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bigdaddtcane/r/seduction26/01/12 05:05 PM
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The book won't get you to accept yourself but it'll give you the tools to do it.
/r/seduction16/07/14 09:33 PM
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Exactly so why bother texting her back.
/r/seduction25/02/13 09:53 PM
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Thanks. To answer your original question though, she sounds like more of a prude or inexperienced girl to me than a cock tease. A cock tease would allow for more touching and what not. I've wasted some time with girls like that and it can be fun but I'd bring up something about sex (not necessarily between you and her) or just sexual situations and see how she reacts. Go from there.
/r/seduction17/02/13 04:37 PM
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Completely off topic but lately a couple of different girls sent me that emoticon and I have no fucking idea what it's supposed to mean. Help a brother out.
/r/seduction17/02/13 04:11 PM
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Ha can't help but laugh at your comment. "I hate macho alphas, next time I see one I'm gonna kick his ass" I agree with your general point though.
/r/seduction17/02/13 04:06 PM
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I haven't been on seddit for a while but it seems like all the shitty advice got up voted and a couple of you guys gave really good advice and its sitting here at the bottom of the thread.
/r/seduction17/02/13 03:49 PM
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I'm assuming you're in high school (correct me if I'm wrong) because you specifically said parties and not parties and clubs, and because you don't have your own place. Your girlfriend doesn't like you flirting with other girls because of her own insecurities (if I was right that's pretty normal for a high school aged girl). She might even be flirting with other guys to rile you up. If you're in a closed relationship, which is what it seems like, just let her know you're just flirting with girls…
/r/seduction17/02/13 03:46 PM
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That still sound pretty dumb/jealous to me. It just oozes of insecurities. Let her do her thing, if it gets to the point where the fact that she has a boyfriend should be known she'll point you out.
/r/seduction17/02/13 03:32 PM
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If that's the type of girl you're dating life is going to be tough.
/r/seduction17/02/13 03:28 PM
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If she wants him to go away she'll mention you and maybe even point you out. I think the only rule is to not be bothered by that kind of shit.
/r/seduction17/02/13 03:26 PM
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I think aggression is a pretty strong word here. Nothing can ruin your night faster than being mad at some idiot. It won't make you look much better than being mad at your girlfriend. No need to necessarily be nice to the guy but getting mad shows that you see him as a threat.
/r/seduction17/02/13 03:23 PM
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Yeah honestly when I had a girlfriend guys would hit on her all the time and I'd find it entertaining. If you trust her enough to do the right thing, it shouldn't be a problem. If it gets to the point where the guy tries to kiss her I'd just walk up with a grin and tell him to take it easy. On the other hand though I'm not into excessively flirty girls who need a lot of attention so if my girlfriend was flirting with a guy and it got to the point that he thought it'd be appropriate to kiss her, …
/r/seduction17/02/13 03:18 PM
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When you're under 16 no one's a good kisser yet or know what a good kisser kisses like, and you usually aren't going too far past kissing so its really intense kissing all the time. When you get older (more experienced) you'll learn how to play with her emotions more when kissing. When to pull away, when to be more aggressive, when to move down her neck or when to not kiss her when she wants you to. All that kind of stuff is appropriate at the right time and not at others.. Just like that kiss i…
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:15 PM
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Maybe if you're kissing her for the first time when you guys are alone in the bedroom. That's the bit too intense for a bar or a front door or a kiss literally anywhere else unless you are under the age of 16.
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:44 AM
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I do it every time I kiss a girl, drives them pretty crazy.
/r/seduction13/02/13 03:39 AM
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Touching is a good way to connect with people and make them more comfortable around you. So kino away if you're trying to make friends.
/r/seduction12/01/13 03:55 PM
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"-Don't wear a deep V -Do things your way" Pick one
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:48 AM
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I've got a problem with antiperspirants too.. Buy some good deodorant, and don't give a fuck if you sweat because your body needs to do it.
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:45 AM
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The guy looks good but his game is tight. This guy is from the same group, he isn't as handsome and the girl is hotter. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xVNqnAUN5mA&feature=plcp
/r/seduction05/11/12 03:54 AM
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Honestly though do you ever get any reply other than, "What's my story? What do you mean?"
/r/seduction02/11/12 05:39 AM
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They won't with that attitude Step 1) Start believing they do. Step 2) Start believing they should be saying that about you. Somewhere in there stop giving a fuck. Seriously though you're awesome, you just have to realize it and show the world. You'll get there, just work at it.
/r/seduction31/10/12 03:10 AM
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Yeah I stopped at that one.. Honestly as a relatively short guy (doesn't bother me) I think thats the dumbest fucking thing ever. Lets say you pull em off and she doesn't notice. What happens when you take her home and take your shoes off and all of the sudden you're 3 inches shorter (No idea how much they actually add).
/r/seduction31/10/12 02:36 AM
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Honestly I can't watch enough of to even tell if it's helpful or not. He's hard to handle.
/r/seduction30/10/12 03:53 AM
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Eh I think that's being extremely submissive. Honestly if the guy is calling you a dumbass, he's either a complete tool, kind of joking, or it's about more than what was going on with the belt. In all 3 cases I think what you do before hand is more important than afterwards. If the host is calling you a dumbass he isn't comfortable enough with you around, that's the part that has to change when going to parties or outings (and not just with the host).
/r/seduction28/10/12 08:47 PM
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I'd include a stop what you're doing look at him with an eyebrow raise, and then go back to fixing the belt.
/r/seduction28/10/12 08:43 PM
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I'd say you have to be REALLY likable to get away with it. I honestly hate it when people do it and I know it weirds a lot of people out. I don't do it unless I'm friends with the people or I feel like I'm really vibing with the group.
/r/seduction28/10/12 02:43 AM
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Just don't escalate as quickly with the guys
/r/seduction26/10/12 10:15 PM
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If thats what you think it takes man you've got a long road ahead of you. I'm 5'7" on a good day and I've been with girls I'd consider a good bit more attractive than this one. I'm just a regular old dude with a cocky attitude. I wouldn't even consider myself that good at this stuff but I've never seen my height as a problem. Some taller girls even tell me they like that I'll try to get with them even though I'm shorter. Honestly man I can tell from your responses you just want to fight but seri…
/r/seduction18/10/12 03:47 AM
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Ok a couple things. 1) quit being a bitch and making excuses, this guy didn't fucking wake up an actor one day. He's a badass actor because he worked for it. If you were as successful at what you do it'd be just as big of a turn on for women. 2) this little motherfucker defies all odds and becomes a superstar and you sit on your couch and write it off like an idiot. It's not being a star that got him the girls either. The same shit that got him to be a star is what got him the girls. 3) his wife…
/r/seduction18/10/12 03:32 AM
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Just get unfat
/r/seduction15/10/12 11:36 PM
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I use "dont worry I won't tell him". I like yours more
/r/seduction27/08/12 10:31 PM
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Perfect example: Some chick I've been trying to get with for a while now called me beautiful today.. Still haven't been able to get her to come out with me. Wouldn't ever call myself a male model either way.
/r/seduction14/08/12 03:43 AM
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Honestly lots of girls tell me I'm a really good looking guy. It helps with the fact that I feel like I can get a girl pretty much every time I go out just due to my looks. They were usually really slutty, usually not the hottest.. Until I got into this stuff. So I can tell you first hand the looks help but it can make you lazy, and I've had PLENTY of guys I'd consider less attractive than me pull girls that I would be going for or even girls that I wouldn't go for because I thought they were to…
/r/seduction14/08/12 03:07 AM
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Hopefully this is creepy enough to keep him away
/r/seduction11/08/12 05:58 AM
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I kind of want to just tell you to stop being a bitch but that won't help. Listen I'm a good looking guy and it used to get me all fucked in the head when I didn't think I was the best looking guy in the room. Then shit happened and I stopped caring. You pretty much just have to get out of your head/ be in the moment. The shitty part is its not easy to do at first. You have to realize that no one cares about the way you look or what you do as much as you think they do. Focus on enjoying everythi…
/r/seduction06/08/12 10:33 PM
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Yeah I agree, I actually just started going to yoga classes. First I started talking to the instructor then the older lady there and then the cute girl just came up and chimed in. You don't want to be that guy that goes to yoga class to pick up girls. That doesn't work, unless you want to keep changing schools. You want to be that guy that goes for the yoga and happens to meet girls there (a long with everyone else).
/r/seduction29/07/12 04:36 PM
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Finally an answer that makes sense, but from what I get out of it this is the side of the seduction community I'd rather stay away from
/r/seduction23/07/12 04:15 PM
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Yeah I'm no expert yet so pick at anything I said, but I feel like when you talk to them confidently missing on one line doesn't matter too much. It hasn't for me yet.
/r/seduction23/07/12 11:07 AM
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First of all stop worrying if girls mind getting "hit on" or not. David Wygant said it best and I'm paraphrasing they "never mind getting swept of their feet". Ok now onto your question. From experience I think the gym's a really easy place to start talking to girls, but really hard to get past a 5 minute conversation, at least the first go around. What works really well for me is situational openers. If a girl's squating/deadlifting mention how your impressed she does "real" workouts. Or ask wh…
/r/seduction23/07/12 01:55 AM
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What does that accomplish exactly? (serious question)
/r/seduction23/07/12 01:25 AM
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Relax man
/r/seduction23/06/12 02:41 PM
0

Over head squats do the job as well
/r/seduction17/06/12 04:35 AM
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Honestly you trying and her saying no could be the best thing to happen for you. Rejection isn't that bad. That being said go get her fucking number, you got this shit.
/r/seduction14/04/12 02:49 AM
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I agree, also even though most girls think its important to hold out for a certain amount of time (i.e. third date), I think it's more important to make sure you aren't always available for sex than when the first time happens. If you are his booty call and you come over every time he calls that's all you'll ever be. So get busy and flirt with other guys at the least. And the killer. One day when he's not expecting it get up early and cook him breakfast. OR dear god this would be golden, if you …
/r/seduction08/04/12 09:17 PM
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Thanks. Red has never been my color, guess I'll have to buy a shirt and try it out.
/r/seduction08/04/12 02:16 PM
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so?
/r/seduction23/02/12 01:00 AM
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Pirate Radio
/r/seduction14/02/12 03:28 PM
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Yeah he weirds me out, doesn't seem like someone I would want to hang around too long. That being said he knows what he's doing.
/r/seduction08/02/12 07:52 PM
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nothing to with his comment but cool
/r/seduction08/02/12 07:51 PM
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You have a lot to learn 1) being compatible has a lot less to do with what people have in common than you think. 2) if you were confident when you walked up to a girl and said that it WOULD work. 3) stop being a jealous bitch, you hate your roommates best friend because he has qualities you don't. Learn to accept people and you'll be able to accept yourself
/r/seduction17/01/12 08:26 PM
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Honestly man, I'm Lebanese and and I also live in a town thats not very diverse. I prefer white women but I really don't discriminate at all when it comes to beautiful women. I learned that the best way to go about things is to not even think about it. If it's not an issue to you it usually won't be an issue to her. Sure every once in a while you'll run into a girl that blows you off just because of your race but fuck 'em, those girls aren't worth getting upset over, they're usually trash anyway…
/r/seduction10/10/11 05:43 AM
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