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| 0 | No thanks, Insider. Walks, coffees, and foodtrucks do NOT make great first dates - just cheap ones. | REMINDER 👑 | bigbluebridge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 07:49 PM |
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| 38 | I don’t know what to do.Depending on your area and court precedent chlamydia might not be viewed as seriously as HPV or herpes by the courts as those are both viral illnesses that have no known curative treatment, and chlamydia (although serious) is caused by a bacteria and can generally be treated with antibiotics. Please note that I am in no way saying that chlamydia is any less serious or that there is a hierarchy of STIs. I just know that the process for occupational blood exposures really only prioritize viral ill… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 05:50 AM |
| 15 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?Ugh, I don't want to be this person, the negativity...but you asked, and I want to be as honest as possible. That 18 year old guy that likes you? Makes you feel special? Thinks you're unique and mature? He's a predator. There is a reason he is coming for someone that much younger. And even if it starts off fine, it won't stay that way. There are a lot of power dynamics in that age difference. No, 4 years may not matter much in your thirties, but it does now. (Also, you might not be able to trust… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 03:45 AM |
| 4 | Dodged a crafty LVMYes! My (deceased) uncle (who was truly a HVM) had a knack for macrame he developed back in the 70's. I still cannot see today's macrame resurgence without fondly remembering him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 02:38 PM |
| 14 | guys quizzing you on datesFellow nurse here. Can attest that some of them don't improve. Was on the wrong side of the ER last year, experiencing a urological emergency. Explained I needed a specialist to perform an urgent cystoscopy for a recurrent blockage. ER doc insisted on examining me before calling urology. Proceeded to tell me my urethra was 'fine' while he was CLEARLY examining my clitoris. Both myself and the accompanying nurse exchanged a wide-eyed glance as she squeezed my hand, and I repeated that I needed to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:32 AM |
| 42 | I have never met a HVM in the context of dating… how common is this?I am so sorry. I cannot imagine. Thank you for being willing to share, even knowing you'll have to mention the saddest part of your marriage multiple times. The only HVM I met while dating also passed from cancer. Sometimes I swear it comes for the good ones. Sending you love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 07:47 AM |
| 40 | One of the Benefits of Living Together... Splitting the RentI love my home, and it is just the right size for me - set up for me and my accessibility needs. I have just one more surgery booked, and then I have a secure job to return to after I have healed. I also have a pension that I started contributing to at 22. I won't allow any man to live with me without a legal agreement. I see far too many co-workers who have an ex-husband getting half of their pension (and I reside in an area where co-habitation becomes a legally binding common-law relationship … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:00 AM |
| 21 | Are success stories on marrying a HVM?There are HVM out there. Absolutely! (And I say this as a single 38 year old). The only HV young teen I ever met (including my years of instructing hundreds of teenage students) was a prodigy who passed away in his early 20's from brain cancer. He was also home-schooled in an incredible family in a very small town. Men aren't socialized the way women are. It's no fault of your own if you've not met one at 20. Keep leveling up. Build the life you want, do things that make you happy. And if someon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:49 PM |
| 23 | To My Fellow Chronically ill HVWI was thinking on this topic this morning. Thanks for making me feel seen. And a shoutout to my fellow visibly disabled queens - it's also valid to not have the choice of concealing your struggles. Be unapologetically yourself. Take up space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 05:09 AM |
| 25 | Being skeptical of the advice you get from older women about datingMy newly widowed mother tried this yesterday. I explained that I had recently ditched my LVM - and she immediately started making excuses for a SCROTE she's never even met! 😂😂😂 And that, ladies, is how my mom learned the phrase "if he wanted to he would". Time to level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:38 PM |
| 36 | New here!I would be careful about giving him a 3 month's notice. If you can't respect you when you're married, he's probably not going to respect you when you're separating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:27 PM |
| 4 | NVM asks for the impossible.Nope, don't do it. NEVER donate to someone out of obligation or guilt. Especially when the recovery is longer for you than the recipient. He has proven that he won't prioritize you or your needs - he won't prioritize your donation either. And when it fails due to his non-compliance, he will turn around and blame you. Walk away whole, queen. He has tried to tear you down from the start. Walk away whole and proud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Why We Need A Sexual Double Standard (Against Men)Exactly, it's amazing they don't just fuck each other. Oh, a good number of them do. I have a very close friend who is a promiscuous gay man. But the number of 'straight' guys (ie: only date women in public and do not consider themselves to be bisexual) who choose to be intimate with him is....unsettling. Your LVM may not be just promiscuous with other women. Your community dick could also be getting community dick. It's STD-ception. (To clarify, I am NOT making the argument that bisexual people… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 06:54 AM |
| 57 | This reminds me of the slug storyTHIS IS NOT IN DEFENSE OF SCROTES - ESPECIALLY THE ABOVE SCROTE. THIS IS NOT OKAY AND IS ABUSIVE I am only contributing this comment from my medical background (and own/family medical history) and discussions with immunology colleagues. This happens to allergy sufferers more frequently than you want to think. Family, friends, co-workers...the number of people who either 'don't believe your allergies' or think they 'aren't that bad' is shocking. A former coworker of my sister's openly admitted to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:35 AM |
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