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I called her my little slut while praising her for sex one morning, was told she didn't like being called that, despite the terms free use during coitus. I've been ramping up the dirty talk and teasing during sex. During, everything goes, but afterwards in passing she comments "I don't like the teasing, that's not us." I'm going to tone it down temporarily, but I will follow her actions, not her words. She enjoyed it and it created more emotion and immersion. She likes it. She's not ready to dis…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/25 01:50 PM
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Agreed. I'm spelling out where my marriage went downhill - when I realized I was bending over backwards for scraps because we were 'life partners' - and the origin of my resentment towards her. I'm working to weed out these covert contracts 'if I spend quality time with you, and put the kids to bed, we get to have sex.' There's a lot of work to do after a decade of marriage.
/r/askMRP19/12/25 03:12 AM
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Trust me, you'll continue to be addicted to anything and everything as long as you rely on another (person, program, state, god) to fix your problem. Nothing will change until you realize that YOU want a different outcome and only YOU can do the work. It's fine to ask someone for help, but if you've not take responsibility and are not doing the work, you're only actually harming the relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/25 04:41 PM
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Red Pill encourages generally having multiple options and not committing to anyone at all. MRP is for those who have already committed to one person, and are unsatisfied with the direction of their relationship. Mostly I've found people trying to change direction, not cheating, but considering divorce as a last resort.
/r/askMRP18/12/25 04:15 PM
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Also newish here, and trying to absorb as much as possible. Also frustrated with my own self and my slow progress in becoming better. Below is what I would recommend if I were asking that question: You need to go lift and STFU. Don't discuss your "new thinking" with your wife. Become the most excellent version of yourself, because it's what you want for yourself. Your wife with tolerate anything as long as she is comfortable, but as soon as that stops... When you enter a healthy marriage, there'…
/r/askMRP18/12/25 04:10 PM
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