| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 50 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing. | bigassbigtitties | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 02:35 AM | |
| 6 | [Circlejerk/Fun Game] What female character from all of film/literature/music/history/etc would be the most validating for you to "pick up"? | bigassbigtitties | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 11:26 AM |
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| 5 | One of the most important things I've learned about being around girls.This sub is like 100 percent amateur hour retardery | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Girls that are receptive to my looks automatically become unreceptive when I talk to them. Every single time.yeah you're real young. I didn't really grow into myself until like the last month of senior year. Just keep crackin at it, don't get burnt out, don't get bitter, and you'll be fine. Being attractive is half the battle. And if someone like cancan is a dick to you, don't be afraid to tell them to fuck off. He was a HUGE dick to you, and he thinks it's okay because you were your usual subservient anxious self to him. As a formerly anxious person, telling people who deserve it to fuck off is such a… | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 12:17 AM |
| 0 | Girls that are receptive to my looks automatically become unreceptive when I talk to them. Every single time.Just because you're an entitled asswipe doesn't mean everyone is | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 09:16 PM |
| – | Girls that are receptive to my looks automatically become unreceptive when I talk to them. Every single time.you're an idiot lol did you even read his fucking post or did you see his one throwaway line about him being attractive and get pissy because you're an ugly fuckin pale fatass neckbeard? how many dates have you been on this week idiot? goddamn it i hate people like you virtual face punch | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 03:03 PM |
| 0 | Girls that are receptive to my looks automatically become unreceptive when I talk to them. Every single time.how old are you? just keep practicing. keep getting more experience. lol /u/icancantcan sounds incredibly bitter and annoying af. you don't sound like you have an ego at all, you're just giving us context. for fuck's sake holy shit that's gotta be the most reddity comment i've read all morning. let's be a douche bag to a guy with social anxiety, that'll be REAL helpful. fuck i hate reddit but yeah, social anxiety is unfortunate, and i used to be there. you may not be the kind of person that shou… | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Was my text too needy or too independent?hey it's fine to be friendzoned if you click as people. i wouldn't bail yet. just legitimately be her friend -- she sounds perhaps a little "demisexual" in that she can only be with people she's built a lot of trust with. maybe the holy land of boyfriendship is only accessible on the other side of the harsh friendzone mountains and desert. WHO KNOWS MAN!!! that muslim/conservative thing is probably EXACTLY it. don't think of it as chicks you have to game, just make an okc account and "fall in lo… | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Was my text too needy or too independent?You definitely didn't come off as too needy, if that's all you sent. You definitely are freaking out way too much in this post, but just keep that inside your head. Heck, try going and talking to some other girls to get your mind off her. Like, I seriously suggest doing anything that will prevent you from thinking about her or wanting to text her for a good 24-48 hours or so. You're "burning out" on this girl and you just need to step back and get some perspective and recharge. I think she is on… | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 02:33 PM |
| 2 | How do you find casual sex in Las Vegas?do you have about 200 bucks? there is a very legal and very huge market you are missing out on my friend. but yeah it's literally the same as other cities???? is that really the question? people are people everywhere everything's the same the universe is a simulation we'll all die on a long enough timeline the survival rate drops to zero etc etc | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?yes exactly. and you can know someone for a long time and just stay an acquaintance and on day 150 you start showing interest there's a HUGE difference between knowing someone for a long time and easing things towards a more sexual or romantic thing when there seems to be opportunity versus wheedling your way into a position of basically gay best friend and then dropping the bomb out of the blue when you've already exhibited tons of behavior of someone who is not interested in making a move the … | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?also idk how do you dress? avoid male fashion advice, you wanna look like yourself, not like a redditor haha but make it clear that you "pay attention" to how you look. pink polos arent most women's cup of tea but it worked for kim k apparently (kanye west is famous for wearing pink polos, sorry if that flew over your head) just ya know browse amazon, if you see a shirt that looks cool, or some neato pants, get em. shoes are v important too, get something other than tennis shoes if you havent so… | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?i guess i'm glad at least one of us is enjoying this boring exhausting annoying conversation? | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?um... | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?sigh | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?like i said, this is the dumbest shit i've ever heard | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?That you need to come outta the gates screaming that you wanna fuck Past about age 21 or so, women assume by default that any new guy that randomly starts talking to them wants to fuck them. THEY will LET YOU KNOW they have a bf right away - like any girl that has one and is hella monogamous/faithful will shoehorn him into the convo somehow As long as you keep talking to her and ask her to one on one hang outs the message is clear What this dude has run into probably is pursuing women who were n… | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 03:28 AM |
| 0 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?Don't listen to this guy this has gotta be the dumbest shit I've ever heard lol | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?You sure you're not creating that rift in your own head? Maybe "she" doesn't really care as much as you think? Just drink a cold glass of water haha or jerk off before you hang out so your mind isn't so focused on her and being with her and everything Its difficult I'm not denying that but I don't think its like IMPOSSIBLE | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?No I hear you. I'm pretty lonely myself. It sucks because (and maybe you can relate) there ARE tons of girls dying for this D, but the ones that light my soul aflame... it just never seems to work out :( but yeah it's tough. virtual bro hug. If you've already done piano, maybe try something COMPLETELY different? Haha I suggested drumming actually bc as a piano lessons since first grade guy myself, it was something I always found sooo cool but never really checked out Piano REALLY bores me. Drumm… | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?Also, if they weren't just blowing you off, try legit being friends with them! Who knows maybe you'll even find you connect with women better even on a platonic level. You definitely DO need at least SOME regular, genuine female friends that you aren't just friends with as a "sleeper agent" that you intend to try to fuck. Its OK to feel attracted to your female friends, just inwardly note it and don't act on it if they've already rejected you. Knowing how women operate on a platonic level will o… | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Been given the "not interested in being more than friends" treatment four times straight. What should I do to improve myself?I'd take at least a good month long break from even thinking about women Outside of dating, what's something YOU have always wanted to do? Paintball? Learning to drum? Salsa dancing? Take a good long while to focus on something like that Idk could also be a physical attraction issue. I hate working out for the most part it bores me terribly, but I do love squats, deadlifts, bench, and I wanna learn how to do cleans. I highly rec those exercises, those are the "main" important ones anyway, and no… | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Tinder: how to keep the heat before the first date?Agree with top comment. No need to get too invested. Just wait for the date. Text the day of to confirm. If she blows you off she would have blown you off any way. By all means, if you genuinely have something you're itching to say relevant to previous convos, shoot her something innocuous and SHORT. Don't force anything. You seem pretty desperate just by the fact that you're posting this at all but I guess you haven't been on many dates, so its understandable, and I have no doubt you can sweep … | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Empathy, The essential skill. How do you train yourself to read and understand people?it's literally just experience my man. hell even commenting and responding on reddit will help you a tad, if you are willing to branch out and visit other subs you haven't before. heck, pick a sub of a political party you vehemently stand against, or maybe a band you hate, but instead of just trashing them and getting banned, try to make comments that you think will get upvoted. sounds a tad sociopathic i know, but it's great practice. and besides, the most concierge-y customer service-y thing e… | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.mary the virgin and mary magdalene are two separate fictional characters. virgie gave birth to him, and he met a hooker skank of the same name and got hitched | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.well he married a prostitute mary magdalene so yes i imagine he did | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 12:08 PM |
| 1 | [Circlejerk/Fun Game] What female character from all of film/literature/music/history/etc would be the most validating for you to "pick up"?it's whatever they prefer and transman/woman is used when their trans...itivity is relevant to the conversation fuck outta here w that disingenuous bs | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.it's definitely different from plain old socializing. it's like 90 percent plain old socializing and 10 percent making a move. you morons are reading way too much into a metaphor. like the hunter mentality is very prominent, so for the sake of writing something that is the polar opposite of your boring fucking comment and life i chose to contrast it with fishing god this sub is the fucking worst i swear to god i've probably had more sex than the entire sub combined obviously women love a fisher … | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Cole approach vs tinderyou seem fine but a little naive/misguided, and i think this guy is just bitter after 400 unsuccessful cold approaches. he's bein a real bitch | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Cole approach vs tinderI'm thinking about maybe just forgetting about approaching girls for a few months to be honest. i recommend this. its easy to get burnt out and lose perspective. take some recharge time thats always very important in anything work life dating etc also, tell your friend to not send nude pics of other people w/o their permission. aside from being unethical/disgusting he is doing something very illegal and he is logging his entire identity to a cell tower as a nice little present for the boys in bl… | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.why are you so boring | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 12:38 AM |
| 0 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.i am not. im not sure what about my handle implies that | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.wow thats the worst thing anyone has ever called me im so hurt crie evrtim | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 12:36 AM |
| 2 | [Circlejerk/Fun Game] What female character from all of film/literature/music/history/etc would be the most validating for you to "pick up"?oh fuck yeah she's like the more conventionally attractive version of furiosa i may need to change my answer.... | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.lol you sound sexually frustrated bro goin through a dry spell? | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 05:35 PM |
| 3 | [Circlejerk/Fun Game] What female character from all of film/literature/music/history/etc would be the most validating for you to "pick up"?please use the term transwoman ladyboy is a pretty offensive slur | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 03:49 PM |
| -4 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.i understand. i just request that you use more delicate language in the future. this is something that is important to me. i am pretty unironically a full blown social justice warrior. no worries | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 03:49 PM |
| 5 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.youre reading way too much into the analogy. the message is simply, dont act desperate, real "game" comes from your hard deep down qualities, and its ok to not constantly be having sex because if youre here youre probably (not you-you, the general "you", as in most people) not getting very much sex as it is anyway also your comment really makes my skin crawl without how coldly it objectifies other humans simply bc of their genitals. comments like yours are why this sub has the deserved reputatio… | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Cole approach vs tinderwell one thing - yes tinder is hands down way easier to meet people through. cold approaching will by far be your least successful tactic. im not knocking it, but im sure even real "puas" will agree cold approaching is by and large extremely fruitless also i'd say tinder is a good way to objectively measure how attractive you come across. again, tinder is easier than CA, so if you have no luck on tinder it will only be worse with CA you reek of desperation. you need to be fun. you need to have f… | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 02:36 PM |
| 1 | [Circlejerk/Fun Game] What female character from all of film/literature/music/history/etc would be the most validating for you to "pick up"?the new wonder woman correct? | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.exactly. rule number... idk there are many rules, but an important rule of being attractive is to completely eschew any and all desperation/thirst | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.not really. these ideas that game is anything more than a way of facilitating your best qualities showing through or presenting onself in the best light are imho misguided. game is like manners. it's superficial, and bad people can have good manners and good people bad. game is like giving a firm handshake at an interview. you may impress someone for a brief moment that they'll immediately forget but it wont get you the job | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 11:18 AM |
| 2 | How do I initiate for sex?you dont initiate sex. you go in for a kiss. thats your only entry point asking about it is awkward af. if she wants to have sex, and you start making out with her, its just a matter of gently touching her clothes in a vaguely take offy manner and if shes into it those clothes is comin off my man | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 09:46 AM |
| 12 | Think of dating less like hunting and more like fishing.this guy gets it. the only thing you can really do is try to be the shiniest prettiest lure out there | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 03:51 AM |
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