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Maybe you are just somewhat picky... but if you still fuck them than you're not THAT picky. Not watching porn is not gonna do anything for you in my view.
/r/seduction25/10/14 06:48 PM
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To me there is no such thing as a 3 that can get me hard. I don't go for women that I don't find attractive. But, a lot of guys can fuck anything as long as it has a hole.
/r/seduction21/10/14 08:21 PM
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As long as she gets your peepee hard it is all that matters.
/r/seduction21/10/14 08:02 PM
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lol that might be a little too much.
/r/seduction21/10/14 05:15 AM
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Goes back to what I pointed out in my earlier posts. Most guys in pickup aren't doing that well in terms of results. I would say most are pulling uglies, fatties, and average women. There's probably only a very small percentage that are getting the truly gorgeous girls or near that range. I also don't get why guys put that much effort into it if they can just go on dating sites or Tinder and fuck some of those low quality girls. And, I agree with Krauser that it is dumb for good looking guys to …
/r/seduction18/10/14 03:32 AM
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That is overanalysis and I am not fond of it. In that particular moment it happens, it is is not easy to tell what kind of looks they were ESPECIALLY since most girls are not that obvious. Only chicks I see blatantly checking someone are the monsters.
/r/seduction18/10/14 03:11 AM
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Most people don't have to practice smiling. I think for some guys that make their smile worse since it is supposed to be natural. I have seen guys out there with the really fake smiles and that is the last thing you want.
/r/seduction18/10/14 02:59 AM
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Eye contact is not an indicator of anything, much like smiling isn't either. I can tell you that I get smiled at by random women on a daily basis. It doesn't mean that most or even a good amount of those women are attracted to me. I also had an extremely hot girl walk by me yesterday as I was sitting down. She looked, looked away, and look again. Does that mean she wanted me to approach her? It could mean that, but then again it could mean absolutely nothing. You gotta go talk to them and find o…
/r/seduction17/10/14 07:28 PM
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200 guys in one club is just one example of many. It seems like 95% of guys no matter how long they've been doing it have shitty to nonexistent results. Banging ugly chicks and fatties isn't hard, guys can just get a social circle of those kinds of girls and have better results with less effort lol. Or they could just go on Tinder lmao.
/r/seduction16/10/14 07:22 PM
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The pickup scene is full of guys that are terrible though... no denying it.
/r/seduction16/10/14 04:25 AM
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They are not my buddies as I only hung out with them once, NEVER AGAIN lol. Thing is, most guys that are into pickup are very similar to them from everything I have seen so far.
/r/seduction16/10/14 03:57 AM
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yoga easily... just make sure the class is not full of senior citizens.
/r/seduction16/10/14 03:53 AM
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I have gone to a plastic surgeon and asked if I needed help. He says I am a good looking guy. I have been told by other guys I am good looking. Some women have said I look good. I have gotten approached in the past (sometimes by really cute girls but was too shy).
/r/seduction16/10/14 03:53 AM
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Well, you could easily say that about most PUA gurus. I do not know for sure how successful they are or if most of the women they hook up with are not very attractive.
/r/seduction16/10/14 02:09 AM
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I've had girls laughing, smile,etc to flake or not give me their number or not even reply to my texts or calls.
/r/seduction15/10/14 10:21 PM
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I never said I got her number. I said she agreed to have coffee and seconds later took back what she said HAHAHA can't stop laughing at how crazy that was.
/r/seduction15/10/14 10:04 PM
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The reason why I think plowing is good is because it is IMPOSSIBLE to read girls in MOST situations. Can't tell if they are being nice or indeed like me- that is the reason why I have to plow. And, no I did not get her number. The chick did a complete 360 on me in 2 seconds time, agreeing for coffee and then saying she never said that LMAO.
/r/seduction15/10/14 09:58 PM
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Yeah I have never gotten a negative reaction to the point where the girl gets really upset, but I am sure there a places in the world where you cannot cold approach.
/r/seduction15/10/14 09:22 PM
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Girls are extremely hard to read. There is no way to know for certain if a girl is being nice out of interest or she's not interested/attracted at all. Which explains why so many rich guys get suckered into marriage by golddiggers or guys fall in love with waitresses and strippers lol.
/r/seduction15/10/14 09:21 PM
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ok, I am gonna stick to texting only from now and see what happens.
/r/seduction15/10/14 06:22 PM
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Even the most well known coaches have said women are very flaky. Guys that have been around for a long time like RSD Tyler have said this.
/r/seduction15/10/14 05:11 PM
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A lot of guys here are assuming I am some sort of weirdo or psycho (most likely because most guys that are into pickup have these issues) and that is why I am having trouble. I can assure you that is not that the case.
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:52 PM
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I've tried that kind of texting in the past, and I still don't get replies. I used innocent, indirect openers at times- but I am not sure it has made a difference. There is one girl I opened in the last month in an innocent way at the grocery store and she seemed happy talking to me, but she's not single so I can't have her pussy LMAO. I ran into her a week later and she seemed all happy to see me, even said "OH MY GOD" and she was on her phone. I'm currently looking at Badass Buddha from Torero…
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:49 PM
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Well, the fact that girls change their mind a lot and can be very flaky is why I call them crazy. Hell, even most PUA gurus say women are very flaky. Also, I did hang out with a PUA coach at night once. We approached two chicks and talked to them for a while. The chick I was talking to was trying to show off her body to me and didn't mind me checking out her ass (she was talking about her ass before I turned her around and looked at it). She was older than what I go for, so I didn't try anything…
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:19 PM
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I don't know honestly. I tend to be somewhat serious, but I focus on smiling more often when talking to girls. So I don't think that is a problem. As far as what I can do to change things up... I saw a video that having variance in your approach with negative and positive statements would make you stand out more and give you a better chance. I am gonna try that.
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:19 PM
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I am just looking for fuck buddies or one night stands.
/r/seduction15/10/14 05:16 AM
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Hey nothing is happening now, so not much difference right?
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:53 AM
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Instadate opportunities during the day are hard to come by but I will give it a shot.
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:51 AM
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I'm actually quite observant and I have been told so by other people. When I approached she was all smiles. Her demeanor did not change until near the end before I left. I had even touched both her hands with an excuse that I was checking for a ring and she did not mind. Her claim that I creeped up on her did not make any sense. I also mentioned she was laughing most of the time before than and even said I was funny.
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:50 AM
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I never said I refused to review myself. The problem is how do I know what needs to be reviewed? The only sticking point that I can identify and be sure about is that I am getting numbers but I get flaked on. How do I remedy it? I have no clue. I bought Tom Torero's Badass Buddha and going to see if there is anything new I can pick up from it.
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:36 AM
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Also I could give you even more examples of really bizzare experiences I have had with women...
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:21 AM
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They are ok, but I do not try to make new female friends because I would have to invest a lot of time into that. Just make acquaintances here and there.
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:19 AM
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lol I thought I gave a clear example. I saw some girl, caught up to her and from the side opened her, said she was cute. She said thanks and smiled really big, then all of a sudden her facial expression changed and she looked away and told me to leave her alone. That was it. Now what is your opinion?
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:16 AM
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On a side not the girl I got the number from that I wrote about in my original, she told me she had a boyfriend but I pushed on and got her number. As I said when I called she hung up. I got a call from some guy that has the same area code in his phone number as the girl's. He claimed he got the wrong number and said he had just gotten a new phone and sorry (didn't make sense lol). I think it is very likely her boyfriend and wanted to know who called her lmao.
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:07 AM
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You're joking right? There indeed are really weird and socially retarded people that is just a fact. There are also crazy and nonsensical people as well. These are facts and I am in no way angry or dismissive. They are just facts to me.
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:05 AM
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I don't feel needy. I am in this just for fun and to hook up. I do not need a woman for anything long term. I think if I was needy I would have slit my wrists a long time ago from the lack of results I have lmao. And yes, I have had a few women I have approached flip out on me for no apparent reason. I didn't say or do anything to provoke such a response. I've even had a girl outside of a bar that I asked a genuine question from a distance flip me the bird. I've learned how bizarre women are.
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:00 AM
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Except I don't think you can know for certain. At best it is a guess where or if you made a mistake in an interaction. I think my tonality is good because I talk to girls the way I talk to guys and my friend said my tonality is fine. I do tease and joke around, but not a lot. I think the main problem with day game is that in most instances you do not have a lot of time to talk with a girl or instadate them so that naturally leads to flakes.
/r/seduction15/10/14 03:58 AM
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I'm not being defensive just giving my opinion. I don't have a problem opening. What alex mentioned for an opener is not really revolutionary and I would say it is direct. He just uses an excuse and then quickly states a compliment. How is that not direct? I usually go up and "say excuse me, I know this random, but..." Pretty similar to what he uses and other guys do.
/r/seduction15/10/14 03:42 AM
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I'm not fat, I dress pretty well, good grooming.. that shit is all basic. You're just assuming I'm the average pick up weirdo which I am not. I can understand because most guys that do this are bottom of the barrel. The problem with breaking every little thing down is you have to be 100% sure if there was a mistake at any point and what you did right. You cannot be 100% sure though because you'd have to be inside the mind of each woman you approach. I haven't developed the ability to be psychic …
/r/seduction15/10/14 03:26 AM
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Honestly some of the material you seem to use like the calamari line are either really creepy or just weird. NO OFFENSE lol. I didn't give other detail because I do not say weird shit and she certainly seemed to like the approach judging by her smile and later on she was laughing. At the end is when she got weird. And sorry, but I don't think there is any man alive that completely understands how women work.
/r/seduction15/10/14 03:24 AM
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lol it isn't up to me in the end. I can only try my best but there are a lot of factors that are out of my hands.
/r/seduction15/10/14 02:48 AM
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As I said below I have tried texting in the past.... I think it is pretty much the same result- no reply most of the time.
/r/seduction15/10/14 02:45 AM
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Almost all the girls I open are receptive at first during the approach. It is when I follow up that I don't get anywhere. I recall one girl that seemed really happy throughout the approach, took her number. Texted her that night to say it was nice meeting her. No reply. Few days later I called and she hung up on my ass HAHAHA.
/r/seduction15/10/14 02:44 AM
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In my experience, it never works that way. I cannot recall the last time I had a friend, male or female, push a girl on me. In one of my circles is a guy that likes me enough to tell me a lot about his problems and opened up.. but he's never introduced me to any girls. Most women tend to not have very good female friends since they are in competition with each other. And most girls in relationships don't hang out a lot with girls that are single.
/r/seduction15/10/14 02:42 AM
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I am not gonna ask the women I know to introduce to me other girls. Because if they say no or they say they don't have single friends, they might start telling common friends that I am asking to be introduced. Women talk way too much and it isn't worth the risk.
/r/seduction15/10/14 02:21 AM
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I don't use false time constraints most of the time. The issue is if a lot of women view cold approach as something negative or low value it makes shit really hard. I do not use neutral openers during the day most of the time. I go direct because at the end of the day it is just an opener. Tom Torero talks about this and says any kind of opener can work.
/r/seduction15/10/14 02:08 AM
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I already have done this and do have a few circles. However, pretty much all the girls I like are taken so I cannot try to hook up with them if I want to maintain friendships lol.
/r/seduction15/10/14 02:03 AM
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Most of your questions/responses I can answer with this: I was never socially retarded before I learned about pickup. I do not feel nervous when approaching because I am used to it. There are a ton of really weird, socially retarded guys that do pickup but I am not one of them. And NO, I don't do or say anything for some women to go from a good reaction to acting strange. One example: one chick I approached and opened with a compliment and she thanked me and smiled, then a few seconds later she …
/r/seduction15/10/14 02:01 AM
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I will try this but honestly I don't think it will make a difference. Girls I have texted in the past and the approaches seemed solid, but they never replied lol.
/r/seduction15/10/14 01:59 AM
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It is right here, under the new tab.
/r/seduction14/10/14 11:22 PM
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It would not work. Cold approach is NOT the way to go about getting girls that are good looking (it probably isn't even a good way to go about meeting cute to above average girls either). You'd have to see my post that I submitted about quitting cold approach to know why I say this.
/r/seduction14/10/14 11:07 PM
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