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Discussionbig_lenad/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:48 AM
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I was told. The women in particular still came back for more so it’s whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:29 PM

It’s not insecurity. I’m simply cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:27 PM

Ageism check
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:25 PM

That’s what could happen..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:05 PM

Oh ok thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:03 PM

If that makes you feel better. Everyone knows women DON’T cheat at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:03 PM

I didn’t say you shouldn’t. It was a simple question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:02 PM

No insecurity here. I don’t participate in monogamous relationships so I’m not burdened by loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:58 PM

Problem is if he’s a good option but all the better options start popping up. He will start to appear as a shitty human being
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:57 PM
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Lol ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:56 PM

It has nothing to do with my car. I’ve fucked the wives and girlfriends of guys who were taller, had more money and bigger dicks than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:56 PM

Who is he/she? Are they important?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:55 PM
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Just a particular looking man who acts a certain way that makes her feel good. Once the good feeling stops then she’s gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:52 PM

If only I could show you my life. You’d be shocked. A lot of women cheat like mad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:51 PM

Whether you like it or not it’s happening. A lot of women are not loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:51 PM
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The person you’re debating with can’t be this stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:50 PM
1

and yet here I am. 4 days since I last fucked. Another woman who wants to fuck but is currently not feeling well and one who I’m still working on who will eventually what to fuck. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:49 PM

Lol. I am the guy with the car who fuck other men’s women. No need to worry here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:01 AM

but they pick the best option and see the vast majority of men as low value. Now imagine a lot of good options started popping up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:00 AM
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Does it matter? As long as I get to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:59 AM
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I don’t seek out women’s love anymore. I used to and got hurt in return. I just want sex and some company now and no I will not pay for it because I don’t have to. Besides. I’m giving women exactly what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:59 AM
-4

I detach on purpose. With women it’s inbuilt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:23 AM
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Lol. What’s wrong? It’s not like I’m the first choice anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:23 AM
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See what I mean. Thoroughly incapable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:03 AM
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Nope. They ideally want that but will never penalize you for sleeping around especially if you can demonstrate that you’re still loyal in making ltr
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:58 AM
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By first choice they mean that she is actively attracted to you and puts in effort. My current FWB broke up with her fiancé and says that he was not her type. He may have been her first choice but he was not her physical ideal whereas the next guy was. So it’s not as case of being absolutely no.1 but rather your SO not feeling like they are compromising a lot by being with you especially when it comes to physical desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:56 AM
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They are but they find a way to justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:53 AM
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Nope. This is why I cheat and don’t take relationships too seriously. It’s all a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:50 AM
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This is why I cheat. Women are incapable of true attachment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:38 AM

You’re the opposite of blackpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:15 PM

I don’t get it. Guys are having more sex than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:10 PM

Then they won’t get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:57 PM

Who’s gaslighting them? It’s always been the case that dating is ruthless and hardcore. Not all of you were meant to reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:08 PM

So relationships naturally won’t last anymore. We breakup for funsies now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:07 PM

If you consider yourself the average guy then you’ve got some serious work to do. Why would anyone have a visceral desire for average? It’s bland and uninspired. At least try and set yourself apart in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:27 AM
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I don’t get it. I only have one account
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:24 AM
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Are you really from Nigeria?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:24 AM

So what do you want them to do!? Let people breakup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:18 AM
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Fake account? Like I’m a bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:17 AM
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Stop chasing after Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:56 AM

Dating was never meant to be milk and honey. It’s survival of the fittest. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:53 AM
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It is. Sometimes the sex is worth it though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:52 AM
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I know :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:51 AM
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Sarcasm much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:51 AM

So forcing them to stay in miserable and subpar relationships is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:50 AM
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Someone will marry them. Men are desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:50 AM
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They still get married to one another so it can’t be all bad. I think they become very causal about sex. Like it’s no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:02 PM
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Honestly dating 4 women at the same time is exhausting. You have sex with one then make out with another then bring another flowers/chocolate then bring another medication then go out for drinks with another. All this within a 2-3 day period. I would count 6 but one just broke up with me and the other is probably on the verge of doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:00 PM
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Boo hoo. That’s a good thing. It shows that people are doing what’s best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:55 PM
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I’m kind of distracted at the moment but trust me it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:03 PM
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Just to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:57 PM
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Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:56 PM
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They get into a relationship just to cheat. It’s comical
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:56 PM
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I assume that they are all hoes so I just assume she’s cheating anyways and work my way up from there. I know women would and can do it better. That’s why we as men have to lie and cheat. Most women will only have sex in the context of a committed relationship hence the lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:11 PM
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That’s why we lie and don’t get caught
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:06 PM
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Women want relationships so we have to lie to tthem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:03 PM
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I wanted to find creative ways
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:03 PM
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It’s not the same. Men have to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:55 PM
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Men deserve to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:54 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:51 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:51 PM
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I don’t like her that much so not really
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:44 PM
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They’ve admitted it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:44 PM
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They tend to love their toxic exes more than their nice exes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:39 PM
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I don’t know. I’ve kinda just accepted it now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:31 PM
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Like she wants revenge on whom? Or it’s a guy larping?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:31 PM
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If you read between the line then women are telling you about how wet their toxic exes made them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:30 PM
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Following me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:30 PM
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I liked her? I literally haven’t texted her for days and have been seeing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:29 PM
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You’re male
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:29 PM
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I doubt she would want Fwb. Hence why I just accepted being her bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:28 PM
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Ok cool
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:27 PM
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I’ve heard express how they really loved an ex. It’s still neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:27 PM
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Redpill is not this dark triad. These women lie about being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:26 PM
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Hey you’re the guy harassing me. Anyways new topic. You really think so? Someone else said the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:26 PM
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That’s what all women say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:25 PM
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Is this true? u/ConfusedJellyfish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:25 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:24 PM
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Your best chance at winning with a woman is if she knows you through a social group, gathering or society especially if you’re not Chad but even Chad will get rejected if she doesn’t know who he is. He just has way more to work with. So men primarily using cold approaching will always be at a disadvantage to men the women actually know (not always). The advantage of cold approach however is that you can be more aggressive from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:23 PM
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Why are you harassing me? Are you a bluepiller?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:21 PM
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Nope. It’s just how the ones that do seem to talk about them vs. their nice bf’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:21 PM
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So I’ve been dating this girl for the last 2/3 weeks. We’ve only met up twice before and she complained that I don’t give her attention. She doesn’t know that I’m not taking it seriously and am dating other women. She’s texted me earlier after days of silence saying“I guess we’re done?” and I replied by greeting and asking how she is. She greeted back and asked how I am. I didn’t reply. She’s now sent a message saying “I met someone”. What’s the best way to reply? I’m thinking of saying “ok” or …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:06 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:34 AM
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That also helps but men underestimate the power of context
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:34 AM
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Remember men. These are the women available to you: https://www.reddit.com/r/Diabla/comments/11dgfy3/how_to_inspire_a_man_to_get_a_better_job/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:33 AM
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That’s a good indicator but it might just be you’re a beta in the emotional sense. Check how she treats you. How much shit she puts up with. Take her to hell and back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:53 AM
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You can be either. Both are good for having resources. Chad for his genetics and Billy for his resources and him being available to help look after the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:40 AM
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If she’s desperate to settle and can’t get Chad then Beta Billy is the next best thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:30 AM
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Unfortunately not. Her biological clock is ticking. Women who view you as Chad will let you string her along for as long as possible whilst not having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:24 AM
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Opposite of love is indifference not hate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:11 AM
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No. I’m saying that a lot of women don’t consciously know that the reason they want Chad is for his genetics so even child free women still want Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:11 AM
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It depends who you’re approaching, where you’re approaching and how you’re approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:06 AM
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It’s not even that. They tend to talk about how much they loved him. With the healthier relationships it’s just we grew apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:31 AM
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The whole point of a beta is children so she wouldn’t benefit from telling him that she doesn’t want any.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:31 AM
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Lol. The desire for top notch children is instinctual. They still want Chad. In fact thanks to them not having to worry about biological clocks they’re more likely to hold out for Chad. Look at FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:10 AM
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Once again. You’re telling on yourself. Just admit that you’re bad in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:08 AM
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You’re telling on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:07 AM
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lol. Time to go in and gaslight the fuck out of her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:07 AM
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Is it just me but you ever noticed how women talk about their toxic exes vs. the exes that made an effort to treat them well?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:04 AM
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Lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:29 PM
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but I thought the reason so many men couldn’t get women was because they were listening to redpill talking points and becoming more misogynistic. Now you’re telling me that women can’t read their minds!?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:13 AM

Please make a post about this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:57 AM
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Pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:40 AM

Is it really?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:04 PM
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It is to some
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:01 PM

“If you keep those redpill beliefs you will never find a healthy and happy relationship”- PPD women As if we were finding love before all these manosphere beliefs and as if we would find true love afterwards as a naive beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:59 PM
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You’re an exception on the first point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:56 PM
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Loool
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:55 PM
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I spoken open and honestly to lots of women with the hopes of learning about relationships, sexual dynamics etc. My conclusion (currently as of this moment and it’s open to changing and evolving) is that you should enjoy women for what they are. Enjoy their company. Love/like them for who they are and not what you hope for them to be. They will leave you when the good feelings pause. They will let you down. They will disappoint you. They may/may not cheat on you emotionally/physically. They want…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:22 PM

Response was alpha as fuck. Not gay but I got the tingles slightly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:29 PM
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I’m not settling until I find a woman who ticks all my boxes. If I’m going to be bound to one woman for the rest of my life and stick with her through thick and thin then it better be worth it. Until then I’m playing the field and having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:29 AM
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Not revenge anymore. Just putting myself first and being selfish. Definitely not a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:25 AM
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I do believe that blackpillers exaggerate things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:19 AM
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None of ya’ll are exactly good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:18 AM
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How was blackpill disproven or what’s your perspective now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:29 PM
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Men are usually lonely. A lot of the men on this sub complain that they get no female attention. At least I get sex. Plus I’ve got other things going on in my life and a social life (if I really wanted to). In fact last night I had dinner with some friends. I grabbed a drink afterwards with a woman I’ve just met. I’ve also been invited to an after party for tonight, 2 different parties for Saturday, a dinner for Sunday and two of the women want to come over because they haven’t had sex in a whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:36 PM
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The goal is to lead them on for as long as possible. I think I’ve got about 6 months or 1/2 years depending on the woman. I think we’d both be bored of each other or her taking me for granted after that timeframe anyways. Plus if there’s something I don’t like about her I know that I’m going to replace her down the line. Basically I get to enjoy relationships with different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:13 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:13 AM
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It depends who asks. I would have to lie to the 2 woman whom I like the most or at the very least twist the truth. It doesn’t help that one of them let me know very directly that she owns a firearm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:12 AM
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Like I said. I ideally want 1,2 or 3 women. It’s easier to manage. I meet a woman. We make conversation. She appreciates me because I do things differently from the men she’s used to. We click and she likes having me around. Repeat this process. She thinks she’s found her Prince Charming or at the very least a cool guy. In the olden days I would’ve stayed faithful to one woman but after some disappointments I’ve come to the conclusion that if women are going to put themselves first then I will p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:11 AM
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It depends which one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:57 AM
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Most of the women I find are loyal. As for the cheaters I don’t care because they’re usually cheating on their bf’s with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:56 AM
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People here always say to be honest and upfront with women if you’re sleeping with others. I can’t afford that. My experience is that social proof only works as far as she knows you’ve been wanted by other women before. I’m dating ~7 women right now. I want to cut it down to 2/3 due to time constraints but even then these women are falling for me and no woman in love wants to share even if you don’t have the titles of boyfriend and girlfriend. It’s a shame. They might accept it (or pretend to) b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:20 PM
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Who’s bored of the relationship? Probably my first gf. I’ve been on a tear ever since
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:16 PM
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Yet here I am. Cheating on both loyal women and hoes alike
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:04 PM
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Who takes them? Decent men. So you’re obviously not a decent man if you don’t have a decent woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:15 AM
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If you can’t attract a decent, honest and loyal woman it’s not because a lot or most women are cheating, lying, playing games or chasing Chad. It’s because you yourself are a bad person. If you weren’t then you would’ve found love by now. But you haven’t. So you must be a bad person. It’s not because of your looks, income or status. It’s because you’re a bad person. u/eb0livia
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:44 AM
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Very funny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:12 AM
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Who says? If he sucks with women he sucks with women. The best he can hope for is to be used for his wallet by some manipulative cock coresel retiree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:05 AM
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Unfortunately a lot of women require that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:58 AM
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It’s a 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:57 AM
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Staceywidowed by family. Life is based
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:57 AM
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He probably means on the receiving end
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:54 AM
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That bitch back-pedalled!? Never trust women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:52 AM
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On a side I’ve finally met the famous LillthOfBabylon. Our future battles will be legendary!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:13 PM
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So what do you say if you’re struggling to get women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:21 PM
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There’s a vocal minority of racist and misogynistic incels. A lot of them are just short unattractive ethnics in majority white countries or genuinely ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:11 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:09 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:09 PM
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That last sentence made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:08 PM

Do you think this is the case for rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:48 AM

Why doesn’t she just find an actual man. For fucks sakes these women are messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:54 AM

Lol. Then you pump and dump her. My man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:53 AM

Link
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:52 AM

Nope. They’re dishonest with their platonic and make friends whom they have zero sexual interest in. Once you have a woman who’s genuinely interested in AND attracted to you you’ll hear all these fantasises.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:52 AM

Anytime I advise incels to lie to or lead on women there’s always replies to the effects of “that’s a bad thing to do” etc from supposed incels themselves. A lot of them have even told me they eventually want to settle down and start families. Lol. I find it funny that all incels are villainised under one blanket while women are giving chances to guys like who don’t care and aren’t willing to settle down anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:47 AM
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Vet for level of craziness and don’t tell her where you work. Most people aren’t that crazy. You could also get her fired. Plus don’t make it so obvious that you’ve played her if you’re really scared. Just start acting like you’re too busy and that work is taking up all your time. Or act needy and call her 1000 times a day. Or accuse her of cheating and act insecure and say this is why it wouldn’t work. There are a 101 ways to make a woman lose interest or break up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:44 AM
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Why did you break up with her? Also don’t you like the idea of getting married? If not why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:58 AM
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I’ve always told these guys to use their beta bux status to lead women on and cheat. They don’t want to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:55 AM
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I would assume it’s because those people are extra short (being the average size of a woman) so it’s not necessarily a case of “6ft only” but rather that they would have a 50% chance of being shorter than the average woman since they’re biologically a woman themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:24 PM
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I’m as redpilled as the next guy but an observation I would like your opinion on: Hypergamy (in the superficial sense of height, status, money, looks) may have had a woman choosing another guy over me or me not getting her in the first place but once I’ve gotten her it’s never been the reason she’s left me (or explicitly so). It’s been for other things like how I’m treating her or making her feel but I’ve never observed income for instance being the main motivator. Even if I tried to check if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:18 PM
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Why is it that when men point out some of the things that a lot of women do or traits that they have they are met with “it’s your fault because it’s the type of women you attract or those you choose to surround yourself with” or at the very least a justification but when women point out something that they believe most men do we’re just supposed to accept it and agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:11 PM
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Each girl is different. Some women are just difficult regardless of what you look like. Some women are easy despite what you look like. Some women will treat you better if you look better. Some will treat you better depending o how you act. I’ve beaten out my Chad friends on a few (very few) occasions with women. Some women need to know you from somewhere (cold approach is a a big disadvantage). Most women are generally hard (yes even Chad will strike out just less so than you). Most women will …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:01 AM
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In shape and dress well. My Chad/Chadlite friends tend to dress well and be in shape (nowhere near as much as me but good enough to a point where it doesn’t matter).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:10 AM
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He helped to organize the party and it was for me. We just happened to find ourselves close as we were hanging as a group and opened up another group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:12 AM
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I’d like to get married but the chances of me finding someone that I not only want to be with but can trust to stick it out for the next 30+ years is unlikely. At least I’m not lying to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:03 AM
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Do what makes you happy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:01 AM
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He was already there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:59 AM
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Went out to the club with some friends. One of the younger Chadlites stole 2 women from me merely by his presence. I wasn’t too phased. I conceded defeat and even gave him my car keys to go hook up with the one girl. We laughed about it afterwards. Laughed about how he was messing up my game just by being present and not even trying (the women would be interested in me until he was in close proximity). I joked that he should stay away (and he did) when I was talking to a new lady otherwise I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:18 AM
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It goes against the narrative the above commentator was trying to paint. That being dumped implies that you were the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:11 AM
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They made an assumption. How was it picked apart?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:08 AM
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Just lie to them and lead them on. That’s part of what Chad did
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:07 AM
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lol that’s the type of comment I always see on such things. In my experience guys with bad attitudes (defined by cheating, being manipulative, abusive, uninterested etc) are less likely to get dumped than genuinely nice guys. Waiting for the gaslighting reply to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:25 PM
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What do you think it would like if men put as much (direct) effort into general self improvement (careers, business, fitness, grooming etc) as they did into chasing, obsessing over and discussing women? Please state whether you’re a man or a woman and what you think would happen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:22 PM
4

This was funny ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:10 AM
1

What are some reasons a woman might exit a relationship? Especially when the guy is shocked and the relationship has only been a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:47 PM
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In my real life anecdotal experience beta bux/ alpha fux does exist but not in the way you think. Usually unless you underwent some sort of major change the woman would’ve slept with you quickly in her younger years on the cock coursesel. The difference is now she’s more demanding, “mature” (lol) and wants more commitment as she’s ready to settle down. My point being that the reason you don’t sleep with her in her younger hotter days was simply because you didn’t know her or make your intentions…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:34 AM
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No one really gets me excited anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:56 PM
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I wonder if I will ever fall in love again. I’ve already been disappointed by someone I liked a lot and I know too much about female nature. I feel sort’ve dulled down. Like there’s no point. It’s better to just sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:06 PM
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They think it will help in manipulating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:51 PM
1

Redpill is not this advanced
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:50 PM
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Lol. You learn quite a bit from reading r/Diabla. These women are willing to lie about being sexually assaulted and raped to get a leg up. Even willing to manipulate you into believing that you’re loved. https://www.reddit.com/r/Diabla/comments/11306pj/the_men_you_want_want_you_only_for_sex_what_would/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:24 PM
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Since PPD tend to have more realistic and balanced takes. Jon Jones or Cyril Gane?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:53 PM
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I see what you mean. I will break it off the moment the kid comes into play unless it’s an insignificant cost (hire a baby sitter but I’m earning lots).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:55 PM
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Lol she never mentioned anything about the kid. Her main gripes were that she wants us to have a place to f**k that isn’t a hotel That’s pretty much it. The dates maybe. Other than that she’s relatively low maintenance and hasn’t said anything about her child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:54 PM
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I’m not. I’m just keeping her around because she’s good in bed. She never asked me to support her child though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:48 PM
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She wasn’t drunk. Plus I don’t want to be in a serious relationship with her. She’s just got some good p***y
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:47 PM
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So am I a beta bux or alpha to this woman She’s an single mother. She slept with me on the first meeting. When I got there she had already had lunch and a drink (I was late). I offered to pay and she said no thanks. We had sex within 3 hours of meeting. She said I should make more money so that I get my own place and be able to “afford her” (I’m unemployed student). She also said likes me and she’s happy that she has her own job now (minimum wage though) because she doesn’t have to date or enter…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:51 AM
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I’m not denying that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:48 AM
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Not that I bolt but I don’t emotionally invest
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:20 PM
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I believe in enjoying it whilst it lasts. Keep it casual until the honeymoon period is over and as long as we like each other. But inevitably it will end unless she’s some special unicorn I really click with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:53 PM
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Not that I put an expiration date on it but I don’t expect it to last
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:45 PM
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I usually pick up someone in public at the mall etc. Not clubs. I do prefer to have 1 at a time but not to let it get too serious. I think 6months is ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:31 PM
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I guess. You have a positive outlook. I personally just don’t have the energy. I’d rather fuck around if I know it’s not permanent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:05 PM
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It’s not money and stuff. It’s just people can just change up on you and fall out of love
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:56 PM
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Are you not afraid of divorce? How did you get your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:19 PM
2

Sounds like you make money. You’re also married?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:55 PM
1

What do you do if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:46 PM
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You’re an inspiration for your tenacity alone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:34 PM
1

People hate that I’m trying to do that let alone themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:34 PM
1

What risk then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:07 PM
1

Damn that sucks. Why not try break into tech?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:07 PM
1

It would improve your own standard of living
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:05 PM
1

Please explain. Not everything has to do with starting a business. What risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:04 PM
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Are you dead set on engineering? Would you become a programmer if someone paid you to learn? Also what type of engineering?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:03 PM
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What are you currently doing to earn an income?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:40 AM
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Are you still trying to become a graduate engineer?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:37 AM
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What do you do if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:36 AM
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If you’re being honest. What’s stopping you from making more money than you currently are? Why not study further? Learn a new in-demand skill? Apply for a new job? Start a side hustle etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:54 AM
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but there’s a reason they have those trust issues
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:22 PM
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I’ve found it’s almost as bad as this sub paints it out to be. Not quite but close enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:41 PM
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What do they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:41 PM
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What is the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:38 PM
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So most men are not the jerks that women paint them to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:37 PM
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So you think their observations about women are wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:37 PM
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Doomed how?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:37 PM
1

What if you find that most women are like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:04 PM
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I’m not an incel. I’m just not Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:03 PM
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All the single men (redpill and incels) on this sub complaining and are paranoid about divorce rape, beta bucks, Chad etc will eventually meet someone, settle down and be fine. How much do you agree with this statement? If not what do you think will actually happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:00 PM
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I know I’m not a Chad. It’s just fun to pretend to be for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:47 PM
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Chadfishing is low-key fun and a bit addictive. You learn that looks do and don’t matter as much as you think. I’m not getting away with everything but probably more than I should.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:55 AM
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Intern or entry level?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:21 PM
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Tech is still better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:45 PM
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I have an actual engineering degree but jobs are scarce
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:13 PM
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I’d rather stay indoors and code
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:12 PM
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Data scientist, analyst, web dev etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:12 PM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:05 PM
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She’s attractive. I don’t know the full extent of her personality, loyalty, flakiness etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:04 PM
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For all tech positions?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:04 PM
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What if you have a degree in a different quantitative field
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:58 PM
1

Makes sense but web dev?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:57 PM
1

lol hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:56 PM
1

I think so
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:56 PM
1

Where is the money made?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:56 PM
1

Sounds good but I might be able to get this where I’m from. Please recommend more
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:38 PM
2

Please recommend some
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:34 PM
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Is it really that hard to make money in the US? Pick a few online coding classes (dedicate massive amounts of time), make a portfolio and get a 6-figure tech job. Is it that hard? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:33 PM
1

Cost of petrol and time away from working
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:32 PM
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Just the cost of petrol and the fact that it’s an hour I will take out from working but other then that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:32 PM
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That’s it!? Should I or should I not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:24 PM
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There’s this attractive woman who’s number I got some months back. She recently became single and has been giving me a bit more attention. She’s asked when she will get to see me (currently I’m broke so I’ve avoided that). I’m tempted to offer to pick her up from work and take her home. What do you say PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:17 PM
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Still stands. It’s easier for you. A man would’ve had to speak to many women first before landing a gf unless he gets very lucky or is very handsome or can read the room extremely well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:31 AM
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Dump her. Imagine being stuck with her for life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:54 PM
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Will it really?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:53 PM
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You’re a woman. Love chases you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:53 PM
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Lol. I’m not. I don’t date these women for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:52 PM
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I know. I never claimed to be the good guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:25 PM
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Are you some sort of incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:25 PM
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I don’t. Most of them breakup with me for lack of time. It would depend on who’s asking and how much I like them but my default would be to avoid/dodge the question or lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:21 PM
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That’s a tricky one but let me say not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:20 PM
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Most of them know it’s causal but they’re not aware that there’s other women. They haven’t asked. It doesn’t help that I take them on dates and call everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:13 PM
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All the women I’m dating (even casually) are so happy and have never been treated so well. This is how I justify my cheating. I’m spreading joy. These women need me. Step up other men!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:08 PM
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The women I’ve had an easy time with on the phone have also been the best ones to meet irl. The ones who preferred texting just weren’t that into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:59 PM
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I’ve just left her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:11 PM
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Um ok. If that’s your way of implying that I’m virgin then it’s pretty lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:10 PM
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How so? It’s not like I’m running around assaulting women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:09 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:08 PM
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You’re funny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:08 PM
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Not for long periods but I don’t have time to texting back and forth all day. Phone calls also give you a good indication of her interest level
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:08 PM
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No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:22 AM
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I never thought of this…I literally could buy another 2 years with this method
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:21 AM
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I don’t feel bad for how women have wronged me. In fact I use it as fuel to be as ruthless as possible going forward. I now don’t hesitate to ghost, pump & dump, cheat, leave hanging or ignoring pleas for help. Remember men. Put yourselves first to the upmost degree. Don’t chase after any bitch and take as much as you want or need for her. If you lose interest you don’t owe her any explanation. Don’t be afraid to make a woman feel uncomfortable by approaching her on the street. Do you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:20 AM
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Lmao! Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:13 AM
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Lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:12 AM
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Some women are funny. I just got your number. You were busy the first 2 times I called you although you noted the second time was because you were sick and fell asleep. Now you’re hitting me up asking for help. I’ve asked her what the issue is but who wants to bet it involves money. I think I’m just going to ghost her. I’ve already ghosted another women who asked for a favour (thinking we’re dating lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:18 AM
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The guy also got tested
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:08 AM
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*Opens app and sees this That’s enough for today…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:54 AM
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I am curious to know what she feels like though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:48 AM
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You’re right. I think I will ghost her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:33 AM
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Met and fooled around a bit with this girl. She’s not very attractive (to me anyways) but maybe just fuckable enough (without kissing). I felt her pussy and she was extra wet. I’m now tempted to smash at least once. She gets tested often and is free of the major stds. She also last slept with a guy half a year ago and got tested straight after (one night stand). I’m tempted to sleep with her just because of how good she could potentially feel down there. I want to experience it. Thoughts PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:22 AM
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You’re not attractive enough for them. Either lower your standards or improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:21 AM
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I need to read your other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:54 AM
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The problems I see with men here are: the base their value on women’s perceptions of them. That’s one of the reasons why the opinions of random women on the internet bother them. They feel like they have to win with every single woman. External validation. they feel like they need to settle down and start a family. This is probably more of a biological or instinctual urge. Otherwise I would say it doesn’t matter if she was a slut etc. Just have fun with her. Have other women. No one is forcing y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:46 AM

Some are more damaged than others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:35 AM

I am but I try to aquas be enthusiastic. Not like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:34 AM

Unfortunately it doesn’t help when they’re damaged to the point of being almost undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:34 AM

Even if you find a woman chances are she will be damaged from her interactions with former bf’s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:05 PM

I just had a woman admit to finding me physically attractive and enjoy spending time with me but she doesn’t want a relationship and doesn’t want to get emotionally invested. She said we can do casual. I acted disappointed but have I hit the jackpot?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:18 PM
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I need to pay attention to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:30 PM
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Full stack developer vs Python developer vs data scientist. The goal is remote work and job security (availability of jobs + chances of breaking in)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:18 AM
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It explains why I keep seeing new women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:50 PM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:23 PM
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A friend of mine who has slept with lots and lots of women (had double digit amount of gfs at one point) said he’s not starved for sex anymore. He’s ok with doing favors for and just hanging out with women without expecting anything in return. He tells me that if he had a gf and all they did was talk he’d be chilled about it because he’s had enough sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:23 PM
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Nope her place. We didn’t even exchange contacts and I forgot her name. As much as I participated in this I can’t believe that there are women who operate like this/are okay with this. I’m probably never seeing her again. If it makes you feel any better it wasn’t all that. She refused to give head or ride me. Everything else was relatively good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:53 AM
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If only. I don’t even feel good about this. About to wake her up and return her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:07 AM
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Far from it. She’s next to me right now. I’m actually scared because her bf might be waiting at her place. Will drop her nearby and block.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:38 AM
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About to have sex. This bitch ain’t gonna know what hit her. She’s coming out of the shower. I’m going to offer to moisturize her. She’s been sht up til now. Young and we only just met. I invited her back to my place. It’s fancy but she doesn’t know it’s actually an Airbnb lol. EDIT Done fucking her. Her bf called during foreplay but she cut it. She was really loud. Looked like she hadn’t taken good dick in a while. EDIT 2 Her bf is shouting at her on the phone asking why she didn’t answer his c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:11 AM
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Tall men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:11 PM
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In my opinion yes. Unless you find someone you really really like and want to spend the rest to your life with. Otherwise it’s pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:10 PM
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I’d be mad if I was an incel. Don’t let anyone tell you differently. Being in a committed relationship or sleeping with different women (not one night stands but having a few FWBs) is awesome. You should find meaning outside of women but this is an awesome cherry on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:09 PM
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Will do. I’m picking her up soon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:45 PM
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I approached this girl and asked for her number. She gave it to me but wouldn’t let me give her a lift home later and wouldn’t come to my place. She didn’t trust me and was afraid. Anyways she said that we can go for breakfast so she can vet me. We had a 30min bf at some place of her choosing. She enjoyed the breakfast and then she agreed to come over later in the evening because she doesn’t think I’m a creep. I sent her some money to get the wine, snacks etc for tonight. Long story short I’m go…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:16 AM
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Basically if any substandard woman showed interest in them they would be down for it because they don’t have any other options
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:12 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:52 PM
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Let’s be honest. Most women are just okay looking. Yes you’d fuck them but if you could only commit to one woman for the rest of your life and you had some decent options (not Chad but you have some options) chances are you’d also bypass 80% of the women that you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:52 PM
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That’s impossible. Very few guys that ugly exist. You can always get someone. You just have certain standards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:52 AM
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Even if I don’t get women there’s a certain satisfaction I get from working out, dressing well and being well groomed, pursuing money and just enjoying life. I get women. I’m just saying regardless of the women I enjoy working on myself. Why wouldn’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:51 AM
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Before I even read the comments or finish reading this I’m amazed that this guy sat down and typed out his perception of how an attractive woman lives in detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:56 PM
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Not when you’re dating them. They will demand equal or better treatment from the next man. I also workout and stimulate their minds. Hahahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:57 PM
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Their standards will increase. Muhahahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:44 PM
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Very
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:23 PM
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Decided to spoil some women for Valentines. They were in complete shock at the treatment they’ve been receiving from me and especially today. Especially since I specifically picked women who weren’t expecting anything. Yes their standards for how they should be treated will rise substantially after dealing with me. One was even shocked that I came over just to give her gifts. It’s like she expected me to make a move whilst I was at it but I just left. These women will be ruined for future low ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:07 PM
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Lmao! No but she did say I probably wouldn’t believe her but she’s never had a proper one night stand. She said the fastest before me was a guy she slept with the next day. I laughed at her and said meeting him at 11:59 and sleeping with him at 12:01 doesn’t make you innocent. We just laughed. I don’t care too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:43 AM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:13 AM
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We exchanged numbers. Turns out she accidentally gave me the wrong number (despite checking it multiple times she misread a digit) but she texted me a day later. We’ve spoken for 2 days for over 2 hours on the phone each day. She says she’s not looking for anything particularly serious at the moment but I suspect this is coming from her being afraid of disappointment. She also seems to be bothered by the way we met and thinks that even if things were to progress further my view of her is tainted…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:12 AM
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Yeah. She even took my number and texted me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:00 AM
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Very true but she did say it was the talk we had and I wasn’t the only guy who pursued her that night (a friend of mine as well). She gets hit on a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:59 AM
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So on the topic of how fast a woman sleeps with you. A woman told me that it’s the fastest she’s ever slept with someone. It was relatively quick. Although it does not seem that my approach was alpha. She said what did it for her is that we sat in nature and spoke for an hour about nothing but life and she felt like she connected with me. She says she doesn’t know if I was being genuine or not but that she still ended up liking and deciding that she wanted to physically intimate with me to find …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:45 AM
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There’s only trouble if you invest emotionally and are let down. Otherwise it’s relatively easy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:40 AM
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I don’t date seriously. Meaning I don’t invest emotions and am ready for them to leave at any moment. I also date 4 women at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:03 AM
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I never said stop dating them. Just stop dating them seriously. Have multiples on hand. Don’t invest emotions. Expect them to flake or ghost. These days I date at least 4 women at the same time and interchange them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:02 AM
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Not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:59 AM
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This whole thing about men being scary so women opt to ghost narrative is bullshit for the most part. I’ve seen cases where the women would just rather avoid communication and accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:59 AM
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Lmao!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:53 AM
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Women are notoriously fickle, emotional, get bored easily, have lots of options and end relationships 80% of the time. Is there any point in committing to such a creature? I’m not saying don’t date them but just expect her to leave at a moments notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:37 PM
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You don’t have to care or feel guilty. Seriously. You don’t have to worry about being negatively perceived about how many women you been with. You also don’t have to worry about feeling bad if you sleep with several women over a short period of time or are promiscuous. You can sort’ve be as reckless as you want. Women don’t have this same privilege. Don’t let this sex positive feminists fool you. It’s not the same. As a man you do the fucking. You don’t get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:53 AM
4

The number of women I’ve had fall for me just by talking to them normally is too high. I express sexual or romantic interest at the beginning and then I treat them normally. No physical escalation or insinuations of wanting sex anytime soon. Somehow this works. I think it’s because other guys either don’t have the confidence to express their sexual interest and hence get friendzoned or express their sexual internet but then come across as pervets when they double down on their desire. This effec…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:50 AM
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ew gross. Dump him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:41 AM
1

Are you Fds, redpill, pinkpill etc? I think I remember you saying that you think women can get dates easier than men and so don’t care about breaking up etc because you can always just replace your man easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:32 AM
1

What are your beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:20 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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