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You have a democrat as president and still lost on the abortion front. What does the president have anything to do with a Supreme Court decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:35 PM
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I know tons of men who were socialized from a young age, who were raised by loving, nurturing parents, and have a solid number of friends, who struggle with dating. I’m not talking about basement-dwelling incels either. Simply put, there’s no guarantee that the steps you outlined will set a man up for success as it relates to dating. Life isn’t that straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:02 AM
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No one says an animal killing another of its kind is “murder” either, but the act is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:16 AM
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You might’ve had a point if non-fat slobs weren’t told to “focus on themselves.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:37 PM
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More importantly why would you let Reddit dictate what you should and shouldn't do. Do you ever read product reviews before purchasing something? It’s the same logic at work.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:02 PM
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Right, and she expects her boyfriend to handle things she cannot as a result. Would you consider being able to talk with cashiers a basic aspect of being a competent adult? Do you think a guy with her level of social anxiety would be likely to have a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:04 PM
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I realize this is an anecdote, but it’s reflective of what I typically see in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:58 PM
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“What can we do about poverty?” “Tell the poor to have money.” “What can we do about the unhoused?” “Tell them to find homes.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:22 PM
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“What can we do about growing male loneliness?” “Tell them to have friends.” It’s genuinely stunning that you think that’s good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:27 PM
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Most people (overwhelmingly men) who are part of tabletop gaming communities don’t date at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:50 PM
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This post is a real change in tone from “I have expensive taste, like going on holidays, and eating at restaurants.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:33 PM
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Do you truly believe a call for respecting the “rights” of businesses to censor people is in the public interest? Yes, because the lack of moderation “free speech” advocates push for inevitably leads to unfettered harassment. That harassment has a far greater silencing effect than anything social media platforms are doing today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:52 PM
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More like “the bullet hit, but exited without hitting any vital organs.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:26 PM
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I’m poking fun at the idea of anyone being “extremely qualified” in the study of something as nebulous as emotional affairs. It’s just a silly concept. Next you’ll be telling me that VTuber ethnographers are a thing, or that there’s a Nobel Prize for krumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:18 PM
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Emotional affair isn’t a buzzword. It’s a concept studied fleshed out and lecture about at the university level by extremely qualified people. LOL, what qualifications distinguish an academically proven emotional affair-ologist from an ignorant layman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:56 PM
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What this shitty anecdotal evidence from OP provides… You countered OP’s anecdote with one of your own, bruh.
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:12 AM
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Get friends of the opposite sex whom you can trust and confide in them too. Your girlfriend will probably appreciate it. LOL, go to r/relationship_advice and you’ll find that plenty of people (men and women) dislike their partners having friends of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:09 PM
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This isn't to mention that younger men will likely be more abusive towards women due to earlier exposure to hardcore pornography and a porn addiction worse than that of older men, which will make them less likely to attend even a career college, trade school, or IT bootcamp. Can I get some sources for both of these claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:59 AM
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You’re guilty of being unable to see the other side if you think the male dating experience isn’t largely a numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:18 AM
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Can a random observer clearly tell the difference though? Assuming a guy isn’t aggressively hitting on every woman he sees the second he arrives at an event, how can one discern his intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:33 AM
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I’d say the vast majority of hot people are born hot. Great genetics go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:51 AM
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Any woman who sees that she has hundreds if not thousands of likes on her social media posts/online dating profiles knows that she possesses a certain power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:29 AM
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True, but one’s quality of life right before death is often not very quality at all. To some, that makes living it up now preferable to being miserable longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:57 AM
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Because this is a change my view, I’ll debate against your stance despite the fact that I mostly agree with it. Let’s think beyond the scope of dating. Doesn’t life contain thousands of activities and experiences that can enrich us? There’s no downside to reading humanity’s greatest works of literature, learning a new language, or visiting the national parks in one’s country. Ultimately, the obligations of life and our finite time mean we can’t get to everything. We have to be selective in what …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:52 AM
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What’s wrong with responding to hypothetical anecdotes with another hypothetical anecdote?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:54 AM
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It sounds more like an acquaintance or friend of a friend-type relationship than a standard friendship. That’s just based on my interpretation of what you wrote, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:00 PM
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We flirt with you because we hope that you will tip us more. If you don't want to be hit on, I suggest not flirting to begin with.
/r/seduction17/04/21 05:10 AM
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Any guy pulling dimes every weekend has a whole lot more going for him than just confidence. That's not even me being pessimistic when you're talking about a statistical anomaly.
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:07 AM
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Just because you're cold approaching doesn't mean you should be blatantly obvious about it. You wouldn't wear a T-shirt that read "I'm looking to get my dick wet," right? Having your number pre-written on a piece of paper is like the tamer equivalent of that hypothetical T-shirt.
/r/seduction31/03/21 11:57 AM
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In actuality, you're probably far less attractive (or, conceivably, far less wealthy) than you think.
/r/seduction31/03/21 11:45 AM
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Then what venues would be better (other than bars, clubs, or dating apps)?
/r/seduction20/03/21 05:04 AM
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...and what exactly do your pointless internet squabbles have to do with seduction?
/r/seduction20/03/21 01:59 AM
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...the girl will initiate first. I can refer you to hundreds of threads on r/dating and r/dating_advice where women ask "Why didn't he touch me? Does he not actually like me?" Tons of women never make the first move.
/r/seduction18/03/21 01:36 PM
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Isn't that obvious? A shredded guy with Quasimodo's face ain't attractive.
/r/seduction16/03/21 02:57 PM
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I truly don’t mean this as a dig against you, but your comment is basically a ringing endorsement for adopting psychopathic/sociopathic behavior as a dating strategy. Lots of guys out there are much more interested in the demure 20-something woman over the wisened 30-something woman.
/r/seduction07/02/21 04:22 PM
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Just because one spouse wants the other to stay at home doesn't make it a joint decision. Unless a man has a gun to his wife's head, her decision to leave the workforce is ultimately hers alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 12:37 AM
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Tell us more about the immediate rejection. What was she like? How did she reject you?
/r/seduction30/01/21 04:57 AM
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If dating is largely a numbers game for men, it only makes sense to employ tactics that appeal to as wide an audience as possible. Part of that approach involves identifying patterns through experience and adjusting one's techniques based on success rates. While it's very much true that women aren't a monolith, a man would be a fool to disregard observable trends and broad truths that could help them throughout their life's journey.
/r/seduction29/01/21 04:29 PM
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From a Playboy interview with Peter Dinklage: Lately, Dinklage, 43, is standing out as a sex symbol, a status he says he takes “with a grain of salt.” “They’ll say, ‘Oh, he’s sexy,’ but women still go for guys who are 6’2,” he says in the mag’s new issue, on newsstands Friday. “It’s nice that people are thinking outside the box, but I don’t believe any of it for a minute.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 04:12 AM
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It's very common for men to have siloed friend groups that never mix. I have friends who I've known since elementary school and, in our adult lives, I can count the number of times I've ever met their friends on one hand. And while I'm cordial with my friends' partners, ultimately I hang out with my buds by themselves far more often than with their SOs in tow. We simply have much more in common. It has literally nothing to do with scorning women. Again, I think you're being very reductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:44 PM
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That's incredibly presumptive. If most of a guy's friends come from shared (typically) male interests, it makes total sense for his friend group to be overwhelmingly men. That's just statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 06:59 PM
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It's not a myth at all. It's 100% true.
/r/seduction26/01/21 01:45 AM
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While I agree that wearing a mask when you're by yourself in a car is kind of odd, how does someone doing that negatively affect anyone? You can point to that as a reason to doubt their decision-making ability, but if no real harm ever manifests, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 07:54 PM
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Emphasis on social consensus vs. what is logically or scientifically correct. Doesn't matter if you are "right" if the other women in the room don't agree with you. Can you provide any actual examples of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 03:46 PM
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I decided I wasn't feeling it, and was trying to slowly wean him off of me. Should you encounter behavior that makes you uncomfortable in the future, I would encourage you to cut things off immediately and entirely. Dragging things out only prolongs the harassment you're receiving.
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:36 PM
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Desperate women are everywhere. But how many of them would OP find attractive? I can't imagine there being much overlap of "desperate women" and "attractive women" on a Venn diagram.
/r/seduction14/11/20 02:27 PM
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When so many women claim that men should pay for dates because of how much time/money they invest in clothes and cosmetics, I don't blame guys for thinking that they're getting dolled up "for them."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:01 AM
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If anyone posted a study with sample size of 20 on here, they would rightfully be mocked relentlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 12:03 AM
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This is all good but the attacking starts when men complain about women having "high" standards when they themselves have standards that can be dubbed high by just about anyone. To some degree, I think it's totally possible to quantify someone's standards as high based on what percentage of the population around them has all of the standards they require. If someone would only ever date a microscopic sliver of available singles, I think it's fair to label their standards as overly picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:11 AM
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Is your current boyfriend taller than you? To assuage any fears of this being a loaded question, I promise I won't followup to your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:36 AM
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As a man, I would never claim to have a better idea of what it's like to be sexually harassed than a woman. I can read up on the subject, but women have way more firsthand experience dealing with that awfulness than I do. When it comes to dating, men are the gender that has to do the "selling." Because of that, I think they have the best knowledge of which methods work and which ones don't. I suggest you really consider our experience when it comes to this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:23 PM
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100% agreed. I just wanted to respond why, from my perspective, the existence of online dating apps has little-to-no impact on men approaching women IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:03 PM
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I don't see what's wrong with online dating. You don't see what's wrong because you're a woman. For the vast majority of men, online dating never yields any positive results. Because of that, they continue to approach women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:36 PM
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Are you using "executive" as a term for well-off business person? The dictionary definition is "a person with senior managerial responsibility in a business organization." A company can't have a comparable number of leaders and subordinates; that wouldn't make any sense. Even if you primarily spend your time among higher-ups, it'd be myopic to typify them as representative of your company's overall workforce. I apologize for getting semantic, but do you see what I'm saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 07:54 PM
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Of course everyone has their realms of experience, but surely you can recognize that most men aren't politicians or C-level executives, right? Those folks represent a sliver of the male population in any country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 02:49 PM
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It's hilarious how you dismissively acknowledge that "some" women have public Instagrams that they seek attention on while you emphasize that "lots" have private accounts for their friends. That's like saying that "some" people in prison are incarcerated for crimes they committed while "lots" are wrongfully convicted. The ratios are completely out of whack.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 10:00 PM
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This study claims "that about a quarter of roughly 1,000 women surveyed said they had at one time or another elected to go on a date with an unpromising suitor in hopes of getting a free meal." It's behind a paywall but is cited by this Atlantic article.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:36 PM
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