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She won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:26 AM
2

Accept it. I personally don’t get too emotionally attached. Just enjoy them whilst they’re around. Cheat when you eat a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:26 AM
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It’s very real
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:24 AM
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She’s early 20s and I’m early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:24 AM
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Point stands. She would leave you for better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:23 AM
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Women love high status and handsome men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:23 AM
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She hasn’t been abused. Just cheated on . Abused women are damaged women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:15 AM
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was speaking to a woman today. She was talking about how you should romance your woman and buy her flowers etc. It doesn’t have to be expensive but just show your woman how much you appreciate her now and again. She also spoke about how cheating is disgusting and she detests it. I then asked who her celebrity crush is (Chris Brown). She then admitted that she would leave whomever she was with at the time to be with CB. She couldn’t see how this was akin to cheating. I eventually convinced her th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:20 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:49 AM
3

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:49 AM
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Tips for cheating? There are two women. I love alone. They visit when I invite them over. Both think I’m loyal to them. Any tips not to get caught?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:12 AM
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How so? I’m treating her better than any of her previous exes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:37 PM
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Dating a woman that is so far below you but still attractive to you is fun. She views you as her ultimate alpha and you stay in your masculine frame because you aren’t too worried about losing her (to a certain degree). In my case she’s got an okayish (below average to some people) face and features but an other worldly body (better than most Instagram models). Plus she’s unemployed/minimum wage so when she hears about the projects I’m working on or the work I do it’s like I’m a god of some sort…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:47 PM
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I’m not even red pilled. Having a social group helps if you are desired by some of the women or if you are someone very competent within the hierarchy. I know this because I actually am in social groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:53 PM
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Lol. If you’re friendzoned you’re not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:11 PM
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When they find out you’re just the friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:58 PM
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I have minimum wage women telling me that they’re dating managers and CEOs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:57 PM
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You have to be richer, taller, more socially connected etc than her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:55 PM
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Not when they can tell those women wouldn’t fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:54 PM
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Nah. The metrics are there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:32 AM
-1

Lol. It shows that you’re a cool potential friend not sexual or romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:31 AM
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It won’t work. Other women can tell when you’re in the friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:14 AM
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You’re out of luck bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:14 AM
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Not if other people can tell that those women are just your friends and they will make it very obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:13 AM
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Cheating is only fair as the only women who are truly into you are always significantly beneath you across all aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:14 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:09 AM
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Well I had to let go of those to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:03 AM
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with women it’s not about how much you love them. It’s about how much they love you. Ever since I learnt this simple principle my dating life has improved. I don’t chase after or try to convince disinterested women and I cheat on my girlfriends with little guilt. Lie if you have to. Just focus on ensuring she remains happy and you’ll be happy in turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:39 AM
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Well you could use the opportunity to run through multiple numbers of these women. You don’t have to actually commit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:39 PM
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I don’t have time for that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:16 PM
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I can risk cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:13 PM
1

So you’d be ok with your relationship ending for a dumb reason tomorrow?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:12 PM
4

Hence why I cheat now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:59 PM
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It’s hard for a man to get into a relationship. Once he does the woman can most definitely replace him at a moment’s notice. Is there any point to dating seriously or investing emotionally as a man into relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:44 PM
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I don’t trust women anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:32 PM
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Also I struggle to invest fully into something that I know might end at any moment. I can enjoy it but I won’t be as invested especially in the person’s long term wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:30 PM
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Monogamous relationships are already disadvantageous to men because we usually have to date down in terms of competencies etc. On top of that it prevents us from sleeping around with other attractive women. If I’m going to sacrifice a nice bachelor lifestyle and freedom then it better be well worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:29 PM
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Sure yeah. They’re just next to nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:28 PM
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That’s most women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:44 PM
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After being cheated on multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:08 AM
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So are men who don’t cheat but here you are
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:47 AM
1

You can but have you ever seen a woman come back?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:48 AM
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Most women like toxic me. Therefore by your reasoning are toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:40 AM
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Men come back
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:39 AM
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Well no women have told me about that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:39 AM
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The women themselves tell me that their exes were good men and I didn’t say all good men get broken up with. Just that these are the reasons when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:38 AM
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Definitely. “You didn’t love me the way I needed to be loved just the way you wanted to”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:37 AM
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Most women are toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:11 PM
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It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:10 PM
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She claimed that I didn’t say that I loved her and she warned me twice. I explained that I’m not from a background that cultivated that but I will try. She wasn’t happy and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:09 PM
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I was warned twice and in a passive aggressive way about something that I explained why it was so and was working on fixing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:08 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:07 PM
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True. I don’t trust women at all. They’re just tools to be used as I see fit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:07 PM
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What if she isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:06 PM
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but once it’s gone it’s gone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:06 PM
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Ever noticed how decent or good men (this is how the women described them) get dumped for reasons like “I lost feelings”, “I outgrew him”, “ we were 2 different people” etc but toxic men take women to hell and back multiple times before getting dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:01 PM
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Once a woman has fallen out of love or lost feelings it can never be recovered (assuming the guy treated her well for the most part). Why do you think this is? For those who disagree have you ever experienced a counter example?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:37 PM
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How is he an asshole for avoiding damaged goods
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:41 AM
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Either way these women or people aren’t owed a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:38 AM
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Lol. You’re not owed a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:37 AM
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Exactly why the dating pool is so messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:36 AM
1

Lol this reply was funny ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:35 AM
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Just had porn level sex after a dry spell. I would say to men that they should focus on their purpose and mission in life or at least some hobby. It was awesome and everything but now I’m craving something deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:34 PM
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