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Discussionbig_lenad/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:48 AM
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I was told. The women in particular still came back for more so it’s whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:29 PM
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It’s not insecurity. I’m simply cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:27 PM
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Ageism check
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:25 PM
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That’s what could happen..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:05 PM
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Oh ok thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:03 PM
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If that makes you feel better. Everyone knows women DON’T cheat at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:03 PM
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I didn’t say you shouldn’t. It was a simple question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:02 PM
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No insecurity here. I don’t participate in monogamous relationships so I’m not burdened by loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:58 PM
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Problem is if he’s a good option but all the better options start popping up. He will start to appear as a shitty human being
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:57 PM
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Lol ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:56 PM
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It has nothing to do with my car. I’ve fucked the wives and girlfriends of guys who were taller, had more money and bigger dicks than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:56 PM
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Who is he/she? Are they important?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:55 PM
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Just a particular looking man who acts a certain way that makes her feel good. Once the good feeling stops then she’s gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:52 PM
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If only I could show you my life. You’d be shocked. A lot of women cheat like mad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:51 PM
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Whether you like it or not it’s happening. A lot of women are not loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:51 PM
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Lol. I am the guy with the car who fuck other men’s women. No need to worry here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:01 AM
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but they pick the best option and see the vast majority of men as low value. Now imagine a lot of good options started popping up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:00 AM
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Does it matter? As long as I get to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:59 AM
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I don’t seek out women’s love anymore. I used to and got hurt in return. I just want sex and some company now and no I will not pay for it because I don’t have to. Besides. I’m giving women exactly what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:59 AM
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I detach on purpose. With women it’s inbuilt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:23 AM
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Lol. What’s wrong? It’s not like I’m the first choice anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:23 AM
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See what I mean. Thoroughly incapable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:03 AM
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Nope. They ideally want that but will never penalize you for sleeping around especially if you can demonstrate that you’re still loyal in making ltr
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:58 AM
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By first choice they mean that she is actively attracted to you and puts in effort. My current FWB broke up with her fiancé and says that he was not her type. He may have been her first choice but he was not her physical ideal whereas the next guy was. So it’s not as case of being absolutely no.1 but rather your SO not feeling like they are compromising a lot by being with you especially when it comes to physical desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:56 AM
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They are but they find a way to justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:53 AM
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Nope. This is why I cheat and don’t take relationships too seriously. It’s all a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:50 AM
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This is why I cheat. Women are incapable of true attachment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:38 AM
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You’re the opposite of blackpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:15 PM
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I don’t get it. Guys are having more sex than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:10 PM
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Then they won’t get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:57 PM
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Who’s gaslighting them? It’s always been the case that dating is ruthless and hardcore. Not all of you were meant to reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:08 PM
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So relationships naturally won’t last anymore. We breakup for funsies now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:07 PM
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If you consider yourself the average guy then you’ve got some serious work to do. Why would anyone have a visceral desire for average? It’s bland and uninspired. At least try and set yourself apart in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:27 AM
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So what do you want them to do!? Let people breakup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:18 AM
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Dating was never meant to be milk and honey. It’s survival of the fittest. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:53 AM
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So forcing them to stay in miserable and subpar relationships is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:50 AM
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Boo hoo. That’s a good thing. It shows that people are doing what’s best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:55 PM
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I assume that they are all hoes so I just assume she’s cheating anyways and work my way up from there. I know women would and can do it better. That’s why we as men have to lie and cheat. Most women will only have sex in the context of a committed relationship hence the lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:11 PM
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That’s why we lie and don’t get caught
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:06 PM
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Women want relationships so we have to lie to tthem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:03 PM
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It’s not the same. Men have to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:55 PM
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Men deserve to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:54 PM
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Your best chance at winning with a woman is if she knows you through a social group, gathering or society especially if you’re not Chad but even Chad will get rejected if she doesn’t know who he is. He just has way more to work with. So men primarily using cold approaching will always be at a disadvantage to men the women actually know (not always). The advantage of cold approach however is that you can be more aggressive from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:23 PM
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That also helps but men underestimate the power of context
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:34 AM
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It depends who you’re approaching, where you’re approaching and how you’re approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:06 AM
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Lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:29 PM
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but I thought the reason so many men couldn’t get women was because they were listening to redpill talking points and becoming more misogynistic. Now you’re telling me that women can’t read their minds!?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:13 AM
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Please make a post about this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:57 AM
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Is it really?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:04 PM
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“If you keep those redpill beliefs you will never find a healthy and happy relationship”- PPD women As if we were finding love before all these manosphere beliefs and as if we would find true love afterwards as a naive beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:59 PM
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Response was alpha as fuck. Not gay but I got the tingles slightly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:29 PM
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I’m not settling until I find a woman who ticks all my boxes. If I’m going to be bound to one woman for the rest of my life and stick with her through thick and thin then it better be worth it. Until then I’m playing the field and having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:29 AM
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I do believe that blackpillers exaggerate things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:19 AM
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How was blackpill disproven or what’s your perspective now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:29 PM
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Most of the women I find are loyal. As for the cheaters I don’t care because they’re usually cheating on their bf’s with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:56 AM
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Who’s bored of the relationship? Probably my first gf. I’ve been on a tear ever since
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:16 PM
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Yet here I am. Cheating on both loyal women and hoes alike
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:04 PM
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Who takes them? Decent men. So you’re obviously not a decent man if you don’t have a decent woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:15 AM
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If you can’t attract a decent, honest and loyal woman it’s not because a lot or most women are cheating, lying, playing games or chasing Chad. It’s because you yourself are a bad person. If you weren’t then you would’ve found love by now. But you haven’t. So you must be a bad person. It’s not because of your looks, income or status. It’s because you’re a bad person. u/eb0livia
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:44 AM
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Who says? If he sucks with women he sucks with women. The best he can hope for is to be used for his wallet by some manipulative cock coresel retiree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:05 AM
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Unfortunately a lot of women require that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:58 AM
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It’s a 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:57 AM
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Staceywidowed by family. Life is based
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:57 AM
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He probably means on the receiving end
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:54 AM
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That bitch back-pedalled!? Never trust women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:52 AM
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Do you think this is the case for rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:48 AM
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Why doesn’t she just find an actual man. For fucks sakes these women are messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:54 AM
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Lol. Then you pump and dump her. My man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:53 AM
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Link
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:52 AM
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Nope. They’re dishonest with their platonic and make friends whom they have zero sexual interest in. Once you have a woman who’s genuinely interested in AND attracted to you you’ll hear all these fantasises.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:52 AM
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Anytime I advise incels to lie to or lead on women there’s always replies to the effects of “that’s a bad thing to do” etc from supposed incels themselves. A lot of them have even told me they eventually want to settle down and start families. Lol. I find it funny that all incels are villainised under one blanket while women are giving chances to guys like who don’t care and aren’t willing to settle down anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:47 AM
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Vet for level of craziness and don’t tell her where you work. Most people aren’t that crazy. You could also get her fired. Plus don’t make it so obvious that you’ve played her if you’re really scared. Just start acting like you’re too busy and that work is taking up all your time. Or act needy and call her 1000 times a day. Or accuse her of cheating and act insecure and say this is why it wouldn’t work. There are a 101 ways to make a woman lose interest or break up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:44 AM
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Why did you break up with her? Also don’t you like the idea of getting married? If not why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:58 AM
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I’ve always told these guys to use their beta bux status to lead women on and cheat. They don’t want to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:55 AM
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Each girl is different. Some women are just difficult regardless of what you look like. Some women are easy despite what you look like. Some women will treat you better if you look better. Some will treat you better depending o how you act. I’ve beaten out my Chad friends on a few (very few) occasions with women. Some women need to know you from somewhere (cold approach is a a big disadvantage). Most women are generally hard (yes even Chad will strike out just less so than you). Most women will …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:01 AM
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In shape and dress well. My Chad/Chadlite friends tend to dress well and be in shape (nowhere near as much as me but good enough to a point where it doesn’t matter).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:10 AM
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He helped to organize the party and it was for me. We just happened to find ourselves close as we were hanging as a group and opened up another group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:12 AM
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I’d like to get married but the chances of me finding someone that I not only want to be with but can trust to stick it out for the next 30+ years is unlikely. At least I’m not lying to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:03 AM
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He was already there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:59 AM
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Went out to the club with some friends. One of the younger Chadlites stole 2 women from me merely by his presence. I wasn’t too phased. I conceded defeat and even gave him my car keys to go hook up with the one girl. We laughed about it afterwards. Laughed about how he was messing up my game just by being present and not even trying (the women would be interested in me until he was in close proximity). I joked that he should stay away (and he did) when I was talking to a new lady otherwise I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:18 AM
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This was funny ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:10 AM
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What are some reasons a woman might exit a relationship? Especially when the guy is shocked and the relationship has only been a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:47 PM
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In my real life anecdotal experience beta bux/ alpha fux does exist but not in the way you think. Usually unless you underwent some sort of major change the woman would’ve slept with you quickly in her younger years on the cock coursesel. The difference is now she’s more demanding, “mature” (lol) and wants more commitment as she’s ready to settle down. My point being that the reason you don’t sleep with her in her younger hotter days was simply because you didn’t know her or make your intentions…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:34 AM
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Still stands. It’s easier for you. A man would’ve had to speak to many women first before landing a gf unless he gets very lucky or is very handsome or can read the room extremely well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:31 AM
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Dump her. Imagine being stuck with her for life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:54 PM
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Will it really?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:53 PM
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You’re a woman. Love chases you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:53 PM
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Some are more damaged than others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:35 AM
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I am but I try to aquas be enthusiastic. Not like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:34 AM
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Unfortunately it doesn’t help when they’re damaged to the point of being almost undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:34 AM
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Even if you find a woman chances are she will be damaged from her interactions with former bf’s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:05 PM
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I just had a woman admit to finding me physically attractive and enjoy spending time with me but she doesn’t want a relationship and doesn’t want to get emotionally invested. She said we can do casual. I acted disappointed but have I hit the jackpot?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:18 PM
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I need to pay attention to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:30 PM
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It explains why I keep seeing new women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:50 PM
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A friend of mine who has slept with lots and lots of women (had double digit amount of gfs at one point) said he’s not starved for sex anymore. He’s ok with doing favors for and just hanging out with women without expecting anything in return. He tells me that if he had a gf and all they did was talk he’d be chilled about it because he’s had enough sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:23 PM
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Tall men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:11 PM
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In my opinion yes. Unless you find someone you really really like and want to spend the rest to your life with. Otherwise it’s pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:10 PM
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I’d be mad if I was an incel. Don’t let anyone tell you differently. Being in a committed relationship or sleeping with different women (not one night stands but having a few FWBs) is awesome. You should find meaning outside of women but this is an awesome cherry on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:09 PM
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Basically if any substandard woman showed interest in them they would be down for it because they don’t have any other options
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:12 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:52 PM
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Let’s be honest. Most women are just okay looking. Yes you’d fuck them but if you could only commit to one woman for the rest of your life and you had some decent options (not Chad but you have some options) chances are you’d also bypass 80% of the women that you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:52 PM
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Before I even read the comments or finish reading this I’m amazed that this guy sat down and typed out his perception of how an attractive woman lives in detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:56 PM
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Lmao!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:53 AM
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You don’t have to care or feel guilty. Seriously. You don’t have to worry about being negatively perceived about how many women you been with. You also don’t have to worry about feeling bad if you sleep with several women over a short period of time or are promiscuous. You can sort’ve be as reckless as you want. Women don’t have this same privilege. Don’t let this sex positive feminists fool you. It’s not the same. As a man you do the fucking. You don’t get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:53 AM
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ew gross. Dump him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:41 AM
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Are you Fds, redpill, pinkpill etc? I think I remember you saying that you think women can get dates easier than men and so don’t care about breaking up etc because you can always just replace your man easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:32 AM
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What are your beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:20 PM
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