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Ding ding ding
/r/seduction31/10/22 11:13 PM
6

I would not stop at the hinting part, wait till they straight up ask you
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:05 AM
5

Cheesy af. Might be a good laugh for Reddit but you just revealed all your cards
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:01 AM
4

life isn’t about being approved by everyone you meet, it’s more about being approved by the right people that you connect with, even if it’s just a small amount of people. I am saving this.
/r/seduction04/05/22 05:07 PM
2

You shot your shot and missed, no biggie, onto the next one. Only gets easier from here!
/r/seduction29/12/21 11:26 PM
1

RemindMe! 2 days "Airport pickup update"
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:57 PM
13

women over 30 are much easier than in their 20s What makes you say this? Genuinely curious, as a guy in his early 20s
/r/seduction27/12/21 04:47 AM
1

If this is just to satisfy his sexual needs, then sure, but OP wrote this I wanted to turn her into a plate or even potential ltr You lose them the same way you get them. Remember this.
/r/newTRP26/12/21 02:34 AM
2

Playing devil's advocate, I would go against /u/beardestbird and say don't get in this mess if she really said "i love you" in the story. You never know what the guy is capable of doing in the heat of the moment. I suggest you ask about this next time you see her. If she denies tell her you saw the story. If she admits she does in fact have a guy break it off, there are a ton more fish in the sea
/r/newTRP25/12/21 07:31 AM
2

These days I’ve been chatting up anyone I run into on the street all the way from old women to big fat dudes smoking around the corner Are you sure you meant what you typed?
/r/seduction25/12/21 05:45 AM
163

Damn, big bro went in on his little bro💀
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:53 AM
1

Your infatuation with this girl. What makes you think she isn't saying the exact same thing to other guys? The whole sub is rooting for you to succeed, but please don't get your hopes up because it will break you down the more you expect from it. Good luck!
/r/seduction20/12/21 01:41 AM
2

Yeah it's drilled into your head, I mean look at your post history damn
/r/seduction20/12/21 01:36 AM
1

Exactly, I didn't even bother reading the post because I just know this guy will come back here writing "women ain't shit" in a week
/r/seduction20/12/21 01:35 AM
11

You have to trust the Canadian. Also, their username checks out.
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:33 AM
30

No watching TV. This is a rookie mistake. Thinking about having a girl over and then sitting on the couch to sit in silence watching the tv makes me cringe. 3 years ago me feel personally attacked
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:32 AM
63

That should will work a lot, and she'll probably give a look, and then I can't don't need to help with the rest lol. Source: a girl
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:30 AM
3

Lmao some guy said to say "hi, you're cute". Most women (like myself) would respond with "thanks!" Yeah, that's why you don't just say that. It's more like "Hey, I thought you're cute so I had to come say hi. My name is bigblackshaq..." and gauge her interest from there. If you stand there like a tree after saying they're super cute of course things will just get awkward. Not to forget for some girls, all it takes is that one line to be opened up and start conversing with you too. You all are ov…
/r/seduction11/12/21 10:12 PM
4

I do dates straight to the house If I am not misunderstanding this, you're one brave guy for a first date
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:54 AM
2

And get infected with COVID? Got it
/r/seduction02/12/21 01:59 AM
6

Right? Everything else in that comment I completely agree, but OP has every right to not want the dog in the house if it’s his house especially if it stinks
/r/seduction26/11/21 06:26 PM
1

If she responds positively and they end up dating, you may think that's creepy, but clearly neither of them did, and they probably don't care what you think because they are mutually interested. This might be an extreme example, but it's like a 40-year-old dating an 18-year-old; even if they are in love doesn't make this relationship any more valid and the 40-year-old any less of a creep. But again, I know this metaphor is very extreme. But everything else you wrote, I guess if you put it that w…
/r/seduction18/11/21 12:44 AM
1

Again, I said borderline stalking, not stalking period. Having said that, even if they did have a connection and she appeared to have a genuine interest, if a person did that to me afterwards I would be completely turned off, and like her, I would block OP right away. Us having a good back-and-forth at the gym does not automatically mean you can now be all up in my IG; she would give it to him directly if she really wanted him to contact and/or follow her on the platform. And yes, I will still c…
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:53 PM
1

It’s the fact that he hid behind his screen and probably went through the searches to find her profile, when he could have just asked her knowing they had face to face interaction; that is borderline stalking
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:29 PM
1

Which is why I wrote “basically stalking”. You guys are taking this too literally…
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:33 PM
1

Which is why I said ‘basically’. It’s the fact that he hid behind his screen and probably went through the searches to find her profile, when he could have just asked her knowing they had face to face interaction; that is borderline stalking
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:44 PM
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/r/OddlySpecific
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:59 PM
0

How is finding a girls instagram when they didn’t give you it in the first place not stalking?
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:58 PM
98

This. Basically stalking and it’s weird
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:38 AM
1

Are you really that insecure about yourself?
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:26 AM
3

They’re not really my scene mainly because it usually correlates to the quality of themselves, but now I get why it’s posted here
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:45 AM
-7

Why is this on r/Seduction lol
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:42 AM
1

I don’t doubt one bit OP called the other man a douche in order to ‘win’ her over. What’s cringe worthy is the signalling bit
/r/seduction23/10/21 12:10 AM
40

Fly high brother🕊🕊
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:58 PM
29

Dating app women is a whole different ball game
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:47 PM
2

Great point. Most comments here fail to realise it’s not really all that. I would trade 2 very meaningful and genuine experiences for 20 of mediocre college party drunk ones
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:01 AM
1

You sound so bitter
/r/seduction18/10/21 04:53 AM
2

Who pissed in your Cheerios this morning
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:20 PM
1

Makes sense; thanks
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:46 PM
2

Care to elaborate on the liking your attention part? I’m struggling to make sense of it
/r/seduction09/10/21 04:40 AM
3

You must be fun at parties
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:18 AM
1

r/holup
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:17 AM
3

You’re doing great, don’t try to fix what ain’t broke. If you try harder than that it will oftentimes come off as is. The approaches you did were lighthearted and left the ball at their court. I particularly like the second one, but like you said, would’ve worked better if they hadn’t been wearing masks. Keep it up, you’re doing great pal.
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:13 AM
4

What did you say to them?
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:27 PM
2

I guess I did contradict myself with the last sentence. Having said that, what I was trying to convey was the bad far outweighs the good in that scenario. If it works, awesome. But if it doesn’t, it could cause your career. Just proceed with care.
/r/seduction21/09/21 08:12 PM
10

That’s like saying if I pick all the right numbers I’ll win the lottery. No one knows what the future holds and people change all the time.
/r/seduction21/09/21 06:21 AM
5

Ironically, oftentimes you suddenly feel confident after saying you're nervous/not confident out loud. Sorta like 'I am not gonna lie I am a bit nervous' when talking to a cute girl and all of a sudden you're not nervous anymore because of the lack of uncertainty, or rather now transparencyy
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:41 AM
2

letting me grab her ass brother you were in
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:40 AM
1

omg I totally misunderstood what you said; I had thought they reached out to ask if you could help them lose their virginity, like literally
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:22 PM
1

I've had a few DM me asking for help losing their virginity ITT I learnt that this is a thing on Reddit...
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:17 PM
4

buy a duplex/triplex, etc, especially when OP is leaning more towards having their own space
/r/askTRP19/09/21 12:19 AM
1

probably no longer the way as more guys starting to realise there's nothing to lose approaching them?
/r/seduction18/09/21 03:49 AM
2

That's crazy yo
/r/seduction18/09/21 03:48 AM
5

I wouldn’t necessarily say “No problem, I’ll invite someone else”. Imo that just sounds bitter and come across as being passive aggressive. Just act indifferent and say something like ‘ah that sucks!’ or whatever and let her reschedule since she flaked
/r/seduction15/09/21 08:21 AM
0

Ignore every comment that tells you to keep asking for permission to kiss. You are never going to succeed if you keep doing that. Sorry to be blunt. Instead, learn to read the room and particularly her body language. It’s very hard to miss if she’s into you as she will make it extremely obvious and easy for you. It gets easier with experience, but the moral of the story is never ask to kiss a girl; it absolutely kills the vibe and fire of what you would have had with her.
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:17 AM
5

From a non r/Seduction perspective, the first week I got my dog I managed to meet 10 new people (some hot girls came up and asked for her name too) when I was just walking her than actively trying to meet new people. Dogs are really that effortless when it comes to building new relationships (friends/SO, you name it). If you’ve been wanting a dog, try foster one to see how your lifestyle fits, because of course we also want you to be a responsible dog parent.
/r/seduction12/09/21 04:53 PM
1

Thank you, I damn near had a stroke
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:47 PM
6

I would give you my free award if I still had it. Great post, thank you OP.
/r/seduction11/09/21 05:25 AM
1

I am a short guy too but you're reaching bruhh🤣🤣
/r/seduction11/09/21 02:47 AM
4

Ikr, dude really made a cut off at his own height lmaoo💀💀💀
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:05 AM
1

What's what you wrote in English?
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:04 AM
2

just like that he goneee lmao
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:03 AM
2

but I'll take the athletic advantages 5'7 gives me who are we kidding here🤣
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:01 AM
2

Women would never complain about you being short unless she was rude and/or stupid. What's far more likely is that they will just reject for any number of fake reasons. This. The entire thread is filled with short guys telling themselves women don't care. Some don't yes, but some do. Of course, women won't flat out tell you they're rejecting you because of your height, but the majority of the time that means you're really getting rejected because of being short but being told with some made up e…
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:59 AM
0

it makes you feel like royalty on the low lmaoo Now you're just being weird
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:54 AM
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Dude really made a cut off at his own height too💀
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:51 AM
6

F
/r/seduction10/09/21 06:06 AM
18

That’s honestly depressing
/r/seduction09/09/21 11:51 PM
1

Oh
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:52 AM
2

Sorry it doesn’t quite work the other way round; American accent is too common
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:51 AM
1

Latinas🤤
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:49 AM
10

Latinas are the best
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:47 AM
17

Chill it with the math For real dude started coding "for i in range" and even as a CS major I kinda got weirded out💀
/r/seduction04/09/21 01:58 AM
-2

Totally my bad, didn't realise it's /r/seduction
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:24 PM
-6

This 1000%. That "Shakespeare" line was cringy. The moment her ex is back in the picture she will be gone again. Massive red flag. Enjoy while it lasts.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:16 PM
1

Flip a coin pal
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:02 AM
3

I answered with ”No worries, let me know another time”. Good answer, now the ball is in her court. What should I do from now on and until next time. I need solid advice! Start hitting on other women and forget about her. If she's interested she'll come back.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:42 PM
1

So which one is it, early or late lol
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:39 AM
2

Yes, but there will be a point of no return where the other person will just think you're not interested anymore. Don't start playing games but do it sensibly. There's a saying that we never fully appreciate what (in this case, who) we have until it's (they're) gone.
/r/seduction01/09/21 02:02 AM
1

I mean, it's not like he has feelings for her He definitely does, judging from his other comments in this thread. That's the issue. Cutting her off is more for OP's own good than for the girl.
/r/seduction01/09/21 01:56 AM
3

If you rush a relationship you'll just be heartbroken in the end. It takes time, and if it's that easy no one would be single. I understand it's a test to see how much she wants it, but if she's not ready and now OP 'is seeing other women' causing her to panic and jump in, OP didn't necessarily win. They might now have a label established, but it doesn't solve any of the ongoing issues. Not to mention, she is going back and forth with her ex, this girl is definitely not ready to date or at least…
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:24 PM
6

Hard disagree. There're plenty of women on this planet, not to mention dating a co-worker majority of the time is just a disaster waiting to happen. Also this: We went on a few dates (kissed, etc) back in the new year but stopped because her ex moved back to town and she wanted to give it another try. Huge red flag.
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:14 PM
4

I disagree. OP needs to let her know he won't be around for her longer if they do not establish their relationship, playing games and faking you have plans with an inconvenient time in order to prompt her to escalate is just plain childish. Just be upfront and let her know and asks her what she really wants out of this and set up some boundaries. Simple as that.
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:10 PM
5

Nah it's all about the free Wendy's OP gets /s
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:07 PM
38

Snap out of it then you simp. The less attention you give her, the more chance you have with her in a real relationship.
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:04 PM
2

And if she’s not interested in me as more than a friend why does she continue to go out with me? This is probably not the answer you'd want to hear, but she's keeping you on the back-burner just in case.
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:04 PM
0

After The Storm - Kali Uchis Feel - Post Malone Fire & Desire - Drake Big Poppa - The Notorious B.I.G
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:55 AM
3

Unless you're living in Japan where people work 12 hour shifts. Cries in r/Accounting
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:29 AM
2

Latinas are the best🤩
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:27 AM
3

I’m glad we’re having a civilised conversation instead of downvoting each other just because one might not agree with the other. I’ll take a look at the video you linked.
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:59 AM
5

Officer, over here👮‍♀️🚓🚨
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:44 AM
2

It's in the text you quoted as well. Yes, I’m aware. It was more of a PSA for anyone that’s reading this in the future. It's also another reason why I prefer to date men I know such as a co-worker I’m not sure about this though; I firmly abide by “don’t shit where you eat”. If it works out, great. But if it doesn’t, it just has so many ways to surprise you. And I’m not sure if a relationship is worth jeopardising one’s career. Dating strangers is too big of a question mark. That’s what dates are…
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:41 AM
5

Pick her up do the bang bang and drop her back at the house all without leaving the car, that’s what I call efficiency
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:31 AM
26

What a rookie, let me pull out my limited edition Pokémon cards
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:28 AM
16

Man I’m getting horny reading this💀🍷
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:25 AM
0

“U me fuck?”
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:23 AM
5

I personally don’t mind hearing a bit about past relationships. How they regard their ex(es) speaks volumes. This. But be careful not to slowly turn a date into a therapy session.
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:22 AM
15

Moral of the story: it depends
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:51 AM
3

OP they were being sarcastic
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:50 AM
13

She said it loud and clear; she doesn’t want a relationship, yet she wants all the benefits of having a boyfriend. Unless you’re cool with something casual, leave before you dig yourself a deeper hole.
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:47 AM
2

old attractive cougar Lol
/r/seduction19/08/21 06:27 AM
1

That is just plain unnecessary
/r/seduction16/08/21 05:03 AM
13

I think that was /s
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:13 AM
3

And enough times later boom you formed yourself a friend group
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:46 AM
2

This is Reddit. We absolutely need to know how it happened.
/r/seduction09/08/21 05:35 AM
4

GAZERR GAZZZER IN THE BUILDINNNNN
/r/seduction23/07/21 08:00 AM
5

What are you doing step bro dude broooo!?!?
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:40 PM
28

This perfectly sums up my ex, thank you
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:59 PM
1

Exactly my thought reading the post
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:07 PM
94

Yup, sounds like OP is manifesting this by creating a Reddit post. Don’t fall it y’all
/r/seduction15/07/21 06:20 AM
319

We danced a little and I gave the guy a look signaling to back off God did I cringe reading this
/r/seduction15/07/21 06:17 AM
2

One
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:37 AM
6

What does your wife think of you having a 70+ body count?
/r/seduction23/06/21 06:09 AM
3

There’s a difference between needing and having the option to interact with people. What OP is trying to say is don’t feel like you need to rely on other people in order to achieve true happiness
/r/seduction10/06/21 06:23 AM
1

That’s a very negative mindset to begin with, we are all unique in our own way :)
/r/seduction10/06/21 06:21 AM
26

If my future wife ain’t have this energy ion want her
/r/seduction03/06/21 07:37 AM
8

"nahhh girl ur soakin LOL" damn you smooth wit it well played💀💀
/r/seduction26/05/21 03:16 AM
10

I took my dick out and came then went back in and rocked her for another 15 mins You sir gimme whatever the hell you were smoking at that time! That's 15 more minutes for your kids to swim to his momma /s
/r/seduction26/05/21 03:07 AM
21

Wear. A. Condom. Fr!!! I managed to pull out during my first time but was anxious for 2 weeks straight keeping me up every night worrying I was gonna be a dad at 16 lol
/r/seduction26/05/21 02:28 AM
1

Damn I’m so sorry y’all are so sensitive. Keep downvoting me, it won’t help you find a partner faster!
/r/seduction02/05/21 07:37 PM
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All I can say is a relationship (heck even love) tends to pop out when you're not actively looking for one (speaking from experience). I gradually became exhausted constantly trying to find a partner, only to have met the LOML when I was just minding my own business and focusing on becoming a better person and working hard. Learn to be happy with yourself on your own and not dread the idea of 'sigh I will forever be alone'. Trust me, focus on yourself and things will follow. The universe always …
/r/seduction02/05/21 09:30 AM
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Well, you're definitely doing something wrong if you really do have all those things. Are you isolating yourself? EDIT: why am I getting downvoted? I mean don't you think if OP has money, lives in a high-end apartment, has a good job that's fun and everyone would have wanted too, why is he not able to find a partner? One of those things he has is bound to get him at least couple dates, and hence that's why I asked if he's isolating himeself. Not that difficult to understand is it?
/r/seduction02/05/21 06:50 AM
7

I don't think that comment was meant to be taken seriously...
/r/seduction02/05/21 06:49 AM
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