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Perfect advice. Follow this, u/Ok_Pension_2064, not the people who tell you it's because Jesus is weeping because you masturbate or whatever they're preaching these days.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:17 AM
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Good idea man, best of luck
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:55 PM
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Suppressed caloric intake plus weak cardiovascular health is no good for an organ whose entire function is predicated on those two things.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:50 PM
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Lifting + cardio, cannot emphasize this enough Don't let the nofap cult brainwash you. If you're sitting on your ass all day at a desk your T levels probably aren't shit (compared to what they could be). Slaughter yourself in the gym, come back home, and see how you feel.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:37 PM
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Don't tolerate this shit for a second OP. On the other hand, while I understand why you said what you said, it won't do anything - if anything it's likely to inflame her attitude. Start drawing down and withdrawing as you said you already had done in the past. This is now a repeated failing on her part to uphold her end of the bargain. You deserve respect. If she gets "highly insecure" that's her own fucking problem, and she's fumbling the relationship. You're the prize.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:29 PM
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Who gives a shit homie, you're leaving the country in 4 months. None of this matters. Any play you get from this is a freebie.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:53 PM
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Prisons are merely an example of this in a confined setting that we can observe. You're asking about basic human psychology and aggression. The dynamic on the street is the same one in a prison, only magnified ten or a hundred-fold. Have you never heard someone talking shit and wanted to smack the teeth out of their mouth? Regardless of whether or not you act on it, if you've ever felt that feeling, then you already have your answer.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:53 PM
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Shit talking is a challenge, albeit a bitch made one compared to a physical challenge. In any event, especially in enclosed environments such as prisons, allowing others to clown you without retaliation can result in others viewing you as weak. Is it dumb? Of course, all of it is dumb. It's our primitive primate minds at work, but it's just how it is.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:35 PM
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In contrast to what some of the other commenters are saying, I want to add that men have always been violent. If anything young men are less violent today than in previous eras. People get away with a lot of shit talking these days that would've resulted in you getting your ass beat in the past.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:28 PM
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I choose to stand by it, but in the vein of being aware of "covert contract" theory, do not assume that you doing so for your friends will in any way incline them towards returning the favor. Oftentimes they do not.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:26 PM
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Understandable, I respect that you have your own way of doing things. That was addressed more at the OP; I don't want him to think that having a sit down with her is necessarily going to make her cut out the BS. It very well could be perceived as mate guarding and just disgust her. What I get from your POV here is that it's more about you asserting your own self-respect and dignity and you're not really giving a shit about how it impacts her decision making.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:24 PM
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What I see. And that she’s been giving me signs of disinterest. And from experience, another guy is involved. I feel as though this approach will only be a net negative in the end here. If the writing is on the wall and it's clear to all parties, what's there to talk about?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:02 PM
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It's over king. You could try implementing dread but when it's this far along it's unlikely to do anything. Not worth your time and effort when you could have someone new.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:55 PM
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Because if you want an LTR, those are the only ones available. There is no perfect LTR.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:52 PM
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I go back and forth on this. There's a lot of variables at play and it's simply impossible to lay down an across-the-board rule. But no, it's not all SMV, and except in the most extraordinary cases it's not hopeless. For example, in my younger, perhaps less ethical days, I had a months long affair with a man's fiancée who was taller than me (6'2" vs. 5'9"), in as good of shape as me or better, and made more money than I did. On top of that, I was balding. The difference between him and I was tha…
/r/seduction19/05/21 07:34 PM
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Fair point, it's not where I'm at yet but it's highly variable depending on where you're at. Either way hopefully this isn't an impediment for your game much longer.
/r/seduction19/05/21 07:21 PM
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Just the way shit goes my man. Better to be protected to live and slay another day. No piece of pussy is worth getting sick over. It'll all be over soon.
/r/seduction19/05/21 05:17 AM
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A lot of it is in your head, but I think everyone feels that way at some point or another, probably even the seasoned sometimes. We're raised not to do it, and told that it violates social norms, while at the very same time living in a society where it is endemic and the only reason the society continues (via procreation, which requires flirting necessarily). It's all very contradictory. Post below by u/mmisssunshine_ is pretty good.
/r/seduction19/05/21 01:20 AM
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Same way you make anyone else miss you. Don't overstay your welcome, be vague about certain things or leave conversations on an interesting note instead of letting them bleed dry.
/r/seduction18/05/21 09:23 PM
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