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| 0 | Women constantly assert that men have inflated self images, yet it is abundantly clear that most men are desperate and have zero standards. Women, on the other hand, consistently feel entitled to men way out of their league and think they are models when they are completely average looking.Yeah I know, my point is that judging people's physical attractiveness on who they pull or commit to is a faulty premise. Attraction is way more nuanced than that. With the "you are what you can get" logic, the ugly guy in that example wouldn't be overrating his own attractiveness if he claimed he is hot, since he pulls beautiful women. Others would think he's overrating himself regardless. There could be countless reasons why some conventionally attractive person isn't dating their "equal" or w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Women constantly assert that men have inflated self images, yet it is abundantly clear that most men are desperate and have zero standards. Women, on the other hand, consistently feel entitled to men way out of their league and think they are models when they are completely average looking.You would also be arbitrarily hotter if you were a gay man. If you could get into a machine and turn gay, you'd go from a "below average" guy who can't attract women, to a hot guy that a bunch of gay men want to fuck. It seems kind of pointless to compare attractiveness between genders when one gender is clearly way more horny than the other. Even a hot dude could have sex with a girl he considers a 5/10 in his head, he may even commit to her for other factors. It wouldn't necessarily make that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:58 PM |
| 5 | Do men really struggle with dating? Every guy I know has a girlfriend or wife.Someone having a girlfriend or a wife doesn't really tell you if they struggled to date or not. If most men were honest, they'd probably tell you that they struggled with dating to some degree. A Dark Souls game doesn't become retroactively easy just because you beat it. You still died 100 times. Unless you're defining struggle as "permanent virgin," then yeah, most men don't struggle I guess lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is *mostly* a choice?Not sure if this has been mentioned, but women are more likely to seek therapy and be on anti depressants. Men just kinda wallow in their misery. I know the anti depressants would imply that they aren't happy, but someone who was sad/lonely is going to feel happier on meds + going to therapy (usually). Just one aspect of it I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"I'm sure it has to do with social ineptitude sometimes. But I'm pretty socially inept and do fine for the most part. I think it's okay to admit that some of these short/ugly dudes are playing on super hard mode. I'd get zero action if I was a short indian guy living in America, as would most of the people posting here lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:30 PM |
| 4 | Did PPD really just remove all/most of the top comments on this post? Is PPD losing touch with the state of the dating market or just trying to keep from getting canceled?Half the time when something is removed for "incel content" on that sub, it's just a comment being realistic about attractive vs ugly people. The red pillers typically say way, way more sexist shit. It's weird that they think people posting "if you're ugly, it's over" will get their sub banned from reddit when there is a "women are gold digging whores" thread almost every day. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/07/23 09:14 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah basically. One girl I was dating wanted to know how many matches I got on tinder. I told her I got about 2 matches a day and she was shocked, she thought that was incredibly low for a tall blonde guy. I said "2 matches a day is actually pretty good for a straight man, a lot of men get 2 matches a week." She didn't believe me until I showed her my phone. I don't know, it's hard to convince someone with a completely different perception of dating what it's like for the other side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are.I think in general men lower their physical standards on dating apps by a bit. I'm probably a 5-6 in the face but will shoot out of my league irl all the time because of my height and body. It also takes a bit more effort to approach irl. On dating apps I tend to not care too much. But I've been told by men on this sub that I have no self respect for dating big girls, so maybe I just have "lower standards" in general lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 07:24 PM |
| – | The entire pill debate has been obscured and distracted by a bizarre fixation on unattractive men’s struggle. While this sucks, it actually makes logical sense unlike the main problem, which is average and above average men struggling to the degree they are.One of my female friends is painfully average and she was hooking up with hot men on tinder. I think the idea is if you're a "chad" then average girls are a very easy lay. They just send out sexual pickup lines and see who's receptive. It's how the tinder subreddit gets half its content. Although I wouldn't really know how to rate these guys in an objective way. One of them was at least an 8, but idk. People's rating systems are so fucked. There's a thread on that QVVEstudios subreddit where mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Truly how important is “masculinity” to women?Yeah, sadly I just don't really meet women like you. I'm more on the sensitive side and a bit neurotic (makes me kinda anxious/shy). I guess because I'm a giant with muscles it's just expected of me to act stoic all the time. I definitely had to learn to act super confident and carry myself in a certain way, it can be exhausting. With that said, for my first and only LTR I was able to be more vulnerable. It just didn't work out for other reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Truly how important is “masculinity” to women?It feels very important, at least to me. I'm 6'5 and fairly built, beard, big jaw, basically I present very masculine. I've dated a range from alt women who go to art school to conservative women. I learned early on that they all lost interest if I didn't keep the "stoic masculine" persona turned on at all times, especially the first couple months of dating. When I was younger, I wouldn't have even labeled these things as inherently "non-masculine". I thought it was just being a normal human. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 09:02 PM |
| – | CMV If you‘re a Man and the only thing that u value in a Women is sex you’re a weirdo.It sounds like a LARP tbh. Like he's trying to bait the "chad with his harem" comments or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've honestly never matched with a woman over 3 years older than me on Tinder. It does feel more likely to get the interest of someone 7 years younger than older. 2-3 years younger is the most likely in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 01:27 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill exists because entire generations of men are lied to about what women find attractive in men, and dismissing it as some angry hate group is simply a way to sweep all of these lies under the rugI could have sworn it was right-wing conspiracy shit on 4chan after the first Matrix came out. I have no clue when it started being about dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 09:42 PM |
| 1 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”It's just dumb in general to go off BMI in these discussions about attraction. Like yeah, most "obese" people (according to BMI) will look fat, but "overweight" could mean anything. It's incredibly easy for a man over 6ft+ to be 5-10 pounds overweight with a healthy body fat percentage. Women pack fat into their boobs, hips, and ass. It doesn't matter if BMI says she's "overweight" when most of the male population is lusting after her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 12:06 AM |
| 2 | The sentiment “if you have an issue with all women, the problem isn’t all women - it’s you”A lot of it is location too. If you're an average guy with really good pictures, you may do okay in New York City. If you live in some random suburb in Arizona? You might as well not bother unless you're conventionally attractive or shredded. The gender ratios are way too fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 01:44 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysYeah some people can have a visible 6 pack at like 15-17% body fat due to freak genetics. I need to be like 12% body fat or dehydrated to have visible abs. It's not really worth maintaining as a natty. But I know exactly what you mean by the last thing you said. I've had to explain to a lot of women who wanted to get into lifting that you can't "accidentally" get bulky/buff. A lot of those jacked women you see on TikTok are on anavar, or they've been bulking/cutting for 5+ years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism?Just modern feminism? Women are not afraid to show that they're horny sexual brings. Making childless relationships more acceptable (this is based). I'm not really sure I can accurately attribute these aspects to 2nd or 3rd wave feminism tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:28 PM |
| 7 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysThank you. Holy shit. So many bad body composition takes in this thread. I've read "having a visible 6 pack is super easy" like 3 times in this thread already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?Yeah I'm not sure, I've heard of it. But no older women have ever really shown interest in me, hookup or date. Oldest was maybe 5 years older than me. Typically the women who just want to hookup with me on Tinder are younger too, like 20-24. I think there is a minority of women going after younger men for sex, but I'd imagine most women prefer hooking up with men around their age or older. They might be socially conditioned to view having sex with younger men as creepy, even if you're talking ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | You never think that maybe it's better to just work out constantly rather that find partner?You should be addicted to the pump by now anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Men don't like "blank"Did someone just say Abby "the milk truck has arrived" Shapiro? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're mostly just losing water weight from the lack of carbs. It can help with managing appetite since carbs tend to make you feel hungry faster, but it's a really hard diet to maintain. I personally need a certain amount of carbs when I cut, or I can't do my lifting routine. No energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBonk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:01 AM |
| 6 | We as men should be thankful that the goddesses known as women participate in this sub with us.A good chunk of reddit is bored married women. It's why AITA is filled with rage bait to piss off this demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's interesting because I'm also told I look about 5-6 years younger clean shaven, yet most women I date (20-35) prefer the full beard. They want me to look older/more "mature". I have a pretty pronounced jawline, so it's not like I'm hiding a receding chin or something. A full, thick beard is quite powerful in dating tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 10:24 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women age like milk while Men age like wine is a fallacyYeah you have to have pretty low test to lose libido or muscles. Most men go from 600 to maybe 450 when they get older, it's not a huge difference or anything. Even if it is really low, you can just go on TRT and get that youthful feeling back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many women so casually accepting of the fact they’re attracted to toxic men?That's it. I'm getting a right sleeve tattoo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 08:51 AM |
| 11 | Do men like plus size women?A man of culture. 🧐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:05 AM |
| 6 | Do men like plus size women?Yes, all the women in those photos are attractive to me. Cute face + big hips/booty got me acting up regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:03 AM |
| 1 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI can kinda confirm this. I'm a left leaning man who feels like he has to be a stoic masculine statue for the first 6 months of dating. It's fucking exhausting. Can I just send you some neurotic texts about how much I hate my job without you getting the ick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:08 AM |
| – | Are attractive woman generally extroverted?I meant "introvert" as in really shy, like people who avoid most social situations or are afraid to speak up when they are in those situations. People who are really shy tend to have lower self-esteem. If we're talking about people who prefer to stay home during the weekends or if someone is just a more introspective person, then yeah, confidence isn't really related there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 05:49 AM |
| 27 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI think she's talking about traditional gender roles for men while dating: guy paying for the dates, wine and dine, supports her, the effort/romance flows mostly one way. She's implying that conservative men are more likely to give women the princess treatment while liberal men want to go 50/50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 05:28 AM |
| -1 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI can kinda confirm this. I'm a left leaning man who feels like he has to be a stoic masculine statue for the first 6 months of dating. It's fucking exhausting. Can I just send you some neurotic texts about how much I hate my job without you getting the ick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 05:12 AM |
| – | Are attractive woman generally extroverted?I think people who have been attractive their whole lives tend to be extroverted regardless of gender. In my experience, when an attractive person is an introvert or really shy, they had a glow up after high-school. They haven't built up that confidence yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Older women who complain about age gap relationships are just jealousNot to say there isn't predatory age gap relationships, but it does feel like how "creepy" it is to people inrl depends on how attractive/young looking the older person is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 09:02 PM |
| 5 | Older women who complain about age gap relationships are just jealousI think there are a lot of older women who are genuinely concerned when an 18 year old is dating a 35+ year old. Most likely due to past experiences. There are also a lot of younger women who find it creepy when a much older man hits on them. There may be some jealous older women complaining about a 30 year old dating a 24 year old, but I find that to be more of a chronically online thing, specifically from reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was trying to find a video of his abs because it's typically a dead giveaway. But he's a professional bodybuilder who's currently in the off-season (so he's bulky). When he's cut, it's a bit more obvious that he's on gear. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT818GDtp/ The veins in his arms and boulder shoulders give it away. He's still a genetic freak though with those legs/calves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI looked at his other videos and he's most likely on gear. Probably a high amount of testosterone and some anabolics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:05 AM |
| 7 | Since when did requiring physical attraction for a romantic relationship make you superficial?There's also a pretty big problem with young men abusing SARMs and gear because they want to have the muscular look as soon as possible. We have no idea how this PED abuse is going to affect these teenagers long-term, especially since a lot of them are still going through puberty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you screen out cheaters and abusers when you are planning or going on dates?I think picking out an abuser/cheater is impossible unless they have tribal tattoos. You should be able to spot a pumper and dumper a mile away though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 11:32 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageI think this depends on the age ranges you're talking about. It's very awkward to date as an 18 year old man for a example, since you can't go lower, but most women your age are going for men 2-3 years older. At 23+ is probably the sweet spot. On average, it does get harder for men to date after 30 simply because the dating pool gets smaller. At least in terms of raw numbers or hookups. You could make the argument that dating is easier at 30 for men if you're just looking for a stable LTR, since… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps would be healthier if they show how many matches a profile has.Yean it's somewhere around 7:3 or 8:2, I think. About 20-30% matches are also bots or advertisements. If you're a normal guy, I wouldn't really bother unless you have immaculate pictures. I can make do with 1 or 2 matches a day, but any less than that feels pointless because of the response rate. I think dating apps are fine if you just use them as a supplement and don't attach your self-esteem to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 09:51 PM |
| 6 | Dating apps would be healthier if they show how many matches a profile has.If you buy "premium" on Tinder, you'll be shown first to people, which is huge because women don't swipe a lot. I tried it for a month out of curiosity and went from 2 matches a day to like 5-6. I'm not sure how much it helps someone who is only getting 1 match a month, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Women have stricter body standards than men do in datingIs that weird? I always preferred brunettes. I find blondes attractive too, but darker hair is more aesthetic to me. But yeah, women have rejected me for being blonde. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allYou should be required to show a pic of yourself if you make so many threads like this. Also, the woman in pic 2 can get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allYeah basically. I get "dad bod" comments when I'm at the height of my bulk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 08:29 PM |
| 2 | When women have bad relationships they are told to “pick better” but when men are, we assign blame to womenYeah, he'd have to sign something early on saying he did not want a child or to take care of it. Being able to abort financially whenever would be too abusable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Men are more superficial about weight than womenI have no idea who they're trying to go after tbh. Since fat women can easily date skinny men, fat men may still have issues in that regard. But I see fat men with fat women all the time, so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Men are more superficial about weight than womenIt could also be that I find some big girls attractive so I date them. Like your mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:16 PM |
| 2 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.I dated a woman who was 4'11, I'm 6'5. I had to pop a squat or pick her up to kiss her lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 10:26 AM |
| 9 | Men are more superficial about weight than womenDifferent lived experiences I guess. Every single fat woman I've ever known has no issues dating or finding a boyfriend. It's as mythical as the "average guy can't find a girlfriend" thing people post on here all the time. I'm also a gym bro who doesn't mind dating big girls. "Literally unheard of" is an insane thing to say, I see fit men with fat women all the time lol. An "overweight" woman could just be someone who has a good amount of fat in their hips, boobs, and ass, so I have no idea what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Don't experience matter at all in a relationship?I meant inrl. I haven't seen any women personally get called a loser in this subreddit, but I'll take your word for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 07:50 AM |
| 39 | Men are more superficial about weight than womenMen are more blunt/mean to fat women online than vice versa. Men are also more likely to state their preferences in the most deranged way possible. So men are more vocally superficial than women in regards to weight, sure, but not necessarily for dating or relationships. For every guy online who shits on a fat girl and calls them unattractive, there's a fit gym bro with a 6 pack who would be ecstatic to date them. Women do find their fat/chubby boyfriend attractive, but this is typically after t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 06:11 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm pretty sure some of the older married men who post here have their wives shoulder surfing them, or they at least know their reddit username. But yes, I've noticed that too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 02:18 AM |
| – | Should abortion require the permission of the father?No, the right to body autonomy (in that context) only applies to the person carrying the fetus. I do think men should be able to "financially abort" if they made it clear they do not want a baby before pregnancy, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 01:11 AM |
| 1 | What are the exact qualities that passport bros believe southeastern Asian (and elsewhere) women have that western women don't?I'm just speaking from my friend's and I experiences when on vacation. But I'm also a tall white guy, so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Don't experience matter at all in a relationship?What? You brought up the topic of people being losers as to why men stay virgins until 30+. I just added onto that. If you don't care, then don't respond lmao. I have never had such a hostile exchange with someone where we both agreed with each other. Sometimes I forget that a lot of the men on this sub are on the spectrum, sorry for bothering you bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:41 AM |
| 2 | What are the exact qualities that passport bros believe southeastern Asian (and elsewhere) women have that western women don't?Western men are more "exotic" in Asian and South American countries than they are in Western countries (obviously). It's not purely about money. You don't really need to move to the Philippines in an attempt to find a wife. You can just go on vacation to any Asian or South American country and be 10x more popular on Tinder. It's the same when "exotic" men are visiting America, they're getting no strings attached casual sex because they're different/unique (I hear southeast Asian men are an excep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:24 AM |
| – | Don't experience matter at all in a relationship?It's a debate sub homie, people may engage with you in things you don't care about. Other than being overly hostile, no one here knows anything about you or what you're willing to talk about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 11:17 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe very rare male/woman combo in a sentence, nice. But yes, you're correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Don't experience matter at all in a relationship?I agree with you that they can be losers. I was more talking about society's general perception of what loser is. I'd bet most people aren't going to picture a woman when they hear the term "loser". But that's just an observation, I could be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Don't experience matter at all in a relationship?If I'm being honest, I've never heard a woman get called a "loser" in my entire life. Maybe there's another word that's the equivalent that gets thrown at them, idk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Don't experience matter at all in a relationship?Especially as a man. Just be fat and have a bad job. Maybe throw gaming in there too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've seen a couple on TikTok, but they could just be playing a character for views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 03:48 AM |
| 4 | Female women, what was the stupidest reason that made a guy break up/reject you?As a male woman, I was so close to being able to answer this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene?I'd ask her if he's really hot. If she said no, I'd ask her why she would put up with a potentially deranged misogynist if he's mid. If she says yes, I wouldn't bother lecturing her about it because no matter what I say, she's going to date the guy anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.No, you date someone under 25 and just dice roll who the manipulator will be (most likely the person who doesn't text back quickly). Whoever hits 25 first then has to dump the other since they reached enlightenment. Their brain is at its biggest, so now it's time to go find someone who reads books and drinks fine wine. Sorry I don't make the rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceThat's more of a common fear for men. My biggest fear would be getting drugged and having my kidneys taken or being stabbed to death by a hookup. I could probably list hundreds of fears that are much worse than being humiliated or rejected, but the latter is just more likely to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceYou're probably more neurotic than autistic. Men who are neurotic tend to come across as awkward and unconfident. The moment they're tipsy, on xanax, molly, coke, whatever, they're all of a sudden charming and confident. I'm the exact same way lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceMight want to edit the 't in there lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadChicken, protein shakes, yogurt, peanut butter is specifically good for bulking if you have a problem overeating. 230g of protein when you're cutting is the hardest part, you're mostly eating chicken breasts every day. But with bulking, you're trying to build muscle mass, which is typically capped at .5-1 pounds a week if you're not on gear. You'll also build up some fat while doing this. So if you keep bulking, you'll eventually become obese, which is why people will then cut. Bulk = build musc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceI got rejected for having an android phone instead of an iPhone once. Another time because I was a libra. Apparently libras are too worried about their career. Not sure if those are the kind of examples you wanted, but I just thought they were funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 08:43 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen I bulk I eat about 3200-3500 calories for .5 or 1 pound a week. I try to average 200-230g of protein a day, the rest carbs. When I cut I eat about 1800-2200 calories depending how aggressive I'm being with fat burning, same amount of protein, about 220g. When I bulk I can basically eat anything, cutting is mostly chicken breasts. The less processed sugars the better, but I dont always eat clean. The first year of weightlifting is mostly trying to figure out what works for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 08:24 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo my chest and back looked decent after my first year with noobie gains. Arms took about 2.5 years to look filled out, so about 3 bulks. My 5'7 friend in comparison looked big after the first year. A lot of it depends on your foundation + how young you are too. Some tall guys can look massive in the first year because of high natural test or they played a sport. Just make sure your diet is dialed in. It's really easy for tall guys to waste their time training. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm 6'5 too, I'm just joking. It took me a while to fill out my arms personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust 5+ more years natty, and you'll sorta look like you go the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?I read through this entire thread, and I have to say, some of the women who post here give the Red Pillers a run for their money in the sexism department. Sheesh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 08:23 AM |
| – | Self Improvement, what's the point?I don't get it, why would those things only help with women over 30? I'd argue that looking as hot as possible would benefit the most to the 20-29 crowd. I do self-improvement to attract women, yes. It just doesn't do much for my overall mental health personally. I find the maintenance aspect of it to be very tedious. Although I'm addicted to weightlifting so I genuinely enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:46 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey can refuse fights whenever, but if they take too long to face a ranked fighter, then the belt is stripped. Tyson Fury may have one of his bets stripped soon because of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:17 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou can't say the c-word around here, apparently. Or maybe you can in the daily chat threads, not sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionI tried and it ended up matching, but it was still ugly. Skill issue I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:23 AM |
| 21 | Everyone should respect other people’s lived experiencesIt's not just women's lived experiences being rejected by young, bitter men. A lot of the varying "lived experiences" from this sub are people from completely different environments and age ranges. I think a good chunk of this sub is gen x, for example. Both men and women are going to have different experiences in that context. They dated before social media and dating apps. Let's take height for example. A 45 year-old 5'5 man's lived experience with dating is going to be completely different th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA cute 5 of 10 brunette that snorts when she laughs >>>>> And that's on god. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 10:26 PM |
| 11 | Being a woman was not easierYeah, I think people really underestimate what positive attention does for someone when they are going through puberty/childhood. It builds up your self-esteem and confidence. Of course if you get a lot of positive attention, you'll get a lot of negative attention too. I wish when growing up I got more attention that wasn't being bullied or getting into fist fights, that's for sure lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 09:45 PM |
| 14 | CMV: Men here don't understand that the age gap discourse is not mainly about the age gap itself, it is about men fetishizing women fresh out of high schoolThat instance was actually much worse, if you're talking about Aaron Taylor Johnson. His wife probably met/groomed him before he was 18. I'm also pretty sure people didn't care at the time it happened. Most people still don't even know about it. People definitely care much less when it's an older woman/younger man, by a wide margin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 12:04 PM |
| -2 | Patriarchy 2.0 Is ComingHoney, patriarchy 2.0 just dropped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 12:51 AM |
| – | How true is the statement "life begins at 15% bodyfat"?Eh sort of. If you're a super social fat guy, you can charm a woman in your social circle, or maybe you're somehow the "hottest guy at work". But when it comes to things like cold approaches or dating apps, yeah, life begins at muscles + lowish body fat. Women will be more forgiving to your social awkwardness due to the halo effect. You'll be treated better in general. If you're a complete social shut-in who never leaves his house, then no, it won't help much other than being more healthy. Me pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat poster is notorious around here for being bad faith. I wouldn't bother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 10:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue. Fat men are basically invisible unless they get lucky or got fat during the relationship. Despite how mean men are on the internet towards fat women, there is always some fit gym bro out there who would be happy to date a fat girl (it's me). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Who's more aesthetic: men or women?At absolute peak? Men. A shredded man with muscles has a certain presence about them that goes beyond sexual attraction. On average, women. But mostly due to makeup and more clothing options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't men hypergamous?I'm hypergamous in the sense that I like it when they're hotter than me and got a much better ass. Also smarter or higher income is fine too, don't care. It would be near impossible to find a woman who is taller and stronger than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 10:05 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Many acts that would get a man labled as "Toxic" are tolerated when women do it.How dare you she's the ultimate vampire mommy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 09:25 AM |
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