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Women dying in childbirth is mens fault? I’m pretty sure it’s men working throughout the ages to make birth more safe for women. The rest of your comment must be addressed to the wrong person since I haven’t said any of the things you accuse me of. I’ll never understand this reaction wherein this righteous indignation is summoned and your speech starts resembling a hellfire and brimstone sermon. Also, my family has been in the states since the early 18th century. I’m likely older stock than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:35 AM
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Yikes. What an underdeveloped man. Taking pride in chasing money, power, and gold was almost universally recognized as the traits of a wicked person just a few decades ago. May god have mercy on our souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:27 AM
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Life is metaphysical, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:25 AM
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Men and women got the vote at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:58 AM
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thousands of years of privilege What privilege? Was it Working the same farms women did? Was it men working deep down in the mines 14 hours a day? Was it the countless multitude of men killed in war defending women and children? Was it working on horrific factories or being pressed into grueling service aboard ships? Was it when men kept women safe, fed, clothed, and housed through their pregnancies? Was it when the majority of men got the right to vote which, coincidentally, is also when women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:43 AM
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No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:32 AM
1

God forbid we treat women as individuals with individual likes and dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:01 PM
1

What a positive and uplifting view of one half of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:58 PM
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Try communicating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:59 PM
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Women should communicate better then. The fault of communication always lies on the person doing the communicating not the listener.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:58 PM
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Those women sound immature and awful to be around. I couldn’t lower myself to have sec with someone of such low character.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:57 PM
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No, it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:56 PM
1

This is sophistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:55 PM
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No, it isn’t. Also nothing you typed has to do with men pleasing their partners. Just a whole bunch of unrelated nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:53 PM
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Yes, in the 70s. Jesus Christ, the dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:53 PM
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I don’t take orders, thank you. If you ask me kindly I’ll consider elaborating on that dense, incomprehensible sentence that you’re having trouble parsing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:03 PM
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Hey, hey, go easy on her, champ. That was a whole two comments ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:06 PM
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Complacency isn’t a dirty word. I call it contentment. Constant striving and self improvement as if you’re a commodity is what the industrialists want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:01 PM
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Or women could learn that their feelings are largely irrelevant and act like adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:00 PM
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Yep that’s why I bowed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:59 PM
1

No, we don’t want even more stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:58 PM
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Almost entirety of your comment is arguing against positions no one said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:22 PM
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I date both. Men are more pleasant, more giving, and more gracious. Can’t get one to commit tho cuz of that promiscuity gays are known for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:33 PM
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I date both men and women. Ain’t seen it yet. Us men express ourselves fine. We just don’t do it like women do so that’s “bad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:18 PM
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His friends advice is common knowledge among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:00 PM
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Good thing that’s vanishingly rare, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:54 PM
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What a simp. Women should learn to control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:39 AM
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I have. My family respects and honors men for being men and women for being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:38 PM
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This mythology that feminism has indoctrinated women into is disgusting. My forefathers were not violent to women. They were not rapists, nor did they see women as walking wombs. I’m continually astounded by the lack of grace and humility from todays women. I thank the gods my mawmaw is dead cuz if she met you hussies she’d likely catch a charge smacking some feminine charm into y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:36 PM
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You’re correct that out of a population of billions there is surely one person that my statement doesn’t apply to. Thank you for you’re incredible contribution to this conversation. Truly, only a brilliant mind could articulate such a profound message.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:05 AM
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Get over it. Other peoples opinions are irrelevant. Grow a spine and be who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:12 PM
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It’s thirty grand above average. Come back to earth, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:49 AM
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Every single man that has been in a serious relationship with a woman has experienced this at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:43 AM
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You can’t date men if you hate men. You won’t have a successful relationship until you drop your resentment and jealousy of men inculcated in you by constant low grade MKULTRA media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:53 PM
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It sure is. That’s the beauty of love, though. You can seal your away and protect it from all harm and live a life feeling nothing or you can bear it for all to see and hold and live a life feeling everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:41 AM
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Compared to money, no. She decided to prostitute herself to a very rich man instead of being my wife and a mother to our daughter. My only regret is that I didn’t love her even more while we were together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:38 AM
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Because they aren’t taught to reign in their baser instincts and the media they consume is low grade MKULTRA that keeps them in their lizard brain so that they’re easier to manipulate which, in turn, makes the men easier to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:21 AM
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I made a relationship work 14 years from 16-30. I’m fairly aware of the dynamics. You have to let shit go that isn’t important enough to end the relationship over. You also have to love the person you chose for who they are and not try to shave off or smooth out every little imperfection of theirs. It isn’t yours to do with as you please and it isn’t very loving to demand of others that they discard the parts of themselves that others dislike. Too often people are like the monkey that said to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:20 AM
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That’s what I believe. It isn’t a dodge. Humans have been around for however long the universe has.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:15 AM
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Since the beginning. The universe came into existence upon observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:27 AM
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It’s not inevitable. Those women are immature and ruled by their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:23 AM
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If you made it past 14 you were likely to live to 60-80 in olden times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:22 AM
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Resentment doesn’t have to build up if people would be mature adults capable of perseverance and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:21 AM
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Flirting with another man and telling him I love you over text.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 11:15 AM
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You can control your libido. If your libido is driving then you aren’t.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/23 01:27 AM
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We are below replacement rate on births, single motherhood is skyrocketing, men are 3/5 homeless and the majority of suicides in addition to men not graduating high schools at increasing rates, not getting jobs, and not starting families. This is due to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:35 AM
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Why are you putting yourself through this? For what reason would you focus test, improve, and commodify yourself as if you were a coin operated boy? Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:00 AM
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Love you, brother. We’ll get through this just hold steady. I know that’s cliche as fuck but it’s also genuine 💪❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:49 AM
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Tradesmen get shit on every other place in society. Silicon Valley has been a net negative for society at large. No one ever liked nerds and I hope we go back to that soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:29 AM
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This is some classist af shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:27 AM
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That’s fine. The average woman is 5’4”, 170 lbs, and has a child. I have standards thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:10 AM
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Please don’t get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:06 AM
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I got out of a 12 year marriage to a woman a year and a half ago. I’m fine with men from now on. Thanks for the insult and shaming masquerading as unsolicited advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:04 AM
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Not sex. Companionship, empathy, kindness, compassion etc. to reduce to sex like you did is disgusting and denigrating to men and to the men and women that raised them. Be best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:21 AM
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Grow up. Icky is a childs word.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:14 PM
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It would drop mens to ZERO Please try reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:39 PM
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There’s no such thing as male camaraderie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:38 PM
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Why are they taking so long to mature? They’re adults at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:28 PM
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Women are not children after 18. Have some respect for women, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:19 PM
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No, I will not accept dying alone just because middle class women saw an opportunity with the Industrial Revolution to betray the human race and become greedy assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:18 PM
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They get alienated from their children while bankrolling the exes new lifestyle you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:13 PM
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If that’s true why do they initiate the vast majority of divorces?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:12 PM
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This pretending that women’s feelings are immutable or even important is obscene and repugnant. They should master their emotions like men do if they’re our supposed equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:06 PM
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Men are usually more individualistic than women. I’m addition we’re competing against each other due to women’s inability to run a dating scene so cooperation is right out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:05 PM
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Sure that way men can go from 1-4 matches a month to 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:04 PM
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Yep. That’s why I don’t try. I’m not willing to degrade and humiliate women like they want nor am I willing to have sex unless we’re committed so I’m rules out entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:03 PM
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Likely her attitude. That’s what killed my sec drive for my ex wife. I ain’t gonna lay pipe if you’re gonna be a cunt day in day out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:01 PM
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And do you think that was his first tactic? Or do you think he was exasperated and on his last rope with his wife for not expressing her love to him and allowing him to express his own? Why are you assuming the man must earn sex from his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:41 PM
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The way youve expressed this is that it’s entirely his job to placate and serve his wife in order to receive sex. That her needs must be taken care of first before he earns the privilege of having sex with his wife. Like, think for 2 second a
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:39 PM
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It doesn’t just happen. It’s a result of poor communication, a lack of empathy and unwillingness to compromise with the person you’re supposed to spend the rest of your life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:26 PM
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She could’ve said no. No force was involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:41 PM
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If women’s re so good at vibe checking why do so many of them get tricked by bad manipulative men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:37 PM
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Yep. Welcome to the world. You’re our equal, right? Then deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:35 PM
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No, you didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:31 PM
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Sure Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:30 PM
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Those are in no way similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:11 PM
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If everyone else is the problem then you’re the problem. Unlike you I haven’t had a string of failed relationships. We got married at 18 and made it to 30 before she decided she’d rather be a prostitute than a mother to our daughter. That ain’t on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:50 PM
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Men. And the vast majority of men were just as oppressed as the vast majority of women. Your flaw is in thinking that unequal outcomes must only be caused by unequal opportunities but that’s blatantly untrue. Equality, rationality, and progress are myths. Get educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:36 PM
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The average woman is fat, in debt, and has children. No thanks, I’ve got standards. Im tall, fit and tan since I work outside, own a house, a car, and the land my house sits on all debt free.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:08 PM
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But you aren’t happy. Statistics clearly show women are less happy then they’ve ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:10 PM
0

Yeah! That’s exactly how I feel about the poors! They should value themselves more. Why would anyone but the most scummy business pay them a living wage if they don’t value themselves enough to earn it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:09 PM
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Women got the vote at the same time the majority of men did. You set this society up just as much as any of us. Take some friggin responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:57 PM
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People’s actions don’t happen in a vacuum. Your actions effect others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:54 PM
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A person can be concerned about something without it personally involving them. This subtle implication that only rapists or accused rapists could have a problem with the demonization of men is repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:00 PM
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Men get raped irl as well. Don’t be disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:58 PM
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I’ve been raped by a woman and a man. I’m not suspicious or distrusting of people because of it. Carrying that fear is nothing but acidic poison that ruins your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:57 PM
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No, 100% of women have not experienced sexual violence from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:55 PM
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This has nothing to do with the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:54 PM
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Being cautious is fine. Literally no one thinks that’s unreasonable. What is unreasonable is the paranoid delusion most women operate under that says all men are dangerous and have no good will towards women and that male sexuality is deviant, dangerous, and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:53 PM
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How convenient that the situation once again strips women of any agency. I could never be a feminist since I love and respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:04 AM
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I judge strangers for all sorts of things. Our actions effect others ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:29 AM
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Nah 3 is plenty high. Past that we’re getting into jezebel territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:26 AM
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You’re not a victim. Men are not Machiavellian schemers. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:26 AM
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You should try dating someone for their deeper characteristics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:25 PM
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Most dudes are good looking. Certainly much more so than the poorly dressed porkers with an inch of makeup that passes for the average woman today. Everyday I thank the gods that I’m bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:31 PM
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Relationships are so much more than sex. Basing a relationship on lust and physical sensation will never last.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:25 PM
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Straight up. I play music, paint and draw, write poetry, and short stories. I’ve never met a woman who was interested in my creativity excluding in the ways it specifically benefits her. Most of the time they get upset that I’m not going to stop creating art now that I’m in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:07 PM
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It must be terrible being a slave to their minds like women apparently are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:50 PM
0

Emotional disregulation Inability to hear criticism Poor ethical and moral foundation Paranoia
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:48 PM
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It’s called reality. Try not to choke on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:05 AM
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That woman is not attractive. There’s not a feminine thing about her, she’s heavy set, and she’s poorly dressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:01 AM
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IQ distribution among the two sexes Put that into Google Bada bing bada boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:56 AM
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Limits exist and they’re mostly enforced by others
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:52 AM
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Yep. That’s what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:01 PM
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My wife of 12 years and the mother of my child left when she received an Instagram dm from a very rich man and she decided being a prostitute was more important than her family. So no, how about we don’t refute that “paranoid” stereotype that was invented whole cloth from thin air and in no way reflects even a sliver of reality. And yes, I’m bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:21 PM
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Good. If someone values attention from strangers more than a romantic relationship then that is a person I’m not interested in. My first and only relationship lasted from 16-30. You know how I did that? It’s called “close the doors and shut the windows.” When you’re in a relationship with a person you remove potential threats to that relationship in order to protect it and each other. We have different ways of living. Big whoop. Your subtle implication that I am somehow dangerous for valuing a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:02 PM
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Good for you. I’m genuinely happy that you have a positive use for social media in your relationship. However, that’s completely irrelevant. I’m not axing you to date me nor would I. Lovely story, though. Genuinely ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:58 PM
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I wouldn’t demand it. It’s a condition of mine in order to be in an exclusive relationship with me. It’s called a boundary and if people don’t want to respect it that is their choice. I don’t do the whole partner thing. That’s just silly and repulsively corporate. I use the perfectly fine terms husband and wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:26 PM
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No, it isn’t. People still have phones and letters and cars. If someone doesn’t want to delete their social media then they don’t want to be in an exclusive relationship with me. It’s a boundary, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:22 PM
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Thank you. It means a lot to read that. Sorry for my bitterness. I guess I expected a totally different response so I spoke without kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:20 PM
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Social media is a cancer. If you need validation get it from me, invite people over, or go see someone. A person that uses social media doesn’t value the same things I do and so I’d rather spare the time and heartbreak. It’s also due to being very hurt. My ex wife and I got together in high school and stayed together 12 years, lost our v cards to each other, the whole shebang. Some dude with hella money (like a lot) got in her dms on Instagram and she decided being a prostitute was more fulfilli…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:55 PM
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It’s sad you’ve allowed yourself to be deceived like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:37 PM
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I was married for 12 years and I’m a father. Try engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:37 PM
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Bi man here I’ve opted out of dating women till they get their shit together. I’ve yet to meet a woman who doesn’t exhibit one of a few behaviors: Inability to take criticism Inability to understand that my feelings are equally important and that I’m not an emotional punching bag Inability to apologize Refusal to delete social media Refusing to give me my space when I say I want space Inability to keep their hands to themselves. Refusal to reciprocate effort, care, and kindness I know they’re ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:31 PM
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Nah, it doesn’t say she wasn’t satisfied. It says she’s a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:44 PM
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Yeah, that kinda shallow pop astrology attitude is more and more common. Sorry you’ve had to deal with that, buddy. That sucks. I don’t get as much shit as an Aries but as a male Taurus I get a slight amount of shit and I know it was frustrating and silly. I tell myself that the kind of person who would claim to be into astrology but not have enough interest to actually learn about it isn’t the kind of person for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:44 AM
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No one said that those things you brought up unprompted were unimportant, nor that they believed spirituality superseded material science, not that material science hasn’t made great discoveries. You just sperged and unthinking typed a peer programmed response defending muh science and muh progress. Try reading before gloating about genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:40 AM
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Sure, you can be shallow if you like. I won’t pretend that I don’t have my limits like if a persons a strict materialist, or they use social media, or they’re obese, or they display a distinct lack of attempting mastery of their psyche. Excluding the obese one (which is nearly universal) I think my exclusions have a good reason beyond appearance which, again, is the least interesting part of a person. If someone’s a good person, has passions (art, feeding birds, etc), and keeps the expected amou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:04 AM
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Or perhaps my relationships are built on more solid foundations than physical sensation and tinglies in my belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:46 PM
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I wish. I’m a musician, an artist, and a poet and most women find that off putting. I’m it ugly either, a solid six with a good job, my own house and my own car both paid off. Nada.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/23 08:10 PM
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It isn’t for the kids raised by single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:49 PM
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Sexual attraction and compatibility are way overblown and are absolutely terrible bases for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:33 PM
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I haven’t indicated otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:46 PM
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If you divorced you certainly didn’t find god considering he forbids divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:24 AM
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There is not a western nation whose birth rate is above replacement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:14 AM
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Works for me! Let’s get rid of mandates that require x amount of y positions be filled by women and let them compete fairly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:11 AM
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This sub doesn’t have a viewpoint. It isn’t a unified body with established consensus. The viewpoint of this sub is ERROR like if you tried to divide by zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:05 AM
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Sex is affection for men since we get zero affection anywhere else. These men are tearing down society because of a need (being loved, wanted, and physical touch) not because they “can’t control themselves”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:40 PM
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Yeah, no. All addiction that doesn’t involve physical sickness is a mental tool to excuse poor behavior. People do drugs, watch porn, and gamble because they want to. I do and have done hella drugs. I even had a 2 month stint I was orally taking methamphetamine in the the morning daily. It’s never cost me a job, housing, bills, or any relationships because I acknowledge my own free will and my reasons for using. I could stop but I don’t desire to nor do I see a reason to. Same goes for all “addi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:35 PM
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Porn addiction isn’t a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:31 PM
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That’s exactly what the person you’re responding to said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:13 PM
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It isn’t. Women be shoppin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:22 AM
0

That’s silly. I work 50 hours a week painting cars and my home is spotless, I cook every night that there isn’t leftovers, and my two cats are very happy and fulfilled. I’m not meaning to come at you. It just seems like an unnecessary expenditure if you were a little less lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:22 AM
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Good trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:17 AM
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Yeah, homeboy needs to psychically mutilate that vestige of themselves that loves others as unique human beings and instead see them as a means to an end like the system wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:26 PM
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Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:21 PM
-1

All you need is lotion. All that other stuff is bullhonkey designed to damage the skin and make you need more bullhonkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:38 PM
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I fucking hate this simplistic mechanical worldview that’s been indoctrinated into the yutes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:23 PM
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You won’t hear any disagreement from me. Personally I find the increasingly endemic “self love” ideology to be disgustingly solipsistic and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:55 PM
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We absolutely should do that and it’s something I’m very vocal about. If people can’t handle that I’m an emotionally complex and developed being that’s their damage
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:31 PM
7

Your response (among many other things) is why the male suicide rate is 4x that of womens. Learn some empathy, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:22 PM
2

You should talk to the people you’re talking to instead of some vague mass of evil men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:04 PM
4

I don’t do statistics or analysis I was simply commenting that the source you provided is irrelevant due to a lack of p value which indicates that it’s of zero scientific significance. Studies aren’t Bible chapters and scientism isn’t a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:16 PM
2

What’s the p value on that? I don’t see one reported only that it’s less than .5 which, by the way, means absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:42 PM
5

You should address the person you’re speaking to rather than vague entities with scurrilous opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:51 PM
-5

Look up Thomas Szasz on YT. Mental illness is a spook.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/23 09:18 AM
-1

Only a woman could read “how not to dial alone” and respond with “I’d rather die alone, thanks.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:32 AM
0

When my kids are fighting I’m not concerned with who started it. I’m concerned with resolving the fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:24 PM
20

And men are allowed to dismiss those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:19 PM
8

How about we try this neat little thing called compassion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:15 PM
1

Shaming people for behavior that hurts them, their children, and/or others is good actually. I’ll judge if he the fuck out of anyone that’s behaving reprehensibly. I hate that this phrase became a meme but we live in a society, my dude. You’re not some entirely atomized being who’s actions happen in a vacuum devoid of consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:04 AM
0

Please respond to what I wrote instead of your assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:03 PM
2

From their business not the entire labor force. Stop arguing like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:38 PM
4

It appears your reaction to anything you dislike in a relationship is to leave. That’s why relationships and marriage are fucked nowadays. People expect perfection instantaneously and it’s ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:37 PM
0

“You’re not allowed” and “if you do so I will leave” are functionally the exact same thing. The words are different but the outcome is the same. Besides, I was taught that holding a relationship over someone’s head unless they do x is controlling behavior. Guess it’s not now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:34 PM
1

You shouldn’t talk down about yourself like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:20 AM
2

People don’t cheat because they’re unfulfilled. They do so because they’re shit people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:59 AM
10

So you have it harder because you have to clean your sex organs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:31 AM
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I’m pretty sure your cold, bitchy attitude is why your husband doesnt help more. Have you tried talking to him like you love and value him as a human being? Works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:56 AM
0

I said privileges. Privileges like exclusive male spaces, the rights of the father over children, and being treated like a human with value are just a few. Men created the system that stood for a few thousand years. Feminists, sexual liberationists, and malcontents created the problem that unraveled it in a few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:51 AM
2

I’m fine with it as long as we get our privileges back. Men have always been expected to soldier a little more of the societal burden since women are the ones that give birth. These extra responsibilities came with extra privileges to make up for it. Today, however, men are expected to shoulder the same burden but minus any of our previous privilege which is bullhonkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:26 AM
2

I speak for myself not any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:11 AM
2

Yes, yes we know. Poor put upon you receiving compliments and niceties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:28 PM
4

Nah, those are just genres of music. Watch any interview with Cannibal Corpse whose a “brutal death metal” band. They’re some of the sweetest, kind, and funniest people around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:27 PM
7

Sounds like nice guy is a meaningless phrase to be applied at will wherever it’s most useful to the user.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:31 AM
0

That’s because you’re shallow and too immature to realize that your feelings are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:20 PM
2

Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:19 PM
1

I’m not sure what you mean. I’m a local yokel of a small town and we’re fiercely independent. Unless by collectivist you’re meaning that we can’t abstract away our survival behind complicated supply chains and immigration and instead have to work hand in hand to ensure our continued existence?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:16 PM
3

3 years for this fella. I was married for 12 years and I haven’t been out on a date since the divorce since I refuse to commodify and prostitute myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:14 PM
11

Yeah and we call those women, “difficult to be around” and warn our brethren.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:11 PM
29

Wow what an incredibly uncharitable characterization of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:07 PM
-1

I hope our society gets over this “everyone is a completely autonomous free floating rational actor” soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:52 PM
4

That’s not what projection is.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 04:57 PM
3

“Me me me me me me” There’s your issue. Paragraphs of how others aren’t good enough for you. Not a single line about your side of the bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:43 AM
0

Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:39 AM
3

Drama queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:35 AM
4

I didn’t say they weren’t real people. I said they aren’t friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:53 PM
7

Destroying every tie a person has to the land, the community, and the family is an absurd decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:53 PM
13

Needing other people is the normal state of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:51 PM
6

You don’t meet anyone over the internet. Those are just screen names.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:50 PM
1

I’m going off the stats provided by reality since imaginary stats are, obviously, imaginary.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 03:11 AM
1

Thanks, my dude. I took a slightly different route. I bought a trailer as far back as possible on some land in the country and I’m uncle Ted 2.0. I’m entirely isolated from anyone but that’s alright. The only difference from before is I’m aware of my isolation instead of not.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 01:36 AM
3

They likely speak English as a second language. You speak it as your first and yet you haven’t learned manners? Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:27 AM
3

I know it isn’t directly aimed at me but thank you. I grew up raised by my mom alone and sometimes I wish she had just hit me so maybe people would care about the way I was raised. Growing up as a boy in a world hostile to you is difficult. Growing up as that boy and learning there’s no where safe for you was excruciating. I’m still not allowed to discuss it. Last time I opened up about it was to my wife of 12 years. When she divorced me she told me I deserved the abuse from my mother. You alway…
/r/MensRights17/07/23 01:18 AM
9

Single mothers abuse their children at a far higher rate than fathers.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 10:54 PM
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How is this related whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:48 AM
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Ok? I’m 30 and have a 12 year marriage under my belt. I don’t care about your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:10 AM
-1

Being happy is infantile. You manage your own happiness. Marriage is not for being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:04 AM
6

Prove that stat is causative, please. Also make suicide has skyrocketed in that time so it still doesn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:03 AM
3

It’s your job to manage your happiness. Not your partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:00 AM
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Are you actually this retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:59 AM
1

Hell yeah my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:56 AM
1

You’re feeling shave zero reflection on reality. They’re just feelings. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:10 AM
2

Either women are our equals or they aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:47 AM
3

That’s an excuse. We’re animals but we aren’t slaves to biology. As a man I have all kinds of instincts and urges but I cultivated this amazing fucking quality called self discipline. Don’t excuse women’s retardation with “muh biotroof”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:55 PM
19

Women can get the fuck over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:48 PM
1

Sounds like creating a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:07 AM
0

If the study can’t be replicated it isn’t scientific. This is basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:05 PM
-3

Replication crisis. Psychology and all derivative fields are pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:34 AM
3

I said you stated the same thing the first person did only using different words. My comprehension is fine, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:45 AM
3

That’s a whole lot of things I literally haven’t said. You should read more carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:54 PM
1

As a men we don’t really care at all about superficial characteristics of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:51 PM
9

You didn’t refute their claims whatsoever. You just rephrased them and pretended they’re somehow diffeeent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:49 PM
6

There’s nothing confusing about their statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:48 PM
4

How convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:08 AM
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Ah, tone policing. The tried and true fallback when women don’t have an argument and are unaware they can simply be quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:06 PM
1

Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:35 PM
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Ah, I thought you wanted a conversation. I’m not interested in being brow beaten with your opinions. Have a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:27 PM
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If only 20% of guys are benefitting how can you possibly think it’s better than before? Are you that self absorbed that the 80% of neglected men are less important than your ability to hop from relationship to relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:26 PM
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Yep. The institution of marriage which functioned just fine for a thousand or more years was actually an abusive nightmare for the womz. Feminist histrionics, I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:23 PM
3

Child support, property, housing, alimony, custody, community support. Please don’t reply back with some hyper specific “wuddabout x?!?” Is predictable and the bleeding edge cases aren’t relevant in a d general discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:20 PM
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Opening up about our feelings is not about her. It’s not about her safety, or her feelings, or her attraction. It’s about her being a godamn woman, a partner, and a friend not an undisciplined, disloyal, fickle child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:46 AM
3

That’s due to many men being completely i and utterly deprived of human touch and love some of them from surprisingly young ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:51 AM
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If you’re having sex but can’t be emotionally available your priorities are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:14 AM
1

Excellent response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:24 PM
-1

It’s not his wife’s place to attempt to force arbitrary decisions upon her husband due to having a child as leverage. I’d say it makes a woman a shit wife to be fine with a behavior until it no longer suits her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:32 AM
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The liberal obsession with casting away all limitation everything thing else be damned is one of the sickest psychic maladies affecting us today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:30 AM
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No one said force. Stay in their lane implies self discipline. Limits exist, deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:25 AM
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The first if it brings my wife back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:24 AM
2

Oh, yeah? They’re going to maintain all the power, sewage, infrastructure, landscaping, garbage removal, and automotive industries? Yeah, right. “Menial” jobs. Gratitude is a lovely look on a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:13 AM
-2

You must be a woman. You can’t change men. Love him as he is or leave him alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:20 AM
2

We have to have people running society. We can’t all be over educated middle managers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:12 AM
1

Caffeine, acetaminophen, diphenhydramine etc. almost everyone does drugs everyday. Some people don’t see it that way because they prefer The State do their thinking and tell them what are “good” drugs and what are “bad” drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:07 AM
5

Dudes can and do overcome their natural instincts daily. It’s actually not very difficult at all. If women are going to be our equals then it’s time they stepped up and demonstrated that capability.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:43 PM
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No one justified it. Explanations and justifications aren’t equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:08 PM
1

Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:24 AM
4

Entertain yourself. Men aren’t court jesters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:40 PM
3

I’ve had one relationship which lasted for 12 years. Serial monogamy isn’t a success if you’re capable of truly and genuinely loving someone with your entirety.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:23 PM
1

Women’s voices are difficult to listen to when they’re speaking very loudly or with vocal fry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:44 PM
4

Becuase women have a very difficult time dealing with things like having different opinions than their girlfriends and their girlfriends sabotaging relationships via shaming and bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:21 PM
1

Interesting! How would you characterize it?
/r/MensRights24/06/23 08:08 PM
1

Nah. Celibacy has been a thing for a long time. The most vital foundation for a healthy life is breath. You can go weeks without food, days without water, and only seconds without breath.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 08:03 PM
1

Nope. Women are full on people with full on agency. Biological imperative can kiss my ass
/r/MensRights24/06/23 08:00 PM
1

My response or the person I responded to? I’m gonna be embarrassed if I’ve been mischaracterizing empathy my whole life
/r/MensRights24/06/23 07:56 PM
9

You don’t have to fully understand or see it all. You just use empathy and you think “if I was going through what this person is describing to me I also would dislike it”. It’s that easy.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:32 PM
13

It’s called empathy.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:29 PM
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Totes, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:00 PM
2

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:59 PM
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Correct except that I’m volcel. 12 years of marriage cured me of my ridiculous obsession with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:38 PM
3

Bullshit. Women initiate 80% of divorces. Women don’t love romantically like men do. That’s always been a farce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:26 PM
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They’re women. They’re poor decision makers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:26 PM
0

Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:25 PM
-2

I simply started my opinion as a man on what I find attractive. Didn’t mean to trigger you, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:15 AM
1

Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:15 AM
0

That is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:16 AM
-3

Yes, were well aware of women’s ability to produce page after page of complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:13 AM
1

Seems strange to want a woman to appear more like a prepubescent girl but then again I’ve never understood my fellow man’s sexual proclivities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:09 AM
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Sounds like a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:00 AM
6

Does anyone actually care nowadays? Seems silly. I date women not girls so I’ve never cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:59 PM
2

You know nothing about being a man or masculinity. Your description of temper tantrums is more likely to be a man tired of dealing with his wife’s immature bullshit and reacting to her emotion with emotion. Anger is a valid emotion. It’s fine to feel angry and to express it when you feel you’re being subjected to bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:48 PM
0

See, that’s your issue. I don’t see men throw temper tantrums ever and I’m around a bunch of them all day every day. If you’re seeing a lot of this maybe you should see what effects their environment may be having. Perhaps they have a partner that makes them drop all friends and hobbies with the threat of withholding intimacy. Maybe these men have someone at work or at home constantly on their ass. Maybe theirs a lack of goodwill and trust towards men to the point where women think they know lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:41 PM
0

We release our feelings just fine, thank you. We just don’t do it around women since they tend to view our emotions as ammunition. Men don’t feel better about things by talking. They feel better by doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:32 PM
1

Animation isn’t a valid form of art then? So anyone who likes animation has a childish and therefore invalid opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:06 PM
-2

It’s funny you assume the way men deal with their emotions is repression instead of the reality that we don’t let emotions rule over us like women and children do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:02 PM
0

Animation is a completely valid art form. C.S. Lewis has a lovely quote “When I grew up I lit away childish things including the fear of lie king childish things.” That’s a butchered version but you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:00 PM
1

I was married for 12 years. Holler at me when you know anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:53 PM
1

Nah, I’m monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:25 PM
2

The comparison is cars as relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:19 PM
1

Sure. Leaving sometime for not reaching that is pretty fucked, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:19 PM
2

Being happy all the time isn’t possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:47 PM
10

it holds me for a while. Most dudes aren’t looking for a while. Many, myself included, mean till death do us part when we say till death do us part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:45 PM
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It’s apparently sexist and objectifying to expect women to put more into a relationship than being a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:30 PM
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Schizophrenia is a catch all term to describe people who the psychiatric establishment determines to have ideas they don’t like or thought processes they consider incorrect. Look up Thomas Szasz on YouTube. He’s in debates, panels, interviews and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:01 PM
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No, they can’t. They’ve never proven any mental illness exists physiologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:23 PM
0

You’re being convinced of it is what makes it real. Not trying to be flippant I do appreciate the links and the effort you put in. I’ll read em now!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:04 PM
2

Link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:46 PM
1

I don’t. Addiction is a made up thing. There ain’t a chemical in existence that controls peoples minds and forces them to ingest it. I’ve used drugs for 11 years. No arrests, no job losses, no loss of friends or family, have my own place and my own car and my own land. This includes drugs like methamphetamine and other “scary” substances. The key is shedding our reductive mechanistic worldview and raising the human being is not a machine and that the mind, the conscious, and the body are not sep…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:46 PM
-1

It isn’t hard to quit at all. You have this little thing called willpower and you can sue it at your own discretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:34 PM
3

Porn doesn’t damage the brain. Drugs don’t even damage the brain. I swear the miseducation of gen z is astoundingly frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:33 PM
1

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:24 PM
1

Ok but I’m referring to the numbers showing that the women are dating not this made up scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:11 AM
1

Have you seen them drive? They still don’t! tip your waiter 👉🏻👉🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:19 AM
2

Agree that dudes been cucked by the almighty dollar
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:18 AM
2

Take a long walk off a short pier
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:11 AM
2

Are you familiar with the just world fallacy? Using the logic in your comment we could say any woman that’s oppressed deserves to be there. After all, if she was deserving of freedom she’d take it by any means. Same logic, any black person still in the ghettos is there because they want to be. Vietnamese immigrants outpace them within 2 generations. Therefore it’s due to some lack within themselves that they remain in their position. Please note for all the people that can’t fucking read: I do n…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:10 AM
2

Not the man in pain but a man in pain here due to an adulterous woman: thanks for sticking up for the homies. You’re a G
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:07 AM
2

Then who are they dating? Provide a better explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:05 AM
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Bitches be shoppin’.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:28 PM
4

“I’m not your mother” hurts me the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:57 PM
5

Nah. They’re just not punished for antisocial behavior or rewarded for prosocial behavior. In fact, I’d hazard to say it’s the opposite currently. As a man I have distinct biological urges too. Many of them include severely destructive thoughts or emotions were they put into physical space. I am fully capable of recognizing, analyzing, modifying, and implementing those urges into productive or at least not destructive actions. Women are as well. If they aren’t then it’s time we acknowledge them …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:55 PM
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One thing to consider is what seems to be an epidemic of women exhibiting personality traits reminiscent of those in the Cluster B category. Just look around or ask the men around you. Women, it seems, have in large numbers taken to being emotionally abusive and psychological terrorists as normal modes of regulating male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:11 PM
2

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:00 PM
1

Ah, okay. When you want to have a discussion holla at ya boy. I’m not interested in fighting windmills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:31 PM
1

That’s addressing the symptoms and not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:26 PM
6

Homie over half of men aged 18-30 report having no close friends. It ain’t natural or organic to have friends anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:39 AM
2

No, for a daschund.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:30 AM
6

Uh, no? I’ll say what I please, thank you. I prefer people without makeup. Also, why is looking like a dude such a terrible thing? I happen to think both men and women are quite attractive so I don’t understand the implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:43 PM
8

That’s cuz men aren’t lying when we say we prefer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:56 PM
3

🤷‍♀️ my wife has also mentioned that women do it to themselves. It’s totally plausible I missed it not being a woman I’ll give you that. I’ve seen women place a lot of stress ont heir own shoulders and blame others for it so I’m not convinced either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:19 AM
3

Ah, shit my bad. Sorry for being a prick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:15 AM
8

Ya know, it’s weird. In my entire 30 years as a man working make dominated jobs I’ve never heard the men around me complain about a woman not wearing make up or nice clothes especially not strangers. I’ve heard some real fucked up language towards women in my time but never that complaint. I think that’s another one of those ideas y’all enforce on yourselves and pretend you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:17 AM
2

Sounds like you didn’t understand the material then seeing as the book very obviously portrays Hester, the protagonist, as a sympathetic heroine struggling to live in a strict and often cruel society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:15 AM
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I’m that person. I blame it on my adhd but I’m just sillyfied. My ex wife always said I have golden retriever personality and I couldn’t agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:06 PM
1

It’s wild they won’t debate on the terms presented and instead hem and haw about word choice and exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:01 PM
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Right on! The issue is that people aren’t commodifying their existence properly not that the commodification of the human experience is inherently reductionist and damaging to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:17 PM
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Thanks. I wanted a non insulting insult so I’m glad it worked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:14 PM
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You can’t edit titles, you sock.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:18 PM
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Shame Insult Guilt Need to be correct Your attempts at shaming and insulting me are pitiful and indicate you have nothing intellectually interesting to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:59 PM
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Nah, I’m good. I own my own home, the land it’s on and my car. I play several instruments, I draw, I paint, I write poetry, I have an awesome veggie garden and I do my own home repairs. I make plenty of money painting cars and have plenty of free time. I’m 6’2” 160 lbs with very defined muscle. Still ain’t good enough for the women I’ve met so fuck ‘em. Not like they can carry a conversation outside of gossip and surface level social causes anyway. Dudes rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:57 PM
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Correct. I refuse to commodify living beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:54 AM
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No they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:44 AM
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Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:40 AM
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Human beings aren’t products.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:40 AM
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https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13f1wnu/_/jjt2l27/?context=1 https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13f7mml/_/jju19u9/?context=1 You have to keep in mind that people like like the guy you're arguing with have no morals. He doesn't think murder is a bad thing. He likely idolizes incels who went on killing sprees. Know your audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:29 AM
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It’s nine sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:27 AM
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his fault completely took a year off because of him Sure looks like you didn’t self reflect in that year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:23 AM
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All this focus on the men improving their packaging and branding to better commodify and sell themselves and nothing about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:21 AM
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Human beings aren’t products.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:19 AM
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Nonsense. We’re not machines. We’re not controlled by some mysterious ancient code in our genetics. Stop passing the buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:14 PM
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We still do relationships. If anyone tries that manipulative psychic abuse shit we leave. That just so happens to eliminate every woman I’ve ever been with. And a small number of the men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:15 AM
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I don’t agree that the past was better or worse than the present. That’s what I’m trying to illustrate to you. You have an entire closed system limiting your thought. You automatically assume the past was worse and that any claim to the contrary requires proof. Why shouldn’t you have to prove the past was worse than the present? I’m saying it doesn’t matter. The past was the past was the past. Cleopatra lived in opulent luxury, American chattel slaves were subjected to horrific and inhuman exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:54 AM
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No because you’re assuming that your conception of the past and my conception of the past are the same. For example, many westerners tend to view history as one long chain of progress gradually refining and developing themselves toward the civilization we currently live in which is patently ludicrous. Hair is quantifiable. The past is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:42 AM
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Get a dildo. Meditation, mindfulness, expression. I’m my early days I’d have to work out or play drums to deal with my libido, later on I dealt with it by drawing or painting or writing. Nowadays I don’t ever feel sexually aroused and it’s liberating. Subject men to subtle subconscious disrespect and negatively color your relationships while also hurting yourself and others needlessly. Go to therapy and find out why you dislike an entire gender that you’re attracted to. (I don’t mean traditional…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:57 AM
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You aren’t stuck with anyone. You can choose to be celibate. It really isn’t that difficult. It would likely be less difficult than a relationship with a person you dislike due to immutable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:47 AM
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Oh, I see. Your opinion is correct and mine is wrong due to obvious reasons. Of course, how could I possibly doubt the veracity and sincerity of what you’re saying considering your obvious command of rhetoric and logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:40 AM
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Nah. I’ve opted out. My ex wife of 12 years finally decided she’s used me up and moved on. I’ve been meditating for years and have eliminated sex as a “need”. I’ve yet to find a woman I can have an interesting conversation that doesn’t turn into mind games so I don’t have a need for women in my life. Luckily I’m bisexual and dudes rock. Also I noted that we require a relationship that guarantees loyalty, trust, and fidelity. That doesn’t mean based on arbitrary requirements it means guarantees. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:35 AM
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That depends on how you define things. Assuming your version of progress is even progress at all requires you and I to presuppose we agree thousands of years of ideas, history, and human development. We likely don’t agree. I’m just pointing out the arrogance of assuming that your particular set of cognitive distortions is any better than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:53 AM
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Men don’t want relationships without a guarantee of loyalty, trust and fidelity. That means no-low amount of previous partners, and a marriage contract that doesn’t incentivize the wife to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:47 AM
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Shame Insult Guilt Need to be correct SIGN language is psychological abuse and is an awful debate tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:45 AM
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The lack of self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:44 AM
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“Put up with” That’s how we know you’re a woman. If you experienced the utter deprivation of community like many men do you wouldn’t possibly think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:43 AM
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The past being worse doesn’t make the present better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:41 AM
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Islamic terrorism isn’t a threat inside the United States which you compared to incels making incels not a threat inside the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:37 AM
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That persons cognitive deflectors are at max power.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:35 AM
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Would you like me to post screenshots of the death threats and rape threats I receive on this sub often? Yeah. Names and dates unobscured.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:34 AM
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Misandry is the gateway to the political left. Framing things in such black and white terms isn’t very useful as an argument since I can easily argue that black is white instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:32 AM
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SIGN language Shame Insult Guilt Need to be correct. That’s not debate, that’s psychically harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:30 AM
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Shame Insult Guilt Need to be correct SIGN language. Don’t do that. Speaking to others that way is not only insensitive but it’s also a terrible debate tactic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:28 AM
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Things being worse in the past doesn’t make the present any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:39 PM
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We were each other first. Dating at 16, married at 18, divorced at 30. We never wanted children. We agreed way early on due to horrible childhood experiences. Turns out she was lying. Got baby fever at 29 and tries to trap me. Literally locked her legs around me. I guess she forgot I’m a man and I removed her from myself. Then she starts the shaming, the guilt, the insults, the emasculation. She monkey branched once she found out I’m a human being with ethics and integrity and that I won’t be ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:15 AM
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Nah. Men have hobbies and personalities. I don’t need any of y’all. Every woman I’ve been with could not stand that I’m a musician, artist, and avid reader. They whined constantly about their lack of entertainment and how it was my fault they’re bored, vapid, emotionally volatile children. Whenever y’all start reading Kierkegaard and Doystoyevsky holla at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:12 AM
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Look it up. It’s your job to find information and analyze it for yourself. “80/20 ok Cupid survey” in any search bar should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:57 PM
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It’s the 80/20 figure you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:23 PM
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Man I guess I need the doctor. I’m 30 and I haven’t wanted sex in a decade. Once I figured out my ex wife was using it to manipulate me I shut the whole thing down. I don’t like that and I told her so to which she responded by trying to manipulate me with sex. Haven’t cared for it since. I jerk off once a year or so if I think about it but I usually forget the dude is even down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:04 PM
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My b! Shame Insult Guilt Need to be correct. Like when women make fun of virgin men they’re using shame. Or if your wife talks about just how lovely this thing is and, wow Jennifer has one sigh guess I don’t need it That’s guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:59 PM
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You’re conflating anecdotal evidence from YouTubers and a statistical analysis about tinder. They aren’t the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:59 PM
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That wasn’t advice. That was snarky shame Trojan horsed in advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:57 PM
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I think it’s the other side which is incapable. As far as I’ve seen blue pill peeps use SIGN language and emotional arguments that are basically tangents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:56 PM
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I’m not trolling. I will apologize for acting outta line but it isn’t trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:43 PM
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By feminist I mean feminist. You’re still being dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:01 PM
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I’m not going to argue with someone who’s lying. There no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:58 PM
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Women initiate divorce more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:57 PM
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Really? Because I’m from a town of 5,000 in east Texas and every woman I know is a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:56 PM
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SIGN language! Shame Insults If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a male you would know why that is. Guilt Need to be right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:55 PM
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SIGN language! Shame infinite stream of sob stories Insults Guilt Need to be right almost seems like marriage takes away some of the women’s desire. That last one is both guilt and need tk be right. Men love marriage and if a woman makes him feel bad about it he’ll feel guilty for doing what he thought was right and need to be right is also accountability aka taking ownership instead of blaming others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:53 PM
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Just making things up? Lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:50 PM
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Is that why there so many single mothers? Cuz they’re sure, for damn sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:43 PM
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We made a mistake favoring women in custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:42 PM
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How many women do you know that aren’t feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:41 PM
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Can you not answer a direct question asked to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:41 PM
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No one said it was controversial except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:38 PM
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No, they aren’t. Even wikipedia doesn’t lie this much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:37 PM
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That’s to distract them from their sexless marriages to a fat, bitter, and lazy woman. Pro tip: rephrasing your comment to a genuine question instead of a snarky one will get you nicer replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:49 AM
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The state of imagination these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:44 AM
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I’m a bisexual man. Came out in 2006 in 7th grade. I received the most vitriol from insecure women. To this day I’m upfront with my sexuality since I know how women are. Almost universally I am met with disgust, shame, insults, and guilt tripping. The majority of women absolutely do not like bisexual men. My sample size is 3 (2 other bisexual men and myself) and our theory is that they hate us because we don’t put up with women’s shit, we’re straight passing, we can wear suits and ties and sundr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:07 AM
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I’m a chauvinist, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:05 AM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:04 AM
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No wonder women don’t go into the sciences considering how much they hate noticing things around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:01 AM
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I’m a bisexual man. Came out in 2006 in 7th grade. I received the most vitriol from insecure women. To this day I’m upfront with my sexuality since I know how women are. Almost universally I am met with disgust, shame, insults, and guilt tripping. The majority of women absolutely do not like bisexual men. My sample size is 3 (2 other bisexual men and myself) and our theory is that they hate us because we don’t put up with women’s shit, we’re straight passing, we can wear suits and ties and sundr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:00 AM
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That right there is exactly what toxic masculinity is. That’s an extremely damaging thing to teach men.
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