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I mean I understand what the meme is supposed to mean. But I'm also a fan of cosmic horror so I understand the alternate interpretation. It's also more fun to interpret it her way than another incel meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:03 AM
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I don't think you understand art very well if this is your take. Art is meant to be interpreted and there is no correct opinion on what a peice of art means. The same exact piece can be seen by a million people who come away with a million interpretations and that is the beauty of art.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:29 PM
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i cam give you a counter example and i agree with ta06. i grew up in a broken familiy with abusive parents, my dad was in and out of the house and had to be institutionalized when i was 8. My male role models are my dad who is not a very healthy guy, my grandfathers one who was super abusive and the other was in an abusive relationship, and my uncle who was a super selfish only there for the good times type of dude. I was bullied starting in third grade was physically and sexually assualted in 8…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:25 PM
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I don't think the opposition to age gaps think it's inherently harmful. Generally the perspective I see is its something to be wary of. Like it can be fine but be more aware of red flags because the power imbalance can further excasterbate issues. Same thing with one partner not working, just be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:07 PM
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I think we need to take a two pronged approach to advocacy bc there are some things that can be done in our lifetime and it makes us look more legitimate. For example bring back the town square, developing more community centers and making the cities and suburbs more walkable are all pretty achievable and should help with the loneliness problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:57 PM
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Thats the only way i would ever have children. There are so many youg kids out there suffering who need a home that i would feel bad not offering a safe home if i could. Also me and my family have too many chronic health conditions both physical and mental for me to feel comfortable fathering a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:49 AM
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No. I haven't seen any feminist reclaim slut. Just don't insult people for their body count, it doesn't matter. She's a piece of shit cheater. Just say that
/r/MensRights28/03/22 08:35 PM
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How about not using sexist slurs
/r/MensRights28/03/22 05:53 PM
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He is the one who hit Chris Rock. Will Smith is a big boy, he can make his own decisons.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 05:51 PM
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She was not the reason for it. Will Smith is an adult, he can make his own decisions. If he wants to hit someone for his wife thats on him.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 05:47 PM
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Most of the things I want couldn't be solved by laws. Policies I would like are 1.) Decommidfication of essential services like housing, Healthcare, food and transportation. 2.) Siezing powerplants from private owners and slowly decommissioning them to build nuclear power plants. 3.) Police reform, incorporating social workers into encounters with low-risk. Allowing police to be prosecuted to a higher standard than that of civilians. Investigations of police departments and the da to weed out co…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:25 PM
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Im a guy and I don't care unless thy have health insurance and I don't. Marriage is pretty goofy and I'm not religious so I don't see the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:15 AM
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It depends, there are binary and nonbinary trans people. Binary trans people identify as either man or woman(within the gender binary). Nonbinary trans people identify with something outside of the gender binary
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:13 PM
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The phobic in transphobic doesn't refer to individual trans people rather the trans movement as a whole and alot of their rhetoric reflects that. Their scared about it corrupting their children, corrupting gods will, destroying western civilization via break down of gender roles, questioning their own sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:07 PM
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I mean stereotypical nice guys are kinda boring or have other intentions and aren't very nice. You can still be nice but have charisma and get people to date you. I'm a very nice person and not really aggressive but I'm funny, can hold a conversation pretty well, and learn other people's hobbies so I can talk to them about what they like. I don't have trouble getting laid or finding people who want to date me. You can be nice but there has to be more to it than just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:49 PM
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Like during sex crying is definitely a turnoff, I would stop at that point. Outside of sex it doesn't bother me for partners of both genders. People have emotions and cry, I want my partners to be open with me so I don't see why I would be unattractived to em if they cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:36 PM
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I've done the same thing but with roles reversed. I'm a guy sub and I'll let partners experiment with me because I have a lot of kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:33 PM
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A genuine emotional connection also not being a selfish lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:40 AM
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Thats a really weird way of looking at sex, both parties should enjoy sex and use each other. I dont know about the other guy but i wouldnt want to date a woman with that attitude about sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:45 PM
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I mean it depends on your job, if you dont have a foward facing job or one that puts alot of stock in looking professional you can do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:42 PM
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There are still alt fashion for guys its just not scene fashion. Now there are hipsters, and skaters and hype beasts and femboys. Subculture fashion switched alot because punk died for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:38 PM
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I would say just be yourself, move at a pace you feel comfortable and watch out for warning signs that theyre not that committed. People are not that good at hiding their power level and playing games is kinda silly and is kinda a red flag in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:17 AM
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I was super poor too. We were almost homeless at one point. I think my parents put themselves in debt so the kids could enjoy themselves. At one point there were 6 people living in a one bedroom apt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:33 PM
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Its not that weird alot of adults iceskate alone. Ive been doing it since i was 13 bc it was one of the cheaper athletic hobbies one could do. Its like 15 bucks to skate and rent where i am.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:08 PM
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I like women with similar hobbies to me: cooking, ice skating, card games, video games, skiing, makeup, hiking, camping. I want someone i do the things i love with and they enjoy it too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:17 PM
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I agree with both of those. Defense attournies shouldnt be able to use character attacks as a defence unless the person has a history of lying to the police. coertion is also definitely a problem. the analogy you used was weird and you didnt offer any policy solutions so i was confused as to what you were talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:43 AM
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How would you regulate it further? We already have age of consent laws trafficing laws and rape/SA laws. They could be enforced better tho. I guess banning child marriage country wide as well. What else would you do banning sex in private homes like we do with gambling is definitly an infringement on bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:26 AM
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Wait people can be addicted to anything. Sugar addiction, video game addiction, and weed dependency all can ruin lives as well yet we arent bitching about activision or nestle or dispensaries for selling products and i dont think we should. We should just offer accessable help to those suffering from addiction and teach children about responsible consumption in schools. It sounds like you just have an issue with sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:06 AM
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Because its easier to regulate gambling than sex. Regulating gambling doesnt really impact bodily autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:55 AM
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Maybe its because your a creep whos dating a 19 yr old
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:46 AM
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Im a man and ive met quite abit of poor people in my life. The ones who couldnt get laid wasnt cuz of their income, it was cuz they were fucking weird or a dick head or unattractive. Do you think inner city women are really out their fucking rich dudes. Why would the wealthy dude want to the culture gap is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:15 PM
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Whats your experience. I grew up in the inner city, the bronx and i work as a line cook. Ive been surrounded by poor people literally my whole life and they still could find relationships and hookups fairly frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:10 PM
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I swear dude everyone in this sub must be out of touch uppermiddle class people or students or have never interacted with poor people. Poor people fuck and find relationships. Blue collar workers are known for being promiscuous. I work with people who make 20k-40k a year and most if not all of them can get laid consistantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:42 AM
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I mean just being nice doesnt really get you laid or friends really. Niceness on its own is kinda bland, you need to be interesting as well. For hookups niceness doesnt really do shit, dont be horrible, but charisma or attraiveness will get you infinitely more hookups than just being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:32 PM
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I mean yeah definitly. Not everyone has the same view on relationships as me. If you cant handle it dont stick around abd bitch about it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:45 AM
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I make friends bc i like friends so i suppose its to benefit me. I assume they also like friends so its to their benefit as well. I dont mind listening to peoples problems and i vent my serious issues to my female friends as well. I think that talking about serious things in your life and getting abd giving support is an important part of friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:39 AM
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Men totally can do the same. Also whats wrong with finding your friends sexually attractive. I find most people sexually attractive including friends of both genders. If they were dtf i would go for it. However i not out here fiending after my friends bc i understand their not interested in me and im happy with our relationship as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:51 PM
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Because usually you try and date people that you like and would be okay spending time with. I have a policy not to enter relationships with people i wouldnt be okay being friends with. That way if i get rejected or the relationship ends amicably i take a few weeks to get over them and stay friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:46 PM
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In that case they just shouldnt try to be friends then. No ones forcing them to have a relationship with the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:44 PM
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I know, i dont think i said that it was. however that probably contributes to them having no female friends. Very sexist men tend not to have alot of female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:12 PM
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Oh yeah op is definitly full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:08 PM
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Dude i dont want to hang out with incels and im a man. They tend to be really fucking annoying or really sexist. Making friends generally requires social skills which incels tend to lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:32 PM
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Sometimes. We smoke weed, iceskate hang out and talk, go out to eat. I dunno just regular friend shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:27 PM
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My bad i deleted my comment bc i realized i was wrong. Sorry about that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:26 PM
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Wait what. I like her as a friend, im fine being just friends. Ive cane to terms with that we'll never date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:23 PM
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This is such a weird example to prove your point. There are so many reasons people dont rap about weed when their high that dont relate to their coolness. One they might just not be interested in rapping or music two they might be too high to be able to think quickly about the next words. Or maybe that one woman wasnt very cool. Ive met a fair amount of cool ass women, whenever we hang out its a fucking blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:52 PM
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I dont think level of attraction has much to do with male friendship with women. Incels dont have many female friends usually bc their socially akward or bc they have weird ass opinions about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:47 PM
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Tbh some of those dudes would probably fuck you if you went up to them and were like hey lets have sex. I dont think that means anything or that your less of friends or that you have to worry about them fiending over you. I think it might just be part of human nature to have mild sexual or romantic interest in attractive people you have a good emotional connection with. Doesnt mean they have to act on it or let it affect the way they treat you. This is all just from my experience tho so take it …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:42 PM
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Does that matter. I would probably sleep with all of my friends if i got the chance both male and female. Thats not the reason im friends with them. Im not actively trying to fuck any of them and i probably wont ever woth most. Its just a passive interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:37 PM
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Thats a lie you didnt post this for advice. Ive read some of your other comments. Its pretty clear you psoted this to vaildate your shitty opinion but it didnt happen. The post didnt even ask for advice it was worded like a general cmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:31 PM
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I have female friends that im just not trying to date at all. Some of em are people who i tried to date but werent interested others are just women i met and became friends with. My closest friend rn is a women i wanted to date but she wasnt interested. We hang out and have fin and avt as emotional support for each other. I value her more than most of my male friends. Were both damaged people so we get each other i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:18 PM
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I dont know how people end up believing some dumbass shit like attraction means submission. Ive never even heard that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:47 PM
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Ayyy chill out for a sec. That dude is a fucking creepy weirdo but most men arent like them. Your gonna get a weird sample size on this sub cuz you got all the fucking psycho trp and blackpill dudes on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:42 PM
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I mean womem are just regular people. Ive found that if you just interact with them like any other person youll be alright. They tend to like basiclly the same shit that men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:14 PM
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No i would only date people i find attractive but alot of those features you listed dont matter to me. I like short hair, make up and the way they dress is eh, i dont mind larger noses, i think flat women can be very attractive and bad posture is eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:32 PM
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I dont mean to discredit your experience. My point was just thatvone anecdote foesnt really prove causation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:38 PM
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Im 19 and watch porn daily. I have casual sex maybe once or twice a year. I have no problems getting it up or satisfying the people i sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:42 AM
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I take issue with the idea that being low income makes men a loser in womens eyes. Have you ever been to an inner city, people there fuck all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:59 PM
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I get a similar reaction because i tend to be more attracted to more androgynous people with the pixie like facial features. I get shit for it all the time because often times the women im attracted to don't really have big boobs or asses. Alot of times im called gay(in the antagonistic sense) for my preferences in women. I am pansexual but the context in which they use gay is kinda insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:36 AM
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Can you demonstrate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:07 PM
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Shut the fuck up. People don't think rationally. Don't act like men are just the pinicale of rationality while women are just abounch of hysterical bitches. It's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 06:35 AM
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People really aren't very rational and I also think personal shame may have something to do with it. Also there are other ways to figure out if someone is mysigonistic than putting yourself in a position to get shamed by somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:53 AM
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Probably in the long term but people tend to think short term and want to avoid being shamed bc it feels really bad. Also forgot to add this they might be ashamed of how much sex they've had because society tells them it's a bad thing for women to have alot of sex. I'm a man so I'm just guessing based on why I lie to people about my body count and some other things as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:46 AM
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Because women are shamed for having a high body count and it's kinda hard to tell at a glance who the mysigonistic assholes are. Plus some women shame other women for having a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:41 AM
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Not really. Most women wouldn't marry a dude who hits them on the first date you know. There not just gonna be like this is fine behavior and marry him. the way abusers usually operate is they prey on a woman who it would be easy to trap like one with low self confidence and subpar relationships with family and friends then slowly whittle down the last of their confidence and outside relations to make them feel trapped in the relationship and that they can't leave Its not just blatant abuse out …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 11:31 PM
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