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| 11 | Do options cause instability within relationships? | Discussion | big_lenad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:48 AM |
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| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?I was told. The women in particular still came back for more so it’s whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:29 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?It’s not insecurity. I’m simply cheating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:27 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?Ageism check | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:25 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?That’s what could happen.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:05 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?Oh ok thanks for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:03 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?If that makes you feel better. Everyone knows women DON’T cheat at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:03 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?I didn’t say you shouldn’t. It was a simple question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:02 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?No insecurity here. I don’t participate in monogamous relationships so I’m not burdened by loyalty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:58 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?Problem is if he’s a good option but all the better options start popping up. He will start to appear as a shitty human being | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:57 PM |
| 0 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?Lol ok? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:56 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?It has nothing to do with my car. I’ve fucked the wives and girlfriends of guys who were taller, had more money and bigger dicks than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:56 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?Who is he/she? Are they important? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?Just a particular looking man who acts a certain way that makes her feel good. Once the good feeling stops then she’s gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:52 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?If only I could show you my life. You’d be shocked. A lot of women cheat like mad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:51 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?Whether you like it or not it’s happening. A lot of women are not loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Do options cause instability within relationships?The person you’re debating with can’t be this stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:50 PM |
| 1 | What are signs that a person is using you as second choice or is settling for you?and yet here I am. 4 days since I last fucked. Another woman who wants to fuck but is currently not feeling well and one who I’m still working on who will eventually what to fuck. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:49 PM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?Lol. I am the guy with the car who fuck other men’s women. No need to worry here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:01 AM |
| – | Do options cause instability within relationships?but they pick the best option and see the vast majority of men as low value. Now imagine a lot of good options started popping up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:00 AM |
| 2 | What are signs that a person is using you as second choice or is settling for you?Does it matter? As long as I get to fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:59 AM |
| -6 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?I don’t seek out women’s love anymore. I used to and got hurt in return. I just want sex and some company now and no I will not pay for it because I don’t have to. Besides. I’m giving women exactly what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:59 AM |
| -4 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?I detach on purpose. With women it’s inbuilt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:23 AM |
| 1 | What are signs that a person is using you as second choice or is settling for you?Lol. What’s wrong? It’s not like I’m the first choice anyways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:23 AM |
| -7 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?See what I mean. Thoroughly incapable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | What are signs that a person is using you as second choice or is settling for you?Nope. They ideally want that but will never penalize you for sleeping around especially if you can demonstrate that you’re still loyal in making ltr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | What are signs that a person is using you as second choice or is settling for you?By first choice they mean that she is actively attracted to you and puts in effort. My current FWB broke up with her fiancé and says that he was not her type. He may have been her first choice but he was not her physical ideal whereas the next guy was. So it’s not as case of being absolutely no.1 but rather your SO not feeling like they are compromising a lot by being with you especially when it comes to physical desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:56 AM |
| 2 | What are signs that a person is using you as second choice or is settling for you?They are but they find a way to justify it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | What are signs that a person is using you as second choice or is settling for you?Nope. This is why I cheat and don’t take relationships too seriously. It’s all a game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:50 AM |
| -11 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?This is why I cheat. Women are incapable of true attachment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:38 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re the opposite of blackpill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 02:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t get it. Guys are having more sex than women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 02:10 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThen they won’t get laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 01:57 PM |
| – | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingWho’s gaslighting them? It’s always been the case that dating is ruthless and hardcore. Not all of you were meant to reproduce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:08 PM |
| – | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingSo relationships naturally won’t last anymore. We breakup for funsies now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you consider yourself the average guy then you’ve got some serious work to do. Why would anyone have a visceral desire for average? It’s bland and uninspired. At least try and set yourself apart in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t get it. I only have one account | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you really from Nigeria? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:24 AM |
| – | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingSo what do you want them to do!? Let people breakup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFake account? Like I’m a bot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 05:17 AM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadStop chasing after Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:56 AM |
| – | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingDating was never meant to be milk and honey. It’s survival of the fittest. Get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt is. Sometimes the sex is worth it though lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI know :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSarcasm much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:51 AM |
| – | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingSo forcing them to stay in miserable and subpar relationships is better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSomeone will marry them. Men are desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey still get married to one another so it can’t be all bad. I think they become very causal about sex. Like it’s no big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 11:02 PM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHonestly dating 4 women at the same time is exhausting. You have sex with one then make out with another then bring another flowers/chocolate then bring another medication then go out for drinks with another. All this within a 2-3 day period. I would count 6 but one just broke up with me and the other is probably on the verge of doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 11:00 PM |
| 0 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingBoo hoo. That’s a good thing. It shows that people are doing what’s best for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointI’m kind of distracted at the moment but trust me it makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust to get sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointWhatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointThey get into a relationship just to cheat. It’s comical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 04:56 PM |
| 0 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointI assume that they are all hoes so I just assume she’s cheating anyways and work my way up from there. I know women would and can do it better. That’s why we as men have to lie and cheat. Most women will only have sex in the context of a committed relationship hence the lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointThat’s why we lie and don’t get caught | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:06 PM |
| 0 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointWomen want relationships so we have to lie to tthem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI wanted to find creative ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:03 PM |
| -3 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointIt’s not the same. Men have to cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointMen deserve to cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:51 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:51 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t like her that much so not really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey’ve admitted it themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey tend to love their toxic exes more than their nice exes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t know. I’ve kinda just accepted it now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLike she wants revenge on whom? Or it’s a guy larping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you read between the line then women are telling you about how wet their toxic exes made them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFollowing me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI liked her? I literally haven’t texted her for days and have been seeing other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI doubt she would want Fwb. Hence why I just accepted being her bf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve heard express how they really loved an ex. It’s still neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRedpill is not this dark triad. These women lie about being raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHey you’re the guy harassing me. Anyways new topic. You really think so? Someone else said the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s what all women say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs this true? u/ConfusedJellyfish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Dating seems more punishing than ever for guys in particular, and yet you constantly meet very 'average' guys in relationshipsYour best chance at winning with a woman is if she knows you through a social group, gathering or society especially if you’re not Chad but even Chad will get rejected if she doesn’t know who he is. He just has way more to work with. So men primarily using cold approaching will always be at a disadvantage to men the women actually know (not always). The advantage of cold approach however is that you can be more aggressive from the start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy are you harassing me? Are you a bluepiller? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNope. It’s just how the ones that do seem to talk about them vs. their nice bf’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo I’ve been dating this girl for the last 2/3 weeks. We’ve only met up twice before and she complained that I don’t give her attention. She doesn’t know that I’m not taking it seriously and am dating other women. She’s texted me earlier after days of silence saying“I guess we’re done?” and I replied by greeting and asking how she is. She greeted back and asked how I am. I didn’t reply. She’s now sent a message saying “I met someone”. What’s the best way to reply? I’m thinking of saying “ok” or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Dating seems more punishing than ever for guys in particular, and yet you constantly meet very 'average' guys in relationshipsThat also helps but men underestimate the power of context | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRemember men. These are the women available to you: https://www.reddit.com/r/Diabla/comments/11dgfy3/how_to_inspire_a_man_to_get_a_better_job/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s a good indicator but it might just be you’re a beta in the emotional sense. Check how she treats you. How much shit she puts up with. Take her to hell and back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou can be either. Both are good for having resources. Chad for his genetics and Billy for his resources and him being available to help look after the children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf she’s desperate to settle and can’t get Chad then Beta Billy is the next best thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnfortunately not. Her biological clock is ticking. Women who view you as Chad will let you string her along for as long as possible whilst not having children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOpposite of love is indifference not hate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:11 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo. I’m saying that a lot of women don’t consciously know that the reason they want Chad is for his genetics so even child free women still want Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Dating seems more punishing than ever for guys in particular, and yet you constantly meet very 'average' guys in relationshipsIt depends who you’re approaching, where you’re approaching and how you’re approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s not even that. They tend to talk about how much they loved him. With the healthier relationships it’s just we grew apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe whole point of a beta is children so she wouldn’t benefit from telling him that she doesn’t want any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol. The desire for top notch children is instinctual. They still want Chad. In fact thanks to them not having to worry about biological clocks they’re more likely to hold out for Chad. Look at FDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:10 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOnce again. You’re telling on yourself. Just admit that you’re bad in bed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:08 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re telling on yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:07 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlol. Time to go in and gaslight the fuck out of her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs it just me but you ever noticed how women talk about their toxic exes vs. the exes that made an effort to treat them well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:04 AM |
| 1 | How is it physically possible that there are twice as many single men as women?Lmao! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 03:29 PM |
| 8 | Do men even enjoy dating women?but I thought the reason so many men couldn’t get women was because they were listening to redpill talking points and becoming more misogynistic. Now you’re telling me that women can’t read their minds!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 06:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPlease make a post about this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPump and dump | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:40 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs it really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt is to some | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 09:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread“If you keep those redpill beliefs you will never find a healthy and happy relationship”- PPD women As if we were finding love before all these manosphere beliefs and as if we would find true love afterwards as a naive beta bux. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re an exception on the first point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLoool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 07:55 PM |
| 8 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI spoken open and honestly to lots of women with the hopes of learning about relationships, sexual dynamics etc. My conclusion (currently as of this moment and it’s open to changing and evolving) is that you should enjoy women for what they are. Enjoy their company. Love/like them for who they are and not what you hope for them to be. They will leave you when the good feelings pause. They will let you down. They will disappoint you. They may/may not cheat on you emotionally/physically. They want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 07:22 PM |
| – | How has your relationship with your mother impacted your view of women now?Response was alpha as fuck. Not gay but I got the tingles slightly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 12:29 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m not settling until I find a woman who ticks all my boxes. If I’m going to be bound to one woman for the rest of my life and stick with her through thick and thin then it better be worth it. Until then I’m playing the field and having fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot revenge anymore. Just putting myself first and being selfish. Definitely not a fantasy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 09:25 AM |
| 2 | CMV: trying to convert BPers or hardcore RPers is a wasted effort and it benefits normal men that they’ve effectively removed themselves from the dating poolI do believe that blackpillers exaggerate things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNone of ya’ll are exactly good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 06:18 AM |
| 2 | CMV: trying to convert BPers or hardcore RPers is a wasted effort and it benefits normal men that they’ve effectively removed themselves from the dating poolHow was blackpill disproven or what’s your perspective now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen are usually lonely. A lot of the men on this sub complain that they get no female attention. At least I get sex. Plus I’ve got other things going on in my life and a social life (if I really wanted to). In fact last night I had dinner with some friends. I grabbed a drink afterwards with a woman I’ve just met. I’ve also been invited to an after party for tonight, 2 different parties for Saturday, a dinner for Sunday and two of the women want to come over because they haven’t had sex in a whil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe goal is to lead them on for as long as possible. I think I’ve got about 6 months or 1/2 years depending on the woman. I think we’d both be bored of each other or her taking me for granted after that timeframe anyways. Plus if there’s something I don’t like about her I know that I’m going to replace her down the line. Basically I get to enjoy relationships with different women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt depends who asks. I would have to lie to the 2 woman whom I like the most or at the very least twist the truth. It doesn’t help that one of them let me know very directly that she owns a firearm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLike I said. I ideally want 1,2 or 3 women. It’s easier to manage. I meet a woman. We make conversation. She appreciates me because I do things differently from the men she’s used to. We click and she likes having me around. Repeat this process. She thinks she’s found her Prince Charming or at the very least a cool guy. In the olden days I would’ve stayed faithful to one woman but after some disappointments I’ve come to the conclusion that if women are going to put themselves first then I will p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt depends which one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost of the women I find are loyal. As for the cheaters I don’t care because they’re usually cheating on their bf’s with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPeople here always say to be honest and upfront with women if you’re sleeping with others. I can’t afford that. My experience is that social proof only works as far as she knows you’ve been wanted by other women before. I’m dating ~7 women right now. I want to cut it down to 2/3 due to time constraints but even then these women are falling for me and no woman in love wants to share even if you don’t have the titles of boyfriend and girlfriend. It’s a shame. They might accept it (or pretend to) b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho’s bored of the relationship? Probably my first gf. I’ve been on a tear ever since | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYet here I am. Cheating on both loyal women and hoes alike | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho takes them? Decent men. So you’re obviously not a decent man if you don’t have a decent woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 10:15 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you can’t attract a decent, honest and loyal woman it’s not because a lot or most women are cheating, lying, playing games or chasing Chad. It’s because you yourself are a bad person. If you weren’t then you would’ve found love by now. But you haven’t. So you must be a bad person. It’s not because of your looks, income or status. It’s because you’re a bad person. u/eb0livia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVery funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho says? If he sucks with women he sucks with women. The best he can hope for is to be used for his wallet by some manipulative cock coresel retiree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnfortunately a lot of women require that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s a 50/50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 04:57 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadStaceywidowed by family. Life is based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe probably means on the receiving end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Using bullshit "science" and self deluded garbage to justify being cruel to women - how can "red pill/manosphere" stuff ever be considered legitimate if they tolerate this community?That bitch back-pedalled!? Never trust women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOn a side I’ve finally met the famous LillthOfBabylon. Our future battles will be legendary! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo what do you say if you’re struggling to get women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere’s a vocal minority of racist and misogynistic incels. A lot of them are just short unattractive ethnics in majority white countries or genuinely ugly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat last sentence made me laugh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 08:08 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you think this is the case for rape? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 10:48 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy doesn’t she just find an actual man. For fucks sakes these women are messed up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:54 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol. Then you pump and dump her. My man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:53 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLink | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:52 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNope. They’re dishonest with their platonic and make friends whom they have zero sexual interest in. Once you have a woman who’s genuinely interested in AND attracted to you you’ll hear all these fantasises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:52 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnytime I advise incels to lie to or lead on women there’s always replies to the effects of “that’s a bad thing to do” etc from supposed incels themselves. A lot of them have even told me they eventually want to settle down and start families. Lol. I find it funny that all incels are villainised under one blanket while women are giving chances to guys like who don’t care and aren’t willing to settle down anytime soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are not lonely, they just don’t get the level of women they deserveVet for level of craziness and don’t tell her where you work. Most people aren’t that crazy. You could also get her fired. Plus don’t make it so obvious that you’ve played her if you’re really scared. Just start acting like you’re too busy and that work is taking up all your time. Or act needy and call her 1000 times a day. Or accuse her of cheating and act insecure and say this is why it wouldn’t work. There are a 101 ways to make a woman lose interest or break up with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Using bullshit "science" and self deluded garbage to justify being cruel to women - how can "red pill/manosphere" stuff ever be considered legitimate if they tolerate this community?Why did you break up with her? Also don’t you like the idea of getting married? If not why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 08:58 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men are not lonely, they just don’t get the level of women they deserveI’ve always told these guys to use their beta bux status to lead women on and cheat. They don’t want to listen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI would assume it’s because those people are extra short (being the average size of a woman) so it’s not necessarily a case of “6ft only” but rather that they would have a 50% chance of being shorter than the average woman since they’re biologically a woman themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m as redpilled as the next guy but an observation I would like your opinion on: Hypergamy (in the superficial sense of height, status, money, looks) may have had a woman choosing another guy over me or me not getting her in the first place but once I’ve gotten her it’s never been the reason she’s left me (or explicitly so). It’s been for other things like how I’m treating her or making her feel but I’ve never observed income for instance being the main motivator. Even if I tried to check if th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy is it that when men point out some of the things that a lot of women do or traits that they have they are met with “it’s your fault because it’s the type of women you attract or those you choose to surround yourself with” or at the very least a justification but when women point out something that they believe most men do we’re just supposed to accept it and agree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEach girl is different. Some women are just difficult regardless of what you look like. Some women are easy despite what you look like. Some women will treat you better if you look better. Some will treat you better depending o how you act. I’ve beaten out my Chad friends on a few (very few) occasions with women. Some women need to know you from somewhere (cold approach is a a big disadvantage). Most women are generally hard (yes even Chad will strike out just less so than you). Most women will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn shape and dress well. My Chad/Chadlite friends tend to dress well and be in shape (nowhere near as much as me but good enough to a point where it doesn’t matter). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 08:10 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe helped to organize the party and it was for me. We just happened to find ourselves close as we were hanging as a group and opened up another group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’d like to get married but the chances of me finding someone that I not only want to be with but can trust to stick it out for the next 30+ years is unlikely. At least I’m not lying to myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo what makes you happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 07:01 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe was already there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 06:59 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWent out to the club with some friends. One of the younger Chadlites stole 2 women from me merely by his presence. I wasn’t too phased. I conceded defeat and even gave him my car keys to go hook up with the one girl. We laughed about it afterwards. Laughed about how he was messing up my game just by being present and not even trying (the women would be interested in me until he was in close proximity). I joked that he should stay away (and he did) when I was talking to a new lady otherwise I wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt goes against the narrative the above commentator was trying to paint. That being dumped implies that you were the bad guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey made an assumption. How was it picked apart? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust lie to them and lead them on. That’s part of what Chad did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlol that’s the type of comment I always see on such things. In my experience guys with bad attitudes (defined by cheating, being manipulative, abusive, uninterested etc) are less likely to get dumped than genuinely nice guys. Waiting for the gaslighting reply to come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat do you think it would like if men put as much (direct) effort into general self improvement (careers, business, fitness, grooming etc) as they did into chasing, obsessing over and discussing women? Please state whether you’re a man or a woman and what you think would happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Most guys who have trouble finding a woman just have a small or nonexistent social circle CMMThis was funny ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Scenario. Imagine you’re with your EX boyfriend, and your CURRENT boyfriend comes into your life at work or a social event etc. Now what do you do?What are some reasons a woman might exit a relationship? Especially when the guy is shocked and the relationship has only been a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:47 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn my real life anecdotal experience beta bux/ alpha fux does exist but not in the way you think. Usually unless you underwent some sort of major change the woman would’ve slept with you quickly in her younger years on the cock coursesel. The difference is now she’s more demanding, “mature” (lol) and wants more commitment as she’s ready to settle down. My point being that the reason you don’t sleep with her in her younger hotter days was simply because you didn’t know her or make your intentions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo one really gets me excited anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI wonder if I will ever fall in love again. I’ve already been disappointed by someone I liked a lot and I know too much about female nature. I feel sort’ve dulled down. Like there’s no point. It’s better to just sleep around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey think it will help in manipulating him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRedpill is not this advanced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol. You learn quite a bit from reading r/Diabla. These women are willing to lie about being sexually assaulted and raped to get a leg up. Even willing to manipulate you into believing that you’re loved. https://www.reddit.com/r/Diabla/comments/11306pj/the_men_you_want_want_you_only_for_sex_what_would/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSince PPD tend to have more realistic and balanced takes. Jon Jones or Cyril Gane? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI see what you mean. I will break it off the moment the kid comes into play unless it’s an insignificant cost (hire a baby sitter but I’m earning lots). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol she never mentioned anything about the kid. Her main gripes were that she wants us to have a place to f**k that isn’t a hotel That’s pretty much it. The dates maybe. Other than that she’s relatively low maintenance and hasn’t said anything about her child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m not. I’m just keeping her around because she’s good in bed. She never asked me to support her child though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe wasn’t drunk. Plus I don’t want to be in a serious relationship with her. She’s just got some good p***y | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo am I a beta bux or alpha to this woman She’s an single mother. She slept with me on the first meeting. When I got there she had already had lunch and a drink (I was late). I offered to pay and she said no thanks. We had sex within 3 hours of meeting. She said I should make more money so that I get my own place and be able to “afford her” (I’m unemployed student). She also said likes me and she’s happy that she has her own job now (minimum wage though) because she doesn’t have to date or enter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m not denying that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot that I bolt but I don’t emotionally invest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI believe in enjoying it whilst it lasts. Keep it casual until the honeymoon period is over and as long as we like each other. But inevitably it will end unless she’s some special unicorn I really click with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot that I put an expiration date on it but I don’t expect it to last | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI usually pick up someone in public at the mall etc. Not clubs. I do prefer to have 1 at a time but not to let it get too serious. I think 6months is ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI guess. You have a positive outlook. I personally just don’t have the energy. I’d rather fuck around if I know it’s not permanent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s not money and stuff. It’s just people can just change up on you and fall out of love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you not afraid of divorce? How did you get your wife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSounds like you make money. You’re also married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat do you do if I may ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re an inspiration for your tenacity alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPeople hate that I’m trying to do that let alone themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat risk then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDamn that sucks. Why not try break into tech? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt would improve your own standard of living | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPlease explain. Not everything has to do with starting a business. What risk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you dead set on engineering? Would you become a programmer if someone paid you to learn? Also what type of engineering? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat are you currently doing to earn an income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you still trying to become a graduate engineer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat do you do if I may ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you’re being honest. What’s stopping you from making more money than you currently are? Why not study further? Learn a new in-demand skill? Apply for a new job? Start a side hustle etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadbut there’s a reason they have those trust issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 03:22 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve found it’s almost as bad as this sub paints it out to be. Not quite but close enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:41 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat do they do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:41 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat is the real world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:38 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo most men are not the jerks that women paint them to be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you think their observations about women are wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoomed how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat if you find that most women are like this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m not an incel. I’m just not Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAll the single men (redpill and incels) on this sub complaining and are paranoid about divorce rape, beta bucks, Chad etc will eventually meet someone, settle down and be fine. How much do you agree with this statement? If not what do you think will actually happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI know I’m not a Chad. It’s just fun to pretend to be for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadChadfishing is low-key fun and a bit addictive. You learn that looks do and don’t matter as much as you think. I’m not getting away with everything but probably more than I should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIntern or entry level? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTech is still better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have an actual engineering degree but jobs are scarce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’d rather stay indoors and code | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadData scientist, analyst, web dev etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLike? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe’s attractive. I don’t know the full extent of her personality, loyalty, flakiness etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor all tech positions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat if you have a degree in a different quantitative field | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMakes sense but web dev? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlol hell no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhere is the money made? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSounds good but I might be able to get this where I’m from. Please recommend more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPlease recommend some | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs it really that hard to make money in the US? Pick a few online coding classes (dedicate massive amounts of time), make a portfolio and get a 6-figure tech job. Is it that hard? Seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCost of petrol and time away from working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust the cost of petrol and the fact that it’s an hour I will take out from working but other then that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s it!? Should I or should I not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere’s this attractive woman who’s number I got some months back. She recently became single and has been giving me a bit more attention. She’s asked when she will get to see me (currently I’m broke so I’ve avoided that). I’m tempted to offer to pick her up from work and take her home. What do you say PPD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadStill stands. It’s easier for you. A man would’ve had to speak to many women first before landing a gf unless he gets very lucky or is very handsome or can read the room extremely well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDump her. Imagine being stuck with her for life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWill it really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re a woman. Love chases you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol. I’m not. I don’t date these women for long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI know. I never claimed to be the good guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you some sort of incel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t. Most of them breakup with me for lack of time. It would depend on who’s asking and how much I like them but my default would be to avoid/dodge the question or lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s a tricky one but let me say not single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost of them know it’s causal but they’re not aware that there’s other women. They haven’t asked. It doesn’t help that I take them on dates and call everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAll the women I’m dating (even casually) are so happy and have never been treated so well. This is how I justify my cheating. I’m spreading joy. These women need me. Step up other men! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe women I’ve had an easy time with on the phone have also been the best ones to meet irl. The ones who preferred texting just weren’t that into me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve just left her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUm ok. If that’s your way of implying that I’m virgin then it’s pretty lame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:10 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow so? It’s not like I’m running around assaulting women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot for long periods but I don’t have time to texting back and forth all day. Phone calls also give you a good indication of her interest level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI never thought of this…I literally could buy another 2 years with this method | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:21 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t feel bad for how women have wronged me. In fact I use it as fuel to be as ruthless as possible going forward. I now don’t hesitate to ghost, pump & dump, cheat, leave hanging or ignoring pleas for help. Remember men. Put yourselves first to the upmost degree. Don’t chase after any bitch and take as much as you want or need for her. If you lose interest you don’t owe her any explanation. Don’t be afraid to make a woman feel uncomfortable by approaching her on the street. Do you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLmao! Please explain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLmao! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:12 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome women are funny. I just got your number. You were busy the first 2 times I called you although you noted the second time was because you were sick and fell asleep. Now you’re hitting me up asking for help. I’ve asked her what the issue is but who wants to bet it involves money. I think I’m just going to ghost her. I’ve already ghosted another women who asked for a favour (thinking we’re dating lol). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe guy also got tested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:08 AM |
| 9 | Daily Community Chat Megathread*Opens app and sees this That’s enough for today… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI am curious to know what she feels like though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re right. I think I will ghost her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 05:33 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMet and fooled around a bit with this girl. She’s not very attractive (to me anyways) but maybe just fuckable enough (without kissing). I felt her pussy and she was extra wet. I’m now tempted to smash at least once. She gets tested often and is free of the major stds. She also last slept with a guy half a year ago and got tested straight after (one night stand). I’m tempted to sleep with her just because of how good she could potentially feel down there. I want to experience it. Thoughts PPD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re not attractive enough for them. Either lower your standards or improve yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI need to read your other stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 11:54 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe problems I see with men here are: the base their value on women’s perceptions of them. That’s one of the reasons why the opinions of random women on the internet bother them. They feel like they have to win with every single woman. External validation. they feel like they need to settle down and start a family. This is probably more of a biological or instinctual urge. Otherwise I would say it doesn’t matter if she was a slut etc. Just have fun with her. Have other women. No one is forcing y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 02:46 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome are more damaged than others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 02:35 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI am but I try to aquas be enthusiastic. Not like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 02:34 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnfortunately it doesn’t help when they’re damaged to the point of being almost undateable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 02:34 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEven if you find a woman chances are she will be damaged from her interactions with former bf’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI just had a woman admit to finding me physically attractive and enjoy spending time with me but she doesn’t want a relationship and doesn’t want to get emotionally invested. She said we can do casual. I acted disappointed but have I hit the jackpot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Would you expect your gf/wife to help in a life threatening situation?I need to pay attention to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFull stack developer vs Python developer vs data scientist. The goal is remote work and job security (availability of jobs + chances of breaking in) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt explains why I keep seeing new women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA friend of mine who has slept with lots and lots of women (had double digit amount of gfs at one point) said he’s not starved for sex anymore. He’s ok with doing favors for and just hanging out with women without expecting anything in return. He tells me that if he had a gf and all they did was talk he’d be chilled about it because he’s had enough sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNope her place. We didn’t even exchange contacts and I forgot her name. As much as I participated in this I can’t believe that there are women who operate like this/are okay with this. I’m probably never seeing her again. If it makes you feel any better it wasn’t all that. She refused to give head or ride me. Everything else was relatively good though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf only. I don’t even feel good about this. About to wake her up and return her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFar from it. She’s next to me right now. I’m actually scared because her bf might be waiting at her place. Will drop her nearby and block. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAbout to have sex. This bitch ain’t gonna know what hit her. She’s coming out of the shower. I’m going to offer to moisturize her. She’s been sht up til now. Young and we only just met. I invited her back to my place. It’s fancy but she doesn’t know it’s actually an Airbnb lol. EDIT Done fucking her. Her bf called during foreplay but she cut it. She was really loud. Looked like she hadn’t taken good dick in a while. EDIT 2 Her bf is shouting at her on the phone asking why she didn’t answer his c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTall men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn my opinion yes. Unless you find someone you really really like and want to spend the rest to your life with. Otherwise it’s pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’d be mad if I was an incel. Don’t let anyone tell you differently. Being in a committed relationship or sleeping with different women (not one night stands but having a few FWBs) is awesome. You should find meaning outside of women but this is an awesome cherry on top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWill do. I’m picking her up soon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 03:45 PM |
| -2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI approached this girl and asked for her number. She gave it to me but wouldn’t let me give her a lift home later and wouldn’t come to my place. She didn’t trust me and was afraid. Anyways she said that we can go for breakfast so she can vet me. We had a 30min bf at some place of her choosing. She enjoyed the breakfast and then she agreed to come over later in the evening because she doesn’t think I’m a creep. I sent her some money to get the wine, snacks etc for tonight. Long story short I’m go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBasically if any substandard woman showed interest in them they would be down for it because they don’t have any other options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 11:12 PM |
| 3 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?Both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 04:52 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLet’s be honest. Most women are just okay looking. Yes you’d fuck them but if you could only commit to one woman for the rest of your life and you had some decent options (not Chad but you have some options) chances are you’d also bypass 80% of the women that you see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s impossible. Very few guys that ugly exist. You can always get someone. You just have certain standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 11:52 AM |
| 9 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEven if I don’t get women there’s a certain satisfaction I get from working out, dressing well and being well groomed, pursuing money and just enjoying life. I get women. I’m just saying regardless of the women I enjoy working on myself. Why wouldn’t you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 05:51 AM |
| 3 | How I imagine life as an attractive woman is likeBefore I even read the comments or finish reading this I’m amazed that this guy sat down and typed out his perception of how an attractive woman lives in detail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 02:56 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot when you’re dating them. They will demand equal or better treatment from the next man. I also workout and stimulate their minds. Hahahaha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:57 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTheir standards will increase. Muhahahaha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 09:23 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDecided to spoil some women for Valentines. They were in complete shock at the treatment they’ve been receiving from me and especially today. Especially since I specifically picked women who weren’t expecting anything. Yes their standards for how they should be treated will rise substantially after dealing with me. One was even shocked that I came over just to give her gifts. It’s like she expected me to make a move whilst I was at it but I just left. These women will be ruined for future low ef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLmao! No but she did say I probably wouldn’t believe her but she’s never had a proper one night stand. She said the fastest before me was a guy she slept with the next day. I laughed at her and said meeting him at 11:59 and sleeping with him at 12:01 doesn’t make you innocent. We just laughed. I don’t care too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe exchanged numbers. Turns out she accidentally gave me the wrong number (despite checking it multiple times she misread a digit) but she texted me a day later. We’ve spoken for 2 days for over 2 hours on the phone each day. She says she’s not looking for anything particularly serious at the moment but I suspect this is coming from her being afraid of disappointment. She also seems to be bothered by the way we met and thinks that even if things were to progress further my view of her is tainted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah. She even took my number and texted me first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVery true but she did say it was the talk we had and I wasn’t the only guy who pursued her that night (a friend of mine as well). She gets hit on a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo on the topic of how fast a woman sleeps with you. A woman told me that it’s the fastest she’s ever slept with someone. It was relatively quick. Although it does not seem that my approach was alpha. She said what did it for her is that we sat in nature and spoke for an hour about nothing but life and she felt like she connected with me. She says she doesn’t know if I was being genuine or not but that she still ended up liking and deciding that she wanted to physically intimate with me to find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere’s only trouble if you invest emotionally and are let down. Otherwise it’s relatively easy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t date seriously. Meaning I don’t invest emotions and am ready for them to leave at any moment. I also date 4 women at a time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI never said stop dating them. Just stop dating them seriously. Have multiples on hand. Don’t invest emotions. Expect them to flake or ghost. These days I date at least 4 women at the same time and interchange them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis whole thing about men being scary so women opt to ghost narrative is bullshit for the most part. I’ve seen cases where the women would just rather avoid communication and accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Imagine this: you always went Dutch with your LDR partner/hubby when dating and your finances are more or less split 50/50; then you learn he spent a lot on his previous partnerLmao!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen are notoriously fickle, emotional, get bored easily, have lots of options and end relationships 80% of the time. Is there any point in committing to such a creature? I’m not saying don’t date them but just expect her to leave at a moments notice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?You don’t have to care or feel guilty. Seriously. You don’t have to worry about being negatively perceived about how many women you been with. You also don’t have to worry about feeling bad if you sleep with several women over a short period of time or are promiscuous. You can sort’ve be as reckless as you want. Women don’t have this same privilege. Don’t let this sex positive feminists fool you. It’s not the same. As a man you do the fucking. You don’t get fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 08:53 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe number of women I’ve had fall for me just by talking to them normally is too high. I express sexual or romantic interest at the beginning and then I treat them normally. No physical escalation or insinuations of wanting sex anytime soon. Somehow this works. I think it’s because other guys either don’t have the confidence to express their sexual interest and hence get friendzoned or express their sexual internet but then come across as pervets when they double down on their desire. This effec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:50 AM |
| -2 | Would you date a man if you found out he’s paid for sex in the past?ew gross. Dump him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | “Give an ugly girl a chance, and after a while she’ll treat you like YOU are the ugly one”Are you Fds, redpill, pinkpill etc? I think I remember you saying that you think women can get dates easier than men and so don’t care about breaking up etc because you can always just replace your man easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | “Give an ugly girl a chance, and after a while she’ll treat you like YOU are the ugly one”What are your beliefs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 01:20 PM |
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