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I was referring to you debating the sjw fool who comes out against the guy. I agree 100% anger and disrespect is a terrible way to influence anyone. I also agree it can be worth looking into these specifics, but maybe leave that to the experts. For the case of debating someone set against this behavior it just makes more sense to keep it simple. Of course that's just my mindset. Stats and other trinkets of information work best for others. Cheers. Don't be bothered by the circle jerk down voting…
/r/MensRights10/03/16 12:16 AM
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" An adult role model model treating a child with respect and dignity shouldn't have to be defended because of their gender." would close the case for me. I'm willing to bet it'd be way more powerful to simply and concisely state the obvious - draw awareness to the fact that she's having a debate over a positive influence in a child's life - then to argue with facts and stats. Then again, I truly believe it's a foolish argument. Most arguments, for that matter. I'm no slouch at changing minds, e…
/r/MensRights09/03/16 07:25 PM
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Anyone that argues against an adult role model, male or female, treating a child with respect and dignity doesn't really deserve to be debated. Do we really need facts to back this up? I mean, I get it, some people just will fight anything. Specifics in this field are a bit tough to analyze and honestly seem pointless. We all thrive when we're given respect and some form of love. Hell, I don't even get how this becomes a debate.
/r/MensRights09/03/16 07:30 AM
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To tell you the truth my first approach was a massive failure. I read the game and tried the whole scripted approach which I didn't feel at all and as you can guess weirded out the girls hard. I felt like shit for a while but it passed. After that I just focused on living a life I enjoyed man. I didn't think about women at all. I noticed more and more that women were noticing me and I believed I was becoming attractive, but I had this fear holding me back. I found out I have some serious intimac…
/r/seduction18/10/14 02:12 AM
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There's your problem. You're living in your head instead of living in the real world. You're projecting this failure out of nowhere and pretending it's reality. I went from pissing in bottles to avoid people jerking off daily and severe depression to having three girls fighting for be and two others I'm interested in with little failure. I mean failure in not making moves and all that, a few awkward times but really what are those. A few seconds. All by following my life and not thinking about w…
/r/seduction17/10/14 04:31 PM
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You don't have a huge drive. Look at everything you've been writing I couldn't pretend to be more apathetic if I tried, no joke.
/r/seduction17/10/14 05:08 AM
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There's cheap ways to do everything. I live in a university area so there's lots within walking distance. Nature is my bitch. Seriously, walks are underrated I know my city crazy well since it's all I had for so long. Bars don't gotta be that expensive, Costco sells 60 oz vodka for crazy cheap pre drink and rely on water and the odd beer from people you hit it off with. Twenty dollars doesn't kill me that'll get a lot done. Movies and shit are always free conversation is free. Listening to album…
/r/seduction07/10/14 07:29 PM
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Hi. College drop out, working in a kitchen, living on a couch, no car, barely any money. Absolutely no problem with women. Of course I know myself well and have ambition. That's likely key.
/r/seduction07/10/14 12:12 AM
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It's tough to say. I went on a first date yesterday and used that sort of self deprecating humor and it went alright. I was nervous and not very confident right now about my life. I made how I felt clear and was just honest and what do ya know, we ended up making out and doing the sex a couple times. She really appreciated my honest approach. That said, I'm left with a little sour taste in my mouth. Maybe it's just my ego, but it wasn't smooth or sexy and felt awkward. She claims it wasn't awkwa…
/r/seduction07/09/14 03:32 PM
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Yeah no doubt. I misread and took offense to your post honestly. As someone that's trying to better himself and in a weird point in my life I felt the urge to attack. Negative head space right now.
/r/seduction03/09/14 01:54 AM
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It's timeless advice. Said in a slightly different light to an audience that may have not seen it before. The fact that you're so negative about an article attempting to help people says something about your attitude. It's kind of exactly the type of shit the article is talking about. You're a bitch to be around if you think like this.
/r/seduction03/09/14 12:46 AM
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He's saying be grateful. Look at the good in your life for a minute. Without a phone in your hand and the computer on. I don't care if you're not feeling grateful. Nobody is all the time. That's why you just sit and stop thinking about how stupid it is and how this or that should be done and feel all the good things in your life. Or keep doing what you're doing. You can think you're some sort of rock man if being powerless to change makes you feel better.
/r/seduction03/09/14 12:41 AM
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Be yourself. Be there. Have a positive attitude. A calm introvert is just as much a value giver as an extrovert. Myself, I appreciate that a lot more than someone that takes over a room. Maybe you're an extrovert. in that case, same advice. be positive.
/r/seduction16/08/14 07:47 PM
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Women are fine with it as long as you are. That's all there is to it. Don't cower because you're alone. It takes a real bitch to think someone doing something alone is a loser or whatever. As for advice, just do it. Get more comfortable around a certain spot and then expand. I started going to one book store and one pub and now the whole six block bar area is comfortable.
/r/seduction02/08/14 11:39 PM
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We both know it doesn't compare. Cut the cord and face your demons
/r/seduction27/07/14 03:14 AM
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Saying "hey you're cute and I wanted to meet you" or the like doesn't mean anything except that you think she's cute and you have the balls to say it. She could still be a cunt. Meet her and find out.
/r/seduction23/06/14 09:14 PM
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There was some good advice in there for sure. how to deal with haters was pretty damn lame though(http://www.27bslash6.com/foggot.html) . I know fucking with someone is done in the name of humor for the site and all, but at the end of the day emailing someone repeatedly to the point of creating a fake Facebook account for information isn't cool. It's even less cool when it's being put on a list meant to help impressionable people become more socially adept (sp?) I mean you could say he outsmarte…
/r/seduction16/06/14 05:53 PM
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Honestly dude. It's all perspective. What's negative about your life? You have food, you have a place to sleep, safety. That's half the physical. As social creatures it's nearly impossible to feel happy without friends, don't know whether you have or not. But maybe that's something to work on. Message me if ya want dude. Life isn't that bad. I've been through and coming out. It's an amazing place when you get out of our conditioning.
/r/seduction24/05/14 05:38 AM
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There's no magical thing in the universe that says life should suck either.
/r/seduction24/05/14 02:40 AM
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Remember don't attach that negative connotation to therapy. It's really just someone to talk to, and help fix the negative shit you believe. Or that's at least how I see it.
/r/seduction23/05/14 09:08 PM
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It's incredibly easy to bring up a personal issue without being needy, sad, or whatever characteristic women don't like. Just don't be a bitch about it.
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:25 AM
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Man, all I'm saying here is don't get caught up in the little differences. See the similarities instead. If you look closely their beliefs and yours are really quite similar. It's all just a way to explain the world. Different ways to explain it, but a way to nonetheless. When you start seeing fellow humans in this way your life will greatly improve. Seduction, social, even the way you view yourself. You can start to weed out the negativity in your life if that's something you feel like doing, r…
/r/seduction07/05/14 01:42 AM
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It is. That word might mean something important to you, but it's nothing more than a word and a concept. The divine is just as real to some people as evolution is to you. And that's okay. Of ccourse I don't believe in any divine being, and to disagree with the evidence towards evolution is pretty stupid. But it could have just as easily been manufactured by a God. We will never know. You can pretend to know but nobody ever will. Neil degrasse Tyson is one of the wiser men out there and he would …
/r/seduction07/05/14 01:27 AM
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I'll help you understand. When he went on about that fairy bit, it wasn't directed at you or anybody that believes in evolution. This was clear. He was directing it at another audience, those who don't believe in evolution. So right off you're not his target audience. That should be enough. If you're still caught up, "oh well whatever he's letting people that don't believe in evolution keep their stance" No shit, this is a talk on body language not a place to convert people to evolution. A part …
/r/seduction06/05/14 05:47 PM
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You're completely missing the point. When a man goes up to talk to a thousand people he's not going to lecture about what some people may not believe in order to change what they've chosen to believe most of their lives. It would be a waste of time, off topic to nearly everyone there, and likely wouldn't change any opinions. So he elected to do a quick fairy bit. He's friendly, not alienating people, and gets his point across. Social dynamics 101. If lecturing people because their world view is …
/r/seduction06/05/14 05:34 PM
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You should also realize that you can (and maybe should) be friendly. It doesn't take away anything to be interested in a person that's interested in you. No time has to given away. It's a good habit to see the best in people, you'll have to set up borders if she starts asking for your time which is always a good skill to have, you're a well liked guy to an attractive girl that knows people, and above all you're just bring a good guy. Fuck yeah. It could even turn into something down the road. Be…
/r/seduction28/04/14 05:01 AM
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Really that's what the post is about. Listening rather than trying to think about what to say
/r/seduction26/04/14 11:52 PM
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Have you given them a real shot? Passions are something that tend to grow with skill. I mean I'm sure you didn't think you'd like lifting this much when you had no idea what anything was. Take drawing for me. It was super frustrating at first, but as you start to get better it becomes enjoyable. Little improvements start piling up that when noticed feel pretty cool. Now no matter how stressed or bored I am, as soon as I sit at my desk a feeling of peace overwhelms me.. And then there's the feeli…
/r/seduction23/04/14 12:27 AM
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She wants to see if she likes you before committing. If she does, she might stay. If she doesn't, she'll go.
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:39 PM
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Yeah no doubt. Honestly a lot of this stuff happens naturally. I find the more I like someone the more comfortable I am to poke fun at them, ya know? If I don't like someone I can't do it because it feels.. Mean or something.
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:05 AM
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You think that was fucked up? I mean, he's obviously attracted to her, he approached her and was clear that he was. It was a joke. A clear, off the cuff, unharmful joke that wouldn't affect anyone unless they were incredibly self conscious. In which case he showed her she was attractive by saying so. I'm not talking about other guys and what they think negging is. This community is pretty lame in a lot of respect
/r/seduction26/03/14 05:16 PM
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You see a neg, most people see some normal kidding around
/r/seduction26/03/14 03:18 AM
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Girls are human. There's a million different reasons they might or might not like you. It's not personal. I guarantee you're not projecting the good things about yourself when you're in your head. The thing is, the best way to overcome this block is to get out and approach. Body language isn't who you are, but it's what people quickly judge when seeing how comfortable you are. So take the time to work on it objectively. This shit doesn't have to be a personal catastrophe because a girl wasn't at…
/r/seduction18/03/14 04:01 PM
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That's quite the mindset
/r/seduction14/03/14 04:26 PM
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Why? This is a sincere question.
/r/seduction09/03/14 01:25 AM
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You said it yourself, "I will not make excuses and I'm going to approach for the sake of enjoying the process and not expecting anything more from it like a girlfriend or lay" Age is an excuse like any other.
/r/seduction03/03/14 11:51 PM
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Just do it. As you get less nervous you'll put less focus on yourself. When you're more aware (less anxious, worried about yourself) body language becomes obvious. When you get better, eyes. Eyes tell everything . But balls are needed to completely observe her facial movements while she talks without feeling any nervousness.
/r/seduction12/02/14 02:13 PM
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Get deeper into those "boring" topics. Continuously straying off by asking unrelated questions will keep it there. More why Outright asking about her family dynamics and such will come off weird without much of a relationship.. Which obviously isn't there.
/r/seduction29/01/14 05:35 AM
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He's talking about a mindset that's very possible. Though it's something that cannot be changed by watching a video and understanding. I'm pretty sure he doesn't claim in this one.
/r/seduction21/01/14 01:50 AM
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That's for you to find out man. There must be some things that interest you. Something that could be done socially would be ideal, but man, learning to paint or draw or becoming skilled at something will help your confidence. Even pickup, haha. It's just going to require doing. The gym is always a nice hobby to start with. It's simple, gets you into a new environment, improves your outward appearance, and is easy to track progress wise. Give it a chance. It can take a while to catch the bug. Jus…
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:47 AM
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Explore your interests. Start doing interesting things. Find things in your life you actually love doing. If you don't have any interests or friends women probably shouldn't be your top priority right now.
/r/seduction16/01/14 09:57 PM
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You'll learn a lot whether you get positive results from the women or not. It's win win. Why not?
/r/seduction16/11/13 11:11 AM
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I For meditation check out Mindfulness in plain English. It may seem to be exaggerated a bit at first. I know it seemed that way when I first read it. It's a super simple guide for what to do and how to sit. There's lots of great info on the r/fitness sidebar for nutrition and gym routines.. As for reading, check out the list on r/books. The classics tend to have a deeper meaning. Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance is a good book on philosophy. It's narrative is actually pretty interestin…
/r/seduction25/10/13 03:16 AM
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That's a tough question. Making an effort to improve yourself every day is a good way to start. The simplest tends to be health and meditation. Start working out, eating right, and setting aside 20 minutes a day to sit. Read more. Reading is important for expanding the mind. Changing your philosophies would be next. Getting out of the system we've been conditioned into. Luckily there's information everywhere about it. It's quite common for great authors to have this mindset. Hence the reading Re…
/r/seduction25/10/13 12:32 AM
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That's why I'm trying to help. Are you actually working on anything you care about? Do you have passions? Being content and happy isn't necessarily a positive if it keeps you from growing. Honestly, this has little to do with women and everything to do with yourself. thinking it's about women is inherently unattractive and not outcome dependant. Take a good look inside. Get past the ego. If you were truly all of those traits women would not be an issue. Nothing would be an issue. Having the mind…
/r/seduction24/10/13 05:46 AM
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The You could be exceptionally good at anything in the world if you stick with it. Not caring about money all that much makes it that much easier. Whenever a person sticks with a job they're not passionate about for whatever reason and doesn't work on their passions in their time off (or worse, have no passions) , their inner game will suffer. Not saying quit your job by any means.. It's just quoting a past gpa, being in a frat in the past, and a good career as the reasons for inner happiness sa…
/r/seduction24/10/13 03:16 AM
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Is your career successful because you love it or because it makes a lot of money?
/r/seduction23/10/13 10:50 AM
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The first step shouldn't be to quit your job. The first step should be to find yourself, your passions, and grow to the point where leaving that job isn't the end of the world. The value of yourself will rise and your social skills will automatically increase. The world will open up for you. I can tell you to meditate daily and feel what you actually love and work at that. Maybe give up on wasting time as a hobby, TV and most books and the Internet and gaming etc. But that takes a lot of effort.…
/r/seduction16/10/13 02:23 AM
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Of course you're not going to make connections if you just routine lead and flirt, whatever you mean by that. Just talk to her. Maintain strong body language and draw her in by that. Last week I attracted a girl by talking about the nature of flies. House flies. Edit: a topic I was interested in at the time. Control the words being said by talking about your interests , control the conversation with your body language.
/r/seduction13/10/13 01:32 PM
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Right haha. Honestly, I barely scanned his comment
/r/seduction15/09/13 03:49 PM
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That's not true at all. He's saying your choices are more subconscious. Attraction isn't a logical decision
/r/seduction15/09/13 03:39 PM
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Holy black and white. Why do you believe men can't understand social dynamics? Humans aren't locked into certain roles unless they choose to be.
/r/seduction12/09/13 10:04 PM
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Aren't you trying to get something from them? Friendship, sex, nice vibes, good conversation. There's a reason you're doing this. There's some sort of inner problem you're facing if you think like this. It's actually my biggest struggle right now, as well. And keep in mind this is a bigger issue than just seduction.
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:28 PM
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Picking up on body language is too much analysing? Shit Maybe I should work on not being so aware
/r/seduction27/08/13 05:20 PM
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Introversion can make pickup seem impossible. I've found my best.. "routine" we'll say. Just being myself. Seriously. In the moment, no stress, shown off with confident body language. Whenever I'm not interested in what is going on, I show disinterest by not keeping strong eye contact or looking off. This is easiest outdoors for me because I fucking love nature. Since I have quite a wide range of interests, lots of people tend to say something that'll get my attention. Whoever peeks my interest …
/r/seduction27/08/13 05:11 PM
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You don't need to be a super high energy attention seeker to use this.
/r/seduction12/08/13 06:17 PM
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Have you ever thought the problem might be you? I'm not trying to be an asshole here, but if you keep thinking like this you'll never change. Most other men don't seem to notice this problem.
/r/seduction24/02/13 02:58 AM
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