doesn’t exhibit one of a few behaviors: Inability to take criticism Inability to understand that my feelings are equally important and that I’m not an emotional punching bag Inability to apologize Refusal to delete social media Refusing to give me my space when I say I want space Inability to keep their hands to themselves. Refusal to reciprocate effort, care, and kindness I know they’re ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:31 PM
2

Nah, it doesn’t say she wasn’t satisfied. It says she’s a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:44 PM
0

Yeah, that kinda shallow pop astrology attitude is more and more common. Sorry you’ve had to deal with that, buddy. That sucks. I don’t get as much shit as an Aries but as a male Taurus I get a slight amount of shit and I know it was frustrating and silly. I tell myself that the kind of person who would claim to be into astrology but not have enough interest to actually learn about it isn’t the kind of person for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:44 AM
3

No one said that those things you brought up unprompted were unimportant, nor that they believed spirituality superseded material science, not that material science hasn’t made great discoveries. You just sperged and unthinking typed a peer programmed response defending muh science and muh progress. Try reading before gloating about genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:40 AM
-1

Sure, you can be shallow if you like. I won’t pretend that I don’t have my limits like if a persons a strict materialist, or they use social media, or they’re obese, or they display a distinct lack of attempting mastery of their psyche. Excluding the obese one (which is nearly universal) I think my exclusions have a good reason beyond appearance which, again, is the least interesting part of a person. If someone’s a good person, has passions (art, feeding birds, etc), and keeps the expected amou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:04 AM
7

It depends on the time, place, culture, and much more. Suffice to say things sucked for almost everyone
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/23 09:48 PM
-1

Or perhaps my relationships are built on more solid foundations than physical sensation and tinglies in my belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:46 PM
2

I wish. I’m a musician, an artist, and a poet and most women find that off putting. I’m it ugly either, a solid six with a good job, my own house and my own car both paid off. Nada.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/23 08:10 PM
2

It isn’t for the kids raised by single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:49 PM
0

Sexual attraction and compatibility are way overblown and are absolutely terrible bases for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:33 PM
1

What did I say that was shitty? God forbids divorce. The person above stated they divorced and that they had found god. I was just pointing out the sin. I’m not a theistic Christian but I do take the word seriously as a foundational cultural and metaphysical document by and for “the west”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:01 PM
0

I haven’t indicated otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:46 PM
1

It’s scripture. Tell god you find his word ugly and hateful. I didn’t write it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:45 PM
1

Yeah but we’re human beings capable of making our own decisions. Sure, at a base animalistic level you’re correct. But on a deeper less materialistic level it’s about two halves becoming whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:42 PM
1

If you divorced you certainly didn’t find god considering he forbids divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:24 AM
4

There is not a western nation whose birth rate is above replacement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:14 AM
1

We live in a society. Our actions affect others. You’re not an entirely atomized individual free floating in a consequence free state.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:13 AM
5

Works for me! Let’s get rid of mandates that require x amount of y positions be filled by women and let them compete fairly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:11 AM
6

This sub doesn’t have a viewpoint. It isn’t a unified body with established consensus. The viewpoint of this sub is ERROR like if you tried to divide by zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:05 AM
3

Sex is affection for men since we get zero affection anywhere else. These men are tearing down society because of a need (being loved, wanted, and physical touch) not because they “can’t control themselves”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:40 PM
4

Yeah, no. All addiction that doesn’t involve physical sickness is a mental tool to excuse poor behavior. People do drugs, watch porn, and gamble because they want to. I do and have done hella drugs. I even had a 2 month stint I was orally taking methamphetamine in the the morning daily. It’s never cost me a job, housing, bills, or any relationships because I acknowledge my own free will and my reasons for using. I could stop but I don’t desire to nor do I see a reason to. Same goes for all “addi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:35 PM
-1

Porn addiction isn’t a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:31 PM
2

That’s exactly what the person you’re responding to said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:13 PM
7

It isn’t. Women be shoppin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:22 AM
0

That’s silly. I work 50 hours a week painting cars and my home is spotless, I cook every night that there isn’t leftovers, and my two cats are very happy and fulfilled. I’m not meaning to come at you. It just seems like an unnecessary expenditure if you were a little less lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:22 AM
3

Good trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:17 AM
3

Yeah bro just change everything about who you are as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:45 PM
1

Statisticians and other data freaks don’t determine reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:44 PM
4

Some of us respect ourselves and aren’t hedonistically churning through other human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:42 PM
1

You’re a good egg, boyo. I’ve let people without anywhere to go live with me and even supported the ones I really liked until they could get on their feet cause I was lonely and they needed a hand up instead of another kick in the ribs. So far I’ve helped 4 young men and 2 young women this way. I’m still very much alone and covertly bitter about life but at least I can lie to myself and say I’m not entirely a garbage human.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:33 PM
3

Yeah, homeboy needs to psychically mutilate that vestige of themselves that loves others as unique human beings and instead see them as a means to an end like the system wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:26 PM
-4

Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:21 PM
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So should we be friends first or what? So much conflicting information from the yutes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:21 PM
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Really? I have no problem making moral judgements and stating that rape fantasies are repugnant especially coming from the sex that speaks as if there’s a rapist on every corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:24 PM
0

Then don’t have sex until you’re in a committed relationship. This ain’t rocket surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:25 AM
1

Ah, yes. The old “you’re perspective is distorted and untrustworthy because you use drugs I don’t like.” How original.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:42 PM
-1

All you need is lotion. All that other stuff is bullhonkey designed to damage the skin and make you need more bullhonkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:38 PM
1

That’s unrelated to the conversation at hand and is an attempt at discrediting my person by character assassination.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:05 PM
-1

Men should be legally empowered to financially abort their responsibility toward the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:03 PM
1

Oh, I thought you were a real person instead of an irritable mutant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:24 PM
6

I fucking hate this simplistic mechanical worldview that’s been indoctrinated into the yutes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:23 PM
1

Are the majority or even plurality of women you see subservient? No. Answers your question I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:44 AM
1

You won’t hear any disagreement from me. Personally I find the increasingly endemic “self love” ideology to be disgustingly solipsistic and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:55 PM
3

We absolutely should do that and it’s something I’m very vocal about. If people can’t handle that I’m an emotionally complex and developed being that’s their damage
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:31 PM
7

Your response (among many other things) is why the male suicide rate is 4x that of womens. Learn some empathy, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:22 PM
1

If my lack of statistics or analysis training invalidates my opinion on statically analysis then it also invalidates yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:19 PM
2

You should talk to the people you’re talking to instead of some vague mass of evil men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:04 PM
1

They’ve been conditioned to react that way unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:51 PM
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I don’t do statistics or analysis I was simply commenting that the source you provided is irrelevant due to a lack of p value which indicates that it’s of zero scientific significance. Studies aren’t Bible chapters and scientism isn’t a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:16 PM
2

What’s the p value on that? I don’t see one reported only that it’s less than .5 which, by the way, means absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:42 PM
5

You should address the person you’re speaking to rather than vague entities with scurrilous opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:51 PM
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Look up Thomas Szasz on YT. Mental illness is a spook.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/23 09:18 AM
-1

Only a woman could read “how not to dial alone” and respond with “I’d rather die alone, thanks.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:32 AM
0

When my kids are fighting I’m not concerned with who started it. I’m concerned with resolving the fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:24 PM
20

And men are allowed to dismiss those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:19 PM
8

How about we try this neat little thing called compassion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:15 PM
1

My wife cheated after I declined sex due to having worked a 14 hour shift that day. She said she felt unloved and knew I was cheating since I am a man and men don’t refuse sex. In short, you’re grody.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:32 PM
1

Shaming people for behavior that hurts them, their children, and/or others is good actually. I’ll judge if he the fuck out of anyone that’s behaving reprehensibly. I hate that this phrase became a meme but we live in a society, my dude. You’re not some entirely atomized being who’s actions happen in a vacuum devoid of consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:04 AM
0

Please respond to what I wrote instead of your assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:03 PM
2

From their business not the entire labor force. Stop arguing like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:38 PM
4

It appears your reaction to anything you dislike in a relationship is to leave. That’s why relationships and marriage are fucked nowadays. People expect perfection instantaneously and it’s ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:37 PM
0

“You’re not allowed” and “if you do so I will leave” are functionally the exact same thing. The words are different but the outcome is the same. Besides, I was taught that holding a relationship over someone’s head unless they do x is controlling behavior. Guess it’s not now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:34 PM
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70% of psychology studies failed replication. Psychology is bunkum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:12 PM
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Humans choose to ignore consequences. Animals don’t consider their actions in the same way. Don’t be retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:53 PM
1

You shouldn’t talk down about yourself like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:20 AM
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Dude, dogs do not have that kind of future consequence based thinking. They wouldn’t tear things up when the owners gone or repeatedly eat something that’s made them sick before. We’re not animals. We’re not here due to randomly arising from cold dead matter. We have the choice to be humans or to be base animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:16 AM
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Oh no, it’s retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:14 AM
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Or we expect a little reciprocal treatment for the 50-60 hour work weeks at the most dangerous jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:06 AM
2

People don’t cheat because they’re unfulfilled. They do so because they’re shit people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:59 AM
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They aren’t. They realized you’re right but are incapable of saying so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:48 AM
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No, it isn’t. We aren’t base animals reacting to stimuli with conditioned behavior patterns. I ignore my instincts daily. I don’t get to express the base aspects of masculinity and it’s time women grew up and did the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:36 AM
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So you have it harder because you have to clean your sex organs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:31 AM
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I’m pretty sure your cold, bitchy attitude is why your husband doesnt help more. Have you tried talking to him like you love and value him as a human being? Works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:56 AM
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I said privileges. Privileges like exclusive male spaces, the rights of the father over children, and being treated like a human with value are just a few. Men created the system that stood for a few thousand years. Feminists, sexual liberationists, and malcontents created the problem that unraveled it in a few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:51 AM
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I’m fine with it as long as we get our privileges back. Men have always been expected to soldier a little more of the societal burden since women are the ones that give birth. These extra responsibilities came with extra privileges to make up for it. Today, however, men are expected to shoulder the same burden but minus any of our previous privilege which is bullhonkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:26 AM
2

I speak for myself not any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:11 AM
2

Yes, yes we know. Poor put upon you receiving compliments and niceties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:28 PM
4

Nah, those are just genres of music. Watch any interview with Cannibal Corpse whose a “brutal death metal” band. They’re some of the sweetest, kind, and funniest people around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:27 PM
1

The solution is to destroy our disgustingly anti-human culture and reestablish our ties to community, the land, spirituality, our peers, and authentic local culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:24 PM
1

There were more marriages then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:21 PM
7

Sounds like nice guy is a meaningless phrase to be applied at will wherever it’s most useful to the user.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:31 AM
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It’s a good thing 99% of guys don’t see women as sexual outlets and not people then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:39 PM
1

No, they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:37 PM
0

That’s because you’re shallow and too immature to realize that your feelings are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:20 PM
2

Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:19 PM
1

I’m not sure what you mean. I’m a local yokel of a small town and we’re fiercely independent. Unless by collectivist you’re meaning that we can’t abstract away our survival behind complicated supply chains and immigration and instead have to work hand in hand to ensure our continued existence?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:16 PM
3

3 years for this fella. I was married for 12 years and I haven’t been out on a date since the divorce since I refuse to commodify and prostitute myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:14 PM
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Yeah and we call those women, “difficult to be around” and warn our brethren.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:11 PM
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Wow what an incredibly uncharitable characterization of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:07 PM
-1

I hope our society gets over this “everyone is a completely autonomous free floating rational actor” soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:52 PM
4

That’s not what projection is.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 04:57 PM
1

Wow, I’m a dude who was married for 12 years and I’ve never felt this. I haven’t had sex with anyone since she branched because it takes time to build up a connection that makes sex worth it. Without genuine love sex is just more complicated masturbation. I think people are being socially conditioned to be preoccupied with pleasures of the flesh to a horrific degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:22 AM
3

“Me me me me me me” There’s your issue. Paragraphs of how others aren’t good enough for you. Not a single line about your side of the bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:43 AM
0

Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:39 AM
3

Drama queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:35 AM
4

I didn’t say they weren’t real people. I said they aren’t friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:53 PM
7

Destroying every tie a person has to the land, the community, and the family is an absurd decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:53 PM
13

Needing other people is the normal state of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:51 PM
6

You don’t meet anyone over the internet. Those are just screen names.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:50 PM
1

I’m going off the stats provided by reality since imaginary stats are, obviously, imaginary.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 03:11 AM
1

Thanks, my dude. I took a slightly different route. I bought a trailer as far back as possible on some land in the country and I’m uncle Ted 2.0. I’m entirely isolated from anyone but that’s alright. The only difference from before is I’m aware of my isolation instead of not.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 01:36 AM
3

They likely speak English as a second language. You speak it as your first and yet you haven’t learned manners? Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:27 AM
3

I know it isn’t directly aimed at me but thank you. I grew up raised by my mom alone and sometimes I wish she had just hit me so maybe people would care about the way I was raised. Growing up as a boy in a world hostile to you is difficult. Growing up as that boy and learning there’s no where safe for you was excruciating. I’m still not allowed to discuss it. Last time I opened up about it was to my wife of 12 years. When she divorced me she told me I deserved the abuse from my mother. You alway…
/r/MensRights17/07/23 01:18 AM
9

Single mothers abuse their children at a far higher rate than fathers.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 10:54 PM
1

Yes ma’am. Apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:52 PM
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How is this related whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:48 AM
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Ok? I’m 30 and have a 12 year marriage under my belt. I don’t care about your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:10 AM
-1

Being happy is infantile. You manage your own happiness. Marriage is not for being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:04 AM
6

Prove that stat is causative, please. Also make suicide has skyrocketed in that time so it still doesn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:03 AM
3

It’s your job to manage your happiness. Not your partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:00 AM
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Are you actually this retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:59 AM
1

Hell yeah my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:56 AM
1

You’re feeling shave zero reflection on reality. They’re just feelings. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:10 AM
2

Either women are our equals or they aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:47 AM
3

That’s an excuse. We’re animals but we aren’t slaves to biology. As a man I have all kinds of instincts and urges but I cultivated this amazing fucking quality called self discipline. Don’t excuse women’s retardation with “muh biotroof”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:55 PM
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Women can get the fuck over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:48 PM
1

Didn’t you get the memo, mate? As a man were expected to be totally fine dying of thirst next to a water fountain. If we aren’t okay with that clearly we’re insert negative trait that post hoc justifies our treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:17 AM
1

Sounds like creating a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:07 AM
0

If the study can’t be replicated it isn’t scientific. This is basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:05 PM
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Replication crisis. Psychology and all derivative fields are pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:34 AM
3

I said you stated the same thing the first person did only using different words. My comprehension is fine, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:45 AM
1

I’m so happy I was born a man and have the ability to silently process my emotions without making them everyone else’s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:07 AM
1

I’m not trolling. That’s is a low effort comment though and I’ll not do that any longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:54 PM
3

That’s a whole lot of things I literally haven’t said. You should read more carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:54 PM
1

As a men we don’t really care at all about superficial characteristics of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:51 PM
9

You didn’t refute their claims whatsoever. You just rephrased them and pretended they’re somehow diffeeent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:49 PM
6

There’s nothing confusing about their statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:48 PM
1

I don’t, actually. The patriarchy is an academic conspiracy theory that proposes a group of men are in charge due to them being men instead of their wealth and family lineage which is utterly absurd. If you truly believe men built a system to benefit other men but under that system males, on average, live much more difficult and damaging lives then I got a bridge to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:30 AM
4

How convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:08 AM
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Ah, tone policing. The tried and true fallback when women don’t have an argument and are unaware they can simply be quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:06 PM
1

I answered your question. Everything else you wrote is conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:56 PM
1

Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:35 PM
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Ah, I thought you wanted a conversation. I’m not interested in being brow beaten with your opinions. Have a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:27 PM
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If only 20% of guys are benefitting how can you possibly think it’s better than before? Are you that self absorbed that the 80% of neglected men are less important than your ability to hop from relationship to relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:26 PM
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Yep. The institution of marriage which functioned just fine for a thousand or more years was actually an abusive nightmare for the womz. Feminist histrionics, I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:23 PM
3

Child support, property, housing, alimony, custody, community support. Please don’t reply back with some hyper specific “wuddabout x?!?” Is predictable and the bleeding edge cases aren’t relevant in a d general discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:20 PM
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Opening up about our feelings is not about her. It’s not about her safety, or her feelings, or her attraction. It’s about her being a godamn woman, a partner, and a friend not an undisciplined, disloyal, fickle child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:46 AM
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That’s due to many men being completely i and utterly deprived of human touch and love some of them from surprisingly young ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:51 AM
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If you’re having sex but can’t be emotionally available your priorities are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:14 AM
1

Excellent response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:24 PM
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It’s not his wife’s place to attempt to force arbitrary decisions upon her husband due to having a child as leverage. I’d say it makes a woman a shit wife to be fine with a behavior until it no longer suits her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:32 AM
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The liberal obsession with casting away all limitation everything thing else be damned is one of the sickest psychic maladies affecting us today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:30 AM
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No one said force. Stay in their lane implies self discipline. Limits exist, deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:25 AM
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The first if it brings my wife back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:24 AM
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Oh, yeah? They’re going to maintain all the power, sewage, infrastructure, landscaping, garbage removal, and automotive industries? Yeah, right. “Menial” jobs. Gratitude is a lovely look on a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:13 AM
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You must be a woman. You can’t change men. Love him as he is or leave him alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:20 AM
2

We have to have people running society. We can’t all be over educated middle managers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:12 AM
1

Caffeine, acetaminophen, diphenhydramine etc. almost everyone does drugs everyday. Some people don’t see it that way because they prefer The State do their thinking and tell them what are “good” drugs and what are “bad” drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:07 AM
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Dudes can and do overcome their natural instincts daily. It’s actually not very difficult at all. If women are going to be our equals then it’s time they stepped up and demonstrated that capability.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:43 PM
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No one justified it. Explanations and justifications aren’t equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:08 PM
1

I’m in agreeable with you, my friend. My comment was meant to sardonically point out women’s hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:45 AM
1

Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:24 AM
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Entertain yourself. Men aren’t court jesters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:40 PM
1

Same. That’s why after my twelve year marriage disintegrated due to her infidelity I haven’t had a date in two years. I don’t play games nor will I participate in some childish masquerade. I think I’m likely done with dating. It’s impossible to find people that respect my decision to only have post-marital sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:30 PM
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I’ve had one relationship which lasted for 12 years. Serial monogamy isn’t a success if you’re capable of truly and genuinely loving someone with your entirety.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:23 PM
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Yep. Wife left after 12 years. Already had a dude lined up. Meanwhile no one’s noticed I exist in 9 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:50 PM
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Women’s voices are difficult to listen to when they’re speaking very loudly or with vocal fry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:44 PM
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Becuase women have a very difficult time dealing with things like having different opinions than their girlfriends and their girlfriends sabotaging relationships via shaming and bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:21 PM
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Interesting! How would you characterize it?
/r/MensRights24/06/23 08:08 PM
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Nah. Celibacy has been a thing for a long time. The most vital foundation for a healthy life is breath. You can go weeks without food, days without water, and only seconds without breath.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 08:03 PM
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Nope. Women are full on people with full on agency. Biological imperative can kiss my ass
/r/MensRights24/06/23 08:00 PM
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My response or the person I responded to? I’m gonna be embarrassed if I’ve been mischaracterizing empathy my whole life
/r/MensRights24/06/23 07:56 PM
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You don’t have to fully understand or see it all. You just use empathy and you think “if I was going through what this person is describing to me I also would dislike it”. It’s that easy.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:32 PM
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It’s called empathy.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:29 PM
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Totes, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:00 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:59 PM
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People age differently. Who gives a fuck what you think is acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:47 PM
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Correct except that I’m volcel. 12 years of marriage cured me of my ridiculous obsession with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:38 PM
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Bullshit. Women initiate 80% of divorces. Women don’t love romantically like men do. That’s always been a farce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:26 PM
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They’re women. They’re poor decision makers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:26 PM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:25 PM
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I simply started my opinion as a man on what I find attractive. Didn’t mean to trigger you, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:15 AM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:15 AM
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That is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:16 AM
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Yes, were well aware of women’s ability to produce page after page of complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:13 AM
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Seems strange to want a woman to appear more like a prepubescent girl but then again I’ve never understood my fellow man’s sexual proclivities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:09 AM
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Sounds like a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:00 AM
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Does anyone actually care nowadays? Seems silly. I date women not girls so I’ve never cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:59 PM
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You know nothing about being a man or masculinity. Your description of temper tantrums is more likely to be a man tired of dealing with his wife’s immature bullshit and reacting to her emotion with emotion. Anger is a valid emotion. It’s fine to feel angry and to express it when you feel you’re being subjected to bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:48 PM
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See, that’s your issue. I don’t see men throw temper tantrums ever and I’m around a bunch of them all day every day. If you’re seeing a lot of this maybe you should see what effects their environment may be having. Perhaps they have a partner that makes them drop all friends and hobbies with the threat of withholding intimacy. Maybe these men have someone at work or at home constantly on their ass. Maybe theirs a lack of goodwill and trust towards men to the point where women think they know lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:41 PM
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We release our feelings just fine, thank you. We just don’t do it around women since they tend to view our emotions as ammunition. Men don’t feel better about things by talking. They feel better by doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:32 PM
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Animation isn’t a valid form of art then? So anyone who likes animation has a childish and therefore invalid opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:06 PM
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It’s funny you assume the way men deal with their emotions is repression instead of the reality that we don’t let emotions rule over us like women and children do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:02 PM
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Animation is a completely valid art form. C.S. Lewis has a lovely quote “When I grew up I lit away childish things including the fear of lie king childish things.” That’s a butchered version but you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:00 PM
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I was married for 12 years. Holler at me when you know anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:53 PM
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Nah, I’m monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:25 PM
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The comparison is cars as relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:19 PM
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Sure. Leaving sometime for not reaching that is pretty fucked, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:19 PM
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Being happy all the time isn’t possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:47 PM
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it holds me for a while. Most dudes aren’t looking for a while. Many, myself included, mean till death do us part when we say till death do us part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:45 PM
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It’s apparently sexist and objectifying to expect women to put more into a relationship than being a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:30 PM
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Schizophrenia is a catch all term to describe people who the psychiatric establishment determines to have ideas they don’t like or thought processes they consider incorrect. Look up Thomas Szasz on YouTube. He’s in debates, panels, interviews and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:01 PM
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No, they can’t. They’ve never proven any mental illness exists physiologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:23 PM
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You’re being convinced of it is what makes it real. Not trying to be flippant I do appreciate the links and the effort you put in. I’ll read em now!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:04 PM
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Link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:46 PM
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I don’t. Addiction is a made up thing. There ain’t a chemical in existence that controls peoples minds and forces them to ingest it. I’ve used drugs for 11 years. No arrests, no job losses, no loss of friends or family, have my own place and my own car and my own land. This includes drugs like methamphetamine and other “scary” substances. The key is shedding our reductive mechanistic worldview and raising the human being is not a machine and that the mind, the conscious, and the body are not sep…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:46 PM
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It isn’t hard to quit at all. You have this little thing called willpower and you can sue it at your own discretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:34 PM
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Porn doesn’t damage the brain. Drugs don’t even damage the brain. I swear the miseducation of gen z is astoundingly frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:33 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:24 PM
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It’s linked in the fucking comment you troglodyte.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:09 AM
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The fucking comment that started this discussion. Are you blind? https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13xvcz5/_/jmjgf6a/?context=1
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:22 AM
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Ok but I’m referring to the numbers showing that the women are dating not this made up scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:11 AM
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Have you seen them drive? They still don’t! tip your waiter 👉🏻👉🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:19 AM
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Agree that dudes been cucked by the almighty dollar
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:18 AM
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Take a long walk off a short pier
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:11 AM
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Are you familiar with the just world fallacy? Using the logic in your comment we could say any woman that’s oppressed deserves to be there. After all, if she was deserving of freedom she’d take it by any means. Same logic, any black person still in the ghettos is there because they want to be. Vietnamese immigrants outpace them within 2 generations. Therefore it’s due to some lack within themselves that they remain in their position. Please note for all the people that can’t fucking read: I do n…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:10 AM
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Not the man in pain but a man in pain here due to an adulterous woman: thanks for sticking up for the homies. You’re a G
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:07 AM
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Then who are they dating? Provide a better explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:05 AM
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Holy frick, Julia was a warning. Orwell knew all along. That’s why he was strictly dickly. I’m a dude who likes chicks and dudes but I’m only fucking dudes. For the cause, ya know.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 09:41 PM
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Bitches be shoppin’.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:28 PM
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“I’m not your mother” hurts me the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:57 PM
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Nah. They’re just not punished for antisocial behavior or rewarded for prosocial behavior. In fact, I’d hazard to say it’s the opposite currently. As a man I have distinct biological urges too. Many of them include severely destructive thoughts or emotions were they put into physical space. I am fully capable of recognizing, analyzing, modifying, and implementing those urges into productive or at least not destructive actions. Women are as well. If they aren’t then it’s time we acknowledge them …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:55 PM
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One thing to consider is what seems to be an epidemic of women exhibiting personality traits reminiscent of those in the Cluster B category. Just look around or ask the men around you. Women, it seems, have in large numbers taken to being emotionally abusive and psychological terrorists as normal modes of regulating male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:11 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:00 PM
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Ah, okay. When you want to have a discussion holla at ya boy. I’m not interested in fighting windmills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:31 PM
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That’s addressing the symptoms and not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:26 PM
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Homie over half of men aged 18-30 report having no close friends. It ain’t natural or organic to have friends anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:39 AM
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No, for a daschund.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:30 AM
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Uh, no? I’ll say what I please, thank you. I prefer people without makeup. Also, why is looking like a dude such a terrible thing? I happen to think both men and women are quite attractive so I don’t understand the implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:43 PM
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That’s cuz men aren’t lying when we say we prefer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:56 PM
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🤷‍♀️ my wife has also mentioned that women do it to themselves. It’s totally plausible I missed it not being a woman I’ll give you that. I’ve seen women place a lot of stress ont heir own shoulders and blame others for it so I’m not convinced either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:19 AM
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Ah, shit my bad. Sorry for being a prick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:15 AM
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Ya know, it’s weird. In my entire 30 years as a man working make dominated jobs I’ve never heard the men around me complain about a woman not wearing make up or nice clothes especially not strangers. I’ve heard some real fucked up language towards women in my time but never that complaint. I think that’s another one of those ideas y’all enforce on yourselves and pretend you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:17 AM
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Sounds like you didn’t understand the material then seeing as the book very obviously portrays Hester, the protagonist, as a sympathetic heroine struggling to live in a strict and often cruel society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:15 AM
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I’m that person. I blame it on my adhd but I’m just sillyfied. My ex wife always said I have golden retriever personality and I couldn’t agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:06 PM
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It’s wild they won’t debate on the terms presented and instead hem and haw about word choice and exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:01 PM
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Better is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:58 AM
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Right on! The issue is that people aren’t commodifying their existence properly not that the commodification of the human experience is inherently reductionist and damaging to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:17 PM
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Thanks. I wanted a non insulting insult so I’m glad it worked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:14 PM
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You can’t edit titles, you sock.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:18 PM
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I disagree with the premise of your analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:01 PM
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Shame Insult Guilt Need to be correct Your attempts at shaming and insulting me are pitiful and indicate you have nothing intellectually interesting to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:59 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13f1wnu/_/jjupjhh/?context=1
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:58 PM
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Nah, I’m good. I own my own home, the land it’s on and my car. I play several instruments, I draw, I paint, I write poetry, I have an awesome veggie garden and I do my own home repairs. I make plenty of money painting cars and have plenty of free time. I’m 6’2” 160 lbs with very defined muscle. Still ain’t good enough for the women I’ve met so fuck ‘em. Not like they can carry a conversation outside of gossip and surface level social causes anyway. Dudes rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:57 PM
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Correct. I refuse to commodify living beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:54 AM
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No they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:44 AM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:40 AM
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Human beings aren’t products.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:40 AM
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https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13f1wnu/_/jjt2l27/?context=1 https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13f7mml/_/jju19u9/?context=1 You have to keep in mind that people like like the guy you're arguing with have no morals. He doesn't think murder is a bad thing. He likely idolizes incels who went on killing sprees. Know your audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:29 AM
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It’s nine sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:27 AM
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his fault completely took a year off because of him Sure looks like you didn’t self reflect in that year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:23 AM
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All this focus on the men improving their packaging and branding to better commodify and sell themselves and nothing about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:21 AM
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Human beings aren’t products.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:19 AM
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Nonsense. We’re not machines. We’re not controlled by some mysterious ancient code in our genetics. Stop passing the buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:14 PM
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Okay, don’t engage with the argument. I appreciate the acknowledgment that I was right even if it had to fight through your ego first. Seriously, if the words “fundamental” + “documents” causes such a short circuit I feel sorry for you. Does your mama and daddy know you wasted all that time at school instead of learning?
/r/MensRights22/04/23 05:16 PM
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Those aren’t figure heads. They’re the authors of foundational documents. Please look those two words up if you’re still confused about the difference between a figurehead and authors of foundational text. If feminism as a concept is so nebulous that over half the country says they identify as it yet they cannot come to a conclusion on what they actually agree on then it’s functionally useless and it’s adherents are identifying with it due to social norms. Basically useless term, zombie movement…
/r/MensRights22/04/23 02:48 PM
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Then why are you a feminist if you disagree with the authors of foundational texts? How can you claim to be a feminist but disagree with feminists on what feminism is? Maybe the words useless like neoliberal and other words modernity loves to obfuscate.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 01:42 PM
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We still do relationships. If anyone tries that manipulative psychic abuse shit we leave. That just so happens to eliminate every woman I’ve ever been with. And a small number of the men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:15 AM
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Gods I love honest women. It’s incredibly intriguing when y’all give me a peek behind the curtain. Our thought processes are both remarkably similar and remarkably distinct. That whole duality thing people are obsessed with, I suppose. I’ve never been promiscuous because when I have sex I tend to form a strong attachment. I also can’t do it with strangers. Sexual intimacy requires physical and emotional intimacy for myself and talking to other men it’s apparently not that way for them. My friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:09 AM
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I don’t agree that the past was better or worse than the present. That’s what I’m trying to illustrate to you. You have an entire closed system limiting your thought. You automatically assume the past was worse and that any claim to the contrary requires proof. Why shouldn’t you have to prove the past was worse than the present? I’m saying it doesn’t matter. The past was the past was the past. Cleopatra lived in opulent luxury, American chattel slaves were subjected to horrific and inhuman exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:54 AM
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No because you’re assuming that your conception of the past and my conception of the past are the same. For example, many westerners tend to view history as one long chain of progress gradually refining and developing themselves toward the civilization we currently live in which is patently ludicrous. Hair is quantifiable. The past is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:42 AM
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Thank you for that insight. I’ve never been able to get a woman to honestly answer why that prejudice exists. It’s because of prejudice towards men as a whole. Man, that whole stereotype of man hating penis envying feminists was true the whole time. By the way, assuming someone would cheat due to their sexuality is definitely insecurity. Also, the way you described love as a choice you make is fascinating. As a man I’ve never experienced love as a choice. It’s more like a spell that clouds my mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:35 AM
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May I offer some advice? I have a similar pattern of exes. Yes, jealousy and possessiveness are utterly intractable issues for me as well. I value personal liberty very highly and with that comes a great deal of trust both from myself and to others. If someone doesn’t trust me or visa versa then there’s no foundation to build on. I’ve let lovers look through my phone before after accusations but while the searched fruitlessly through my private innards I’d pack up and go. I’m too old, too pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:25 AM
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First I’d like to start off with an apology. I gave you advice you didn’t ask for which is rude but even more rudely I assumed that it was even a problem at all. So my apologies, sincerely. I also dislike needy and clingy people. My hobbies are mostly solitary ones so people that need a high amount of outside affirmations and praise annoy me. I do have to be pulled away from my crafts or else I’ll spend an entire weekend in my studio without noticing. I try to maintain some self awareness and no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:09 AM
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Get a dildo. Meditation, mindfulness, expression. I’m my early days I’d have to work out or play drums to deal with my libido, later on I dealt with it by drawing or painting or writing. Nowadays I don’t ever feel sexually aroused and it’s liberating. Subject men to subtle subconscious disrespect and negatively color your relationships while also hurting yourself and others needlessly. Go to therapy and find out why you dislike an entire gender that you’re attracted to. (I don’t mean traditional…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:57 AM
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You aren’t stuck with anyone. You can choose to be celibate. It really isn’t that difficult. It would likely be less difficult than a relationship with a person you dislike due to immutable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:47 AM
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Oh, I see. Your opinion is correct and mine is wrong due to obvious reasons. Of course, how could I possibly doubt the veracity and sincerity of what you’re saying considering your obvious command of rhetoric and logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:40 AM
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Nah. I’ve opted out. My ex wife of 12 years finally decided she’s used me up and moved on. I’ve been meditating for years and have eliminated sex as a “need”. I’ve yet to find a woman I can have an interesting conversation that doesn’t turn into mind games so I don’t have a need for women in my life. Luckily I’m bisexual and dudes rock. Also I noted that we require a relationship that guarantees loyalty, trust, and fidelity. That doesn’t mean based on arbitrary requirements it means guarantees. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:35 AM
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That depends on how you define things. Assuming your version of progress is even progress at all requires you and I to presuppose we agree thousands of years of ideas, history, and human development. We likely don’t agree. I’m just pointing out the arrogance of assuming that your particular set of cognitive distortions is any better than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:53 AM
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Men don’t want relationships without a guarantee of loyalty, trust and fidelity. That means no-low amount of previous partners, and a marriage contract that doesn’t incentivize the wife to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:47 AM
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Shame Insult Guilt Need to be correct SIGN language is psychological abuse and is an awful debate tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:45 AM
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The lack of self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:44 AM
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“Put up with” That’s how we know you’re a woman. If you experienced the utter deprivation of community like many men do you wouldn’t possibly think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:43 AM
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The past being worse doesn’t make the present better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:41 AM
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Islamic terrorism isn’t a threat inside the United States which you compared to incels making incels not a threat inside the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:37 AM
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That persons cognitive deflectors are at max power.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:35 AM
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Would you like me to post screenshots of the death threats and rape threats I receive on this sub often? Yeah. Names and dates unobscured.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:34 AM
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Misandry is the gateway to the political left. Framing things in such black and white terms isn’t very useful as an argument since I can easily argue that black is white instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:32 AM
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SIGN language Shame Insult Guilt Need to be correct. That’s not debate, that’s psychically harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:30 AM
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Shame Insult Guilt Need to be correct SIGN language. Don’t do that. Speaking to others that way is not only insensitive but it’s also a terrible debate tactic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:28 AM
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Things being worse in the past doesn’t make the present any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:39 PM
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Totes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:18 PM
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We were each other first. Dating at 16, married at 18, divorced at 30. We never wanted children. We agreed way early on due to horrible childhood experiences. Turns out she was lying. Got baby fever at 29 and tries to trap me. Literally locked her legs around me. I guess she forgot I’m a man and I removed her from myself. Then she starts the shaming, the guilt, the insults, the emasculation. She monkey branched once she found out I’m a human being with ethics and integrity and that I won’t be ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:15 AM
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Nah. Men have hobbies and personalities. I don’t need any of y’all. Every woman I’ve been with could not stand that I’m a musician, artist, and avid reader. They whined constantly about their lack of entertainment and how it was my fault they’re bored, vapid, emotionally volatile children. Whenever y’all start reading Kierkegaard and Doystoyevsky holla at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:12 AM
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You tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:01 PM
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Look it up. It’s your job to find information and analyze it for yourself. “80/20 ok Cupid survey” in any search bar should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:57 PM
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It’s the 80/20 figure you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:23 PM
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Man I guess I need the doctor. I’m 30 and I haven’t wanted sex in a decade. Once I figured out my ex wife was using it to manipulate me I shut the whole thing down. I don’t like that and I told her so to which she responded by trying to manipulate me with sex. Haven’t cared for it since. I jerk off once a year or so if I think about it but I usually forget the dude is even down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:04 PM
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My b! Shame Insult Guilt Need to be correct. Like when women make fun of virgin men they’re using shame. Or if your wife talks about just how lovely this thing is and, wow Jennifer has one sigh guess I don’t need it That’s guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:59 PM
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You’re conflating anecdotal evidence from YouTubers and a statistical analysis about tinder. They aren’t the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:59 PM
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That wasn’t advice. That was snarky shame Trojan horsed in advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:57 PM
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I think it’s the other side which is incapable. As far as I’ve seen blue pill peeps use SIGN language and emotional arguments that are basically tangents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:56 PM
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I’m not trolling. I will apologize for acting outta line but it isn’t trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:43 PM
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By feminist I mean feminist. You’re still being dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:01 PM
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I’m not going to argue with someone who’s lying. There no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:58 PM
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Women initiate divorce more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:57 PM
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Really? Because I’m from a town of 5,000 in east Texas and every woman I know is a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:56 PM
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No, men don’t talk shot about others behind their backs unless they’re of low character. Men have integrity, boys don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:56 PM
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SIGN language! Shame Insults If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a male you would know why that is. Guilt Need to be right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:55 PM
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SIGN language! Shame infinite stream of sob stories Insults Guilt Need to be right almost seems like marriage takes away some of the women’s desire. That last one is both guilt and need tk be right. Men love marriage and if a woman makes him feel bad about it he’ll feel guilty for doing what he thought was right and need to be right is also accountability aka taking ownership instead of blaming others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:53 PM
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Just making things up? Lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:50 PM
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Argue with the feminists then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:48 PM
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It’s the most relevant purposefully obscured information in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:46 PM
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Is that why there so many single mothers? Cuz they’re sure, for damn sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:43 PM
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We made a mistake favoring women in custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:42 PM
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How many women do you know that aren’t feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:41 PM
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Can you not answer a direct question asked to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:41 PM
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No one said it was controversial except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:38 PM
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No, they aren’t. Even wikipedia doesn’t lie this much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:37 PM
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And? We’re even. Your testimony is equal to mine unless you’re somehow more trustworthy due to having a womb. Actually, I’m ahead considering I am a man and I know much much more about men than you. Here’s the thing, men have an implicit threat of physical violence being done to them for going to far. Men don’t generally do things to provoke the egos of other men once they’ve grown past a teenager and one of the quickest things you can do to anger a man is insult his wife. I don’t know where you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:34 PM
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That’s to distract them from their sexless marriages to a fat, bitter, and lazy woman. Pro tip: rephrasing your comment to a genuine question instead of a snarky one will get you nicer replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:49 AM
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The state of imagination these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:44 AM
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I’m a bisexual man. Came out in 2006 in 7th grade. I received the most vitriol from insecure women. To this day I’m upfront with my sexuality since I know how women are. Almost universally I am met with disgust, shame, insults, and guilt tripping. The majority of women absolutely do not like bisexual men. My sample size is 3 (2 other bisexual men and myself) and our theory is that they hate us because we don’t put up with women’s shit, we’re straight passing, we can wear suits and ties and sundr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:07 AM
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I’m a chauvinist, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:05 AM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:04 AM
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No wonder women don’t go into the sciences considering how much they hate noticing things around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:01 AM
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I’m a bisexual man. Came out in 2006 in 7th grade. I received the most vitriol from insecure women. To this day I’m upfront with my sexuality since I know how women are. Almost universally I am met with disgust, shame, insults, and guilt tripping. The majority of women absolutely do not like bisexual men. My sample size is 3 (2 other bisexual men and myself) and our theory is that they hate us because we don’t put up with women’s shit, we’re straight passing, we can wear suits and ties and sundr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:00 AM
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SIGN language Shame Guilt Insult Need to be correct We got shame here, folks!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:53 AM
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No we don’t. I’ve cried to every one of my boys and vise versa. We don’t show emotions to women becuase to them that’s ammunition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:41 AM
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I would never call another man’s wife ugly and the fact that you believe this about men shows your utter lack of understanding of men. I wouldn’t expect you to understand, however. You are a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:28 AM
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Nah they can learn about me. I’m far more interesting than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:20 AM
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That right there is exactly what toxic masculinity is. That’s an extremely damaging thing to teach men.
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